Maybe White men aren't so bad...

Maybe White men aren't so bad...

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“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#1 Nov 19, 2013
I always felt like I would not date a White guy and I could never do it. I felt like I didn't understand White men and I couldn't trust them. I'm dating a Hispanic guy right now, but the more I'm out in the world, the more I just can't ever imagine myself with a Black guy again if things weren't to work out with my current boyfriend (though I don't really expect it not, tbh, I love him lol)...

So hear me out - The Black guys on the internet have made me wary of Black men in general. How a group of guys can be so full of hate and bitterness for just the women in their race is beyond me. If they were more serious about the Black community CHANGING, they would sit online and address all of the issues, like Black guys going to prison and killing Each Other all the time, & their high dropout rates, etc... but they don't. They sit online and bash Black females & act like every single, last problem they have is because of Black women, and only us, and all it does it drive more and more Black people away from one another. These guys should be shunned and ridiculed by other Black people...

But they aren't. All you see is other Black men starting to agree with them, finding SOMEONE to put the blame on for all of their issues in life. Can they explain their high divorce rates with White women? No, because that stands in the way of the fake claims that Black women are the main and only problem. They worship Whiteness because they know if they put all of this BS out there about Black females, then that's who they have to go to, so they would never bash White women. The thing is, Black men used to do this Same exact thing to White men, and in many ways they still do.

Excuses, excuses, excuses.

So as a Black female, now I understand the frustration White men must feel when people say all of the problems with so many people stems from White male racism. It must be frustrating to hear that an know it's not true. White men must feel like society is against them and people can freely call them names and get away with it. That would be incredibly frustrating - AND then, for that same group of people that claim you're the enemy 24/7 to be held up as some great type of man and a sad, pitiful victim of your "evil ways" while he taunts you & chases your women constantly would be nauseating! I'm not surprised anger from White men is increasing. So black men have just changed me, as a Black female now, I understand White men a little bit more.

Maybe White guys aren't as bad as we're made to believe they are...

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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Since: Sep 12

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#2 Nov 19, 2013
UGH all of my posts come out sooo long. I'm really, really sorry! lol.

The IQ of this place is so low that I now don't expect many people to read this now, but they should...
AA Forum User

Austin, TX

#3 Nov 19, 2013
I never thought white guys were bad. That was always Black men perpetuating that lie to maintain control over black women.
Cyrus V

Manassas, VA

#4 Nov 19, 2013
Hasta la vista, baby!
AA Forum User

Austin, TX

#5 Nov 19, 2013
Cyrus V wrote:
Hasta la vista, baby!
And she won't be missing anything!
Blacks Are Worthless

Miami, FL

#6 Nov 19, 2013
We White men could care less what your black men think or say about us, because in the end, the truth always reveals itself & the facts speak for themselves.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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Since: Sep 12

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#7 Nov 19, 2013
Cyrus V wrote:
Hasta la vista, baby!
That actually means "See you later" in Spanish, so it really makes no sense in this situation, lol.
Cyrus V

Manassas, VA

#8 Nov 19, 2013
Would you look at all the fcks we give. Rofl!
Now some music to go with this thread..
Cyrus V

Manassas, VA

#9 Nov 19, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
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That actually means "See you later" in Spanish, so it really makes no sense in this situation, lol.
It could also mean goodbye. Besides, I was using it in the Arnold Schwarzenegger's context. Which translates to; see ya later bytch, don't let the door hit ya were the good lord split ya.

“Helping you ”

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Since: Jul 11

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#10 Nov 19, 2013
Cyrus V wrote:
Would you look at all the fcks we give. Rofl!
Now some music to go with this thread..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =dO1PYvloBtkXX
Lol, exactly!

There's hwores of all races sleeping with and fcking men of all races. Men don't care. These women are the ones having mixed race offspring.

Doesn't affect any of us in the slightest. I got my beautiful black queen and If things didn't work out .. I'd get another one.

No big deal.

IR only means that men of that woman's race will no longer date her after she Ir's.

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

...explore outside the milkway

#11 Nov 19, 2013
I don't like their scaly pale skin. It looks disgusting.
BM Moving On

Toronto, Canada

#12 Nov 19, 2013
Look, BM have too many options to worry about how you feel. BM are doing their thing while BW like you know don't have much options, have BM on the brain 24/7.
Cyrus V

Manassas, VA

#13 Nov 19, 2013
Cyrus V wrote:
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It could also mean goodbye. Besides, I was using it in the Arnold Schwarzenegger's context. Which translates to; see ya later bytch, don't let the door hit ya were the good lord split ya.
* Correction
which translates to; goodbye bytch, don't let the door hit ya were the good lord split ya.

“What do the stars say......”

Since: May 11

...explore outside the milkway

#14 Nov 19, 2013
When he says queen he mens drag queen.
AA Forum User

Austin, TX

#15 Nov 19, 2013
BM Moving On wrote:
Look, BM have too many options to worry about how you feel. BM are doing their thing while BW like you know don't have much options, have BM on the brain 24/7.
Don't flatter yourself. We all know you all are busy slinging your drugs and dodging police but that's not the topic of this conversation.
complete a task

United States

#16 Nov 19, 2013
I agree with your thread but only to a certain extent I do. I know that you are a great and wise person somewhere deep inside but first I'm going to tell the truth but then would also love to address the ignorance in your thread so please you nor no one else should get offended by this. I understand where you're coming from. I know and understand the struggle you go through with >>African American<< men. my advice and opinions about many African American women is only going to be ignored if I include what kind of struggle some men have to go through with some >>African American<< women. I know not many women on here will feel or understand where I come from so I'm not even gonna get on that subject at all.

I know that many >>African American<< men has no idea how to treat women. I have seen this with my own eyes. many African American men doesn't only mistreat and misbehave towards African American women but they do it to black women (all women) and sometimes even more and sometimes some of them tend to treat them better than African American women. come to think of it most African Americans tends to mistreat African men and women African American women mistreat Africans too. my whole point is why do so many African Americans blame and point fingers at all blacks (world wide) when many of them straight up hate Africans period just because most Africans are dark skin? that don't make sense at all because every time a African comes to America both African American men and women mistreat and start drama with Africans for no good reason at all.

the saddest part about it is African Americans turn right back around and point fingers and blame them for stuff they had nothing at all to do with. like this thread here that you made you have just said the whole entire race of black men are this and that when African men has nothing to do with the problems which you are putting out about black men.

African Americans always do that and that is straight ignorance. I'm sorry and I do apologize if I offended you but I'm just calling it like it is.
BM Moving On

Toronto, Canada

#18 Nov 19, 2013
AA Forum User wrote:
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Don't flatter yourself. We all know you all are busy slinging your drugs and dodging police but that's not the topic of this conversation.
Nope, I'm an educated brotha. Great career and like other brotha's like myself, have so many options in women that you BW are not even an option for me.
Gotta Stop You There

Austin, TX

#19 Nov 19, 2013
complete a task wrote:
I agree with your thread but only to a certain extent I do. I know that you are a great and wise person somewhere deep inside but first I'm going to tell the truth but then would also love to address the ignorance in your thread so please you nor no one else should get offended by this. I understand where you're coming from. I know and understand the struggle you go through with >>African American<< men. my advice and opinions about many African American women is only going to be ignored if I include what kind of struggle some men have to go through with some >>African American<< women. I know not many women on here will feel or understand where I come from so I'm not even gonna get on that subject at all.
I know that many >>African American<< men has no idea how to treat women. I have seen this with my own eyes. many African American men doesn't only mistreat and misbehave towards African American women but they do it to black women (all women) and sometimes even more and sometimes some of them tend to treat them better than African American women. come to think of it most African Americans tends to mistreat African men and women African American women mistreat Africans too. my whole point is why do so many African Americans blame and point fingers at all blacks (world wide) when many of them straight up hate Africans period just because most Africans are dark skin? that don't make sense at all because every time a African comes to America both African American men and women mistreat and start drama with Africans for no good reason at all.
the saddest part about it is African Americans turn right back around and point fingers and blame them for stuff they had nothing at all to do with. like this thread here that you made you have just said the whole entire race of black men are this and that when African men has nothing to do with the problems which you are putting out about black men.
African Americans always do that and that is straight ignorance. I'm sorry and I do apologize if I offended you but I'm just calling it like it is.
Gotta stop you there. I'm not exactly on the Black American bandwagon I know a lot of black American's who treat Africans like crap. But as someone of direct African descent I can say that Africans don't regard black American's any better. I spent the better part of my life listening to my father bash black American's left and right. I don't know what would be worse to him, me marrying a white guy or me marrying a black American guy. In fact I think either would be a great disappointment.
complete a task

United States

#21 Nov 19, 2013
Oh yeah another thing if you're going to give positive information about white people then why do it on a African American forum and bash all black people just to make black people feel down including the blacks world wide who has nothing to do with the struggles you go through with a certain group of people? Why not just date white people and be through with it?

did you know when you do stuff like that you loses trust by the black people who knows what it takes to make a black women/men happy in a relationship? that means they wouldn't wanna be around you or trust you because they would think that you're more on white people side and making them happy than making black people happy.

I mean look at it this way

you're throwing insults at innocent black people world wide, you're promoting nothing but hate between black genders world wide and you're making it seem like you wanna do more harm towards good blacks world wide than good, so you tell me who in their right mind would wanna trust you or give anything at all about you? you're attacking all Africans from the enemy side. smh

as for me I will always respect you because of the fact that you're a black women, but I can't say that you could ever be trusted.

I tried to explain this as respectful and calm as I could so I'm hoping for a more better and positive turn out from it, good luck!!!
AA Forum User

Austin, TX

#22 Nov 19, 2013
complete a task wrote:
that means they wouldn't wanna be around you or trust you because they would think that you're more on white people side and making them happy than making black people happy.
That's a shame you think BP are that stupid......oh wait you're 17 right? Never mind that's probably how people your age think anyway.

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