Why do good looking black women like ...
Carol

Orem, UT

#1504 Jan 24, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
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Exactly plus some wm like the stereotype of tge subservant asian woman. While they fear the attitudal blackeoman stereotypes :)
Lets keep it 100
Absolutely agree
Carol

Orem, UT

#1505 Jan 24, 2013
Most interesting man wrote:
I'm talking classy ones the ghetto ones you c when your sitting at a light or jus parked stick your wrist out ur window with a nice watch you ll noticing them drolling
White woman trolling again.... Yet you have white women who will chase/sex an elderly man just for his money....

Then fight his kids for their inheritance...

The majority of groupies chasing athletes are white gold diggers.
Carol

Orem, UT

#1506 Jan 24, 2013
Head Honcho wrote:
Alfie is a white male you retards.
Alfie is a white woman you retard.
Carol

Orem, UT

#1507 Jan 24, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> OK, superbowl ads are selling stuff, which generates money. If a Mcdonals commercial comes on, and I get an urge for fries, it has nothing to do with their image, rather their quality of fries. Not to mention I like Mcdonals. But if a Raisin Canes commercial comes on, I wont entertain it because I don't like Raisin Cane. As for name brand merchandise, again, it revolves around quality. If Nike produced shoes that tore easily and didn't look good, then no amount of commercial would make any different. EVERYTHING THAT WE SEE ON T.V. ALSO HAS A REPUTATION FOR HAVING GREAT QUALITY. Reebok can't compete with Nike no matter how many commercials they produce because their shoes doesn't look as good as Nike, nor do they have the same quality. So please don't try using the media nonsense to explain why bw stock are lower with wm, because bw are loud, rude, disrespectful, argumentative, aggressive, and manly acting. And guess what, television didn't instill this belief in me, I witnessed it firsthand. Television must cater to some form of truth for people to entertain it from the jump. If Kelly Rowlands, Jada Pinkett Smith and Michelle Obama were the norm, then no amount of media imaging would be able to sway the world's perception. Your problem is you would rather look for excuses rather than solutions.
When Bernadette Stains, Dianne Carroll types were the norm for blkbwomen in the media...

Our image was that of marriage material and our marriage rates were the highest amongst all women in the USA...

So I get cha....

You're threatened that if our image was improved , media wise....the stigma ...

Would be removed and blk women's marriage rates would be highest again.
Carol

Orem, UT

#1508 Jan 24, 2013
Most interesting man wrote:
I think white men are finally learning throw on a polo shirt flash some cash your gunna have a line of black woman trying to get into your back seat if u goto the right club (mixed) obviously,u could pull 2 in the same dam night
Gold digging white woman trolling again
Alfie

UK

#1509 Jan 24, 2013
Nope I am black man
Jennifer

UK

#1510 Jan 24, 2013
Most white men prefer to date white women, some like asian women, latinas, black women, not all white men have same preference. If a white guy says they feel nervous to approach me because they think i wouldn't like white men, I wouldn't find that attractive as I like a man not to judge me & be confident in approaching me. They are likely also stereotyping assuming black women are harder to approach than a white or asian woman.
Jennifer

UK

#1511 Jan 24, 2013
Alfie wrote:
Nope I am black man
I'm starting to think you might be a white woman, normal black men who claim to love black women don't belittle them as much as you do. That tends to be black men who don't date black women, so I think you are full of crap.
Jennifer

UK

#1512 Jan 24, 2013
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
When Bernadette Stains, Dianne Carroll types were the norm for blkbwomen in the media...
Our image was that of marriage material and our marriage rates were the highest amongst all women in the USA...
So I get cha....
You're threatened that if our image was improved , media wise....the stigma ...
Would be removed and blk women's marriage rates would be highest again.
I think you have a point about the media carol, what is also interesting is that more black women back then like diahann carroll & pearl bailey, josephine baker had white men lining up to be with them. Diahann Carroll had several white boyfriends. Now black women in the media don't seem to catch attention of white men for marriage material as often, case in point Rihanna, she has slept with several white men like josh hartnett but they don't see her as girlfriend material.
Alfie

UK

#1513 Jan 24, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
Most white men prefer to date white women, some like asian women, latinas, black women, not all white men have same preference. If a white guy says they feel nervous to approach me because they think i wouldn't like white men, I wouldn't find that attractive as I like a man not to judge me & be confident in approaching me. They are likely also stereotyping assuming black women are harder to approach than a white or asian woman.
Not about all or nothing. Its about numbers n
They stack against bw
Alfie

UK

#1514 Jan 24, 2013
A bm who loves n dates bw -dont hate them at all
Alfie

UK

#1515 Jan 24, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
<quoted text>
I think you have a point about the media carol, what is also interesting is that more black women back then like diahann carroll & pearl bailey, josephine baker had white men lining up to be with them. Diahann Carroll had several white boyfriends. Now black women in the media don't seem to catch attention of white men for marriage material as often, case in point Rihanna, she has slept with several white men like josh hartnett but they don't see her as girlfriend material.
Thats it - there is more dates ,sex ,babies ,stds
But no rings -there in lies ur problem
Carol

Orem, UT

#1516 Jan 24, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
<quoted text>
I think you have a point about the media carol, what is also interesting is that more black women back then like diahann carroll & pearl bailey, josephine baker had white men lining up to be with them. Diahann Carroll had several white boyfriends. Now black women in the media don't seem to catch attention of white men for marriage material as often, case in point Rihanna, she has slept with several white men like josh hartnett but they don't see her as girlfriend material.
Jennifer, i'm glad I grew up during those days...

Image is important and when these women were the face of blk women in the media, all men chased us and our marriage rates were the highest if all USA women.

These were classy, marriage material looking/acting blk women...

It didn't matter that Florida was matronly and fat because Willona and Thelma represented classy in shape blk women.

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

This is our image now, that of a loud, fat ghetto crazy woman....

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

All the non blk women are slender and the stereotype blk woman
http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

http://www.bing.com/images/search...

While these blk women can't get work in the USA media

http://fashionbombdaily.com/2011/08/08/who-wo...
Carol

Orem, UT

#1517 Jan 24, 2013
Jennifer wrote:
Most white men prefer to date white women, some like asian women, latinas, black women, not all white men have same preference. If a white guy says they feel nervous to approach me because they think i wouldn't like white men, I wouldn't find that attractive as I like a man not to judge me & be confident in approaching me. They are likely also stereotyping assuming black women are harder to approach than a white or asian woman.
I cringe when I think back and remember how some of us, blk women, rejected men that we weren't interested in...

So I understand where he's coming from....

I hope more blk women understand how hard it is sometimes for a man to approach a woman....

Then put themselves I'm that man's position....

I can imagine that its hard to approach as woman esp with her friends around...

I don't mind men who use a little bit of creativity to break the ice or see if a woman is interested without being openly rejected...

To hand a woman a sweet note and keep walking ...a young man did that to me....

To put a note and or single rose on her desk , car etc can be very sweet...

Black women need to lighten up on some non essential things, esp the approach because

some men are shy until they get to know you.
alfie

Luton, UK

#1518 Jan 24, 2013
Nick wrote:
<quoted text>
Not sure i agree here, Alfie. Just because as you say, "BW have been open for business with WM for 10 years," doesn't mean that message has been received loud and clear by white men. I'm an example. I've dated a couple of black women the past few years and I'm still a little wary of approaching black women for fear of being rejected purely because I'm white. Admittedly, it's easier here in the USA because all women think the UK accent is cute but I'd still rather women want to date me for other reasons than my accent or colour!:)
either ur a wm who lives in a cave or ur someone else pretending to b a white ma.
all wm in usa know that that bw is open for business.
they all know of swirling ,books ,envents etc
so there is something not right about ur posts.
i am in uk n i know all these things.foreign guys know.
alfie

Luton, UK

#1519 Jan 24, 2013
ISW__REBORN wrote:
<quoted text>
A white man gave you his opinion you choose to overlook it and your still on your rhetoric. Sit down you are a broken record that people stopped listening too 5 hours ago
i dont consider the views of one i look at that of many.stats reflect the views of many persons n the stats say that wm has said to bw -u r to b the last n least.

in addition if u jokers had taken the time to look u wud know that many entities had done studies n asked to men :
-r u interested in bw
-wud u marry one
-if not y not

they have gotten the overview of bw n y others dont come flocking to her door like to the ww.

will take more than an image makeover to help u.
alfie

Luton, UK

#1520 Jan 24, 2013
remember this all came about due to bw marraige stats in the media ;oprah ,abc nightline, etc.

so bw marraige is a big deal n bw have done all they can to aise it.they used everything including the kitchen sink :tv ,talk shows ,swirling,books ,events ,seminars,online dating ,websites,lying about race,youtube .in addition u use forums like these with fictitious names n scenarios to give the perception of great bw appeal .which is nonsense.all know of the pew resarch report n the okcupid study.ppl know the truth

RULE
bad products need hard sell-gud products sell themselves.ur pushing too hard.

BIBLE SAYS
`women keep still so that u may b found.`

dont blame tv for the asian womens success n ur failures n nor shud u blame her submissiveness although that is one of her qualities.
it comes down to taste n preference

wm dont fear approaching bw for fear of being rejected [a load of crap ]he doesnt approach u as he doesnt want to.he approaches other women in large numbers then marry them 50 mill ,529000,
488000, so he knows about women-so y wud he b scared to approach bw. he will approach u
when he has a need for sex ,funny enuff he marries u least but wants to have sex with u the most.
as noted before there will b sex ,bastard kids ,stds ,but no rings -that is for ww n asians
rien a foutre

Montpellier, France

#1521 Jan 24, 2013
alfie continue at preach the true same if it hard for Some women here :-)
alfie

Luton, UK

#1522 Jan 24, 2013
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
I cringe when I think back and remember how some of us, blk women, rejected men that we weren't interested in...
So I understand where he's coming from....
I hope more blk women understand how hard it is sometimes for a man to approach a woman....
Then put themselves I'm that man's position....
I can imagine that its hard to approach as woman esp with her friends around...
I don't mind men who use a little bit of creativity to break the ice or see if a woman is interested without being openly rejected...
To hand a woman a sweet note and keep walking ...a young man did that to me....
To put a note and or single rose on her desk , car etc can be very sweet...
Black women need to lighten up on some non essential things, esp the approach because
some men are shy until they get to know you.
wm dont stay away bcoz they dont know how to approach bw -stay away coz they dont want to come -they know all these tips n strategies
-they employ them for other women -mainly white.
alfie

Luton, UK

#1523 Jan 24, 2013
not bitter or angry -just trying to b fair-bw loves to use stats to beat down the bm-
-how many in jail
-how many with no high school diploma
-how many with no jobs

love to point out their shortcomings.now the shoe on the other foot.the WHOLE WORLD SEE UR WEAKNESS.

`yes many persons from around the world read these n other websites but dont post`

ironically , the same media the bw went to to belittle the bm is the same media thats all over the bw-all up in her stew.

lmao-believe it im having a ball.

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