Black women Asian men Unite?
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#26 Jul 29, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
It shows that Black women are absolutely desperate for an alternative to the Black man. Even desperate for a group of men known for having small d!cks.... think about it. It says something terrible about how BW feel about being the female counterparts of Black men.
Your women are on an IR site where they make up 90% of the site members, what does that tell you about what your women think of you as a group of males?
I think black women are going to have to get their excuses right. It's a fact that black women are the least likely to date outside of their race. For years black women claim that's because they're loyal to black men and would never think about dating outside their race. They claim they are the ones turning down non-black men left and right. Here we have a forum for AMBF and black women make up 90% of the membership? It doesn't look like black women are turning down anybody. If anything they are the ones getting turned down. They only non-black men they're going to attract are desperate ones who's looking for some easy pussy. Which black women are known to be very, very easy.

Black men aren't having problems with dating in general. You got a few clowns here and there but for the most part we're doing just fine in and outside of our race. So maybe the problem isn't black men. Maybe the black women are the ones with the problem.

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#27 Jul 29, 2013
ForeverShy334 wrote:
<quoted text>we all know what bw think of bm and always have but that proves nothing negative about bm.we know what the whole world think of bw american or not so does that make it true in your opinion?
Their is an IR site, 90% of members are BW. You don't need to be a genius to see that BW are desperate almost to the point of madness get with another race of men.
There is no IR site on Earth with 90% white women on it.... NONE!
The Troll exposer

Decatur, GA

#28 Jul 29, 2013
2 words Marcnuts
Bruce Lee

Since: May 12

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#29 Jul 29, 2013
bruh wrote:
<quoted text> I think black women are going to have to get their excuses right. It's a fact that black women are the least likely to date outside of their race. For years black women claim that's because they're loyal to black men and would never think about dating outside their race. They claim they are the ones turning down non-black men left and right. Here we have a forum for AMBF and black women make up 90% of the membership? It doesn't look like black women are turning down anybody. If anything they are the ones getting turned down. They only non-black men they're going to attract are desperate ones who's looking for some easy pussy. Which black women are known to be very, very easy.
Black men aren't having problems with dating in general. You got a few clowns here and there but for the most part we're doing just fine in and outside of our race. So maybe the problem isn't black men. Maybe the black women are the ones with the problem.
There's a Jamaican saying "Learn to dance a Yard, before you dance abroad".
It means worry about your home and your group before you concern yourself with outside matters. It doesn't matter how "successful" you are with bedding outside women, anyone who sees the stats from that website, knows your Gd given female counterparts are very unhappy with you and are eager to get with other men. They are desperate to be the female counterparts of another group of men, men who do not have the advantage of sexual myths or "surveys" to help their desirability. I sense that if we got the stats fro BW/Arab man or BW/NA man or BW/Hispanic man we would see 90% BW membership.
You're laughing at the stats, but Asian men are laughing at you and wondering why the females attached to the stud mandingos want geeky unassuming Asian men.

“Get use to the cold!”

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#33 Jul 29, 2013
That is seriously messed up. No one should be participating in a site like that if it's true.
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#34 Jul 29, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
There's a Jamaican saying "Learn to dance a Yard, before you dance abroad".
It means worry about your home and your group before you concern yourself with outside matters. It doesn't matter how "successful" you are with bedding outside women, anyone who sees the stats from that website, knows your Gd given female counterparts are very unhappy with you and are eager to get with other men. They are desperate to be the female counterparts of another group of men, men who do not have the advantage of sexual myths or "surveys" to help their desirability. I sense that if we got the stats fro BW/Arab man or BW/NA man or BW/Hispanic man we would see 90% BW membership.
You're laughing at the stats, but Asian men are laughing at you and wondering why the females attached to the stud mandingos want geeky unassuming Asian men.
Your responses is just pathetic as BW making up 90% membership on the AMBW forum. You should be giving this advice to Asian men. Over 30% of their women are dating/marrying white dudes. AM/BW are the lowest out of all ir pairings. BM date/marry/fuck AW six times the rate, and that's without the ir promotion tour that black women have been on for the last decade. Asian men shouldn't be laughing at anybody but themselves.

My whole point is black women are making fools of themselves. Why not let these men purse you instead of promoting yourselves to them? BW are never going to attract decent men using that strategy. All they're going to do is send out the message to all non-black men is that black women are easy and desperate. You're boosting their egos and no your value as women. Women of other races date outside their race way more than black women and none them have to promote themselves. What does that tell you? In general non-black men don't give a damn about you. BW are jus going to have to accept that.

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#35 Jul 29, 2013
ForeverShy334 wrote:
<quoted text>lol geez youre one messy,instigating bitter chick.i have a better question for you,since bm supposedly did it first and are bigger ir daters than bw,what would that mean?what does it say about bw?is it something different than what youre trying to say about us?lol
The topix is about a BW IR site. It's clear that BW want to separate from BM, as much as you want to separate from them. But because of ideas that dark skin is masculine, dating out is more difficult for BW.
I saw you on another thread saying how much you prefer WW, so I have no idea why you are not overjoyed that BW want to move on too.
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#36 Jul 29, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
The topix is about a BW IR site. It's clear that BW want to separate from BM, as much as you want to separate from them. But because of ideas that dark skin is masculine, dating out is more difficult for BW.
I saw you on another thread saying how much you prefer WW, so I have no idea why you are not overjoyed that BW want to move on too.
The vast majority of our sistas love us, and that is the way it will always be, forever! They are not going anywhere. A real black woman knows that the vast majority of black men love and prefer black women. Even some of the BM's date outside of their race prefer black women. A real black woman would know these things. I'm starting think you're a white troll.

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#37 Jul 29, 2013
bruh wrote:
<quoted text> Your responses is just pathetic as BW making up 90% membership on the AMBW forum. You should be giving this advice to Asian men. Over 30% of their women are dating/marrying white dudes. AM/BW are the lowest out of all ir pairings. BM date/marry/fuck AW six times the rate, and that's without the ir promotion tour that black women have been on for the last decade. Asian men shouldn't be laughing at anybody but themselves.
My whole point is black women are making fools of themselves. Why not let these men purse you instead of promoting yourselves to them? BW are never going to attract decent men using that strategy. All they're going to do is send out the message to all non-black men is that black women are easy and desperate. You're boosting their egos and no your value as women. Women of other races date outside their race way more than black women and none them have to promote themselves. What does that tell you? In general non-black men don't give a damn about you. BW are jus going to have to accept that.
^^^^ This is why BW are acting so desperately to escape you. As a group blacks are the victims of racism, but in sexual relationships BM suffer less racism. So yep, you have more and easier opportunities to abandon the group and date out, which you do in high numbers.
The black women are aware that their opportunities for dating out are limited by racism, but they also know they cannot rely on any kind of loyalty from you. So they are desperately seeking an alternative. They see videos on youtube of seemingly ordinary BW with Asian and white husbands, so it gives other BW hope that they could get a non-BM too. They may have to work much harder than other races of women to date outside their race, but it is possible.
It's actually very very sad and heartbreaking to see that BW feel so lonely and undesired that they would be on sites where they are 90%.... hopeless sites. They just want a way out, they view these other men as princes in comparison to BM.
I think this behaviour is a reaction to BM seeking IR at numbers BW never imagined would ever happen and BW just don't want to be dependant on a highly IR group of men for partnership.

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#40 Jul 29, 2013
bruh wrote:
<quoted text> The vast majority of our sistas love us, and that is the way it will always be, forever! They are not going anywhere. A real black woman knows that the vast majority of black men love and prefer black women. Even some of the BM's date outside of their race prefer black women. A real black woman would know these things. I'm starting think you're a white troll.
I don't think BW believe this. We have excellent media now, AAW living in low IRBM areas of the South, are now becoming aware of the high IR of BM who live in other parts of the USA, Canada and Europe. I think BW are becoming aware that where BM have opportunities for high interaccial, either through location or finances, they grab those opportunities.
I think BW know that BM are marrying out at 24% while 70% of BW remain unmarried.
I think BW are desperately looking for alternatives because they don't view your love as reliable.
Spit-Fire

Atlanta, GA

#41 Jul 29, 2013
bruh wrote:
<quoted text> Your responses is just pathetic as BW making up 90% membership on the AMBW forum. You should be giving this advice to Asian men. Over 30% of their women are dating/marrying white dudes. AM/BW are the lowest out of all ir pairings. BM date/marry/fuck AW six times the rate, and that's without the ir promotion tour that black women have been on for the last decade. Asian men shouldn't be laughing at anybody but themselves.
My whole point is black women are making fools of themselves. Why not let these men purse you instead of promoting yourselves to them? BW are never going to attract decent men using that strategy. All they're going to do is send out the message to all non-black men is that black women are easy and desperate. You're boosting their egos and no your value as women. Women of other races date outside their race way more than black women and none them have to promote themselves. What does that tell you? In general non-black men don't give a damn about you. BW are jus going to have to accept that.
Your post is full of projection. BW are un a unique position because IR for other races of women is the norm. This is new for this generation of BW.
The perception is that BW want BM only. This is not true. So BW are simply letting non BM know that they are interested.
One site is not representative of all BW who date out. Would I personally be on this site, no. But I'm just one woman.
You do not speak for non BM and BW to do have to accept your biased opinion.
All non BM do not view BW in the same manner that you do.
The great irony in this post, is that BW and AM have the fastest growing IR in this country with WM and WW respectively.
Perception is not the same as reality.

Since: May 12

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#42 Jul 29, 2013
ForeverShy334 wrote:
<quoted text>i said i prefer what?link please.and no dear,they go hand in hand(topic).and you also just contradicted yourself.if bw thoughts of darkskin masculine bm makes it more difficult for them to date out,then how are they so dangerously desperate to date out and get away from bm and fill all datings sites up to 90%?
ps bm are just as diverse as bw,not all are "dark skinned".smh
http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T66SPS0K4PKPU...
Ironic

Palm Bay, FL

#43 Jul 29, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
That is seriously messed up. No one should be participating in a site like that if it's true.
It is messed up and sad he had a thread where he admitted it and said the past is the past. So I bounced but many sistas were on their agreeing with him because they like the site SMH saying he did his time etc. That was just too much for me I dont know how ppl can just la-te-da murder.
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#45 Jul 29, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
^^^^ This is why BW are acting so desperately to escape you. As a group blacks are the victims of racism, but in sexual relationships BM suffer less racism. So yep, you have more and easier opportunities to abandon the group and date out, which you do in high numbers.
The black women are aware that their opportunities for dating out are limited by racism, but they also know they cannot rely on any kind of loyalty from you. So they are desperately seeking an alternative. They see videos on youtube of seemingly ordinary BW with Asian and white husbands, so it gives other BW hope that they could get a non-BM too. They may have to work much harder than other races of women to date outside their race, but it is possible.
It's actually very very sad and heartbreaking to see that BW feel so lonely and undesired that they would be on sites where they are 90%.... hopeless sites. They just want a way out, they view these other men as princes in comparison to BM.
I think this behaviour is a reaction to BM seeking IR at numbers BW never imagined would ever happen and BW just don't want to be dependant on a highly IR group of men for partnership.
Your argument is falling apart rapidly. One second you're saying that black women are trying to escape black men. Now you're saying that black men left black women and now bw desperately seeking companionship. You have to make up your mind. How can black women escape black men when black men have already left them? You can't have the argument both ways.

BW have been telling the world for decades that black men are leaving them for white women. But the facts just don't support that rhetoric. It's a fact that over 90% of BM are with BW. Us BM in general love our BW and prefer them over other races. Those are what statistic would suggest.

BW receive more racism than BM? I don't recall a BW ever being hung for fucking with a WM. How many non-black men get disowned for fucking with BW? How many BF pornstars receive insults and death threats for doing a scene with a NBM? How many BW/NBM interracial commercials have received a racial backlash?



Based on what I've seen BW are being encouraged to date NBM. While BM and NBW are discouraged and even shunned for dating each other. Racism BM receive is far greater than any type of racism BW will know. BW have to realize that BM are the only group in general who loves them. NBM really care for black women one way or the other. That is the truth. And it's has nothing to do with racism. They have their own women who they prefer and always will.
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#46 Jul 29, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
<quoted text>
Your post is full of projection. BW are un a unique position because IR for other races of women is the norm. This is new for this generation of BW.
The perception is that BW want BM only. This is not true. So BW are simply letting non BM know that they are interested.
One site is not representative of all BW who date out. Would I personally be on this site, no. But I'm just one woman.
You do not speak for non BM and BW to do have to accept your biased opinion.
All non BM do not view BW in the same manner that you do.
The great irony in this post, is that BW and AM have the fastest growing IR in this country with WM and WW respectively.
Perception is not the same as reality.
No, my post is full of facts. The problem is you'll accept them because it's opposite of your deluded perception of reality. Let me give you a reality check. In ever racial group over 90% date/marry within their own race and that includes black people. IR is not the norm for anyone race except for Asian women. They are the only group of who date outside their race in large enough numbers to call it the norm.

Black women in general do prefer black men. This is a fact. What's wrong with black men and women preferring each other? BW are simply making fools of themselves. You don't have to promote yourselves to other men if these men really do want you. You're promoting yourselves to them but they're not promoting themselves too you.

I'm speaking for non-BM, nor have I ever tried. I'm just telling giving you and the rest of the desperate BW a reality check. The vast majority of white women and men prefer each other. The vast majority of Latinos and Latinas prefer each other. The vast majority of Asian men and women prefer each other. That is reality. That is the truth. You have some non-black men who prefer black women or are willing to date them, but their numbers are so few that it's not even worth BW getting excited about.
bruh

Waldorf, MD

#47 Jul 29, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I don't think BW believe this. We have excellent media now, AAW living in low IRBM areas of the South, are now becoming aware of the high IR of BM who live in other parts of the USA, Canada and Europe. I think BW are becoming aware that where BM have opportunities for high interaccial, either through location or finances, they grab those opportunities.
I think BW know that BM are marrying out at 24% while 70% of BW remain unmarried.
I think BW are desperately looking for alternatives because they don't view your love as reliable.
Bitch are you crazy? There is no way in the hell that 24% of black men ar the marrying out their race. It might be around 8% at the most. Of course bitter black women won't believe that black men love them, but your everyday black women do.
Spit-Fire

Atlanta, GA

#48 Jul 29, 2013
bruh wrote:
<quoted text> No, my post is full of facts. The problem is you'll accept them because it's opposite of your deluded perception of reality. Let me give you a reality check. In ever racial group over 90% date/marry within their own race and that includes black people. IR is not the norm for anyone race except for Asian women. They are the only group of who date outside their race in large enough numbers to call it the norm.
Black women in general do prefer black men. This is a fact. What's wrong with black men and women preferring each other? BW are simply making fools of themselves. You don't have to promote yourselves to other men if these men really do want you. You're promoting yourselves to them but they're not promoting themselves too you.
I'm speaking for non-BM, nor have I ever tried. I'm just telling giving you and the rest of the desperate BW a reality check. The vast majority of white women and men prefer each other. The vast majority of Latinos and Latinas prefer each other. The vast majority of Asian men and women prefer each other. That is reality. That is the truth. You have some non-black men who prefer black women or are willing to date them, but their numbers are so few that it's not even worth BW getting excited about.
I don't need a reality check. I am well aware of what is taking place. I never said that BW did not want BM, I am simply acknowledging that some BW want non BM. These women are stating their preference and some of these men are responding.

You are also ignoring that vids, questions, tumblr pages etc., are being made by non BM letting BW know that they are interested. Its not one sided.

I know that most prefer their own overall, but you cannot deny that a growing number of BW are dating/marrying out. There is absolutely nothing wrong with BW/BM being together. I will not argue against Black love.

There is however 2 million more BW than BM. Nothing wrong with BW expanding their options and you were speaking for non BM when you said they don't care about BW. Some do.

BW are such a small minority, that those open to men of any color have a surplus available.
Those small numbers are increasing, whether you like it or not.

Let BW decide what they want to get excited about.

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#49 Jul 29, 2013
starpack wrote:
Honestly i think interracial dating and marriaging is a blessing. Now the black race can hurry up and rid each other of themselves. Yay!
Thats the day i wont have to worry about people who look like me being so uneducated about life.
Apparently you aren't educated enough to know that not all black people look like you, nor are we all uneducated. But it would be nice to phase out the self loathing types that don't want to have children that resemble themselves. Hurry up and get gone already I say!

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#52 Jul 29, 2013
ForeverShy334 wrote:
<quoted text>can you explain that more please?i hear that all the time but i dont know what that is supposed to mean now.i hear people talk about their offspring like,"he has his dads nose,and she got her moms eyes ect".and blacks arent one shade so what does that mean,kids that look like you?lol just curious.
Quick question, are you black?

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#54 Jul 29, 2013
ForeverShy334 wrote:
<quoted text>which post # is it where i said i preferred them.also answer the rest of the post this question was in.thank you:^)
She won't do that especially if you've have or made a valid point. That chick talks out the side of her neck like she knows what she's talking about and clearly doesn't.

If it's not Topix rhetoric she can't answer it.

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