Yes, my point for including men was because you were stressing this fact as if we(they) did not have equal partnership.<quoted text>Their is always hypocrisy when a black man dates out, and its always turned around back on us! Its okay for a black women to do it, but not a black man! Its a come up for a black wome to date out, but a black man is a sell out! WHAT IS THIS? No one ever said black men did not do that, or dated out, we were talking about black women in our conversation. Im sometimes lost with how black women want to be seen, or how the want their image betrayed.
You know, sometimes I hear black men say,"black women want light skin children and hate themselves but are you guys well aware there are some black men who do that as well. I am confused because some of you act like it is impossible... some black men really do not like black women just as black women do not like black men.And when black men disregard some black men's behavior I feel that it is very unfair.
Also, yes I think there is hypocrisy going on both ways.