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Tim from Evanston wrote:
Oh and stop blaming BM for your low self esteem issues ISW_REBORN, typical behavior of idiotIc BW.
Speaking of low self-esteem, why do you lie about your job and income? Does lying make you feel like less of a LOSER?

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Tim from Evanston wrote:
Oh and stop blaming BM for your low self esteem issues ISW_REBORN, typical behavior of idiotIc BW.
::pause::: i didnt blame bm i said bm who think like your pathetic behind give bw a complex.... what type if phag are u to be so concerned over how a female chooses to do hee hair! You bald big motherfuka...

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Sep 29, 2013
 
TIM DONT front it's brothers like you who make bw want straight long hair. Then you turn around and worship Becky just because she has straight long hair!! The hypocrisy is insane!

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ISW__REBORN wrote:
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::pause::: i didnt blame bm i said bm who think like your pathetic behind give bw a complex.... what type if phag are u to be so concerned over how a female chooses to do hee hair! You bald big motherfuka...
hey girl!!!!!:)

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TIM DONT front it's brothers like you who make bw want straight long hair. Then you turn around and worship Becky just because she has straight long hair!! The hypocrisy is insane!
I don't worship anyone but Jesus Christ, my experiences WW are better mates than BW, it's the same with a lot of BM out here these days and it's becoming more and more prevalent. BW need to step their game up, or keep getting mad and calling BM names that don't go out with BW anymore. Like that helps BM want BW more, LOL!!!!!!!! Typical blaming the BM for BW wanting hair weaves, smh.

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Tim from Evanston wrote:
<quoted text>I don't worship anyone but Jesus Christ, my experiences WW are better mates than BW, it's the same with a lot of BM out here these days and it's becoming more and more prevalent. BW need to step their game up, or keep getting mad and calling BM names that don't go out with BW anymore. Like that helps BM want BW more, LOL!!!!!!!! Typical blaming the BM for BW wanting hair weaves, smh.
where did all that come from?? Stop sounding white with that " Typical shi" and dude please I saw 4 IR couples today and 3 of them were black dudes acting like straight up goof troop white boys with some tight azz jeans on trying to dress White sound white and I don't mean educated either!! If you gonna date a white chick why do you have to act like TAD??? That shi annoys me !! That's self hate all day

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Mr Giblets wrote:
<quoted text>why do black "wimmins" get so chimpout-angry when we mention the fact that so many wear WIGS? every black area in London has about 4 wig shops. NO-ONE is fooled by those wigs either. It is a big joke with other races and groups.
Well Goofy, I don't wear wigs, never have. Don't wear fake hair of any kind. But tell me why do WW wear wigs and extensions? Why do white people care what black people do when white people do so much to enhance their looks. Why do white people tan? Why do white women wear stuff like this?
https://www.google.com/search...

http://www.arizonafoothillsmagazine.com/afm-s...

Why do WM wear stuff like this?
https://www.google.com/search...

Why do WW feel the need to inject their lips, get fake breast, hydrogel but injections? Why don't you ask those questions? Seems like that should be a greater concern to you.

Black women can do whatever they want just like white women. The fact that you are trying to pretend like it is only black women proves your embarrassment. That or you think we don't notice, we do and we laugh at you too. LMAO

You can pretend those hags look fantastic if you want to, we all know different. LOL

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Tim from Evanston wrote:
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.
Like your fascination with WW.

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Tim from Evanston wrote:
What is up with defending your hair weaves, or hair hats as someone I have seen describe them?
Why did you take your pic down fat boy, is it because you don't want the new posters to see you big fat bald ass and know how unattractive you are?

If you wore a hair hat it would be called and man wig, You couldn't even wear a toupee unless you grew your sides out. But you don't want that WW to see that taco meat on the side of your head huh?

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The sum total of a woman's value is not in her hair, so personally, I'm not sure why so much importance is given to it. I am neither anti-weave, nor am I anti -au natural, I only wish that more sisters, within their autonomous choices, would not feel compelled to conform to the narrow definitions of black feminine beauty dictated to them by persons and entities that are not themselves, black.

And as far as the argument of "BM prefer long hair" is concerned; I would only retort that most black men prefer women who are submissive, austere in speech and complaining, who would makes him a sandwich on command, but there are no large scale concessions or concerns made relative to this, so why justify your hair policy and choices based on the "perceived" wants of black men?

Any man who would disqualify you because of your hair, leaving all of the feminine, intellectual and spiritual intangibles on the table would be doing you a favor by refusing himself from your life; that is, if your objective is to be loved and revered on a visceral level.

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*by recusing himself* damn auto corrector

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I realize that socially, women trade preponderantly in the currency of physical beauty ( there are many other valuable forms of feminine beauty, hence "physical" being devoted), and many believe that longer hair secures them better masculine market share, but I think it disingenuous on the part of SOME women to attribute their hair style choices solely to men or black men more specifically.

As a black male, I am acutely aware of the masculine preferences of women, both tangibly and intangibly; and though they are most definitely variabled into the equation as considerations, ne'er would I allow these considerations to influence me to such an extent in the interest of conforming to their expectations, that they would result in women holding proxy power over my choices and decisions.

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Cogito2 wrote:
The sum total of a woman's value is not in her hair, so personally, I'm not sure why so much importance is given to it. I am neither anti-weave, nor am I anti -au natural, I only wish that more sisters, within their autonomous choices, would not feel compelled to conform to the narrow definitions of black feminine beauty dictated to them by persons and entities that are not themselves, black.
And as far as the argument of "BM prefer long hair" is concerned; I would only retort that most black men prefer women who are submissive, austere in speech and complaining, who would makes him a sandwich on command, but there are no large scale concessions or concerns made relative to this, so why justify your hair policy and choices based on the "perceived" wants of black men?
Any man who would disqualify you because of your hair, leaving all of the feminine, intellectual and spiritual intangibles on the table would be doing you a favor by refusing himself from your life; that is, if your objective is to be loved and revered on a visceral level.
hello Mr Cognito I have much respect for you as a poster you are very intelligent and fair. Now regarding my argument of bm perfer long straight hair- that is a physical trait just like most black men prefer a woman with a nice round thick behind aka Big Butt!! Those are two different things you are referring to good personality traits versus what men like to see a woman look like. My experience is that most black men perfer long straight hair based on experience when I wear my own hair straight the attention I get from black men is way more than when I wear it curly. SAMETHING with my friend Lasheeda she's into the whole natural Afro style and guess who compliments her the most? White men ! most black men don't say anything to her until she wears her hair straight again. Every now and then a Muslim brother will come up to her and say " hey Sista I see you rocking that fro pretty lady" then he gives her a power to the people look!! But besides Bm like him the Muslim Afrocentric type the rest of bm don't pay her that much attention when she goes natural. Just keeping it real on topix! So if most bm prefer long straight hair why wouldn't black women wear that style to get the attention she wants from her own men????

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Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> where did all that come from?? Stop sounding white with that " Typical shi" and dude please I saw 4 IR couples today and 3 of them were black dudes acting like straight up goof troop white boys with some tight azz jeans on trying to dress White sound white and I don't mean educated either!! If you gonna date a white chick why do you have to act like TAD??? That shi annoys me !! That's self hate all day
What the heck is sounding white? Definition please? Well I don't know about those guys, as for me I would never wear tight jeans, I barely wear jeans at all and if I do they are loose. As for me having a wife whose white I didn't get her by trying to be what I am not, I am intelligent, handsome BM who attracts all races of women. Those guys you are talking about probably have an identity crisis as do most IRBW and BW in general. So those BM you talk about acting like you do with your Northwestern talk "like" "like" "like" every other word? LOL!!!!!
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(lmbo and smh) This has got to be one of the worlds most dumbest questions. For real? LOL Most black women who I know that wear weaves ENJOY wearing them. They have become a part of fashion.

Weaves are no different than women wearing makeup, or white women getting tans, breast implants, or lip injections etc. Beauty enhancement has always been but has become more popular in a lot of ways "AND" is glorified by the media and Hollywood. It is not a big deal. Other races of women are now wearing weaves too. Women like to have different looks. A lot of women don't want the same old look all of the time. And what any individual woman wants to do with her hair is her business.

AND I have never met any black woman who was defensive about wearing a weave.(SMH) What it is.....is that most black women are not going to tolerate anybody talking crazy to them period no matter what the subject is. LOL
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ERIN BIRACIAL wrote:
Although I am considered black I look more like a very lightly tanned White woman with European features & don't see the need in wearing a weave since my hair is naturally silky & straight but I do know many black women who have very bad grades of hair & have to wear straight hair wigs or weaves when they go out in public.
Now this is why some black people hate race mixing because it creates people like you. Little girl are you really on a AfRICAN-AMERICAN forum trying to slick-diss AFRICAN-AMERICAN women for wearing weaves?(SMH) First of all weaves are nothing more than beauty enhancement and fashion. And I do not care how straight your hair is.....by the looks of your pic you can use a LOT of beauty enhancement in a whole lot of areas.....starting with your FACE and your pale skin. LOL Are you serious? LOL You better get outta here with that mess girl. You look a hot mess....a weave won't even help "YOU'. Think about that the next time you even think about bringing your Biracial behind on an African American forum to talk trash!

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Tim from Evanston wrote:
<quoted text>What the heck is sounding white? Definition please? Well I don't know about those guys, as for me I would never wear tight jeans, I barely wear jeans at all and if I do they are loose. As for me having a wife whose white I didn't get her by trying to be what I am not, I am intelligent, handsome BM who attracts all races of women. Those guys you are talking about probably have an identity crisis as do most IRBW and BW in general. So those BM you talk about acting like you do with your Northwestern talk "like" "like" "like" every other word? LOL!!!!!
. Lol ! TIM good one ! I already told you I'm not into the " Becky whine" I don't speak like that I speak like a black woman who has read a book or twi but I don't try and talk like a white Valley girl from the 80s like omg totally awesome!! You know dam well what talking white is it's copying their tone of voice high pitched and Whiney versus speaking like an intelligent black person but you still have base in your voice! And yes you are right a lot of black women who date white guys do the same both of these Uncle Tom n....ggas need a identity reality check. I don't know who's worse bm that date ww and try to act dress and talk like wm or bw who do the same!
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Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> hello Mr Cognito I have much respect for you as a poster you are very intelligent and fair. Now regarding my argument of bm perfer long straight hair- that is a physical trait just like most black men prefer a woman with a nice round thick behind aka Big Butt!! Those are two different things you are referring to good personality traits versus what men like to see a woman look like. My experience is that most black men perfer long straight hair based on experience when I wear my own hair straight the attention I get from black men is way more than when I wear it curly. SAMETHING with my friend Lasheeda she's into the whole natural Afro style and guess who compliments her the most? White men ! most black men don't say anything to her until she wears her hair straight again. Every now and then a Muslim brother will come up to her and say " hey Sista I see you rocking that fro pretty lady" then he gives her a power to the people look!! But besides Bm like him the Muslim Afrocentric type the rest of bm don't pay her that much attention when she goes natural. Just keeping it real on topix! So if most bm prefer long straight hair why wouldn't black women wear that style to get the attention she wants from her own men????
This is a lie. I know plenty of Brothers who adore black women with naturals especially when they have a lot of hair. All black women's naturals do not look the same depending on their grade of hair. I have very long hair and a great grade of air and when I wear it natural people of all races stop and ask me to take pictures of it. REAL TALK. My natural stops traffic boo! LOL

Have any of you ever lived or visited the ATL? A lot of you Topix posters need to visit the ATL if you haven't (or go live there) because the places that you are from must be draining you or separating you from REAL black people with racial pride. I lived in the ATL for a few years and now I visit often. Please believe that there are some real brothers out here who adore black women. REAL TALK!

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BeAuTiFuL SoUl wrote:
<quoted text>This is a lie. I know plenty of Brothers who adore black women with naturals especially when they have a lot of hair. All black women's naturals do not look the same depending on their grade of hair. I have very long hair and a great grade of air and when I wear it natural people of all races stop and ask me to take pictures of it. REAL TALK. My natural stops traffic boo! LOL
Have any of you ever lived or visited the ATL? A lot of you Topix posters need to visit the ATL if you haven't (or go live there) because the places that you are from must be draining you or separating you from REAL black people with racial pride. I lived in the ATL for a few years and now I visit often. Please believe that there are some real brothers out here who adore black women. REAL TALK!
LOL! What do I have to lie about dear? Learn the difference between your experience versus someone else's !! You live in atlanta I live in Chicago and the majority of black men here love long straight hair whether it's weave or real! My own hair is 16 inches down my back when it's straight so I know exactly what I'm talking about. You don't come online calling someone's experience that's different from yours a lie. Grow up Hun welcome to the world of life's different experiences. The black men in illinois don't really appreciate natural hair just yet they need time to adjust. Also you think that I don't know that our hair comes in all different textures well I do because my natural texture is naturally curly thanks next........
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Blaq honey wrote:
<quoted text> LOL! What do I have to lie about dear? Learn the difference between your experience versus someone else's !! You live in atlanta I live in Chicago and the majority of black men here love long straight hair whether it's weave or real! My own hair is 16 inches down my back when it's straight so I know exactly what I'm talking about. You don't come online calling someone's experience that's different from yours a lie. Grow up Hun welcome to the world of life's different experiences. The black men in illinois don't really appreciate natural hair just yet they need time to adjust. Also you think that I don't know that our hair comes in all different textures well I do because my natural texture is naturally curly thanks next........
I am not going to post to you again after this because I really don't like doing the back and forth thing and for the record I am not upset with you in any way. Sorry but I don't care what your experience is experiences do not take away from the overall truth which is this.....AT THE END OF THE DAY all men love beautiful women period REARDLESS of their hairstyle....this I know for a fact. This is my first point.

Second, I am not trying to brag but I am one of those women who is considered beautiful.....not pretty boo boo but actually beautiful. MY fro is extraordinary because of the texture of my hair. You say your hair is curly well curly does not make the best looking fro boo.

Third, it is not true that the MAJORITY of black men like straight hair but they prefer it better on SOME women because some women just do not look all that great with a natural.

I don't think that there is anything wrong with a black woman wearing her hair whatever way she wants too...weather it is straight or natural. Either way she is still a black woman. I am just saying that there are a lot of black men who would LOOOOVE a black woman to wear her hair natural......IF IT BECOMES HER. Just because a woman is black doesn't mean that she looks good with an afro! REAL TALK!

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