The Black Girls ATTITUDE....No Surprise!

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SOUL II SOUL

Liverpool, UK

#1 Nov 21, 2006
Black girls complain that they are not appreciated enough by black men. Well how can you when meeting your aquaintance and socializing in general is an IMPOSSIBILITY! I live in the UK and had to put up with attitude from black girls. You women are literally scaring men away with your arrogance and attitude. A black girl in a club wouldn't look at a black guy twice (even if he was well dressed and good looking), except of course, he had tonnes of cash. You black girls like it the easy way; not wanting to build a relationship together for richer or poorer. In other words, IF SHE KISSES HIM (THE FROG)AND HE DOESNT TURN INTO A PRINCE, IT'S....CYA!
Errhh....by the way, im black!
tommy

United States

#2 Nov 21, 2006
SOUL II SOUL wrote:
Black girls complain that they are not appreciated enough by black men. Well how can you when meeting your aquaintance and socializing in general is an IMPOSSIBILITY! I live in the UK and had to put up with attitude from black girls. You women are literally scaring men away with your arrogance and attitude. A black girl in a club wouldn't look at a black guy twice (even if he was well dressed and good looking), except of course, he had tonnes of cash. You black girls like it the easy way; not wanting to build a relationship together for richer or poorer. In other words, IF SHE KISSES HIM (THE FROG)AND HE DOESNT TURN INTO A PRINCE, IT'S....CYA!
Errhh....by the way, im black!
Life is a two way street we all have issues. Why do you think so many white women have been the trailblaizers the last 20 years for Lesbianism. If they weren't fed up, or had so much mistrust for white men they wouldn't be interested in other women. White men are getting with
asian women at an enormous rate. Why? they feel they are more submissive. Sounds familiar? We all have issues!!
Kathy

Killeen, TX

#3 Nov 21, 2006
SOUL II SOUL wrote:
Black girls complain that they are not appreciated enough by black men. Well how can you when meeting your aquaintance and socializing in general is an IMPOSSIBILITY! I live in the UK and had to put up with attitude from black girls. You women are literally scaring men away with your arrogance and attitude. A black girl in a club wouldn't look at a black guy twice (even if he was well dressed and good looking), except of course, he had tonnes of cash. You black girls like it the easy way; not wanting to build a relationship together for richer or poorer. In other words, IF SHE KISSES HIM (THE FROG)AND HE DOESNT TURN INTO A PRINCE, IT'S....CYA!
Errhh....by the way, im black!
I sure did say that. And I meant every word.
MrDarryl

Hoboken, NJ

#4 Nov 21, 2006
tommy wrote:
<quoted text>Life is a two way street we all have issues. Why do you think so many white women have been the trailblaizers the last 20 years for Lesbianism. If they weren't fed up, or had so much mistrust for white men they wouldn't be interested in other women. White men are getting with
asian women at an enormous rate. Why? they feel they are more submissive. Sounds familiar? We all have issues!!
What the f is up with Asian women being more submissive??? Have you met an asian woman who is going to do anything you tell her? I have not and I'm married to an Asian woman. If white men feel they are more submissive they're going to get a wake up call. All women that I know have a plethora of mentalities when it comes to there beau. There are submissive women everywhere, and you probably wouldn't know it until you are giving them what they want, whatever that may be. But I know you got all these interracial couples figured out. I'm sure you have your reasons for picking the women you pick, but of course it's all natural with no hidden preferences.
tommy

United States

#5 Nov 21, 2006
MrDarryl wrote:
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What the f is up with Asian women being more submissive??? Have you met an asian woman who is going to do anything you tell her? I have not and I'm married to an Asian woman. If white men feel they are more submissive they're going to get a wake up call. All women that I know have a plethora of mentalities when it comes to there beau. There are submissive women everywhere, and you probably wouldn't know it until you are giving them what they want, whatever that may be. But I know you got all these interracial couples figured out. I'm sure you have your reasons for picking the women you pick, but of course it's all natural with no hidden preferences.
This is what white guys say. Plus they are known to be docile women. Dude you ready to fight, and you not on my level. Submission is a strength. God said we should be submissive to each other. Somehow we think this is an ugly word.
BOSSY

Trenton, NJ

#6 Nov 21, 2006
I think Asian womean are a bit more submissive than other races. I have lots of Asian friends who will vouch for that. Mostly their parents, but they tend to take after them.
BOSSY

Trenton, NJ

#7 Nov 21, 2006
tommy wrote:
<quoted text>This is what white guys say. Plus they are known to be docile women. Dude you ready to fight, and you not on my level. Submission is a strength. God said we should be submissive to each other. Somehow we think this is an ugly word.
You are absolutely right. All the way. I personally thinks its sexy as hell to be submissive, but only if youre dealing with a real man that deserves it. The man is the head of household, and though we are equal, women are supposed to be submissive to their man.
BOSSY

Trenton, NJ

#8 Nov 21, 2006
SOUL II SOUL wrote:
Black girls complain that they are not appreciated enough by black men. Well how can you when meeting your aquaintance and socializing in general is an IMPOSSIBILITY! I live in the UK and had to put up with attitude from black girls. You women are literally scaring men away with your arrogance and attitude. A black girl in a club wouldn't look at a black guy twice (even if he was well dressed and good looking), except of course, he had tonnes of cash. You black girls like it the easy way; not wanting to build a relationship together for richer or poorer. In other words, IF SHE KISSES HIM (THE FROG)AND HE DOESNT TURN INTO A PRINCE, IT'S....CYA!
Errhh....by the way, im black!
SOLUTION: TRY A DIFFERENT CLUB.
MrDarryl

Hoboken, NJ

#9 Nov 21, 2006
tommy wrote:
<quoted text>This is what white guys say. Plus they are known to be docile women. Dude you ready to fight, and you not on my level. Submission is a strength. God said we should be submissive to each other. Somehow we think this is an ugly word.
I guess us blacks should be submissive then. And those white guys will get a wake up call. Docile, maybe. Non-confrontational, yes. But submissive? Don't listen to some dumb @ss white dudes and their beliefs. They are just p_ssies and obviously can't keep women that have spines around.
You right too, i not on your levle.
tommy

Cumming, GA

#10 Nov 21, 2006
MrDarryl wrote:
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I guess us blacks should be submissive then. And those white guys will get a wake up call. Docile, maybe. Non-confrontational, yes. But submissive? Don't listen to some dumb @ss white dudes and their beliefs. They are just p_ssies and obviously can't keep women that have spines around.
You right too, i not on your levle.
Sumission simply means to humble ourselves one to another. I didn't have to listen to a white dude say this. It's a custom that many asians people put into effect.
tommy

Cumming, GA

#11 Nov 21, 2006
BOSSY wrote:
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You are absolutely right. All the way. I personally thinks its sexy as hell to be submissive, but only if youre dealing with a real man that deserves it. The man is the head of household, and though we are equal, women are supposed to be submissive to their man.
But a man will return that submissiveness back. It simply means to humble ourselves one to another. A man maybe the head,but the woman is the neck that turns it. We should submit one to another. Compromise.
Angry Man

Detroit, MI

#12 Nov 21, 2006
Bro, I don't know about the UK, but where I'm from if you can't get with a sista and your a brotha? Somethings wrong with YOU. All black women want is REAL. They want you to be str8 up and down. If you say your a man, then be a man. Don't say your a man, then when she gets with you, your a lieing two-timing dog, or a lazy go-for-nothing bum. Be str8 up. If all you want is some action from her, BE STR8 UP, so she knows thats all you want. Its not the issue of having tons of money. I've been with my wife almost 10years and we go thru our issues but our issues are REAL and thats why we're still together. I never looked outside my relationship for other women and I never fed her a bunch of B.S. I handle my business and we live.
GeneMachine

Somerville, MA

#13 Nov 21, 2006
Asian women are taught to be submissive. They are taught to obey thier husband. It's how the culture is. In America women are taught to be free and defying. They are encouraged to play competitive sports even play against boys.

I haven't seen many White dudes with asian girls, only until I came to college, but then again I never really payed attention to it. I think some white dudes might like asian girls because they are shy and innocent looking, and they are more petite. Not all of them are like that I know MrDarryl is reading.:)

ps - women of any race are wierdos in one way or another. They feel the same way about men. Men are Men and women are women, there are some things that will be inherantily different about us and I'm not talking physical.
MrDarryl

Hoboken, NJ

#14 Nov 21, 2006
tommy wrote:
<quoted text>Sumission simply means to humble ourselves one to another. I didn't have to listen to a white dude say this. It's a custom that many asians people put into effect.
Traditional customs in many Asian countries definitely put the man in charge of the relationship. But here in America, that isn't necessarily the case. Most immigrants come here to change and get away from these same customs. They can't stand them and don't want to perpetuate them. I do believe that they are more inclined to fill the domestic role of the wife as it is in the tradition of marriage and coupling. This is something that alot of American women seem to find repulsive. However, the men are not going to switch all of their ideals to accommodate for a woman who is struggling to prove her power in the relationship. If a woman is the bread winner in a family, she still has to mother her children and be a wife to her husband. I've seen how this can affect a marriage all to often. Maybe this is the reason why certain women hold tight to their beliefs of what a woman is, just like the men are holding tight to what they believe. I have seen alot of relationships where the wife will always take a back seat to the man and his wishes, because they feel it necessary. Yet they still have ground rules about what they expect as well. It is a two way street. If the guys think they are getting some unresistingly or humbly obedient woman, they MIGHT get lucky, but I wouldn't bet on it. They have just as much of a shot in a college bar as long as they stick to the girls that are attracted to them.
MEF

Cannon Falls, MN

#15 Nov 21, 2006
ON THE TOPIC OF ASIAN WOMEN I AM ASIAN AND BLACK. I WOULD NOT SAY ASIANS ARE MORE SUBMISSIVE BUT I BELIEVE THAT ASIANS ARE MORE OF A LOYAL PEOPLE WHICH IS ONE OF THE MAIN QUALITIES I LOOK FOR IN PEOPLE WITH WHOM I CHOOSE TO ASSOCIATE WITH. LOYALTY IS A MUST!! MOST ASIAN CULTURES ARE VERY STRICT AS FAR AS DISCIPLINE GOES. MY MOTHER SAID THERE WERE NO HUGS AND I LOVE YOUS SPOKEN IN HER FAMILY. SHE WAS ONE OF THE OLDEST AND WOULD BE PUNISHED FOR THINGS HER YOUNGER SIBLINGS DID BY BEING TIED UP NAKED BY BOTH HANDS AND BEATEN. SHE THEN PROMISED SHE WOULD NEVER HIT HER KIDS. YOU ALSO MUST LOOK AT THE REALITY OF THINGS.... A LOT OF ASIAN PEOPLE ARE NOT ORIGINALLY FROM HERE BUT LIVE HERE (MEANING THE US). MY MOTHER WAS HERE WITH NO CLOSE FAMILY AND DID NOT KNOW HOW TO READ AND UNDERSTAND ENGLISH VERY WELL. WAS SHE TO DISRESPECT AND DISOBEY MY FATHER WHEN HE WAS ALL SHE HAD?? I THINK NOT. ANYWAY WHEN IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO IT EVERY PERSON IS THEIR OWN. SOME RACES SHOW THE TENDENCY TO FALL MORE TOWARDS ONE THING OR ANOTHER BUT I THINK IT IS NOT THE RACE BEING THE MAIN FACTOR BUT THE ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH THEY CAME FROM AND WHICH THEY ARE CURRENTLY IN. THINK ABOUT IT YOU TAKE A WHITE PERSON FROM BIRTH AND RAISE THEM IN THE HOOD WITH A BLACK FAMILY, WILL THEY ACT AND TALK LIKE THEIR ORIGINAL BIRTH PARENTS PROBABLY NOT.
Angry Man

Detroit, MI

#16 Nov 21, 2006
I love how people are experts of every race except their OWN!!
rap city rhapsody

United States

#17 Nov 21, 2006
tommy wrote:
<quoted text>But a man will return that submissiveness back. It simply means to humble ourselves one to another. A man maybe the head,but the woman is the neck that turns it. We should submit one to another. Compromise.
submission = compromise. the key to a successful marriage. i agree with you there.
rap city rhapsody

United States

#18 Nov 21, 2006
Angry Man wrote:
I love how people are experts of every race except their OWN!!
:-)
rap city rhapsody

United States

#19 Nov 21, 2006
Angry Man wrote:
Bro, I don't know about the UK, but where I'm from if you can't get with a sista and your a brotha? Somethings wrong with YOU. All black women want is REAL. They want you to be str8 up and down. If you say your a man, then be a man. Don't say your a man, then when she gets with you, your a lieing two-timing dog, or a lazy go-for-nothing bum. Be str8 up. If all you want is some action from her, BE STR8 UP, so she knows thats all you want. Its not the issue of having tons of money. I've been with my wife almost 10years and we go thru our issues but our issues are REAL and thats why we're still together. I never looked outside my relationship for other women and I never fed her a bunch of B.S. I handle my business and we live.
thank you for keepin' it real in motown. i love it!
Yolanda

Peapack, NJ

#20 Nov 21, 2006
MEF wrote:
ON THE TOPIC OF ASIAN WOMEN I AM ASIAN AND BLACK. I WOULD NOT SAY ASIANS ARE MORE SUBMISSIVE BUT I BELIEVE THAT ASIANS ARE MORE OF A LOYAL PEOPLE WHICH IS ONE OF THE MAIN QUALITIES I LOOK FOR IN PEOPLE WITH WHOM I CHOOSE TO ASSOCIATE WITH. LOYALTY IS A MUST!! MOST ASIAN CULTURES ARE VERY STRICT AS FAR AS DISCIPLINE GOES. MY MOTHER SAID THERE WERE NO HUGS AND I LOVE YOUS SPOKEN IN HER FAMILY. SHE WAS ONE OF THE OLDEST AND WOULD BE PUNISHED FOR THINGS HER YOUNGER SIBLINGS DID BY BEING TIED UP NAKED BY BOTH HANDS AND BEATEN. SHE THEN PROMISED SHE WOULD NEVER HIT HER KIDS. YOU ALSO MUST LOOK AT THE REALITY OF THINGS.... A LOT OF ASIAN PEOPLE ARE NOT ORIGINALLY FROM HERE BUT LIVE HERE (MEANING THE US). MY MOTHER WAS HERE WITH NO CLOSE FAMILY AND DID NOT KNOW HOW TO READ AND UNDERSTAND ENGLISH VERY WELL. WAS SHE TO DISRESPECT AND DISOBEY MY FATHER WHEN HE WAS ALL SHE HAD?? I THINK NOT. ANYWAY WHEN IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO IT EVERY PERSON IS THEIR OWN. SOME RACES SHOW THE TENDENCY TO FALL MORE TOWARDS ONE THING OR ANOTHER BUT I THINK IT IS NOT THE RACE BEING THE MAIN FACTOR BUT THE ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH THEY CAME FROM AND WHICH THEY ARE CURRENTLY IN. THINK ABOUT IT YOU TAKE A WHITE PERSON FROM BIRTH AND RAISE THEM IN THE HOOD WITH A BLACK FAMILY, WILL THEY ACT AND TALK LIKE THEIR ORIGINAL BIRTH PARENTS PROBABLY NOT.
I agree. Asians are very loyal from what I have observed.

I don't know though, if a black woman had a good man who worked hard and paid the bills and handled his business, I believe she would be loyal too.

It changes a woman when she has to deal with a man who won't work, is on and off jobs, messes around, does not care for his kids, etc. Then it is hard to be submissive.

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