Why Do BW Defend Hair Weave So Much???????

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#1 Sep 22, 2013
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.

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#3 Sep 23, 2013
What is up with defending your hair weaves, or hair hats as someone I have seen describe them?

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#5 Sep 24, 2013
ERIN BIRACIAL wrote:
Although I am considered black I look more like a very lightly tanned White woman with European features & don't see the need in wearing a weave since my hair is naturally silky & straight but I do know many black women who have very bad grades of hair & have to wear straight hair wigs or weaves when they go out in public.
Bytch STFU. You and that crab Tim. why are ya'll so busy and worried about WTF a BW does with her hair.

The two of you sound like azz kissing low lifes who think of themselves too much.

Get a damn life!

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#6 Sep 24, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.
Why does you big stupid ass worry about what BW do or wear so much. Be concerned with your weave wearing WW. because those are the most fake most altered women on the planet. You big bald fool.

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#7 Sep 24, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Bytch STFU. You and that crab Tim. why are ya'll so busy and worried about WTF a BW does with her hair.
The two of you sound like azz kissing low lifes who think of themselves too much.
Get a damn life!
That bytch trolling under that fake picture. Have you ever seen a troll post the same thing over and over? A biracial woman would have no need to talk about looking white on every post. That troll is fake and desperate.

Tim's big bald ass needs to be concerned with what his WW does, I'll bet she has some fake hair in her stringy head. And wearing some booty pop!

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#8 Sep 24, 2013
Why are bm the only men that complain about weave??

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#9 Sep 24, 2013
RiichGiirl wrote:
Why are bm the only men that complain about weave??
Because they have a deep down hatred for their own color. Anything a BW does to enhance her beauty, she's a self hater in his eyes, yet he'll run to, fall in love with and put a make up wearing, fake boob job bleach blonde up on a pedastal, so high, that he can't even reach her, and call her REAL.

ALL races of women wear weave but since the stereotype says only bw do it more, it's frowned upon by bm. But they can't see the BS that they do. BM have a habit of putting X-Curl processes on their hair to try and make their naps look curly. But they don't tell that shyt!

I don't wear the shyt myself but hey, to each her own!

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#10 Sep 24, 2013
It is defensive when people are making fun of black women for wearing fake hair.
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#11 Sep 24, 2013
Tim from Evanston--MACEO wrote:
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.
True!

MACEO

I also get a lot of negative remarks for being natural by GUESS WHO?

BLACK MALES !
SadButTrue

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#12 Sep 24, 2013
JustdroppedIN--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>Because they have a deep down hatred for their own color. Anything a BW does to enhance her beauty, she's a self hater in his eyes, yet he'll run to, fall in love with and put a make up wearing, fake boob job bleach blonde up on a pedastal, so high, that he can't even reach her, and call her REAL.
MACEO

I haven't see anbody wearing Blonde hair except celebrities. I don't like it but I also don't like Asian's fixing their eyes and dying their hair blonde!

I also dont like that so man BLACK MEN ARE FAILURES LIKE YOURSELFF! Why would I focus on fake hair, make up etc

I get harassed by Black males for wearing natural hair! On a weekly basis I get negative remarks from most black males. But Random WM/WW or other races will say they like it or an occasional BW.

Kinda reminds of Black men like you who said Education is for White people not Black folks! As well as Black women getting educations prevent them from getting married but yet you marginal black men want to live off Educated Black women!
JustdroppedIN--MACEO wrote:
ALL races of women wear weave but since the stereotype says only bw do it more, it's frowned upon by bm. But they can't see the BS that they do. BM have a habit of putting X-Curl processes on their hair to try and make their naps look curly. But they don't tell that shyt!
I don't wear the shyt myself but hey, to each her own!
MACEO

Black men like you focus on and tear Black women down like yourself because your bitter you havent accomplished much!

MACEO thats your fault for chasing WW for 35 years while married to a White woman. You did that to yourself! You had options and you chose not to get an education but to chase SEX while being married instead!

Thou Fool! lmao

You have anything to show for your life! LMAO

GOD CALLS YOU A FOOL!

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#13 Sep 24, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Because they have a deep down hatred for their own color. Anything a BW does to enhance her beauty, she's a self hater in his eyes, yet he'll run to, fall in love with and put a make up wearing, fake boob job bleach blonde up on a pedastal, so high, that he can't even reach her, and call her REAL.
ALL races of women wear weave but since the stereotype says only bw do it more, it's frowned upon by bm. But they can't see the BS that they do. BM have a habit of putting X-Curl processes on their hair to try and make their naps look curly. But they don't tell that shyt!
I don't wear the shyt myself but hey, to each her own!
I agree 100%
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#14 Sep 24, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.
You're right. Let's look deeper into this issue. pay close attention to #2

Physical Appearance

1. She dresses provocatively, flaunting sexually suggestive body parts.

2. She focuses attention on makeup and hair, even for the most mundane tasks or events.

3. She is overly confident about her looks. Research shows that narcissists are no more attractive than other people, but they believe they are much better looking than other women.

4. She places high value on brand names, and feels entitled to wear “the best.” She frequently purchases new clothing, and does not distinguish between wants and needs.

5. She is more likely to have plastic surgery, most commonly breast augmentation.

6. She enjoys being photographed, and often asks others to snap her picture. She enthusiastically shares the best pics of herself on Facebook or other social media sites. She will sometimes invest in a professional photographer for a portrait that she uses on Facebook or for online dating.

Personality/Character

1. She insists on being the center of attention, and is often the most charming person in the room. Narcissists are very outgoing and excel at marketing themselves.

2. She often seeks favorable treatment, and automatic compliance. She believes that she is special, and that she deserves fame, fortune, success and happiness.

3. She is highly materialistic.

4. She is prone to envy, though she presents as supremely confident. She seeks opportunities to undermine others, and enjoys sharing confidences about how the two of you are better than others.

5. She is convinced that others are envious and jealous of her, and often uses this excuse for her lack of real, intimate friendships. When her friends enjoy successes of their own, she finds ways to punish them by downplaying their achievements.

6. She lacks empathy, and even common courtesy at times. She puts others down, including you. She does not hesitate to exploit others.

7. She is very competitive.

8. She believes that she is intellectually superior to her peers.
9. She blames others for problems. Narcissists don’t believe that they make mistakes, and lack the ability to process shame.

10. She displays a haughty attitude when she lets her guard down or is confronted. She will act impatient, arrogant and condescending. She will often excuse her own shortcomings by claiming that others are pressuring her or expecting too much of her.

11. She is dishonest and often lies to get what she wants. She will never admit this.

12. She is “psycho:” She engages in risky behaviors, has an addictive personality, and is prone to aggressive behavior when rejected.(Note: This is most common with Histrionic Personality Disorder.)

13. She is unpredictable in her moods and actions. You have trouble figuring out what she wants and where you stand.

14. She is capable of short-term regret, and will apologize profusely if backed into a corner. However, she will quickly rationalize her behavior and return to narcissistic patterns.

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#15 Sep 24, 2013
Your Answer wrote:
<quoted text>
You're right. Let's look deeper into this issue. pay close attention to #2
Physical Appearance
1. She dresses provocatively, flaunting sexually suggestive body parts.
2. She focuses attention on makeup and hair, even for the most mundane tasks or events.
3. She is overly confident about her looks. Research shows that narcissists are no more attractive than other people, but they believe they are much better looking than other women.
4. She places high value on brand names, and feels entitled to wear “the best.” She frequently purchases new clothing, and does not distinguish between wants and needs.
5. She is more likely to have plastic surgery, most commonly breast augmentation.
6. She enjoys being photographed, and often asks others to snap her picture. She enthusiastically shares the best pics of herself on Facebook or other social media sites. She will sometimes invest in a professional photographer for a portrait that she uses on Facebook or for online dating.
Personality/Character
shipstrategies/20-identifiable -traits-of-a-female-narcissist /
MACEO

MACEO

I haven't see anbody wearing Blonde hair except celebrities. I don't like it but I also don't like Asian's fixing their eyes and dying their hair blonde!

I also dont like that so man BLACK MEN ARE FAILURES LIKE YOURSELFF! Why would I focus on fake hair, make up etc

I get harassed by Black males for wearing natural hair! On a weekly basis I get negative remarks from most black males. But Random WM/WW or other races will say they like it or an occasional BW.

Kinda reminds of Black men like you who said Education is for White people not Black folks! As well as Black women getting educations prevent them from getting married but yet you marginal black men want to live off Educated Black women!

YOUR JUST LIKE THE KKK MACEO WHICH IS WHY BLACK WOMEN HATE BLACK MEN SO MUCH!
SadButTrue-HD

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#16 Sep 24, 2013
Tim from Evanston--MACEO wrote:
To me it's show's BW's low self esteem.
-MACEO

So doesnt "Living off WW/BW, Accepting Low Rate WW/Non BW, so doesnt not taking care of kids or communities!

YOUR THE NEW KKK MACEO!

CRY BABY BLACK MEN ARE WEAK LIKE YOURSELF AND YOUR A 60 YEAR OLD MAN!

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#17 Sep 24, 2013
Your Answer wrote:
<quoted text>
You're right. Let's look deeper into this issue. pay close attention to #2
Physical Appearance
1. She dresses provocatively, flaunting sexually suggestive body parts.
2. She focuses attention on makeup and hair, even for the most mundane tasks or events.
3. She is overly confident about her looks. Research shows that narcissists are no more attractive than other people, but they believe they are much better looking than other women.
4. She places high value on brand names, and feels entitled to wear “the best.” She frequently purchases new clothing, and does not distinguish between wants and needs.
5. She is more likely to have plastic surgery, most commonly breast augmentation.
6. She enjoys being photographed, and often asks others to snap her picture. She enthusiastically shares the best pics of herself on Facebook or other social media sites. She will sometimes invest in a professional photographer for a portrait that she uses on Facebook or for online dating.
Personality/Character
1. She insists on being the center of attention, and is often the most charming person in the room. Narcissists are very outgoing and excel at marketing themselves.
2. She often seeks favorable treatment, and automatic compliance. She believes that she is special, and that she deserves fame, fortune, success and happiness.
3. She is highly materialistic.
4. She is prone to envy, though she presents as supremely confident. She seeks opportunities to undermine others, and enjoys sharing confidences about how the two of you are better than others.
5. She is convinced that others are envious and jealous of her, and often uses this excuse for her lack of real, intimate friendships. When her friends enjoy successes of their own, she finds ways to punish them by downplaying their achievements.
6. She lacks empathy, and even common courtesy at times. She puts others down, including you. She does not hesitate to exploit others.
7. She is very competitive.
8. She believes that she is intellectually superior to her peers.
9. She blames others for problems. Narcissists don’t believe that they make mistakes, and lack the ability to process shame.
10. She displays a haughty attitude when she lets her guard down or is confronted. She will act impatient, arrogant and condescending. She will often excuse her own shortcomings by claiming that others are pressuring her or expecting too much of her.
11. She is dishonest and often lies to get what she wants. She will never admit this.
12. She is “psycho:” She engages in risky behaviors, has an addictive personality, and is prone to aggressive behavior when rejected.(Note: This is most common with Histrionic Personality Disorder.)
13. She is unpredictable in her moods and actions. You have trouble figuring out what she wants and where you stand.
14. She is capable of short-term regret, and will apologize profusely if backed into a corner. However, she will quickly rationalize her behavior and return to narcissistic patterns.
http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2010/06/28/rela...
Thanks for actually answering the question unlike the other scatterbrains on here, lol. I am not surprised they tried to throw it back on me. BW these days seem to have a lot of self esteem issues. You have hit the nail right on the head.

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#20 Sep 24, 2013
ERIN BIRACIAL wrote:
Although I am considered black I look more like a very lightly tanned White woman with European features & don't see the need in wearing a weave since my hair is naturally silky & straight but I do know many black women who have very bad grades of hair & have to wear straight hair wigs or weaves when they go out in public.
I assume you're a Bm/WW biracial.

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#21 Sep 24, 2013
RiichGiirl wrote:
Why are bm the only men that complain about weave??
Because it's they're racial phenotype you're trying to cover up because of shame. So it's obvious why they will be the group of men who are offended.

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#22 Sep 24, 2013
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#23 Sep 24, 2013
Zew wrote:
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15. And then she dresses her boys oversized clothes with baggy jeans that they have to pull from the floor (sad) and then blames BM when those boys grow up to become gangster.
What does a 6 year old boy know about what he wants to wear? NOTHING.
16. She forgets that she groomed her boys for roles in gangsterism by dressing them like thugs thus sending a message that it is OK to look like 'those gang members'.
'Black Americans are in bad shape, women are even worse...men are better', these were the words of a black SA who made some disturbing observations and he was not laughing about it, he was concerned especially about those 6...8 year old boys who have to hold on to their oversized clothes, tripping on their baggy, 3 size bigger jeans while walking behind their neglectful mothers who are more concerned about their purple coloured plastic weaves than with their kids. The issue here is not the absent father but the dress code that AAW choose for their boys.
You're right.

I met a AAW with 2 kids. She'd take the kids to the baby sitter, go to work and buy Chinese carryout for dinner. Every weekend was her time and to party. She didn't cook one meal, spent quality time....I can't go on.

That's too selfish for me to finish.

I see it everyday. AAW are too self centered

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#24 Sep 24, 2013
Yet most bw still luv bm for making threads like this...pathetic and its not just topix either its everywhere!!!

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