Why Do People Hate Black Men That Love Black Women?

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“No Troll Zone...”

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#1 Mar 21, 2009
I just dont get it.

I know me myself, I prefer Black and mixed women.

When I say I love mixed women, everybody wanna be on that: "You go boy!" type of shit.

Now when I say I love Black women, everybody gotta stop what they doing like they never heard a Black man say that shit before.

So now, what the f--k do people got against Black men loving Black women?

Logical answers please.
MDJ

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#2 Mar 21, 2009
That's a good question! I guess, since black men and women relationships, have not been the same since slavery. I think it's not expected for black men and women to love one another......

And then, you have black men and women bashing each other..........i mean, they only expect what black people put out.

I don't know where the love has gone? The Disrespect for one another is absolutely, disturbing!

It's okay to have a preference. And it's just as okay to love your own!
MDJ

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#3 Mar 21, 2009
I love Black Men! My preference, is only Black Men!

Now i'm not knocking non black men. But i just have a preference. They (black men) are who i'm more comfortable with..........

I don't need another race of man to make me feel better about myself..........that's just crazy!!

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#4 Mar 21, 2009
i love black women

“No Troll Zone...”

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#5 Mar 21, 2009
MDJ wrote:
That's a good question! I guess, since black men and women relationships, have not been the same since slavery. I think it's not expected for black men and women to love one another......
And then, you have black men and women bashing each other..........i mean, they only expect what black people put out.
I don't know where the love has gone? The Disrespect for one another is absolutely, disturbing!
It's okay to have a preference. And it's just as okay to love your own!
Maybe all that madness play a part in it.

I dont know.

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#6 Mar 21, 2009
juss chillin wrote:
i love black women
MDJ wrote:
I love Black Men! My preference, is only Black Men!
Now i'm not knocking non black men. But i just have a preference. They (black men) are who i'm more comfortable with..........
I don't need another race of man to make me feel better about myself..........that's just crazy!!
Thats whats up.

Keep Black love alive.

“No Troll Zone...”

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#7 Mar 21, 2009
I see hardly anybody got answers for this.

Since: May 07

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#8 Mar 21, 2009
Because it's a sign of black unity that white people fear. That,and they think that black women are that bad when they aren't. I've never gave a white, Asian, Latino, and Arab man looks of confusion for saying that he loves his race of women, by why us black men? The people in this world I tell ya..........

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#9 Mar 21, 2009
SO SO TRUE. AMEN HALLELUJAH. Nobody seems to care about white, asian,latin, indian love etc but THE WHOLE WORLD constantly focuses on black love who black men/women date. Always asking Why? who? when? how? And god forbid if you're a black man who LOVES black women. All hell breaks loose with men and women of all other races. Sad. But I notice that doesn't stop strong minded bruthas. They have no problem telling them where to go including non-black women.

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#10 Mar 21, 2009
Mack the Great wrote:
Because it's a sign of black unity that white people fear. That,and they think that black women are that bad when they aren't. I've never gave a white, Asian, Latino, and Arab man looks of confusion for saying that he loves his race of women, by why us black men? The people in this world I tell ya..........
Aint it f--ked up tho?

And to throw more fuel in the fire, Black men look at you like you crazy when say that shit as well.

Black women cant catch a break nowhere.

“Uncle Tom”

Since: Feb 07

Yonkers, NY

#11 Mar 21, 2009
I dont see why anyone will have issues of one loving his own race. Its quite normal actually.

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#12 Mar 21, 2009
Black Women R Sexy wrote:
SO SO TRUE. AMEN HALLELUJAH. Nobody seems to care about white, asian,latin, indian love etc but THE WHOLE WORLD constantly focuses on black love who black men/women date. Always asking Why? who? when? how? And god forbid if you're a black man who LOVES black women. All hell breaks loose with men and women of all other races. Sad. But I notice that doesn't stop strong minded bruthas. They have no problem telling them where to go including non-black women.
All the time.

I know when white women wanna holla, they think they hit a goldmine.

But when they realize you aint interested, they start talking shit like they dont know whats going on.

To make matters worse, a lot of them try again.

I think that shits funny tho.

“Shed so many tears”

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#13 Mar 21, 2009
AlwaysOnPoint wrote:
I just dont get it.
I know me myself, I prefer Black and mixed women.
When I say I love mixed women, everybody wanna be on that: "You go boy!" type of shit.
Now when I say I love Black women, everybody gotta stop what they doing like they never heard a Black man say that shit before.
So now, what the f--k do people got against Black men loving Black women?
Logical answers please.
My brother AOP, I see you got an interesting question brewed. I think it has alot to do with "media" painting this disgusting picture us (BW) and at the same time glorifying our BM with the white race thus making it seem like BW are extremely undisired by even our own race, so when BM actually speak out and say otherwise, it's a shock.
To me, people of other races would rather believe that mess because it in some way justifies their hatred for us anyhow.

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#14 Mar 21, 2009
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>My brother AOP, I see you got an interesting question brewed. I think it has alot to do with "media" painting this disgusting picture us (BW) and at the same time glorifying our BM with the white race thus making it seem like BW are extremely undisired by even our own race, so when BM actually speak out and say otherwise, it's a shock.
To me, people of other races would rather believe that mess because it in some way justifies their hatred for us anyhow.
You know what, Just?

You might be on to something.

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#15 Mar 22, 2009
I want more answers to this question.
Crystal City Girl

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#16 Mar 22, 2009
Because they know you are probably a strong man and that is scary to some people. A strong black man.

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#17 Mar 22, 2009
AlwaysOnPoint wrote:
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Aint it f--ked up tho?
And to throw more fuel in the fire, Black men look at you like you crazy when say that shit as well.
Black women cant catch a break nowhere.
Right! I can't believe brothers would do and say such things about black women like that. I guess it's because of all the negative stereotypes associated with them, that the brothas dating IR would think they were crazy for wanting to be with them when they will give them nothing but drama and hell and think that the grass is greener on the other side.

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#18 Mar 22, 2009
Crystal City Girl wrote:
Because they know you are probably a strong man and that is scary to some people. A strong black man.
Or they cant get with a Black woman to save they life so they hate on Black men that love Black women.

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#19 Mar 22, 2009
Mack the Great wrote:
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Right! I can't believe brothers would do and say such things about black women like that. I guess it's because of all the negative stereotypes associated with them, that the brothas dating IR would think they were crazy for wanting to be with them when they will give them nothing but drama and hell and think that the grass is greener on the other side.
Hells yea.

I should know, my brother like that.

He prefers white women cause most Black women wont give him the time of day.

And since he know I love the sistas, he always be saying shit to make me feel bad for loving them.

Like recently, he tried to influence me to stop dating Black women by telling me that almost all of them is dating out.

Keep this in mind tho: That comment came from a man in his mid-20s still living at home, wont commit to a relationship, and again, prefers white women.

“He would, if he could”

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#20 Mar 22, 2009
It's because non-blacks, especially whites, are so intimidated from the presence of a black man and woman loving each other. Because the white man (and woman) have tried so hard to eliminate the black nuclear family during slavery, Reconstruction, lynchings, Civil Rights, The Great Society, etc.

Especially if she is a hot, classy, black woman, then some white man will hate because he believes he is entitled to every hot woman on the globe.

There is a reason why you don't see Black Love on mainstream movies and televisions. There is a reason why they promote IR dating when there is a black male or female lead. Not only because it won't generate white audiences, but because they don't understand and relate to a black couple on screen.

And people fear what they don't understand.

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