Most black women don't want thugs!

Most black women don't want thugs!

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“Always bet on Black”

Since: Apr 09

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#2 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
Once and for all I'll try to clear this up. Sistas, please come into this thread and explain this for these black men.
Most black women want good black men. Why would we want thugs?
You always have some women/girls who want "badboys." That isn't a black thing because its in every race.
The problem is that black men want to stereotype every black woman as a hoodrat who has OOW children by different babies daddies.
Why won't you look at the good black women?
The ones who are cute, in shape, and educated?
Its because you'd rather have a non American black woman or a non black woman than one of us.
Then you try to blame the exact same thing ON us.
If what you claim is true, that all american black women love thugs, then all thats saying is that MOST AMERICAN BLACK MEN ARE THUGS.
Please let this shit go! A lot of educated, decent black women actually GO TO thugs because they are tired of the crap they hear from other black men!
The Deep

Youngstown, OH

#4 May 25, 2009
More in more black women want a gentlemen and appreciate considerate people who value them/others (non-sociopaths).

They just don't tend to go for the "softies". Even if he is a sociopath (generally speaking -- i know there's a condition where chicks like to date the in their view least sane guy they know).

They want a guy that's fortified, and that'll make them fortified, that's centered in his life, gotta strong foundation.

In a way there is sort of a problem -- in the modern West, alot of people are over emotional and very territorial: especially the women.

The above is why women fill the ranks (the majority) of some of the "toughest" gangs (that don't let them do gang things, they're just the gang chicks) and why alot of chicks flock to gang members in gangs that just don't have females.

The same reason they like some kind of "strength" is the same reason they like some kind of reliability as far as livelihood goes (income, or at least a guy they know will work for them).

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fort Washington, MD

#5 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
Once and for all I'll try to clear this up. Sistas, please come into this thread and explain this for these black men.
Most black women want good black men. Why would we want thugs?
You always have some women/girls who want "badboys." That isn't a black thing because its in every race.
The problem is that black men want to stereotype every black woman as a hoodrat who has OOW children by different babies daddies.
Why won't you look at the good black women?
The ones who are cute, in shape, and educated?
Its because you'd rather have a non American black woman or a non black woman than one of us.
Then you try to blame the exact same thing ON us.
If what you claim is true, that all american black women love thugs, then all thats saying is that MOST AMERICAN BLACK MEN ARE THUGS.
Please let this shit go! A lot of educated, decent black women actually GO TO thugs because they are tired of the crap they hear from other black men!
Whatever. Why do I find that hard to believe when most sistas don't even admit that they don't want thugs?It's not enough to say that you don't want thugs. You have to show us that you mean it since we men are visual people who go by what we see unlike you women that usually go by what you hear.Your last sentence is bullfrack that doesn't make sense as those educated sistas date thugs as a downgrade for the excitement and not because good black men complain about them.
DarkJoker

Hoffman Estates, IL

#6 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
Once and for all I'll try to clear this up. Sistas, please come into this thread and explain this for these black men.
Most black women want good black men. Why would we want thugs?
You always have some women/girls who want "badboys." That isn't a black thing because its in every race.
The problem is that black men want to stereotype every black woman as a hoodrat who has OOW children by different babies daddies.
Why won't you look at the good black women?
The ones who are cute, in shape, and educated?
Its because you'd rather have a non American black woman or a non black woman than one of us.
Then you try to blame the exact same thing ON us.
If what you claim is true, that all american black women love thugs, then all thats saying is that MOST AMERICAN BLACK MEN ARE THUGS.
Please let this shit go! A lot of educated, decent black women actually GO TO thugs because they are tired of the crap they hear from other black men!
No, it's saying most black American women choose thugs, which would explain their higher HIV rates than black men (AA women LOVE dem sum convicts). Listen, black women need to stop lying about this thug thing. Black men from all regions in America are saying the same thing. Who cares that you all like thugs. We, or at least, I, am putting it out there as fact. No need to be self-conscience about liking criminal sociopaths and having their children, then complaining about it. BTW, how do you have over 1600 comments in a month?
ihb

United States

#9 May 25, 2009
Most thugs are on the down low.

The_Chad

“Dr Chad is in now in the house”

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Since: Mar 09

Northern California

#11 May 25, 2009
I was out clubbing one night in south central LA and the club we were in was full of Gangsters, like everyone in that mug was packing heat. So we were getting our swerve on bumpin tunes and shjt and I see this black guy pimpslap this really hawt girl. I was like WTF?!? Time to regulate. I called 911 immediatly. After the cops had arrived and all the thugs were taken away and there was ZERO chance of a fight breaking out I walk up to the girl and announce that I was the one that called 911 and ratted out the thugs that harrased her. She was like "OMFG your my hero, Im so glad you didnt pull out your glock 9 like the rest of these lil gay phags and just smoke those fools." "It takes a real man to hide and call 911 and get someone arrested instead of handling your business in the streets like all these other guys that we hate and never idolize or go out with or make rap videos about." I said "I know baby, now how bout you and big daddy The Chad go make some hawt IR love after I defended you from the gansters while hiding and using my cell phone." "OMG the chad you know EXACTLY what a black woman is looking for in a man" "I know baby, DrChad knows all..."
DarkJoker

Hoffman Estates, IL

#12 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
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Since when do black women outnumber black men in hiv/aids?
Thats a blatant lie.
Since the past few years. Wake up.

Doby

Since: May 09

United States

#14 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
Since when do black women outnumber black men in hiv/aids? Thats a blatant lie.
Might I suggest a book or two? Seriously....

Doby

Since: May 09

United States

#16 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
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Show me the stats.
Black men have always had more aids than anyone in this country.
Nobody needs to show you anything. You should know!!!
The Deep

Youngstown, OH

#17 May 25, 2009
The_Chad wrote:
I was out clubbing one night in south central LA and the club we were in was full of Gangsters, like everyone in that mug was packing heat. So we were getting our swerve on bumpin tunes and shjt and I see this black guy pimpslap this really hawt girl. I was like WTF?!? Time to regulate. I called 911 immediatly. After the cops had arrived and all the thugs were taken away and there was ZERO chance of a fight breaking out I walk up to the girl and announce that I was the one that called 911 and ratted out the thugs that harrased her. She was like "OMFG your my hero, Im so glad you didnt pull out your glock 9 like the rest of these lil gay phags and just smoke those fools." "It takes a real man to hide and call 911 and get someone arrested instead of handling your business in the streets like all these other guys that we hate and never idolize or go out with or make rap videos about." I said "I know baby, now how bout you and big daddy The Chad go make some hawt IR love after I defended you from the gansters while hiding and using my cell phone." "OMG the chad you know EXACTLY what a black woman is looking for in a man" "I know baby, DrChad knows all..."
The Chad, we could be cool, you remind me of some of my white dude friends lol.. that caught me off guard but i was like "hol' up" about mid way thru..

The_Chad

“Dr Chad is in now in the house”

Level 1

Since: Mar 09

Northern California

#18 May 25, 2009
The Deep wrote:
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The Chad, we could be cool, you remind me of some of my white dude friends lol.. that caught me off guard but i was like "hol' up" about mid way thru..
LOL ^^

Since: May 09

NYC

#20 May 25, 2009
If your Black the thug dress code is the norm. If you don';t like thugs date a white dude . Stay away from Blk guys who are not thugs. Only White guys can do the Non-thug look and be in.

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Since: Jul 07

Mansfield, OH

#21 May 25, 2009
Mack the Great wrote:
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Whatever. Why do I find that hard to believe when most sistas don't even admit that they don't want thugs?It's not enough to say that you don't want thugs. You have to show us that you mean it since we men are visual people who go by what we see unlike you women that usually go by what you hear.Your last sentence is bullfrack that doesn't make sense as those educated sistas date thugs as a downgrade for the excitement and not because good black men complain about them.
Baby brother! Do you really think most black women want thugs? Forget the media. Forget Topix and Tyra and the like. Forget the loud girl who attracts attention with her flashy ways. Think about the quiet girls. The nice girls. The ones who almost escape your attention.

I still believe that the majority of black women do not want thugs. However...the ones who catch your attention are the ones with thugs. Squeaky wheel and all that.

And yes...some women like bad boys...but women of all races can fall prey to that foolishness. The smart ones get over it or better yet...never go for it in the first place.

Saying all black women like thugs is like saying all black men are no good. Neither statements is true!

I do know this...we women who do NOT want thugs need to be more vocal....we need to be more noticed. We need to make it clear that the women who do want thugs do NOT speak for us all.

Doby

Since: May 09

United States

#22 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
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You can't be serious. Black men outnumber everyone in aids cases, including black women.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/Factsheets/u...
I'm not gonna sit here and bash my Black sisters but I seriously suggest you study up on aids, HIV and STD's amongst Black women.

Start here: www.aids.gov then read up on STD's as well. If you loved Black women the way you claim to, this would be at nearly the top of your list of things to discuss.

"Quicken your pace child, reality is growing impatient."
DobyTheDoggy '09
DarkJoker

Hoffman Estates, IL

#23 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resourc es/Factsheets/us.htm
Bitch, that's at the end of 2003. I said the past few years. It's 2009. Ol' getting stats from George W.'s first term ass. Every damn year, black women have had the HIGHEST HIV rates out of everybody.

“Proud Black Woman!!!”

Since: Apr 09

NYC

#24 May 25, 2009
i know i don't want a thug/gangsta!

WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO WITH A DELIQUENT?????

i don't do bad boys OR conjugal visits!!!

Since: Mar 09

Hyattsville, MD

#25 May 25, 2009
Why do Black Stud lesbians dress and act exactly like Thugs. Because they know they will get black women.

Since: Mar 09

Hyattsville, MD

#26 May 25, 2009
Black women have a higher AIDS rate than black men because like I explained to you before.

Women can have sex anytime they want. You have yet to prove this to be a lie.

Black women go for the thug player more than the nerdy black guy. So you have the one infected thug/player sleeping with 20 black women. All black men do not sleep with lots of women. Its only the Thug players that sleep with lots of women. That includes the nerdy girls.

The_Chad

“Dr Chad is in now in the house”

Level 1

Since: Mar 09

Northern California

#28 May 25, 2009
NYC girl 25 wrote:
i know i don't want a thug/gangsta!
WHAT THE HELL AM I SUPPOSED TO DO WITH A DELIQUENT?????
i don't do bad boys OR conjugal visits!!!
LMFAO! So true, that shjt aint right ^^

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#32 May 25, 2009
Shaquita05 wrote:
Black men are so lost. I give up, for real.
When I say this...I say this out of common sense. If your so tired of brotha's....then date out. Problem solved. You can move on with your life.

You wonnt have to complain, you won't have to be angry anymore, you'll be I a happy relationship with a non black man. So why don't you make that happenn instead of just talking about it.

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