Maybe White men aren't so bad...
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Ardsley, NY

#358 Nov 26, 2013
Im_Every-one_But_You wrote:
<quoted text>Uhh,
....Clemm?
<quoted text>
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TGK1N2T4KGN5L...
Huh?
WHAT?
WHAT?

Huh?
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Ardsley, NY

#360 Nov 26, 2013
Im_Every-one_But_You wrote:
Yeah, that's kinda what I thought you'd reply with.
Right?
Hmmm?
Hmmm.

Alright

:)

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Since: May 13

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#363 Nov 26, 2013
Populus alba interficiens wrote:
<quoted text>
the fattest person in america is a white man, according to the media and the fattst woman in the world is latina, she was very very very very large and she couldn't walk or anything they had to roll her out of her bed to take her places, and she was accused for killing her nephew on purpose. but idk how she is now. she might have passed away
Yes, but which group has the most prevalent amount of obesity? I will let you look it up so as to not appear bias.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#365 Nov 27, 2013
I'm OVER this. I'm sorry Black guys, while some of you are nuts, not all of yo are and I shouldn't overlook the great guys who are Black out there just because I was annoyed to see so many dumb people on Youtube talking badly about us (mainly Sotomayor). Then again, there are crazy White guys who prove themselves on here everyday, and while yeah - this perspective on White guys really did change for me, I still see most of them as racist, and therefore not "on my side" in the world as a group. I think when it comes down to it, Black people do better trying to better our community, and not caring what outsiders do or say.

BUT, that doesn't excuse the negative Black men & yes, women too. I feel like they are causing so many problems with Blacks that it's becoming difficult for us to trust one another. I don't want to be racist or hateful towards anyone, but it gets hard when people seem like they're all constantly bashing Black females 24/7 for no reason but repeating stereotypes to justify it all, and it feels like nobody stands up to protect us like they do other women. The idea of what men are doesn't seem to be there for Black women as a whole in society.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#366 Nov 27, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, but which group has the most prevalent amount of obesity? I will let you look it up so as to not appear bias.
Mexicans, actually.

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Since: May 13

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#367 Nov 27, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
<quoted text>
Mexicans, actually.
Wrong. Mexicans isn't a race, but still, Latinos are less than Black Americans.

Among blacks in 45 states and DC with sufficient respondents, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 23.0% to 45.1%, with a total of 40 states having an obesity prevalence of &#8805;30%, including 5 states (Alabama, Maine, Mississippi, Ohio, and Oregon) with a prevalence of &#8805; 40%.
Among Hispanics in 50 states and DC, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 21.0% to 36.7%, with 11 states having an obesity prevalence of &#8805; 30%. Among whites in 50 states and DC, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 9.0% to 30.2%, with only one state (West Virginia) having a prevalence of &#8805; 30%; 5 states (California, Colorado, Connecticut, Hawaii, and New Mexico and DC had an obesity prevalence of < 20%.
http://www.cdc.gov/Features/dsObesityAdults/
Uuuuum gots to eat

Cleveland, MS

#368 Nov 27, 2013
Uuuuum I love me some food. I love dem ribs that slide right off the bones. Uuuuum aint nothing like a moist delicious chocolate cake. Fried chicken, hot wings and fries help me Jesus. Uuuuuum chug it all down with a case of bear. Uuuuuu homemade buttered biscuits, bacon, eggs, grits and coffee, aint nothing like it. Uuuuuuum I loves me some food. God sho wasn't playing when he created food. God gots it going on. All the way on as matter of fact.

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Since: Jan 11

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#369 Nov 27, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I'm OVER this. I'm sorry Black guys, while some of you are nuts, not all of yo are and I shouldn't overlook the great guys who are Black out there just because I was annoyed to see so many dumb people on Youtube talking badly about us (mainly Sotomayor). Then again, there are crazy White guys who prove themselves on here everyday, and while yeah - this perspective on White guys really did change for me, I still see most of them as racist, and therefore not "on my side" in the world as a group. I think when it comes down to it, Black people do better trying to better our community, and not caring what outsiders do or say.
BUT, that doesn't excuse the negative Black men & yes, women too. I feel like they are causing so many problems with Blacks that it's becoming difficult for us to trust one another. I don't want to be racist or hateful towards anyone, but it gets hard when people seem like they're all constantly bashing Black females 24/7 for no reason but repeating stereotypes to justify it all, and it feels like nobody stands up to protect us like they do other women. The idea of what men are doesn't seem to be there for Black women as a whole in society.
appreciate your post. but you have to understand that when those people bash bw, there's a lotta perceived truth to what they're saying...it's not just true about bw, but because wm like ronald reagan cloaked bw in the image of negativity it sticks to bw more.

what we need is to give bw in our community a sense of purpose. we need to start a grassroots black advancement movement and put bw at the front of that movement...and i don't mean chickenhead bw. but those women will follow older and wiser women... we need bw who are not going to be bullied into acquiescing with the bad behavior of fked up black females. bw who will ask themselves the question "that fked up behavior might make you feel good for the minute, but is it really in the best interest of the community as a whole in the long run?" THAT'S when everything you're talking about is gonna stop. bw have to police each other's behavior...stop abandoning the community as soon as you get some money and start helping to rebulid it. it's not easy work but it's not as hard as it sounds.

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Since: May 13

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#371 Nov 27, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>appreciate your post. but you have to understand that when those people bash bw, there's a lotta perceived truth to what they're saying...it's not just true about bw, but because wm like ronald reagan cloaked bw in the image of negativity it sticks to bw more.
what we need is to give bw in our community a sense of purpose. we need to start a grassroots black advancement movement and put bw at the front of that movement...and i don't mean chickenhead bw. but those women will follow older and wiser women... we need bw who are not going to be bullied into acquiescing with the bad behavior of fked up black females. bw who will ask themselves the question "that fked up behavior might make you feel good for the minute, but is it really in the best interest of the community as a whole in the long run?" THAT'S when everything you're talking about is gonna stop. bw have to police each other's behavior...stop abandoning the community as soon as you get some money and start helping to rebulid it. it's not easy work but it's not as hard as it sounds.
Um...I think you mean BM.
"So, let me get this straight.

1. Feminism is racist so black women should never have gotten involed with it in the first place.

2. One must never offer an opinion on a problem unless one has all the answers for said problem.

3. It must be thoroughly explained that there are no absolutes in human behavior.

4. It must be thoroughly explained that opinions are subjective.

5. A black woman who calls out abusive black male behavior is just as bad as the abuser.

6. The race does not want or need black women who call out abusive black male behavior, because such black women are traitors anyway.

Dude, seriously, don't get your feelings all hurt. Just do what black women have repeatedly been told to do. If she's not talking about you then "just ignore it"."

http://www.forharriet.com/2012/11/on-dl-hughl...

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#372 Nov 27, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
Another bi-polar hate instigator thread..we blks have to stop giving an ear to this type of trash that trolls exploit as boo-bee traps and snairs ..don't let them push your buttons (= AC Anti-Chaos
"guys like [thia] that haunt these blogs using nationalist rhetoric,flowery language, and backhanded compliments to obfuscate the truth. When you challenge them you see the real contempt they have for us; if insulting our intelligence with nonsense isn't proof enough. "

http://www.forharriet.com/2012/11/on-dl-hughl...

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Since: Jan 11

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#373 Nov 27, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
Um...I think you mean BM.
"So, let me get this straight.
1. Feminism is racist so black women should never have gotten involed with it in the first place.
2. One must never offer an opinion on a problem unless one has all the answers for said problem.
3. It must be thoroughly explained that there are no absolutes in human behavior.
4. It must be thoroughly explained that opinions are subjective.
5. A black woman who calls out abusive black male behavior is just as bad as the abuser.
6. The race does not want or need black women who call out abusive black male behavior, because such black women are traitors anyway.
Dude, seriously, don't get your feelings all hurt. Just do what black women have repeatedly been told to do. If she's not talking about you then "just ignore it"."
http://www.forharriet.com/2012/11/on-dl-hughl...
i don't really understand your post...makes no sense to me, but the article you posted shows the reason bw need to start thinking of the community and not just about themselves. bw need to take a strategic point of view. bw tend to act as if they are just passive bystanders in the struggle for black power. as if us bm are supposed to do all the work and they just get all the benefts. and if they aint getting any benefits then they should just check out of the black community. just give up on the black race as a whole. bw need to be shown they have an important role to play to uplift the entire community. it makes no sense for them to focus on themselves at the exclusion of their black sons and the rest of the black community. it has to be a team effort. it's about people taking responsibility for each other. but of course the challenge will be in finding those bw who are team players and who have a vision of betterment for the black race.
Spit-Fire

Pine Lake, GA

#376 Nov 27, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
I'm OVER this. I'm sorry Black guys, while some of you are nuts, not all of yo are and I shouldn't overlook the great guys who are Black out there just because I was annoyed to see so many dumb people on Youtube talking badly about us (mainly Sotomayor). Then again, there are crazy White guys who prove themselves on here everyday, and while yeah - this perspective on White guys really did change for me, I still see most of them as racist, and therefore not "on my side" in the world as a group. I think when it comes down to it, Black people do better trying to better our community, and not caring what outsiders do or say.
BUT, that doesn't excuse the negative Black men & yes, women too. I feel like they are causing so many problems with Blacks that it's becoming difficult for us to trust one another. I don't want to be racist or hateful towards anyone, but it gets hard when people seem like they're all constantly bashing Black females 24/7 for no reason but repeating stereotypes to justify it all, and it feels like nobody stands up to protect us like they do other women. The idea of what men are doesn't seem to be there for Black women as a whole in society.
It feels like no one protects us because no one does. BW cannot depend on BM to protect us. It will not happen, simply because it does not benefit them to do so.
BW social protection will come from a combination of individual men of various races. This will include non racist WM and non racist, non colorstruck men of color.
No whole group of men are going to be on our side, including BM.
But we don't need that. You need quality men that BW can marry, which will benefit ALL BW, including the BW who only want BM.
I don't understand why some BW have not connected these dots yet.(I'm not speaking about you, but in general).
Big Knob

United States

#379 Nov 27, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
It feels like no one protects us because no one does. BW cannot depend on BM to protect us. It will not happen, simply because it does not benefit them to do so.
BW social protection will come from a combination of individual men of various races. This will include non racist WM and non racist, non colorstruck men of color.
No whole group of men are going to be on our side, including BM.
But we don't need that. You need quality men that BW can marry, which will benefit ALL BW, including the BW who only want BM.
I don't understand why some BW have not connected these dots yet.(I'm not speaking about you, but in general).
Sagacious BM need quality women in their corner, a woman who supports her man's, goals, ideals, and aspirations, and is a supportive mate. A bw who understands that the man wears pants in the relationship, What the bm dont need is some brainwashed, euro-centric bw, who thinks because she's been to college that she knows everything. Bw need to stop listening to the topix ladies, and talk to bw who are happily married, and older bw who have been in long term marriages, and not the tragic sisters online, who are always talking about wm, or ww, on a black fourm......all the things going on in black communities, and things that blacks should be focusing on , like , small business, college, family, stopping the violence, careers, jobs, self-help, doing for self, raising the children right . But no all the brain-dead wants to talk about is dating, dating, wm, or ww.......then you wonder why whites and non whites think youre a damn fool.........unbelieveable.
Spit-Fire

Atlanta, GA

#380 Nov 27, 2013
FlowFighter wrote:
<quoted text>
shut up sh88tstain..NONE of what you stated has any basis in historical fact..zero..none whatsoever..
In the history of mankind there has NEVER been an oppressed people
who survived their ordeal and went on to prosper by appealing to members of OTHER groups..races ..ethnicities etc...to aid and assist them.
What BW DON'T need are as**sswipes like you giving bad advice and spreading disinformation.
You're confused. You are under the impression that I am speaking about Black people. I am not. I am speaking only about BW.

BW are the only resource that BM control. I understand how scary the prospect might be for your resources to shrink.
BM will learn to adjust.

BW control/possess the bulk of education, resources, black owned businesses. They can actually prosper by marrying quality men of diverse races on their same level.
They will have better access to quality of living, a stable family life for their children and a husband to protect and provide for them.

It will not take a majority of BW, nor will it take a majority of other race men for there to be positive social impact.
You might want to read an American history book, or several before you make such claims.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Ardsley, NY

#381 Nov 27, 2013
Populus alba interficiens wrote:
<quoted text>
the fattest person in america is a white man, according to the media and the fattst woman in the world is latina, she was very very very very large and she couldn't walk or anything they had to roll her out of her bed to take her places, and she was accused for killing her nephew on purpose. but idk how she is now. she might have passed away
I've never seen or heard of a bp having to have the roof removed from their house in order to get lifted out by crane and taken to the hospital.

Thats a white thang.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Ardsley, NY

#382 Nov 27, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, but which group has the most prevalent amount of obesity? I will let you look it up so as to not appear bias.
If you're talking about AA's then thats just a small minority of blacks. Look at the whole picture worldwide and you will see blacks do not have an issue with obesity. Thats only blacks that live within predominantly white societies. But whites worldwide are seeing increasing numbers of obesity.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

Ardsley, NY

#386 Nov 27, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
Wrong. Mexicans isn't a race, but still, Latinos are less than Black Americans.
Among blacks in 45 states and DC with sufficient respondents, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 23.0% to 45.1%, with a total of 40 states having an obesity prevalence of &#8805;30%, including 5 states (Alabama, Maine, Mississippi, Ohio, and Oregon) with a prevalence of &#8805; 40%.
Among Hispanics in 50 states and DC, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 21.0% to 36.7%, with 11 states having an obesity prevalence of &#8805; 30%. Among whites in 50 states and DC, the prevalence of obesity ranged from 9.0% to 30.2%, with only one state (West Virginia) having a prevalence of &#8805; 30%; 5 states (California, Colorado, Connecticut, Hawaii, and New Mexico and DC had an obesity prevalence of < 20%.
http://www.cdc.gov/Features/dsObesityAdults/
Notice how it's blacks living in a predominantly white country that you can say this about. Name a predominantly black country with an obese rate of over even 5%. Even blacks in Europe dont have high levels of obesity.

This is a reflection of a society, not a race. It just so happens white Americans also have the highest obesity levels of all other whites world wide.
Spit-Fire

Atlanta, GA

#387 Nov 27, 2013
FlowFighter wrote:
<quoted text>
"BW are the only resource that BM control."
Actually ,we don't .. silly c8nt..You see neither the men nor the women of any oppressed group control a GD thing...including one another.
"BW control/possess the bulk of education, resources, black owned businesses. They can actually prosper by marrying quality men of diverse races on their same level."
Ummm..you're contradicting yourself c88nt (possibly crakkker cocksukkker)..
Moreover men of other races DO NOT-by ad large want BW to begin with...KNOW FACT..you cant rant and rave to the contraty..doesn't change the facts..those interested can google other recent studies...
http://hellobeautiful.com/2010/09/13/black-wo...
"You might want to read an American history book"
Care to cite any SPECIFIC counterexamples to my claims c**unt? Hmmmmm?
:O)
The only group in America that was on your side was BW. As a result so were any benefits we received, however limited they may have been/be. That includes sex, housing, support and loyalty to BM that is unreturned etc., Not to mention many of whom, until a couple years ago would not date or marry out. As more BW put their own interests and well being first, what was once a surplus will continue to dwindle away. This is already happening.

BM are using their male priviledge to oppress BW. One of the many forms is the open bashing taking place, which is mental abuse. Domestic violence, rape, incest and murder is commonplace amongst BW and their children in inner city neighborhoods across America.

The lie of BW being undesirable to other men is another form of oppression, not to mention an outright lie. You can hold on to this untruth as long as you like to provide you with a sense of comfort.
Youtube, FB and tumblr pages are filled with everyday BW with a variety of men they are dating or married to.
BW have the fastest growing (marriage) IR in the country, with WM. The census will provide the stats.
BW are only 6% of the population, a minority of other men is all BW need to choose from. This leaves them with a surplus of men.
BW are women and as long as the majority of men are straight, someone will always want them. They only need one quality man.

The answer should be obvious.

This is my last post to you, as I received the type of responses I expected.

Goodbye.

“Repent and worship God”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#388 Nov 27, 2013
FlowFighter wrote:
<quoted text>"BW are the only resource that BM control."
Actually ,we don't .. silly c8nt..You see neither the men nor the women of any oppressed group control a GD thing...including one another.

"BW control/possess the bulk of education, resources, black owned businesses. They can actually prosper by marrying quality men of diverse races on their same level."

Ummm..you're contradicting yourself c88nt (possibly crakkker cocksukkker)..

Moreover men of other races DO NOT-by ad large want BW to begin with...KNOW FACT..you cant rant and rave to the contraty..doesn't change the facts..those interested can google other recent studies...

http://hellobeautiful.com/2010/09/13/black-wo...

"You might want to read an American history book"
Care to cite any SPECIFIC counterexamples to my claims c**unt? Hmmmmm?

:O)
It seems majority of black people aren't in to IR marriages.

As of 2010, just 0.3 percent of white men in marriages were married to black women, and just 0.8 percent of white women in marriages were married to black men.

http://www.npr.org/2011/10/14/141235709/the-c...
Big Knob

United States

#391 Nov 27, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
Um...I think you mean BM.
"So, let me get this straight.
1. Feminism is racist so black women should never have gotten involed with it in the first place.
2. One must never offer an opinion on a problem unless one has all the answers for said problem.
3. It must be thoroughly explained that there are no absolutes in human behavior.
4. It must be thoroughly explained that opinions are subjective.
5. A black woman who calls out abusive black male behavior is just as bad as the abuser.
6. The race does not want or need black women who call out abusive black male behavior, because such black women are traitors anyway.
Dude, seriously, don't get your feelings all hurt. Just do what black women have repeatedly been told to do. If she's not talking about you then "just ignore it"."
http://www.forharriet.com/2012/11/on-dl-hughl...
You've put Dl hughley on blast, for his statements, now what about koola boof, or the bwe are they going to be pointed out as well.......you sistas ingnore that..........h is for hypocrisy.

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