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Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2177 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Sorry but we don't live in that kind of a world. Studies will show that the media influence how we think and react in almost every possibly area. Why do you think many stereotypes are still around and thriving even after many have been proven to be untrue or outdated? Why do you think the majority of black men whether they are successful or not are still judged harshly by the majority of society? Why are black men dressed in nice suit and tie, driving their expensive cars automatically profiled as drug dealings or pulled over by cops far more than nonblack men in the exact same situation? Hell white men and Asian men can be dressed like bums and on foot and still be seen as more positive and trust-worthy than black men are. Why do you think that is? In many cases racism (which is hating someone because of their race) may has nothing to do with it. What is causing these peoples beliefs are the continual negative images and cases of some black male losers that projected through the media that affects even the decent black men also.
Capree

Many of the stereotypes that I see on Black men are true for the most part; not all but MOST Balck men!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2178 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Some of us as black people need to learn to extend our brains just a little to examine what is really behind what some white people are saying or doing and stop taking everything white people or the white media says as face value. This the main reason why black men as a whole are still at the bottom after almost 150 years of freedom. To combat this many black men will bring up black athletes or rappers that make up only a tiny percentage of the millions of black men low or no-come black men out here struggling or who are in prison to represent them which is totally ridiculous, lol. Even most of the few black men who make it as athletes and rappers usually fall back obscurity or prison after making lots of money for their white male handlers and assorted white women who were only with them for the money from the get go. Dennis Rodman, Daryl Strawberry, OJ, the late Rick James,Chad Johnson who now makes only 3k monthly but owe out 16k a month in child support to his 4 kids by 3 babymamas and this is just to name a few black men who had it and lost it. Some white men and women count on black people being to ignorant to see what is behind their agenda.
Capree

Black men are at the bottom because they chose to "Chase Ass" rather than to get education. The area where I live is one of the most educated areas in the US. Most Black men don't pursue education including younger Black males where 65% of them don't even get a HS diploma.

Most Black men look to work but they want to "Live off women". Almost EVERY single Black woman that I know if she's with a Black males she is the breadwinner he has several OOW kids.

I was suprised, I heard yesterday one guy I know on my job has 3 kids by 3 different women! LMAO Obviously he abandoned his son and he was never a part of his life until recently! I hear these stories all the time. In some cases Black men have 4-5 kids and they try to hide the facts. They don't make much money and they normally live off a woman.

I can't do it and many other Black women are saying the samethings so things have changed quickly! lmao
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2179 Jun 19, 2013
Cassius Chaerea-Savant-Kip-AA Mech-MACEO wrote:
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Is Dr. Joseph Goebbels your example?
MACEO

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BLACK WOMEN LOOK OUT OF THESE THINGS AND KEEP MOVING!

Bw--Beware of what I fear to be the next wave of okey-dokes, which will appear to be innocent, even repenitent on the surface, but will actually simply be a devious attempt to get your attention, make you pause, and if they're lucky, you will stop moving on completely. LOL!

These okey-dokes will not be as obvious because you're being studied. If you read or hear anything that makes you, as an AA-bw, think that just maybe you need to be patient a while longer before you make a move to get away from the diseased black construct of AA bm who do nothing or just maybe certain portions of the9 black contruct AA bm who are trying to atone the race! This IS an okey-doke. Don't pause, don't argue, don't discuss, don't debate, and do NOT blab your plans. Just keep MOVING ON with them!

BLACK MEN ARE NOT CHANGING ANYTHING THEY WANT TO YOU ACCEPT NO RECEPROCITY AND CRUMBS WHILE THEY CHASE OTHER RACES AND DO FOR THEM!

KEEP MOVING BLACK WOMEN AND DON'T LISTEN TO NAYSAYERS! BLACK MEN WOULD HAVE DONE SOMETHING BY NOW!

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2180 Jun 19, 2013
KIP wrote:
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Capree, I WORK in the media!
I've been working in advertising for 10+ years. How silly do you sound now? Everything from catalogs that get you to buy clothes to animated web graphics and film. I've had my hands on it. I've worked at Macy's, Levis, GAP and some smaller entities. Where the hell have YOU been all your life? What have YOU done aside from sit on the outside and gossip about celebrities 24/7? Black men this, white men that, blah, blah, blah. You're ALWAYS talking about other people, but seem to understand so little. The meetings where they discuss advertising stategies and goals have very little to do with what you are imagining. I know, because I've been at them.
People might react to anything negatively. People don't usually react to me negatively. I don't put out those kind of vibes. I'm not saying everything has always been perfect, but for the most part I COMMAND how people treat me. There is a way of disarming people when you live a certain way and emanate a certain set of values. It really has nothing to do with what the media puts out.
As much as you complain about the media and negative stereotypes, you need to understand that you are part of the machine. You are here and on many places within Topix talking and spreading the same line of drivel about black men while perpetuating your own stereotype. Yet, you complain about the media. You sound like Alice in a strange kind of Wonderland of her own making. I'm not trying to ridicule you here, but much of what you talk about are things you create yourself, but can be responsible toward. Have you ever heard of that concept? Self responsibility?
Capree, life is too short to be jumping through hoops, dipping, and dodging from every perceived notion of someone's stereotype. I've been too busy living and enjoying life. People like me are usually occupied, so you probably wouldn't understand. Much of what you appear to do is live on the outside looking in on the lives of celebrities and people in the tabloid media. When someone from real life speaks up you get thrown for a loop.
Turn off the TV, unplug the internet, put the tabloids away, and go LIVE for change. Do your part instead of gossiping endlessly over nothing.
Kip that's an impressive career and I hope you keep it up but that doesn't change things. Enjoy your life, I sure love enjoying mine but I also realize that I don't live on an island by myself and realize that I need to know what is going on around me and be ready to protect myself and mine. Sorry but you can't live in your dream world 24/7.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2181 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Thank you. Exactly and some people need to realize this.
Capree

I don''t think you can totally blame the media. Because if that's the case why why didn't Black women blame Black men for abandoning them? I mean its like many Black males like MACEO wouldn't even do for their own family but they sure did for White people to make themselves look good!

Ive always seen the backwards behaviors of Black males but its only been since recently where many Black women have been blaming Black men where the blame belongs!

Losers blame the media! MACEO blame the media or White males for his love and devotion towards White women but if the media is to blame; White men are superior to Black males in most programs so why do Black women see White men as just men why Black men are obsessed and worship White women and blame White men for it?

I think Black men are simply Losers with low intelligence! Or black men simply can't think for themselves pass their Dycks!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2182 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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The child may represent my child being biracial but no that family on the Cherrios commercial in doesn't represent my family to me. I think that BM/WW and WM/BW couples are too different to represent one another. I don't a white woman with a black husband seeing a black wife with a white husband and immediately identifying with them.
Capree

I'm hearing many College Educated Black women are now marrying/dating White males in college. Their Fathers are most definitely angry but they tell their Fathers off for not being there and saying "Whtie men are Evil" when it was their Black fathers who did nothing for them1

Now their Fathers are ashamed of their lives and their Daughters are with white males! The Daughters even talk about how Black men chased Whtie women for decades while not doing for Black families so they don't feel a sense of loyalty to any Black men!

FACTS IS: Black men don't do for Black women and chidlren they USE THEM while looking out for themselves!

Black men are destroying themselves it has nothing to do with the media! Otherwise, why isn't everybody killing everybody?

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2184 Jun 19, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Many of the stereotypes that I see on Black men are true for the most part; not all but MOST Balck men!
True and stupid loser black men continually give the media to report that only supports the negative imagine of all black men. but I was talking about the small segment of black men who are decent and educated. These type of black men would rather live in a make believe world face that they are being judge by the actions of all their thuggish brothers.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2185 Jun 19, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Black men are at the bottom because they chose to "Chase Ass" rather than to get education. The area where I live is one of the most educated areas in the US. Most Black men don't pursue education including younger Black males where 65% of them don't even get a HS diploma.
Most Black men look to work but they want to "Live off women". Almost EVERY single Black woman that I know if she's with a Black males she is the breadwinner he has several OOW kids.
I was suprised, I heard yesterday one guy I know on my job has 3 kids by 3 different women! LMAO Obviously he abandoned his son and he was never a part of his life until recently! I hear these stories all the time. In some cases Black men have 4-5 kids and they try to hide the facts. They don't make much money and they normally live off a woman.
I can't do it and many other Black women are saying the samethings so things have changed quickly! lmao
Co-sign!
KingsloveQueens

San Francisco, CA

#2186 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
Co-sign!
Your practically running neck and neck for dumbmest Cracker on topix with Aisling or whatever that person name is..but count on my backing and vote Capree you deserve the title that's for sure lol (= Vote for Capree every body she deserves it more than anyone else lol
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2187 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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I am afraid Kip like several black men are just too ignorant to fully understand the purpose of the media and how it helps to form public opinion. Some of these black men just go around not wanting to know and ignoring how the media machine works or how to contest it. It's just seems too hard for them. So when other people react to black men negatively from what the media has put out about black men, it's simply easier for these black men to blame the individuals and pull the race card.
Capree

Nah, why aren't they impressing other to commit crimes, kill, molest and murder? I see a lot of things on TV that I've never thought about doing.

[QUOTE who="MACEO""]Ca ssius Chaerea wrote:
<quoted text>
I absolutely agree. Very good and meaningful post. The media portrays things as good and bad and low and behold, the mindset of the culture shifts that way. The media is a propaganda machine that molds impressionable minds and therefore a cultures beliefs.

[/QUOTE] Its up to you to monitor what you watch! Funny the media doesn't show Black women attending college at all. Actually the media shows things how it really is and misses quite a bit. They show the dumb decisions that Black men make and how they look foolish and their lifestyle.

The media shows Black men as losers, Obsessed with White women, don't take care of your families, chase ASS all the time and talking about your Dycks and not getting any education!

You fit the media image!

You made that choice nobody put a gun to your head on hating Black women while you worship white women!
Big knob

United States

#2188 Jun 19, 2013
Cherrios vs scandal part ll brothers if you look closely at this cherrios commercial, notice wm were outraged by it, but not by scanadal, and thats the same mentality of bw, why, they understand the power of the media alot of you brothers dont, but I do, see bw are promoting in a sneaky way for themselves, what they accuse bm of doing, which is I/R thats they love scandal, but hate this cherrios commercial bw,wm went off, but scandal no problem, goal use the media to promote Ir for bw, not bm. Schools out
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2189 Jun 19, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>Your practically running neck and neck for dumbmest Cracker on topix with Aisling or whatever that person name is..but count on my backing and vote Capree you deserve the title that's for sure lol (= Vote for Capree every body she deserves it more than anyone else lol
MACEO

Read this:

Its WAR between BM and BW

I’m thankful to see that the BWE movement has achieved lasting victory after only a few short years:

The core BWE message that Black women who are serious about marriage must expand their dating options to include nonblack men has firmly entered the mainstream. One can see this with the conversations and publicity surrounding Ralph Richard Banks’ book Is Marriage For White People?
A critical mass of African-American women have heard the BWE message, and have MOVED ON into enjoying abundant life in the global village. They’ve stopped restricting themselves to the dead Black community and vampiric all-Black social circles. They’ve stopped hindering their marriage options by refusing to speak or engage in the “nothing but a Black man” self-sabotage.
As time goes by, the ongoing success of the BWE message is why you’ll continue to see a number of BWE bloggers do various things. Some will continue to have their blogs serve as lighthouses helping other Black women find the path to abundant life. Some will retire from blogging altogether (as I have). Some will start using other types of venues for their discussions. Some others will use their blogs to focus on a wider range of topics (that go beyond issues that primarily affect Black women).

Unlike traditional African-American civil rights organizations that go on forever because their goals are never accomplished, the BWE social justice movement has accomplished its primary goals. BWE was designed to provide solid analysis and concrete solutions to help Black women MOVE ON into joyous living. This has happened. The tools for escape have been provided. As they hear the BWE message, those Black women who sincerely want abundant life have been quietly MOVING ON.

This quiet and growing exodus of sensible African-American women has not gone totally unnoticed. There’s a YouTube video in which a frightened Black man asks the question,“Are Black Women Becoming Like Asian Women?”(in terms of dating and marrying White men). In terms of sensible Black women, the short answer is YES. As this worried Black male has noticed, increasing numbers of quality, desirable Black women are leaving the toxic all-Black dating market and have MOVED ON.

The victory of the BWE social justice movement will prove to be a lasting one because it’s sustained and enhanced by the ripple effects created by every African-American woman who finds joyous life in the outside world.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2190 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
True and stupid loser black men continually give the media to report that only supports the negative imagine of all black men. but I was talking about the small segment of black men who are decent and educated. These type of black men would rather live in a make believe world face that they are being judge by the actions of all their thuggish brothers.
Capree

I see a few Black men who are decent but not many! Most black men are so far down the food chain that they're always trying to get over on women. Get over must be birth in Black males at birth; there trifling!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2191 Jun 19, 2013
MACEO

Read this:

Its WAR between BM and BW

I’m thankful to see that the BWE movement has achieved lasting victory after only a few short years:

The core BWE message that Black women who are serious about marriage must expand their dating options to include nonblack men has firmly entered the mainstream. One can see this with the conversations and publicity surrounding Ralph Richard Banks’ book Is Marriage For White People?
A critical mass of African-American women have heard the BWE message, and have MOVED ON into enjoying abundant life in the global village. They’ve stopped restricting themselves to the dead Black community and vampiric all-Black social circles. They’ve stopped hindering their marriage options by refusing to speak or engage in the “nothing but a Black man” self-sabotage.
As time goes by, the ongoing success of the BWE message is why you’ll continue to see a number of BWE bloggers do various things. Some will continue to have their blogs serve as lighthouses helping other Black women find the path to abundant life. Some will retire from blogging altogether (as I have). Some will start using other types of venues for their discussions. Some others will use their blogs to focus on a wider range of topics (that go beyond issues that primarily affect Black women).

Unlike traditional African-American civil rights organizations that go on forever because their goals are never accomplished, the BWE social justice movement has accomplished its primary goals. BWE was designed to provide solid analysis and concrete solutions to help Black women MOVE ON into joyous living. This has happened. The tools for escape have been provided. As they hear the BWE message, those Black women who sincerely want abundant life have been quietly MOVING ON.

This quiet and growing exodus of sensible African-American women has not gone totally unnoticed. There’s a YouTube video in which a frightened Black man asks the question,“Are Black Women Becoming Like Asian Women?”(in terms of dating and marrying White men). In terms of sensible Black women, the short answer is YES. As this worried Black male has noticed, increasing numbers of quality, desirable Black women are leaving the toxic all-Black dating market and have MOVED ON.

The victory of the BWE social justice movement will prove to be a lasting one because it’s sustained and enhanced by the ripple effects created by every African-American woman who finds joyous life in the outside world.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2192 Jun 19, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>Your practically running neck and neck for dumbmest Cracker on topix with Aisling or whatever that person name is..but count on my backing and vote Capree you deserve the title that's for sure lol (= Vote for Capree every body she deserves it more than anyone else lol
Dumb ASS MACEO

MACEO

Read this:

Its WAR between BM and BW

I’m thankful to see that the BWE movement has achieved lasting victory after only a few short years:

The core BWE message that Black women who are serious about marriage must expand their dating options to include nonblack men has firmly entered the mainstream. One can see this with the conversations and publicity surrounding Ralph Richard Banks’ book Is Marriage For White People?
A critical mass of African-American women have heard the BWE message, and have MOVED ON into enjoying abundant life in the global village. They’ve stopped restricting themselves to the dead Black community and vampiric all-Black social circles. They’ve stopped hindering their marriage options by refusing to speak or engage in the “nothing but a Black man” self-sabotage.
As time goes by, the ongoing success of the BWE message is why you’ll continue to see a number of BWE bloggers do various things. Some will continue to have their blogs serve as lighthouses helping other Black women find the path to abundant life. Some will retire from blogging altogether (as I have). Some will start using other types of venues for their discussions. Some others will use their blogs to focus on a wider range of topics (that go beyond issues that primarily affect Black women).

Unlike traditional African-American civil rights organizations that go on forever because their goals are never accomplished, the BWE social justice movement has accomplished its primary goals. BWE was designed to provide solid analysis and concrete solutions to help Black women MOVE ON into joyous living. This has happened. The tools for escape have been provided. As they hear the BWE message, those Black women who sincerely want abundant life have been quietly MOVING ON.

This quiet and growing exodus of sensible African-American women has not gone totally unnoticed. There’s a YouTube video in which a frightened Black man asks the question,“Are Black Women Becoming Like Asian Women?”(in terms of dating and marrying White men). In terms of sensible Black women, the short answer is YES. As this worried Black male has noticed, increasing numbers of quality, desirable Black women are leaving the toxic all-Black dating market and have MOVED ON.

The victory of the BWE social justice movement will prove to be a lasting one because it’s sustained and enhanced by the ripple effects created by every African-American woman who finds joyous life in the outside world.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2193 Jun 19, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
I see a few Black men who are decent but not many! Most black men are so far down the food chain that they're always trying to get over on women. Get over must be birth in Black males at birth; there trifling!
True!

“The Love Below”

Level 8

Since: Apr 10

ATL

#2195 Jun 20, 2013
rien a foutre wrote:
Capree stop cry ^^
http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m248/gypsy...
you are ugly it why you are alone XD
LOL!!! How did you find that picture???
Sadbutttrue-hd

Chantilly, VA

#2196 Jun 20, 2013
65
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
Kip that's an impressive career and I hope you keep it up but that doesn't change things. Enjoy your life, I sure love enjoying mine but I also realize that I don't live on an island by myself and realize that I need to know what is going on around me and be ready to protect myself and mine. Sorry but you can't live in your dream world 24/7.
Capree

MACEO aka Kip is a liar he's a Marginal worker that got Demoted at a Telecom company in Virginia! LMAO

Mainly because he was too busy chasing White women while married to a White woman rather than getting his education or certifications as well as folks had no respect for the lack of leadership skills
Sadbutttrue

Chantilly, VA

#2197 Jun 20, 2013
Maceo's Profile

Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Black men Hating Black women

I recently came across a book written by a self-described “touring stand-up comedian, day trader, filmmaker and lecturer” named Rajen Persaud. The book is entitled “Why Black Men Love White Women.” I found the book’s title startling, primarily because it explicitly acknowledged a fact of which many in the black community are acutely aware, but that is rarely openly discussed: that black men love white women

While many black men actively express love, admiration, and desire for white women, that loving white women is an inherent part of black manhood in the West is not something that black men like to openly admit. Their adoration of white women is an uncomfortable fact for many black men to face, since this love seems to play neatly into stereotypes about uncontrollable “animal” lust for white flesh that black people, especially black women, have actively campaigned against Additionally, and perhaps more significantly, black men are deeply uncomfortable with the conundrum presented by loving the daughter, the sister, the very womb that produces their declared enemy. Even Persaud seems incapable of facing the centrality of this latter issue, since, despite his refreshing candor in his book, its gravamen has as much to do with hatred for black women as it does love for white women.; “Black Women are Gold Diggers”; “Sisters Have an Attitude”), facing the significance and practical implications of their love of whiteness is difficult for many black men. Instead, these emotions are channeled into loathing of black women, which is justified by cataloging black women’s myriad “shortcomings.” This allows black men to claim to be proud and self-loving, while simultaneously adoring and esteeming all things white.

Mr. Persaud begins his book with the contention that any exploration of black male love for white women must begin “with the white man.” This is a common-place tactic; it is difficult for black men in the West to begin any discussion or critical analysis of any issue without circling back to white men, especially if the resulting discourse will be less than flattering to black men.

Whether denominated as racio-misogyny or not, the root of black male hatred of black women is the conceptualization of women as objects. Objects have relative value, and in the hierarchy

When black men look at black women and children, they see the shame of emasculation, of inadequacy, of the inability to protect and provide. And rather than being enraged and inspired by this experience of being unmanned to fight for their dependents, black men seek to escape them, and the pain of feeling like less than men. rather than confronting white men they hate; black males take their abuses and rage out on their women and children allowing them to go without.

White women, on the other hand, have the highest value as objects. They feel like they accomplish so much marrying a white woman while they put black women down. To men who feel like nothing, a white or white-skinned woman is a tangible accomplishment. It immediately frees them from the burden of blackness. In the words; “By loving me she [his white woman] proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man. I marry the culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.” White women are the prize, and black men are eagerly claiming that prize after the exhausting struggles for manumission and Civil Rights. They may not have gained real access to equal work, equal pay, equal wealth or equal opportunity; but black men have gained access to the bodies of white women. In the face of so many losses, possessing a white or non-black woman feels like a sufficient win for many black men

Well black boys and young black men pay the greatest price for the neglect and escapism of their fathers.
Sadbutttrue

Chantilly, VA

#2198 Jun 20, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
<quoted text>Your practically running neck and neck for dumbmest Cracker on topix with Aisling or whatever that person name is..but count on my backing and vote Capree you deserve the title that's for sure lol (= Vote for Capree every body she deserves it more than anyone else lol
Maceo

Your the 60 year old with 500 profiles and "Aisling" is one of your profiles MACEO. You get angry because I expose your life on Topix and others read it and say its "Brutally true"!

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