KIP

San Francisco, CA

#2147 Jun 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
It makes perfect sense. You underscore everything far to much. Do you understand that many people's way of thinking and some decisions are affected by what the media puts out.
Who cares what the media puts out? It's mostly advertising anyway.

Most sensible people think for themselves and make choices based on their own set of circumstances.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#2148 Jun 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
The child may represent my child being biracial but no that family on the Cherrios commercial in doesn't represent my family to me. I think that BM/WW and WM/BW couples are too different to represent one another. I don't a white woman with a black husband seeing a black wife with a white husband and immediately identifying with them.
"I think that BM/WW and WM/BW couples are too different to represent one another. "

Do you REALLY go through life thinking this way about people before actually meeting them?
Do you think it's fair?
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#2150 Jun 18, 2013
Cassius Chaerea wrote:
<quoted text>
I absolutely agree. Very good and meaningful post. The media portrays things as good and bad and low and behold, the mindset of the culture shifts that way. The media is a propaganda machine that molds impressionable minds and therefore a cultures beliefs.
Blah, blah, blah!

The media does nothing more than REFLECT real life. If you don't like what you see, then turn off the TV and put down the computer and smart phone. Just because everything doesn't reflect your angry white male perspective doesn't mean it's propaganda.
KIP

San Francisco, CA

#2151 Jun 18, 2013
I'm so sick of people complaining about the government, the media, the liberals, the universities -- EVERYTHING but themselves is at fault for their own misery. If that's the case then UNPLUG for a change, but we know you can't do that, because you cannot help but return to the African American Forum over and over again and again. For what? So you can continue to feed and empower this "propaganda machine" that you say is the cause of your problems. It's as if you contribute to your own self-made hell.

Oh the irony!
Coonta Kentaye

Jackson, MS

#2152 Jun 18, 2013
Nigguhs don't eat Cheerios
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2154 Jun 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
That is what happens to many black men.
Capree

Yes, I see lot of men by themselves especially when their older. Even if they have a few pennies; nobody wants to bother with an Old Poor Unhealthy Older Black men unless he's willing to pay for a woman!

In most cases when the Black man gets sick they abandon him for Dead and they take their materials things and move keep seeking men their own age! LMAO

If a woman doesn't have a history with a man then they don't stick around or bother! Black men are too stupid to realize that reality of what happens!

Maceo is in for a nice surprise! lmao
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2155 Jun 18, 2013
Bitter Black Men Bitching Because Billionaires Love Black Women
I'm thanking you for visiting Black Women With Other Brothers Facebook as I laugh at the catty childish bitterness coming from too many Black men about the statement Billionaires love Black women.

***Attention. I am a Black woman you fool. LOL. Yes, BW think this way!!***

(This post is very popular with BM and they're typing their little fingers off LOL! Of course I don't publish their nonsense but they write the same laughably weak crap. Go read this to see how I deal with BM trolls.)

Norton Anti Virus creator with his wife.
Why the hell should Jerome Washington get mad about BW getting married to billionaires or anybody since he, by choice, is the most unmarried man in America! Very few BM marry. Hmm! I thought that everybody wants a BM?

Why are so many BM single? But still have bareback sex, procreate then abandon their children? THAT is the billion dollar question! Oh, right... the slavemaster made him do it! LOL!!

Stop and think for a moment. Shouldn't Bitter Black Men Bitching (BBMB) rejoice when Other Brothers step up with BW to the matrimonial plate? After all, nobody wants a BW or so many BBMB would want you to believe, but first... meet Janet Jackson's hottie Arab husband-to-be! Net worth, 4.5 BILLION.

Sisters! Is he handsome or what? Being rich is the icing on the cake. Janet Jackson has been through alot with the untimely death of her beloved brother and I'm sure that Wissam is giving her all the love and comfort she deserves!

Miss Jackson prefers a loving man who appreciates her. Go towards the love, BW!
Now let's address this pink elephant in the room, shall we? Normal men don't take to the airwaves like psychotic schoolgirls, bashing the women of his clan. Obviously BBMB are suffering from shitload of psychological problems and a BW isn't a damn one of them.

Stop! Here in The United States Of America, Asian women swirl marry upwards 50 percent. You read that right. What do Asian men do about it? Make songs, blogs and videos about how much he hates her and how ugly she is? Infest the interwebs like cracked out cockroaches spreading vileness about the women of his clan?

NO. Asian men handle their business quietly LIKE A MAN. But then again, Asian men are family men their daddy taught them how to behave and sooo... we're back to the the root of the problem, the Black father or lack of. WHY do BM get passes from fatherhood? They make babies but do not raise them and their crazyass sons are proof.

I digress!

Jerome Wilson is just your typical, extra-average nutty hypocrite!
Out of the few Black American men who do marry, 25 percent of you swirl marry (YES. Google that), yet you bodacious hypocrites make it your business to diss BW everywhere from music to Youtube videos, Facebook and blogs.

Follow the logic people. Why do so many BM want BW to be unloved and hated? Cause he is clearly jealous, crazy (I'll keep saying it!) and too cowardly to place blame on the appropriate people, mainly his (lack of a) Dad and... himself!

BBMB never want talk about the ultra violent urban war zones of Chicago, Detroit and Oakland, stomping grounds of fatherless BBMB - when BW with billionaires are such easy targets for them! Besides, you know how dumb billionaires are! They have no sense cause they love BW.

Quick, Jerome Washington! Name me one non Black billionaire female married to a Black American man.

I'll wait!

The answer is zero minus zero times zero plus zero equals zero!

I guess billionaires aren't so dumb, after all.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2157 Jun 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
That is what happens to many black men.
Capree

Big Changes in 2013, Black women are moving on even if Black men don''t like it.

It will be interesting because not only do Black women have the wealth but they also have the education; so that decreases Black women from dating Black men as well as the Wealth/Education that Black women achieve will be taken to other races of men which are White males 89% of the time!

Most Black women don't date Africans or other races they date/marry White males if there from the State!

Nobody is listening to Black men's whines or bitterness Black women are moving on to date/marry White males!

The Younger Black women in college are doing to all the time now! I hear these Black Fathers complaining but there the same Black men who did nothing for their daughters so these young Smart woman don't want to hear the complain especially when Black men do nothing for Black women and children.

Facts are that Black women want to marry and he doesn't have to be a Black man. Most Black men don't have any education and older as well as younger Black women don't feel a need to take care of Black man who offer no reciprocity to Black women and children so why stick around?

Most Black women are moving on!

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#2158 Jun 18, 2013
KIP wrote:
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Who cares what the media puts out? It's mostly advertising anyway.
Most sensible people think for themselves and make choices based on their own set of circumstances.
Sorry but we don't live in that kind of a world. Studies will show that the media influence how we think and react in almost every possibly area. Why do you think many stereotypes are still around and thriving even after many have been proven to be untrue or outdated? Why do you think the majority of black men whether they are successful or not are still judged harshly by the majority of society? Why are black men dressed in nice suit and tie, driving their expensive cars automatically profiled as drug dealings or pulled over by cops far more than nonblack men in the exact same situation? Hell white men and Asian men can be dressed like bums and on foot and still be seen as more positive and trust-worthy than black men are. Why do you think that is? In many cases racism (which is hating someone because of their race) may has nothing to do with it. What is causing these peoples beliefs are the continual negative images and cases of some black male losers that projected through the media that affects even the decent black men also.

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#2159 Jun 18, 2013
KIP wrote:
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Who cares what the media puts out? It's mostly advertising anyway.
Most sensible people think for themselves and make choices based on their own set of circumstances.
Some of us as black people need to learn to extend our brains just a little to examine what is really behind what some white people are saying or doing and stop taking everything white people or the white media says as face value. This the main reason why black men as a whole are still at the bottom after almost 150 years of freedom. To combat this many black men will bring up black athletes or rappers that make up only a tiny percentage of the millions of black men low or no-come black men out here struggling or who are in prison to represent them which is totally ridiculous, lol. Even most of the few black men who make it as athletes and rappers usually fall back obscurity or prison after making lots of money for their white male handlers and assorted white women who were only with them for the money from the get go. Dennis Rodman, Daryl Strawberry, OJ, the late Rick James,Chad Johnson who now makes only 3k monthly but owe out 16k a month in child support to his 4 kids by 3 babymamas and this is just to name a few black men who had it and lost it. Some white men and women count on black people being to ignorant to see what is behind their agenda.

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2160 Jun 18, 2013
KIP wrote:
<quoted text>
"I think that BM/WW and WM/BW couples are too different to represent one another. "
Do you REALLY go through life thinking this way about people before actually meeting them?
Do you think it's fair?
You obviously just don't get it in your dream world of where every thing is honest, just and non-judgmental.

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2161 Jun 18, 2013
Cassius Chaerea wrote:
<quoted text>
I absolutely agree. Very good and meaningful post. The media portrays things as good and bad and low and behold, the mindset of the culture shifts that way. The media is a propaganda machine that molds impressionable minds and therefore a cultures beliefs.
Thank you. Exactly and some people need to realize this.

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2162 Jun 18, 2013
Cassius Chaerea wrote:
<quoted text>
I absolutely agree. Very good and meaningful post. The media portrays things as good and bad and low and behold, the mindset of the culture shifts that way. The media is a propaganda machine that molds impressionable minds and therefore a cultures beliefs.
I am afraid Kip like several black men are just too ignorant to fully understand the purpose of the media and how it helps to form public opinion. Some of these black men just go around not wanting to know and ignoring how the media machine works or how to contest it. It's just seems too hard for them. So when other people react to black men negatively from what the media has put out about black men, it's simply easier for these black men to blame the individuals and pull the race card.

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2163 Jun 18, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Yes, I see lot of men by themselves especially when their older. Even if they have a few pennies; nobody wants to bother with an Old Poor Unhealthy Older Black men unless he's willing to pay for a woman!
In most cases when the Black man gets sick they abandon him for Dead and they take their materials things and move keep seeking men their own age! LMAO
If a woman doesn't have a history with a man then they don't stick around or bother! Black men are too stupid to realize that reality of what happens!
Maceo is in for a nice surprise! lmao
Yep and sorry to say this but the black men who have done nothing but think of themselves and chased puzzi all their lives at the expense of their children and the many good women who were there for them but who these black men only used, abused and abandoned, I kinda think it's a type of poetic justice that these kind of black men when they get old are used by younger women then abandoned to live what life they have left, alone.

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Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2164 Jun 18, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Big Changes in 2013, Black women are moving on even if Black men don''t like it.
It will be interesting because not only do Black women have the wealth but they also have the education; so that decreases Black women from dating Black men as well as the Wealth/Education that Black women achieve will be taken to other races of men which are White males 89% of the time!
Most Black women don't date Africans or other races they date/marry White males if there from the State!
Nobody is listening to Black men's whines or bitterness Black women are moving on to date/marry White males!
The Younger Black women in college are doing to all the time now! I hear these Black Fathers complaining but there the same Black men who did nothing for their daughters so these young Smart woman don't want to hear the complain especially when Black men do nothing for Black women and children.
Facts are that Black women want to marry and he doesn't have to be a Black man. Most Black men don't have any education and older as well as younger Black women don't feel a need to take care of Black man who offer no reciprocity to Black women and children so why stick around?
Most Black women are moving on!
True more and more black women are setting their standards higher than what most black men are about.

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#2165 Jun 18, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
Bitter Black Men Bitching Because Billionaires Love Black Women
I'm thanking you for visiting Black Women With Other Brothers Facebook as I laugh at the catty childish bitterness coming from too many Black men about the statement Billionaires love Black women.
***Attention. I am a Black woman you fool. LOL. Yes, BW think this way!!***
(This post is very popular with BM and they're typing their little fingers off LOL! Of course I don't publish their nonsense but they write the same laughably weak crap. Go read this to see how I deal with BM trolls.)
Norton Anti Virus creator with his wife.
Why the hell should Jerome Washington get mad about BW getting married to billionaires or anybody since he, by choice, is the most unmarried man in America! Very few BM marry. Hmm! I thought that everybody wants a BM?
Why are so many BM single? But still have bareback sex, procreate then abandon their children? THAT is the billion dollar question! Oh, right... the slavemaster made him do it! LOL!!
Stop and think for a moment. Shouldn't Bitter Black Men Bitching (BBMB) rejoice when Other Brothers step up with BW to the matrimonial plate? After all, nobody wants a BW or so many BBMB would want you to believe, but first... meet Janet Jackson's hottie Arab husband-to-be! Net worth, 4.5 BILLION.
Sisters! Is he handsome or what? Being rich is the icing on the cake. Janet Jackson has been through alot with the untimely death of her beloved brother and I'm sure that Wissam is giving her all the love and comfort she deserves!
Miss Jackson prefers a loving man who appreciates her. Go towards the love, BW!
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Janet Jackson, Kerry Washington, Eve, Gangsta Boo, Asiaha Tyler, Afre Woodard, Halle Berry, Lil Kim, Zoe Saldana, Sanaa Lathan and now Tyra Banks. All of these successful black women who could be with anyone, are doing everything but screaming to show average black women that dating/marrying ir is a great opinion for black women. All of these black women have dropped black men and except for Janet's one time mistake has never gone back to black men. Recently Wendy Williams showed a picture of Tyra and her new boyfriend who she is keeping under wraps for now.

http://cdn.necolebitchie.com/wp-content/uploa...

http://bossip.com/789899/swirl-keeps-on-winni...
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2166 Jun 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>
True more and more black women are setting their standards higher than what most black men are about.
Capree

I just saw Tyra Banks featured with her White male date who's extremely successful! I love that Black women are practicing hegemony in their dating practices!

Nothing wrong with Marrying up! lmao

“Yes WE Can! Yes we Will!”

Level 8

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Md.

#2167 Jun 19, 2013
Big knob wrote:
<quoted text>a freaking dork dude, valley boy you sound like wally cleaver, hey wally wheres the beav
LOL! I don't agree with everything you're saying. But the bit about Wally Cleaver and "where's the Beav?" is hilarious.

Now, that I'm through laughing: Where did YOU see the clip of some Black woman allgedly dumping her kid in order to fight another Black woman"
Where did you get the info about a Black female officer going to jail for sexing a white racist in custody?
What's the source of all that?
It seems that you're trying to reply to SadbutTrue, tit-for-tat.
I used to reply to her more often when it seemed that you showed at least a semblance of REASON, and would even try (not always successfully)to make rational arguments.
Let me just say that anyone can malign Black women or men by seeking out anything negative they can find, cherry picking statistics or articles that support their preconceived notions, and (naturally) disregarding any information that speaks evidence CONTRARY to their negative views.
But no matter how many cherry picked statistics anyone dredges up against black women or men, no matter how many horror stories and alleged "personal experiences" people appeal to to justify their collective ---and esentially racist slander--such sweeping generalizations about either my sisters or my brothers are simply bogus.
Hence, I don't make sweeping negative evaluations of Black women as a group, not even in reply to negative collective evaluations of Black men by SBT or others. I won't LOWER myself to that level.
So while I perceive that SBT herself---and she's not the only one, though the most OBVIOUS in Topix-- has lost her marbles, I do not infer that Black women in general are psychologically unhinged.
One must be above that sort of thing, as I believe clear thinking sisters and brothers are.
Matt

Oklahoma City, OK

#2168 Jun 19, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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I see I didn't get an answer to my question.
Don't see anything wrong with wanting a woman to like sailing,fishing,hiking,travel, etc.or wanting a woman to be low maintenance with no drama,baggage,or things like weaves,watching a lot of TV. No bastard kids.
I prefer health minded and fit.
I don't want to get married.
Wanting them to own a passport and more than 4 weeks vacation a year and able to be flexible.
Knowing at least one foreign language and enjoy visiting exotic places,people,foods in other countries. I've been known to take an.extra two days vacation and go to Hong Kong for the weekend.
Stable career and can handle her own finances.
Knowing how to help me decorate my place better because I can't decorate worth crap.
Being there for each other.
Just spent five days sailing from Ft.lauderdale to Bimini and back and we had a great time.
Two weekends ago we flew on the Famous Memphis Bell and met Rosie the Riveter.
I take her to look at aircraft she takes me to the opera.
Plan to do some hiking around Lake Bled in September. Cooks in December.
She's wants to help me extend a French drain Saturday off my back patio then when we are done throw some fresh salmon steaks on the grill and watch some scifi. On Sunday maybe walk the jogging trail a few miles in the morning just sit together on the upper balcony and read a book during the afternoon.
Etc,etc,etc....
I can't be that demanding and unrealistic. Never had any issues.
Plenty of women out there.
Life is too short.
Don't have patience for nonsense.
Heck I will avoid a woman just for illegally parking in a handicap zone and I don't care how pretty or what color they are.
Nice post! I know many blacks like you and this is not your place.
Don't expect an answer. You're and some others are not the hood and ghetto type. you bring up interesting things i rarely see in this forum.Actually you seem a renaissance man and more of a kindred spirit with your woman.They will never see this side of life.this is where the dividing line is between two types of blacks. You and others on one side......,hood and ghetto on the other side.
Bitch and complain is all they know and they can't let go of the past and move on.

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#2169 Jun 19, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
I just saw Tyra Banks featured with her White male date who's extremely successful! I love that Black women are practicing hegemony in their dating practices!
Nothing wrong with Marrying up! lmao
Yep I think they make a nice couple. Just an observation, when sisters first started to really date out, the nonblack men mainly had to be darker Latinos, Greek or Southern Italian which some black women still find attractive but now black women are finding very fair skin blonde European looking men attractive also and are getting with them to. Well it's all good!

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