Memories

San Jose, CA

#66 Nov 19, 2013
BM Moving On wrote:
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Nope, I'm an educated brotha. Great career and like other brotha's like myself, have so many options in women that you BW are not even an option for me.
You're an educated brotha who posts about his homosexual desires and collects 'data' about bw from media takeout.
Memories

San Jose, CA

#67 Nov 19, 2013
Cyrus V wrote:
Lol! Loyal, my azz!! Stop riding the coattails of BW who came before you. Y'all were never loyal, even at that and that's just guil-tripping shaming tactics used by bitter, insecure black females to curb BM IR dating. Date who you please, keep us out of your mind and keep avoiding BM. sheesh!!
Likewise BM have never been loyal,if you had the access to ww that you do now you wouldn't have bothered marching and demonstrating for your civil rights.

“Perfection is impossible”

Level 5

Since: May 13

But excellence is close enough

#68 Nov 19, 2013
WM!? Pink Pearl, really? I'm honestly shocked by this post.
Big Knob

United States

#69 Nov 19, 2013
AA Forum User wrote:
<quoted text>
You're completely out of touch with reality. I don't see anyone in here blaming ww. You, for some reason keep wanting to bring up ww. Nobody is talking about ww, leave them out of this discussion and stay on topic you imbecile!
What BW are protesting scandal? I hear nothing but praises by the bw and I don't even watch that stupid show.
you hypocrite, first you say this thread is not about whites, and it is about wm in comparrison to bm, but when I fliped the script, and drew comparrisons of ww to bw, notice the silence,. And I said that you dont hear ww protesting SCANDAL like you bw protested that cherrios commerical, did you school teacher? Have ww ever written a book on how to get a bm, school teacher, I know what your doing, but you're going about it the wrong way........i'll leave with this:
Both bm and bw are equally responsible for this mess, its not about who's right, its about doing whats right.......think about it that way......im out, enjoy your evening.
Big Knob

United States

#70 Nov 19, 2013
AA Forum User wrote:
<quoted text>
Deflecting and projecting again? That's all you stupid BM do but I understand why. When there is absolutely nothing positive you can say about yourself you have no choice but to spend all day pointing at other people.
If im stupid for telling the truth, then what does telling a lie make you, school teacher.......a goddess
Big Knob

United States

#73 Nov 19, 2013
complete a task wrote:
<quoted text>
You are so correct. more white women are also employed than white men too, and big time at that. I think people tends to always wanna try and find ways to degrade and negatively talk about black men badly. smh! Africans don't have nothing to do with these negative thoughts that African Americans keeps putting out.
Greetings, I hear you loud and clear, but i'd like to add, if these hard working bm from the carribbean and africa were doing so well then why is it that where they come from is a bread-basket, and these sIsters dId thIs as one of theIr sham tactIcs, but notIce the sIlence when I flIpped the scrIpt on them. you have enough racIsm as It Is on here, and for them to do the same shIt Is mInd bogglIng. all they talk about Is ww & bm, ww & bm, but get on here and praIse the ww's man, thats hypIcrIsy, they love scandal, but hated that cherrIos commercIal, ww see the hypocrIsy, I see it, they know it but refuse to admitt it.........the typical bw, tell every good about themselves, but everytning bad about you, and thats the same mentality her mentor that wm has......LOL........later.
Big Knob

United States

#74 Nov 19, 2013
ah verkligen wrote:
<quoted text>
lol....
How come NoMo's links STILL lead right to the forum page?
Becasue all his hateful, whiney, LYING threads,
... get DELETED,....that's why.
If thats the case then why dont they delete white racist threads.....i know because thats freedom of speach.....
Big Knob

United States

#75 Nov 19, 2013
Until next time........Cherrios
Good night.
No Comment

Port Richey, FL

#76 Nov 19, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>If thats the case then why dont they delete white racist threads.....i know because thats freedom of speach.....
They do, dopey. You crybabies just can't admit the truth or accept reality in ANY case.

And it's "speech", you uneducated illiterate ghetto king.
Big Knob

United States

#77 Nov 19, 2013
No Comment wrote:
<quoted text>They do, dopey. You crybabies just can't admit the truth or accept reality in ANY case.
And it's "speech", you uneducated illiterate ghetto king.
you can keep your euro-centric education, and mind white folks business, ok wally, where's bev..........should'nt you be out burning a cross right about now.........
Big Knob

United States

#78 Nov 19, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I always felt like I would not date a White guy and I could never do it. I felt like I didn't understand White men and I couldn't trust them. I'm dating a Hispanic guy right now, but the more I'm out in the world, the more I just can't ever imagine myself with a Black guy again if things weren't to work out with my current boyfriend (though I don't really expect it not, tbh, I love him lol)...
So hear me out - The Black guys on the internet have made me wary of Black men in general. How a group of guys can be so full of hate and bitterness for just the women in their race is beyond me. If they were more serious about the Black community CHANGING, they would sit online and address all of the issues, like Black guys going to prison and killing Each Other all the time, & their high dropout rates, etc... but they don't. They sit online and bash Black females & act like every single, last problem they have is because of Black women, and only us, and all it does it drive more and more Black people away from one another. These guys should be shunned and ridiculed by other Black people...
But they aren't. All you see is other Black men starting to agree with them, finding SOMEONE to put the blame on for all of their issues in life. Can they explain their high divorce rates with White women? No, because that stands in the way of the fake claims that Black women are the main and only problem. They worship Whiteness because they know if they put all of this BS out there about Black females, then that's who they have to go to, so they would never bash White women. The thing is, Black men used to do this Same exact thing to White men, and in many ways they still do.
Excuses, excuses, excuses.
So as a Black female, now I understand the frustration White men must feel when people say all of the problems with so many people stems from White male racism. It must be frustrating to hear that an know it's not true. White men must feel like society is against them and people can freely call them names and get away with it. That would be incredibly frustrating - AND then, for that same group of people that claim you're the enemy 24/7 to be held up as some great type of man and a sad, pitiful victim of your "evil ways" while he taunts you & chases your women constantly would be nauseating! I'm not surprised anger from White men is increasing. So black men have just changed me, as a Black female now, I understand White men a little bit more.
Maybe White guys aren't as bad as we're made to believe they are...
You know that I feel the same way, after reading the BWE BLOGS and reading post by emotional insecure women, on here, never have I heard any group of women constantly blame or give a woman of another race so much power over them. Many of you ladies claim to be college educated, but all you talk about is dating, what about politics, business, a book review, the news, culture, travel concerts educated conversations. you can dish it out but you cant take it..........then when your back is up against the wall with truth you play the victim role.......its rather funny I was thinking the same thing from a bms persepctive........how these bw online give these racist a pass, for insulting them, disrespecting you.... You ingnore what they say , but get upset when bm challange you. When zimmerman was aquitted you bw made a big deal out of the fact that ww did it, were you trying to make the ww the bms enemy ? Maybe those ww,werent so bad after all. Why I dont hear them having conversations with racist bm about wm do you. Non bw and non aabw seem to be more of a help mate than AABW to the AA BM, so the bm will remake the community without you.......good luck competing with that ww for her devil..........

“Shed so many tears”

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#80 Nov 19, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I always felt like I would not date a White guy and I could never do it. I felt like I didn't understand White men and I couldn't trust them. I'm dating a Hispanic guy right now, but the more I'm out in the world, the more I just can't ever imagine myself with a Black guy again if things weren't to work out with my current boyfriend (though I don't really expect it not, tbh, I love him lol)...
So hear me out - The Black guys on the internet have made me wary of Black men in general. How a group of guys can be so full of hate and bitterness for just the women in their race is beyond me. If they were more serious about the Black community CHANGING, they would sit online and address all of the issues, like Black guys going to prison and killing Each Other all the time, & their high dropout rates, etc... but they don't. They sit online and bash Black females & act like every single, last problem they have is because of Black women, and only us, and all it does it drive more and more Black people away from one another. These guys should be shunned and ridiculed by other Black people...
But they aren't. All you see is other Black men starting to agree with them, finding SOMEONE to put the blame on for all of their issues in life. Can they explain their high divorce rates with White women? No, because that stands in the way of the fake claims that Black women are the main and only problem. They worship Whiteness because they know if they put all of this BS out there about Black females, then that's who they have to go to, so they would never bash White women. The thing is, Black men used to do this Same exact thing to White men, and in many ways they still do.
Excuses, excuses, excuses.
So as a Black female, now I understand the frustration White men must feel when people say all of the problems with so many people stems from White male racism. It must be frustrating to hear that an know it's not true. White men must feel like society is against them and people can freely call them names and get away with it. That would be incredibly frustrating - AND then, for that same group of people that claim you're the enemy 24/7 to be held up as some great type of man and a sad, pitiful victim of your "evil ways" while he taunts you & chases your women constantly would be nauseating! I'm not surprised anger from White men is increasing. So black men have just changed me, as a Black female now, I understand White men a little bit more.
Maybe White guys aren't as bad as we're made to believe they are...
You need to repent!
Big Knob

United States

#81 Nov 19, 2013
AA Forum User wrote:
I never thought white guys were bad. That was always Black men perpetuating that lie to maintain control over black women.
If youre so college educated how can a bm control you? Didnt you bw do the samething when ww aquitted zimmerman, you even had a thread about it. Were you trying to control bm, I think you know where im comming from with this in reverse..........

“#BlackWomenRise”

Level 4

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#83 Nov 20, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
WM!? Pink Pearl, really? I'm honestly shocked by this post.
I just try to understand the world a little bit, in the best way that I can. There are a lot of angry Black guys who do blame Black women for everything. I didn't sit here and say White men are better or that they are more attractive or better family men or anything, because that would be completely stupid. I'm saying that maybe White men are a little misunderstood. Being on the other side of an argument where a group of people are trying to make you out to be the reason for ALL of their problems kind of makes you look at those claiming to be your victims with frustration. Black men obviously cause a lot of their own problems. If they think they lack the ability or brainpower to make their own decisions in life then why blame that on anyone? It went from White men as the reason, to Black women as the reason in their minds. So now, you've just made me realize the frustration that some White men must feel. White men are actually NOT as much of a problem for Black people as many may think, the problem is actually more internal. Blaming White men, or Black women is just an easy way not to have to address that.

That is what I'm saying. How many of the problems in the Black community actually come from within, and are just blamed on others? What do White men really do to prevent people from success these days?? MAYBE, is it a feeling of inferiority/fear of failure and notions of inferiority being "proven", WITHIN many Blacks that prevents them from trying, and they blame it on the outside because they feel the outside has created those feelings to begin with.

Many Black men blame Black women for making them feel inferior, so they put all of their problems on us now, and some Black men blame their problems on White men because White men make them feel inferior with their presence. It is IN Them, but they don't want to admit it.

“#BlackWomenRise”

Level 4

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#84 Nov 20, 2013
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> You know that I feel the same way, after reading the BWE BLOGS and reading post by emotional insecure women, on here, never have I heard any group of women constantly blame or give a woman of another race so much power over them. Many of you ladies claim to be college educated, but all you talk about is dating, what about politics, business, a book review, the news, culture, travel concerts educated conversations. you can dish it out but you cant take it..........then when your back is up against the wall with truth you play the victim role.......its rather funny I was thinking the same thing from a bms persepctive........how these bw online give these racist a pass, for insulting them, disrespecting you.... You ingnore what they say , but get upset when bm challange you. When zimmerman was aquitted you bw made a big deal out of the fact that ww did it, were you trying to make the ww the bms enemy ? Maybe those ww,werent so bad after all. Why I dont hear them having conversations with racist bm about wm do you. Non bw and non aabw seem to be more of a help mate than AABW to the AA BM, so the bm will remake the community without you.......good luck competing with that ww for her devil..........
Dude, this is NOT about dating, this is about our culture and our "community" and how my perception of those on the outside has changed.

Level 1

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#85 Nov 20, 2013
Women like the OP of this thread makes me appreciate the beautiful, confident proud black queen I have.

I feel sorry for any brotha that comes in contact with such self hating, pathetic black females.

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#87 Nov 20, 2013
Gotta Stop You There wrote:
<quoted text>
Gotta stop you there. I'm not exactly on the Black American bandwagon I know a lot of black American's who treat Africans like crap. But as someone of direct African descent I can say that Africans don't regard black American's any better. I spent the better part of my life listening to my father bash black American's left and right. I don't know what would be worse to him, me marrying a white guy or me marrying a black American guy. In fact I think either would be a great disappointment.
For sure, black Americans are always surprised when I tell them that many African families view dating/marrying black Americans in the same way as dating/marrying anyone outside of our direct ethnic group. They seem to think race should supersede all else when only Americans really think this way.
Sista Girl

Cleveland, MS

#88 Nov 20, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
For sure, black Americans are always surprised when I tell them that many African families view dating/marrying black Americans in the same way as dating/marrying anyone outside of our direct ethnic group. They seem to think race should supersede all else when only Americans really think this way.
Go get cho coffee girl, I feel ya.
Big Knob

United States

#89 Nov 20, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
<quoted text>
Dude, this is NOT about dating, this is about our culture and our "community" and how my perception of those on the outside has changed.
That change took place in 1967 when Martin Luther King said we asked for intergration and were're going to get it, but that he feared that the negro was losing his soul. King said that the negro had bought into americanism, materialism, thats what he feared, id add that we bought into a euro-centric persepctive, and have allowed ourselves to be sucked into a mindset that says that you must always rely on the benevolence of, and be under the tutelage of white folks.......

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Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#90 Nov 20, 2013
Black Power wrote:
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Agreed, sounds like a negro bed wench
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =u5v-5YhPau4XX
Most definitely, that video is right on point. It's basically breaking down the particular self hating females of this thread. They're suffering from negro bed wench syndrome.

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