“BlackTantraGodde ss”

Since: Aug 07

Bay Area & Southern Cal

#473 Dec 10, 2008
Prttybrown wrote:
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I said Afro Puerto Ricans because I just have a obsession with dark skin lol but yea Ive some lighter one who are attractive too.
Like my baby!:-) They are beautiful, kinda, caring, sensual and sexy people. I cannot wait ti get back to the island.

“Making My MoM Proud!!!”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#474 Dec 10, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
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Why do u care, what I say? And you can't say seriously that what I have said is slanderous against black dudes. So, you are saying we don't have fatherhood issues in the black community, that most of our kids arent raised in single mother head of household homes, that more hetrosexual black women arent infected by HIV than anyone women by there black male partners and these are not the facts? Totally BS, check your facts! Attracts or attracting the problem at the source!
If black women do have higher rates of HIV. There is no proof that they are getting it from all black men or they are not getting it from non-black men. That is your OPINION. When you state it as a fact. That is your own negative Bias against black men. You really are going to have to learn the difference.
Also you seem to have selective memory on your attacks. You make is seem as if all you ever talk about is the plight of black women which is a LIE. That is a fact. You constantly try to promote an idea that white men are better lovers. Which there is no way in hell you could ever prove how each individual black women experiences sex. You try to insinuate that black men would never marry black women. You try to insinuate that black men don't care about black women at all. Those are all lies, and just your opinions.
Why are you being suck a phony. You know that I am telling the truth about you. When you try and act as if your all innocent. It makes it look even more like you are doing it out of spite.
Why do I care. Because this is a public forum, and unlike you I do care about black women. You spend your time making black women seem like sex fiends or white mens playthings. While at the same time bashing black men. If you have a problem with confronting your garbage. Don't post.
You could hide on one of your numerous IR hate blogs, and censor the comments. lol.

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#475 Dec 11, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
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Got try dating one! I was in Miami last month and its true about the papis! Attraction is very individual.
i thought you just had your honeymoon not too long ago. i remember congradulating you on your marraige. are you a swinger? don't answer that...lol. seriously don't.

well to each his or her own, darlin.

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#476 Dec 11, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
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Why do u care, what I say? And you can't say seriously that what I have said is slanderous against black dudes. So, you are saying we don't have fatherhood issues in the black community, that most of our kids arent raised in single mother head of household homes, that more hetrosexual black women arent infected by HIV than anyone women by there black male partners and these are not the facts? Totally BS, check your facts! Attracts or attracting the problem at the source!
i am sorry that the black men in your life have been one sorry abusive stereotype....but really, there are many many good brothas among many other types of men out there. there is good and bad in every race of men. why continually degrade your own race?

if you have sons, your children will still be identified as black. think about the words you currently use to describe black men. do you want your sons when they are of age to read the words u write now???

i take offense to the mudslingging because i do understand PR. and we as black people have more than enuff neg PR in the states. what you say neg about black men reflects doubly negative on the women who raise them. you may try to distance yourself from our race of men....but you still came from one.

i wish for you the loving supportive and amazing black men that have been and are now currently in my world. they exist. and there are way more than a few. noone is saying you have to marry one...lol. you are already married. and you know dear, you can be happily married to a white man and still love your race. and last time i checked, BM are part of our race.:o)

“BlackTantraGodde ss”

Since: Aug 07

Bay Area & Southern Cal

#478 Dec 11, 2008
oc creole lady in macau wrote:
<quoted text>i thought you just had your honeymoon not too long ago. i remember congradulating you on your marraige. are you a swinger? don't answer that...lol. seriously don't.
well to each his or her own, darlin.
How is China? A business associate from San Clemente and I were just talkin about your website. He is going over to Macau on a trade trip.

Girl, my man was with me in Miami. I was just looking, cannt a girl look!:-)

“BlackTantraGodde ss”

Since: Aug 07

Bay Area & Southern Cal

#479 Dec 11, 2008
oc creole lady in macau wrote:
<quoted text>i am sorry that the black men in your life have been one sorry abusive stereotype....but really, there are many many good brothas among many other types of men out there. there is good and bad in every race of men. why continually degrade your own race?
if you have sons, your children will still be identified as black. think about the words you currently use to describe black men. do you want your sons when they are of age to read the words u write now???
i take offense to the mudslingging because i do understand PR. and we as black people have more than enuff neg PR in the states. what you say neg about black men reflects doubly negative on the women who raise them. you may try to distance yourself from our race of men....but you still came from one.
i wish for you the loving supportive and amazing black men that have been and are now currently in my world. they exist. and there are way more than a few. noone is saying you have to marry one...lol. you are already married. and you know dear, you can be happily married to a white man and still love your race. and last time i checked, BM are part of our race.:o)
Please read my post on this thread! Cause I am not downing all brothas out there, I am however talking about issues that are serious problems in our community that deal with the black male role and behaviors. My man is both Puerto Rican and white. His mother is a white Puerto Rican, their side of the family is mixed,and the family is more Taino than anything else. This year I have spent a lot of time in PR and Miami. Read my post I more into Hispanic/Latino guys, that why I am with one. I am NOT praising white men, I believe that Latin men dont get their do, just black dudes who are family guys.
Suavesito

Buda, TX

#480 Dec 11, 2008
lol wrote:
First of all:
HISPANIC ISN'T A RACE! STOP THIS PROPAGANDA!
HISPANIC IS CULTURAL INDENTITY!
You can be black, white, or anything in between and be HISPANIC! GOT IT?!
One example of white hispanic: Ryan Cabrera, a Cuban white guy.
There's your lesson for today! Hispanic doesn't mean "Mixed" people! My goodness, get it right!
Don't you hate being bunched in with other races? Good, then stop doing it to hispanics of all different races! Just because there's some mixing in Cuba, all countries in south America, etc. doesn't mean EVERY is mixed! There's mixture in America, but does that mean there're no black, white, asian here? Duh!
Co-Sign. HOwever, tying to make most of these ignorant people understand is like talking to a wall. They think just because a person is from a country that has citizens of African descent that ALL must be Black or have African Anscestry. Like you say there are people even in Brazil and the Dominican Republic who are totally White and not mixed at all. Put it this way. The U.S.A. has Millions of African Americans right. If their little "theory" is true EVERYONE in the U.S. is therefore Black. LMAO! Including Asians, Mexicans, the Bushes, the Gates, Rush Limbaughs and the Bill O'reillys. See how stupid that sounds. SMH at their ignorance. Seems to me like AA have a huge self-esteem problem. AA don't have a culture of their own. The only culture they have is what we your White owners gave you and what you learned from us. Well maybe the Blues and Hip Hop. I'll give you that. lol

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#481 Dec 11, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
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No, I tell it like it is! The facts are the facts. Brothas for too long have been not taking care of business on the homefront! I do have Daddy issues no doubt! When you struggle with a single mom, and watch your father live good and treat your mom like shit. Then see damn near every other sista out there struggling with the same shit. It makes a sista start getting wise to looking into alternatives. I dont believe in picking up trash and assholes of other races either! Just because he's not black doesn't make him golden either! I am talkin to my sistas out there about qualities in a good man, and ways for us to open ourselves to receive a good man and appreciate him.
^^^^^these are the neg generalizations about black men i am talking about, dear. one of many.

if you had said...SOME brothas or not had stated "dam near every other sista out there struggling with the same sheet" in regards to brothas then i wouldn't take issue to your opinons. but you do NOT speak for dam near any black men or black women that i know. and i do know an awful lot of people. ;o)

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#482 Dec 11, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
<quoted text>
How is China? A business associate from San Clemente and I were just talkin about your website. He is going over to Macau on a trade trip.
Girl, my man was with me in Miami. I was just looking, cannt a girl look!:-)
okkkaaay. lol. if your friend has any questions about what to do in Macau, he can contact me thru the website.

“This Weekend ( :”

Since: Jun 08

At Auntie Keli's House

#483 Dec 11, 2008
Suavesito wrote:
<quoted text>Co-Sign. HOwever, tying to make most of these ignorant people understand is like talking to a wall. They think just because a person is from a country that has citizens of African descent that ALL must be Black or have African Anscestry. Like you say there are people even in Brazil and the Dominican Republic who are totally White and not mixed at all. Put it this way. The U.S.A. has Millions of African Americans right. If their little "theory" is true EVERYONE in the U.S. is therefore Black. LMAO! Including Asians, Mexicans, the Bushes, the Gates, Rush Limbaughs and the Bill O'reillys. See how stupid that sounds. SMH at their ignorance. Seems to me like AA have a huge self-esteem problem. AA don't have a culture of their own. The only culture they have is what we your White owners gave you and what you learned from us. Well maybe the Blues and Hip Hop. I'll give you that. lol
you must be smart enough to realize, this is an internet forum. Most AA's could care less about latino, hispanice, etc people in general. So, don't get an ego boost thinking that some of the the things that you've heard on here are indicative of what all AA's feel. it's not. so let me just say for the record, we don't care about you, what you are or what you do (: the truth should make you feel better. of course, unless, if you want to continue to believe a lie for your own personal reasons.
Suavesito

Buda, TX

#484 Dec 11, 2008
oc creole lady in macau wrote:
<quoted text>^^^^^these are the neg generalizations about black men i am talking about, dear. one of many.
if you had said...SOME brothas or not had stated "dam near every other sista out there struggling with the same sheet" in regards to brothas then i wouldn't take issue to your opinons. but you do NOT speak for dam near any black men or black women that i know. and i do know an awful lot of people. ;o)
They're not negative generalizations. They're facts.

“Male Dog!!”

Since: Mar 08

Ellicott City, MD

#485 Dec 11, 2008
Suavesito wrote:
<quoted text>AA don't have a culture of their own. The only culture they have is what we your White owners gave you and what you learned from us. Well maybe the Blues and Hip Hop. I'll give you that. lol
Who is us?

Plus that post was pretty ridiculous.
Suavesito

Buda, TX

#486 Dec 11, 2008
kaliana wrote:
<quoted text>you must be smart enough to realize, this is an internet forum. Most AA's could care less about latino, hispanice, etc people in general. So, don't get an ego boost thinking that some of the the things that you've heard on here are indicative of what all AA's feel. it's not. so let me just say for the record, we don't care about you, what you are or what you do (: the truth should make you feel better. of course, unless, if you want to continue to believe a lie for your own personal reasons.
First of all I'm White and second of all your statement about how AA don't care about other people in general is so right on target. Truer words have never been stated. I totally agree with you on this. This is what makes you people so damn ignorant. Its so sad to see you people kissing up to Latinos and Latinos don't give a damn about you. Puerto Rico voted overwhelmingly for Clinton in the Primaries. So much for the love. Stupid Azz African Americans.Why do you feel the need to cling on to other cultures and ethnicities? Because you don't have one of your own. That is why. Unless you want to consider Ebonics and Hip Hop culture. lol

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#487 Dec 11, 2008
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
<quoted text>
Please read my post on this thread! Cause I am not downing all brothas out there, I am however talking about issues that are serious problems in our community that deal with the black male role and behaviors. My man is both Puerto Rican and white. His mother is a white Puerto Rican, their side of the family is mixed,and the family is more Taino than anything else. This year I have spent a lot of time in PR and Miami. Read my post I more into Hispanic/Latino guys, that why I am with one. I am NOT praising white men, I believe that Latin men dont get their do, just black dudes who are family guys.
okay...you aren't downing all....but a pretty hefty portion.
and i take offense to these generalizations you are bandying about. the black men in my life have their act together and do for black people and other people as well. they are amazing human beings. just like my husband is a good man. i can recognise a good man of any race...because the first men in my life, black men, were and are GOOD men.

i say good for you and your latino man.i am happy you found true love.(but what is with the wandering eyeballs???) lol. IR love which is authentic is a very beautiful thing....ALL authentic love is. but you don't think it is a little weird how many supposedly black women who claim to be in IR relationships DESPISE black men.... or talk quite negatively about them? maybe it is a topix thing. who knows?


btw, the issues that the black community faces appear to be world wide issues in open societies. people are getting married later if at all. men and women are into this together...the blame does not lie at the feet of a single gender. yes there are issues...but do you think you are going to fix them by assigning blame? do you think there is something wrong in the black male psyche? if you think there is....then perhaps you could say the same about the woman who birthed and raised him.

now let's be honest..you have in the past sung the praises of white men. your sex goddess threads...lol. and as far as society is concerned, on paper your man is white. and to be honest...i really don't take issue with you singing the praises of anybody. but it is kinda wierd considering you are on an AA forum. but to each his own. in my culture, we believe in chivalry. the man is suppose to put the woman on the pedestal and sing her praises...not the other way around.

but hey...congrads again on your wedding again.

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#488 Dec 11, 2008
Suavesito wrote:
<quoted text>They're not negative generalizations. They're facts.
yawn.

“the ONE AND ONLY OC ;)”

Since: Apr 08

trust no imitators ;)

#489 Dec 11, 2008
WrningSgn wrote:
<quoted text>
Who is us?
Plus that post was pretty ridiculous.
yes it was, that is why i don't bother with a real response. lol.

“BlackTantraGodde ss”

Since: Aug 07

Bay Area & Southern Cal

#490 Dec 11, 2008
lol wrote:
First of all:
HISPANIC ISN'T A RACE! STOP THIS PROPAGANDA!
HISPANIC IS CULTURAL INDENTITY!
You can be black, white, or anything in between and be HISPANIC! GOT IT?!
One example of white hispanic: Ryan Cabrera, a Cuban white guy.
There's your lesson for today! Hispanic doesn't mean "Mixed" people! My goodness, get it right!
Don't you hate being bunched in with other races? Good, then stop doing it to hispanics of all different races! Just because there's some mixing in Cuba, all countries in south America, etc. doesn't mean EVERY is mixed! There's mixture in America, but does that mean there're no black, white, asian here? Duh!
In part you are true, my mother in law is a white Puerto Rican, but when I look at her sisters, mother and grandmother its a bit of another story. Her mother was a Taino Indian, her grandmother a mulatto (black/indian), her father Italian/Spanish decent. She just happens to favor her father and married a white man, so my baby looks white. Spanish brown eyes, and deep brown hair, but to him the "La Isla Del Encanto" is one. African, European and Taino is Puerto Rico. There is no one without the other! My Cuban friends in Miami feel the same way. Its sad to see some Latin people, having such issues with this. In my family on my mother side is simular, my great grandmother with white and Indian and my great grandfather was black and Indian, my grandparents where both mulatto and my mother was light skinned, and my father is very dark, I am olive toned. That why I love describing myself as a black American, cause it allows me to be all that I am without minimizing who I am. Blended cultures are beautiful a true gift from God. When I look in the mirror I see my olive skin a rich blend of African and Indian; my small features European, and my natural afro hair uniquely African. There is no need to divide us into groups by color because that doesnt always tell the complete story.

“BlackTantraGodde ss”

Since: Aug 07

Bay Area & Southern Cal

#491 Dec 11, 2008
Suavesito wrote:
<quoted text>First of all I'm White and second of all your statement about how AA don't care about other people in general is so right on target. Truer words have never been stated. I totally agree with you on this. This is what makes you people so damn ignorant. Its so sad to see you people kissing up to Latinos and Latinos don't give a damn about you. Puerto Rico voted overwhelmingly for Clinton in the Primaries. So much for the love. Stupid Azz African Americans.Why do you feel the need to cling on to other cultures and ethnicities? Because you don't have one of your own. That is why. Unless you want to consider Ebonics and Hip Hop culture. lol
I was in PR with the Obama campaign. We did not campaign there like Senator Clinton did. She circled the island many times, had many evts. Bill and her daughter lived there for about 6 weeks to Obama's one day on the island! Obama received over 60% of the Hispanic vote in the general election. You should visit the island, the whole island and not just San Juan. As a person who has lived her whole life with Latin people you sir are very wrong about them! Get your facts straight!
Suavesito

Buda, TX

#492 Dec 11, 2008
oc creole lady in macau wrote:
<quoted text>okay...you aren't downing all....but a pretty hefty portion.
and i take offense to these generalizations you are bandying about. the black men in my life have their act together and do for black people and other people as well. they are amazing human beings. just like my husband is a good man. i can recognise a good man of any race...because the first men in my life, black men, were and are GOOD men.
i say good for you and your latino man.i am happy you found true love.(but what is with the wandering eyeballs???) lol. IR love which is authentic is a very beautiful thing....ALL authentic love is. but you don't think it is a little weird how many supposedly black women who claim to be in IR relationships DESPISE black men.... or talk quite negatively about them? maybe it is a topix thing. who knows?
btw, the issues that the black community faces appear to be world wide issues in open societies. people are getting married later if at all. men and women are into this together...the blame does not lie at the feet of a single gender. yes there are issues...but do you think you are going to fix them by assigning blame? do you think there is something wrong in the black male psyche? if you think there is....then perhaps you could say the same about the woman who birthed and raised him.
now let's be honest..you have in the past sung the praises of white men. your sex goddess threads...lol. and as far as society is concerned, on paper your man is white. and to be honest...i really don't take issue with you singing the praises of anybody. but it is kinda wierd considering you are on an AA forum. but to each his own. in my culture, we believe in chivalry. the man is suppose to put the woman on the pedestal and sing her praises...not the other way around.
but hey...congrads again on your wedding again.
Chivalry? Putting the woman on a pedestal? I surely hope you don't mean the non-existant African American culure. Sure that is why they disrespect the AA woman so much. AA men treat their women like shit. Always leaving them for non-Black women at the drop of a hat. Especially if they have a little money. Abandoning the AA women along with their children. Chivalry? Yeah right! GTFO. Oh yeah I forgot. Letting the AA woman work 2 jobs while they're out screwing around, playing games and getting drunk or high. BTG has a good point and you know it.

“This Weekend ( :”

Since: Jun 08

At Auntie Keli's House

#493 Dec 11, 2008
Suavesito wrote:
<quoted text>First of all I'm White and second of all your statement about how AA don't care about other people in general is so right on target. Truer words have never been stated. I totally agree with you on this. This is what makes you people so damn ignorant. Its so sad to see you people kissing up to Latinos and Latinos don't give a damn about you. Puerto Rico voted overwhelmingly for Clinton in the Primaries. So much for the love. Stupid Azz African Americans.Why do you feel the need to cling on to other cultures and ethnicities? Because you don't have one of your own. That is why. Unless you want to consider Ebonics and Hip Hop culture. lol
do not attempt to twist my words to your own meaning. No black person cares about latinos, what they think, how they vote, etc. Of course, it stands to reason that people learn about other cultures living in america, but that's as far as it goes. Your post is filled with angry rants, i wonder why?? And if you are white, why do you care anyway?? Seems like you care too talk about people and things that don't concern you. Just get a life. Oh, and another thing, insults and angry, igonrant rants do nothing to me, it just shows how pathetic you are.

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