Why Do BW Defend Hair Weave So Much??...
Cigar Face

Miami, FL

#183 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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I wouldn't say it was the majority either. Those who were wealthy were in power and power made up the rules. Those who weren't wealthy did not want to challenge the powerful for fear of being a target.
In addition, slavery didn't begin nor has it ended with blacks. Whites were very systematic in how they obtained slaves (turning fueding tribes against each other and picking up the captives) and how they broke them down by breaking the strongest male and segregation. Those who tried to rebel were killed, those who submit were spared. I don't think you would have acted much differently if it were you and if you did, your lifeline would have been dead. It's always wise to chose your battles. If our ancestors didn't WE wouldn't be alive today!
How did you acquire this information? And maybe our ancestors knew that the evil wouldn't last forever because of the cherished antebellum plantation whitewoman was having more sex with the slave men than their wives were. It was a sign of change coming.
London

Columbus, OH

#184 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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I wouldn't say it was the majority either. Those who were wealthy were in power and power made up the rules. Those who weren't wealthy did not want to challenge the powerful for fear of being a target.
In addition, slavery didn't begin nor has it ended with blacks. Whites were very systematic in how they obtained slaves (turning fueding tribes against each other and picking up the captives) and how they broke them down by breaking the strongest male and segregation. Those who tried to rebel were killed, those who submit were spared. I don't think you would have acted much differently if it were you and if you did, your lifeline would have been dead. It's always wise to chose your battles. If our ancestors didn't WE wouldn't be alive today!
It was the majority who agree with slavery..both blacks and whites. The white elite tried different ways of separation and division and race was the only method which actually worked in building animosity. Power comes from the willing.

Also whites were very blunt in what they were doing. They took over an entire continent in an extremely short period. They were able to do this with sheer bluntness. Even tribes warring knew the ultimate goal of wp was to take over. They just failed in putting aside their differences in order to handle the bigger threat to them all. Also, I don't consider slavery protection of blood line. In fact, slavery destroyed blood lines. Many of us will never know our origins as a direct impact of our ancestors being enslaved or a part of a mass enslaved group.

I agree though that it's wise to choose your battles. I would certainly think though when the survival of you and your people and the very land you live on is at stake..one would conclude that to be a battle they couldn't avoid. Blacks should have faced that challenge instead of running from it. Instead though, as you said, the strong willed were killed and the weak were then allowed to lead--and that lead blacks right in to slavery and the worse kind of slavery every known in fact.

APV

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#185 Sep 29, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>How did you acquire this information? And maybe our ancestors knew that the evil wouldn't last forever because of the cherished antebellum plantation whitewoman was having more sex with the slave men than their wives were. It was a sign of change coming.
If you say so...history will show otherwise.

You're second to last sentence doesn't make sense...

APV

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#186 Sep 29, 2013
London wrote:
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It was the majority who agree with slavery..both blacks and whites. The white elite tried different ways of separation and division and race was the only method which actually worked in building animosity. Power comes from the willing.
Also whites were very blunt in what they were doing. They took over an entire continent in an extremely short period. They were able to do this with sheer bluntness. Even tribes warring knew the ultimate goal of wp was to take over. They just failed in putting aside their differences in order to handle the bigger threat to them all. Also, I don't consider slavery protection of blood line. In fact, slavery destroyed blood lines. Many of us will never know our origins as a direct impact of our ancestors being enslaved or a part of a mass enslaved group.
I agree though that it's wise to choose your battles. I would certainly think though when the survival of you and your people and the very land you live on is at stake..one would conclude that to be a battle they couldn't avoid. Blacks should have faced that challenge instead of running from it. Instead though, as you said, the strong willed were killed and the weak were then allowed to lead--and that lead blacks right in to slavery and the worse kind of slavery every known in fact.
I never said anything about protecting the blood line. I said You or I wouldn't be here if our ancestors weren't following the kamikaze tactic.

Yes, our ancestors were duped with exchange of guns for gems and captives. I don't believe they really understood both sides were being played.

We were a divided race, who didn't speak a common language so it was easy to pick us part. Like shooting fish in a barrel.

All slavery is bad, our just lasted longer than anyone else's.
Cigar Face

Miami, FL

#187 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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If you say so...history will show otherwise.
You're second to last sentence doesn't make sense...
In other words......Our ancestors knew that evil wouldn't last forever because of karma! Only the wise ones knew this. What i meant on the last sentence.. When those white women started falling in love with the slave men, these men knew a change were coming.....like freedom.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#188 Sep 29, 2013
RiichGiirl wrote:
Why are bm the only men that complain about weave??
Cos we dont like a strangers hair on our women when we caress them and snuggle up. That chit is nasty.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#189 Sep 29, 2013
And before y'all get all up in my grill it goes for ww too. Ww wear hair extensions and that crap is NOT appealing to a man. Go to snuggle up in it and you can tell. The texture is different and it just feels like someone elses hair. Weird. Dont know why y'all women blk, wht, or whatever want a strangers hair attached to your own.
Albert B

Romford, UK

#190 Sep 29, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>In other words......Our ancestors knew that evil wouldn't last forever because of karma! Only the wise ones knew this. What i meant on the last sentence.. When those white women started falling in love with the slave men, these men knew a change were coming.....like freedom.
??? Seriously?
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#191 Sep 29, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Because they have a deep down hatred for their own color. Anything a BW does to enhance her beauty, she's a self hater in his eyes, yet he'll run to, fall in love with and put a make up wearing, fake boob job bleach blonde up on a pedastal, so high, that he can't even reach her, and call her REAL.
ALL races of women wear weave but since the stereotype says only bw do it more, it's frowned upon by bm. But they can't see the BS that they do. BM have a habit of putting X-Curl processes on their hair to try and make their naps look curly. But they don't tell that shyt!
I don't wear the shyt myself but hey, to each her own!
Stupid, who would prefer fake to real?
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#192 Sep 29, 2013
RiichGiirl wrote:
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I do not see other men complaining about weave? So, why be offended of accessory that women use on their head? Some black women that wear weaves.. its not because they are ashamed of their hair.
Well wm dont wanna see a bw with her natural hair for the most part. Which is why he wont complain if you try to look more like his women. They want exotic but not "native"
London

Columbus, OH

#193 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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I never said anything about protecting the blood line. I said You or I wouldn't be here if our ancestors weren't following the kamikaze tactic.
Yes, our ancestors were duped with exchange of guns for gems and captives. I don't believe they really understood both sides were being played.
We were a divided race, who didn't speak a common language so it was easy to pick us part. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
All slavery is bad, our just lasted longer than anyone else's.
Yep all slavery is bad. However, what happened to blacks was worse than anything every known to man then and now. There are some who don't even want to call what happened before mass enslavement of blacks slavery because of the shift the transatlantic caused.

You didn't use the word bloodline but in the context of the sentence I assumed that is what you meant. You actually used the word lifeline. But can you tell me what is your lifeline if you aren't protecting your bloodline? Surely you aren't suggesting slavery protected bloodlines.

And keep in mind, I have the benefit of reassessing history because that is the point of history. History is meant to evaluate using hindsight.

APV

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#194 Sep 29, 2013
London wrote:
<quoted text>Yep all slavery is bad. However, what happened to blacks was worse than anything every known to man then and now. There are some who don't even want to call what happened before mass enslavement of blacks slavery because of the shift the transatlantic caused.
You didn't use the word bloodline but in the context of the sentence I assumed that is what you meant. You actually used the word lifeline. But can you tell me what is your lifeline if you aren't protecting your bloodline? Surely you aren't suggesting slavery protected bloodlines.
And keep in mind, I have the benefit of reassessing history because that is the point of history. History is meant to evaluate using hindsight.
It's hard to measure oppression whether you're comparing the Holocaust to the wipe out of Native Americans or Hawaiians (the latter two are almost extinct due to white oppression). It's all bad no matter how you look at it, however looking at the census numbers of AA's vs Native Americans or Hawaiians show that we aren't as bad off as the other two.

As the majority of AA's are mixed our blood line cannot be pure as our ancestors within the tribes had. Therefore, I use the term lifeline as genes are passed down from parent to child. Our blood may have mixture but the genes remain intact.
London

Columbus, OH

#195 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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It's hard to measure oppression whether you're comparing the Holocaust to the wipe out of Native Americans or Hawaiians (the latter two are almost extinct due to white oppression). It's all bad no matter how you look at it, however looking at the census numbers of AA's vs Native Americans or Hawaiians show that we aren't as bad off as the other two.
As the majority of AA's are mixed our blood line cannot be pure as our ancestors within the tribes had. Therefore, I use the term lifeline as genes are passed down from parent to child. Our blood may have mixture but the genes remain intact.
I don't think oppression is hard to measure at all. Oppression is very real and felt even when it's not allowed to show its bluntness. It's not a game and certainly no joke. It's definitely bad.

I don't think the holocaust is a good example of oppression. I believe the Holocaust to be a good example of a tragic event. It is an event which cause it's people to triumph. They strengthened as direct result of the Holocaust. For that, they should get everyone's respect.

I see your point regarding the Hawaiians though although I view it a tad differently with the natives. The natives are known as a people who rejected slavery and garner a certain amount of respect from that alone. Plus the natives are left have a plethora of problems however they do get quite a bit of concessions from the government..and almost every one wants to claim their genetics.
APV wrote:
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As the majority of AA's are mixed our blood line cannot be pure as our ancestors within the tribes had. Therefore, I use the term lifeline as genes are passed down from parent to child. Our blood may have mixture but the genes remain intact.
I know for a fact most aa's aren't mixed blood though--well unless you are one of those who only call those people aa's who have obvious mixture and the rest are labeled black?

If you blood line isn't pure that means your genes aren't intact if you are pure race yourself. That's actually the definition of mixture--non pure genetics.

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#197 Sep 29, 2013
Why are IR bm like tim Evanston who hs a black daughter who will more than likely put extensions in her hair maybe once or twice ask such a stupid question. BW like change I do black hair and some let their natural kinks out while some find it tedious and time consuming to let her hair out and go throu the rituals everyday. When they can let their hair grow safely and securely under some weave or wigs. I Recommend lace fronts for women so it wont rip out their edges. IF you go natural remember to deep condition your hair and do hot oil treatments every 2 weeks. It's a ritual for black hair so I understand why some women designate themselves to weaves. so Tim a fat nugget who has not one stitch of hair there is your answer...

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#198 Sep 29, 2013
Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> how can you being the educated person that you are make a statement like that? You know where the self hate of the hair texture comes from. What kills me is many bm help perpetuate the self hate you all are the ones who loooove long straight hair. Even though I have naturally curly hair I still get waaaaay more attention from BM when I wear it straight and long. I get comments from black men like " that's your real hair " " wow a black woman with her own hair" REALLY?? So don't sit there and pretend it all on us and some of you don't like your own hair texture and forever trying to get with black women like me or white girls so your kids come out with " good hair" stop pointing fingers Tim and point two back at yourself. Don't even bring God into this he allowed slavery to happen to us.
Of course long hair is nice on a woman but it's not the only thing. The only problem I have is when a woman goes bald, I want to feel something on her head when I am in the sack with her. I will say stop blaming a man for wearing weave, make your own choices on how you do your hair, typical BW can never blame herself for her predicament in life. God allows freedom of choice, we are not robots so don't bring that slavery stuff into the conversation.

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#199 Sep 29, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
Why are IR bm like tim Evanston who hs a black daughter who will more than likely put extensions in her hair maybe once or twice ask such a stupid question. BW like change I do black hair and some let their natural kinks out while some find it tedious and time consuming to let her hair out and go throu the rituals everyday. When they can let their hair grow safely and securely under some weave or wigs. I Recommend lace fronts for women so it wont rip out their edges. IF you go natural remember to deep condition your hair and do hot oil treatments every 2 weeks. It's a ritual for black hair so I understand why some women designate themselves to weaves. so Tim a fat nugget who has not one stitch of hair there is your answer...
So you make money off BW's low self esteem? Don't worry about my daughter's hair worry about why you are confused about who you are.

APV

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#200 Sep 29, 2013
London wrote:
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I don't think oppression is hard to measure at all. Oppression is very real and felt even when it's not allowed to show its bluntness. It's not a game and certainly no joke. It's definitely bad.
I don't think the holocaust is a good example of oppression. I believe the Holocaust to be a good example of a tragic event. It is an event which cause it's people to triumph. They strengthened as direct result of the Holocaust. For that, they should get everyone's respect.
I see your point regarding the Hawaiians though although I view it a tad differently with the natives. The natives are known as a people who rejected slavery and garner a certain amount of respect from that alone. Plus the natives are left have a plethora of problems however they do get quite a bit of concessions from the government..and almost every one wants to claim their genetics.
<quoted text> I know for a fact most aa's aren't mixed blood though--well unless you are one of those who only call those people aa's who have obvious mixture and the rest are labeled black?
If you blood line isn't pure that means your genes aren't intact if you are pure race yourself. That's actually the definition of mixture--non pure genetics.
When I say measure oppression is in regards to your notion that oppression against blacks is more severe than any other form of oppression. What you is your definition of oppression if you refer to the Holocaust as a "tragic event". All events resulting from oppression are tragic.

I also have to respectfully disagree with you on the statement that the Natives have come out with a good deal. To lose 90% of the land to be given a "reservation" to live on is not a good trade off. Many tribes relocated to Canada to avoid dealing with a government that stole their land and way of life.

As for the AA's being pure, do you have a reference to support? Slaves were "breeded" with other slaves so there is some type of mixture that many may not be aware of (especially when you add West Indians to the mix).

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#201 Sep 29, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
<quoted text>So you make money off BW's low self esteem? Don't worry about my daughter's hair worry about why you are confused about who you are.
wtf you talking about I do my friends hair for free....

low self esteem because they prefer variety your a fat obese idjiot and you nee to worry about your daughters hair because she ot kinks just like every other black woman. & you the type I can envision telling her to do something with her nappy arse head. If black women got a bad complex it's because fat hogs like you who throw up your lice riddled white wives in their face. Not realizing she has clips upon clips of weaves in her damn head... Just because she doesn't have to perm her shyt to match the tracks still doesn't mean the bytch isn't rocking tracks. A weave is a weave is a weave!!

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#202 Sep 29, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
<quoted text>wtf you talking about I do my friends hair for free....
low self esteem because they prefer variety your a fat obese idjiot and you nee to worry about your daughters hair because she ot kinks just like every other black woman. & you the type I can envision telling her to do something with her nappy arse head. If black women got a bad complex it's because fat hogs like you who throw up your lice riddled white wives in their face. Not realizing she has clips upon clips of weaves in her damn head... Just because she doesn't have to perm her shyt to match the tracks still doesn't mean the bytch isn't rocking tracks. A weave is a weave is a weave!!
Typical confused idiot, I don't make any comments about my daughter's hair, but since you are so interested, she uses weave when she goes on her modeling gigs, typical idiot IRBW trying to bring my daughter into the conversation. If you have weak responses either admit I am right or come with an intelligent response( which I doubt you can because you are scatterbrained).

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#203 Sep 29, 2013
Oh and stop blaming BM for your low self esteem issues ISW_REBORN, typical behavior of idiotIc BW.

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