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Since: Jul 11

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#6814 Jul 8, 2014
cmd6241983 wrote:
<quoted text> See here you are getting defensive yet again & why? Because I had the same experience the other guy have as far as me getting backlash from bm when they see bw like myself dating a wm. Know what's going on before you judge or criticize me okay, & just like I said, many of you feel the urge to bully & discourage us into believing that y'all are the only choice for bw. Y'all get to have a dating preference so why can't we? In case you missed it, I've said good things about bm. I did say that there are many good bm in this world, but they're being scared away buy these ghetto, ratchet hoodrats. & Since you have 3 boys, what if one them brought home a girlfriend & she's is of a different ethnicity, what would you think?
First of all...most bm don't even date out....now if you want to date out...fine do so...but stop using what bm do as a rationale....it's stupid!

Now as far as our sons are concerned...they will have to make their own choices in regards to who they date....my wife and I understand that....but no...we don't want to see them bringing some non-black girl home!

Why do they have to date non-black girls?

What's wrong with black girls.....there are plenty of beautiful,intelligent and ambitious black girls....we know plenty of them!

So do our sons...who clearly seem to be into black women!
cmd6241983

Arlington, VA

#6815 Jul 8, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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First of all...most bm don't even date out....now if you want to date out...fine do so...but stop using what bm do as a rationale....it's stupid!
Now as far as our sons are concerned...they will have to make their own choices in regards to who they date....my wife and I understand that....but no...we don't want to see them bringing some non-black girl home!
Why do they have to date non-black girls?
What's wrong with black girls.....there are plenty of beautiful,intelligent and ambitious black girls....we know plenty of them!
So do our sons...who clearly seem to be into black women!
Like I said, it's many bm who feel the urge to bully, harass, & discourage us into thinking that they're the only choice for bw & wm are too afraid to date us because of it, so there's no need for you to get defensive. If you think I have to sugar coat anything to make you feel better, you're dead wrong. As far as you calling someone a dumbass & stupid, don't throw stones while you're in a glass house, save your misogynistic views for some vulnerable female, & keep your sons away from ratchet women. By the way if I break up with my black boyfriend, maybe I will date a white man & if any of you black men have a problem with it, y'all can go jump in the river.
cmd6241983

Arlington, VA

#6816 Jul 8, 2014
IvoryLovesEbony wrote:
<quoted text> Just be yourself sweetie. Don't change just to try to get somebody to like you. People should like you for who YOU ARE, not for who THEY WANT you to be.
Thank you for the advice....
cmd6241983

Arlington, VA

#6817 Jul 8, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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You don't....but apparently you have no problem with making comments that suggest that you are?
This is what dumbasses do...they make big generalized comments about the whole...based on a small percentage of the whole...why?...because they aren't well informed enough or smart enough to figure out that they're acting like a dumbass!
I know....but maybe if you read it again sloooowly...you'll get it!
You're worse than Demi, Sienna, & Alfie.....

Level 1

Since: Oct 12

Dallas, TX

#6818 Jul 8, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Again....I don't have a daughter...so you're barking up the wrong tree with your little scenario!
Next of all...the man in question made his own choice....it's not up to me to decide anything for him....nor to judge his actions...I don't know you....just maybe you're a creep!
At any rate...contrary to what you might want to believe...as men...we don't have to like your white ass....don't have to support you and sure as hell don't have to invite you into our families!
All Other men don't do this shyt....who,where,when?
The vast majority of men on the planet want their daughters to honor them and marry their own kind!...yet here you are talking shyt. and trying to malign bm when we're merely doing the very same thing that the vast majority of men in the world does....and how does this make you out to be such a great guy?
Again...I love how white boys like you sit and judge all bm....who's aren't happy about guys like you being with our baby girl...I don't think you give a damn about her in this situation....no...not at all...you just want her father to accept you and act as if you're the best thing since butter on bread!
Why do bm have to accept our daughters being with you...white guys don't love the idea of their daughters being with bm...so why are we supposed to shout out our joy...all over the mountain tops when Our daughter brings one of you home?
Fuck you!
White guys don't like the idea of our daughters bringing home a black man? Really? That's funny because ALL THREE of my daughter's are MARRIED to black men and I'm perfectly cool with it. As long as he treats her well and provides a good life for her, I wouldn't really give a damn what race he is. Fuck me? Really? Evidently I must be kinda pissing you off a little bit. Good. Mission accomplished.

Level 1

Since: Oct 12

Dallas, TX

#6819 Jul 8, 2014
cmd6241983 wrote:
<quoted text> You're worse than Demi, Sienna, & Alfie.....
Give up arguing with him. He's racist. Doesn't want to admit to it but then, denial is a very powerful thing. And when someone resorts to name calling and being disrespectful, that tells us a couple of things. 1) We hit a nerve. And 2) It shows that he's lacking viable intelligence.
cmd6241983

Arlington, VA

#6821 Jul 9, 2014
IvoryLovesEbony wrote:
<quoted text> Give up arguing with him. He's racist. Doesn't want to admit to it but then, denial is a very powerful thing. And when someone resorts to name calling and being disrespectful, that tells us a couple of things. 1) We hit a nerve. And 2) It shows that he's lacking viable intelligence.
On second thought, he need Jesus in his life & I'll pray for him. Otherwise, I'm done arguing with him.
cmd6241983

Arlington, VA

#6822 Jul 9, 2014
IvoryLovesEbony wrote:
<quoted text> Give up arguing with him. He's racist. Doesn't want to admit to it but then, denial is a very powerful thing. And when someone resorts to name calling and being disrespectful, that tells us a couple of things. 1) We hit a nerve. And 2) It shows that he's lacking viable intelligence.
You're right! It's not worth arguing with the retarded, if he say anything else to me, I'll just laugh at his foolish butt.....
Dre

Franklin, NC

#6823 Jul 16, 2014
Good thread y'all. Love my black women.
ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#6824 Jul 16, 2014
I've seen attractive black women with black men, white men etc
My best friend is drop dead gorg.she has thick long wavy hair, green eyes, caramel skin and a beautiful body..she used to date black guys..now she's engaged to a cute asian guy..
Now a days you will probably see more black women with other race men
Dre

Franklin, NC

#6825 Jul 16, 2014
Secktre wrote:
Yeah, I believe this topic is a bit strange. Other than causing a fuss, I don't see a purpose for it.
When it comes right down to it, there really is no general answer for the the initial question. I am a black woman who is singularly attracted to white men, and I can tell you that every person has their own reasons for their preferences.
There's no generalization. There is no stereotype. What you're doing, is looking at a random statistic, and trying to give it an all-encompassing meaning. Under that logic, we could ask any number of ridiculous questions.
The reason that this is even an issue, is because we aren't all that far from a time when interracial dating was both uncommon and viewed quite negatively. Now that these doors are opening up, and people are seeing it more often, they're trying to create a 'pattern,' where there isn't one.
There's nothing wrong with black men, there's nothing wrong with black women, or anyone else for that matter. You're just noticing something that wasn't so common a short while ago.:\
That's what I'm saying. Thank God people can date, marry and start a family with who they want. Is this a touchy subject? Sure, but it's interesting hearing people's thoughts on these topics.
Sienna

Baltimore, MD

#6827 Jul 18, 2014
White people are bullies. I never wanna date one & I don't want them in my family. If I find out someone in my family is dating one, he or she will be cut out of my life.......
cmd6241983

Baltimore, MD

#6829 Jul 18, 2014
Sienna wrote:
White people are bullies. I never wanna date one & I don't want them in my family. If I find out someone in my family is dating one, he or she will be cut out of my life.......
Looks like someone forgot to take her medication. LOL!!!!!
cmd6241983

Baltimore, MD

#6831 Jul 18, 2014
Vaska wrote:
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I want to date you I am white man. I am not bully
Why do wanna date a crazy little girl like her? She's probably one of those ugly, overweight, hoodrat chicks. Get with a real woman.....

Since: Apr 14

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#6832 Jul 19, 2014
Sienna wrote:
White people are bullies. I never wanna date one & I don't want them in my family. If I find out someone in my family is dating one, he or she will be cut out of my life.......
I'm a black guy but that is kind of a bad thing to say.I think all people should be respected as individuals rather than for their group association.Unfortunately I think too often the group association is given more weight.
cmd6241983

Philadelphia, PA

#6833 Jul 23, 2014
I can understand that white men are more open to the type of women he date. The question is why do black women need to lower their standards & date just any ole man while a man can heighten his standards when it comes to meeting a beautiful woman with a perfect body, no kids, submissive etc. I'll never understand why black men want a top-of-the-line woman & then turn around & complain & whine about black women wanting to date a top-of-the-line man....
The Plain Truth

Micro, NC

#6834 Jul 23, 2014
PinkPearl wrote:
Stop being ignorant. Some Black people have too much self hate. Our race and culture is a beautiful one, and I would never believe that as a whole we'd be such a twisted group that EVERY eligible or desirable Black male or female would be with White people. That idea reinforces a notion that only the best blacks are good enough for White people, and that's not true.
Thats right! Why waste youself on a no good cracker! They think that everyone wants them and its not true! There are some black women that will get with a cracker for his money but the majority of them would never be with one of those dogs!

Since: Jul 14

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#6835 Jul 23, 2014
The Plain Truth wrote:
<quoted text>Thats right! Why waste youself on a no good cracker! They think that everyone wants them and its not true! There are some black women that will get with a cracker for his money but the majority of them would never be with one of those dogs!
And why can't it just be a matter of preference? Like having a thing for men with dreads? Or an accent?

Stop trying to put a negative, generalized label on something that is dependent upon individuals. I know white women who would never date a white man. I know black women who would never date a white man. I know females who are into chicks, males who are into guys, and one Latina who will only have choke-sex.

The fact of the matter is, that we all have our own preferences whether we notice it or not. Racism is ignorance, and ignorance isn't attractive no matter who you are.There's nothing wrong with any race, or interracial dating. There is a difference between self-hate and being open-minded and courageous enough to admit what you want and who you want.

Dating outside your race DOES NOT mean that you want to BE the race you've chosen to date. It means that rather than confining yourself to your own race to appease those around you, you've made the decision yo put your happiness first, to be with who you want to be with.

I'm female, and if someone told me that it was self-hate as a female, to be straight. That someone being attracted to men meant that I hate myself as a woman, I would be a fucking idiot to pretend to be attracted to females just because of what the rest of the world thinks. I'm straight. I'm attracted to males. If they didn't like it, they could ride the "I Don't Give a F@%K Canoe" right to Hell.

If you aren't interested in interracial dating, then so be it. That's your preference. Do you! No one's bashing you for it. The question is, why are you so angry when other people ARE interested in it?
The Plain Truth

Micro, NC

#6836 Jul 23, 2014
Secktre wrote:
<quoted text>
And why can't it just be a matter of preference? Like having a thing for men with dreads? Or an accent?
Stop trying to put a negative, generalized label on something that is dependent upon individuals. I know white women who would never date a white man. I know black women who would never date a white man. I know females who are into chicks, males who are into guys, and one Latina who will only have choke-sex.
The fact of the matter is, that we all have our own preferences whether we notice it or not. Racism is ignorance, and ignorance isn't attractive no matter who you are.There's nothing wrong with any race, or interracial dating. There is a difference between self-hate and being open-minded and courageous enough to admit what you want and who you want.
Dating outside your race DOES NOT mean that you want to BE the race you've chosen to date. It means that rather than confining yourself to your own race to appease those around you, you've made the decision yo put your happiness first, to be with who you want to be with.
I'm female, and if someone told me that it was self-hate as a female, to be straight. That someone being attracted to men meant that I hate myself as a woman, I would be a fucking idiot to pretend to be attracted to females just because of what the rest of the world thinks. I'm straight. I'm attracted to males. If they didn't like it, they could ride the "I Don't Give a F@%K Canoe" right to Hell.
If you aren't interested in interracial dating, then so be it. That's your preference. Do you! No one's bashing you for it. The question is, why are you so angry when other people ARE interested in it?
If you love crackers or you are a homo it both goes against naturre! You may as well run the whole gambit and go beastiality just like the crackers if you are that liberal! Crackers hate you, they only want to use yo azz! A lepord can not change its spots and preference has nothing to do with it! It is in their nature, so don't try and project their hate on me! I think that you do hate yourself and that is why you are attracted to them! You want to breed the black out of you therefore some how thinking that you have rid yourself of some sort of self imagianed stigma of being black in the first place!!! how pitiful lol!!!!!!! Be what you be!!!!!!
The Plain Truth

Micro, NC

#6837 Jul 23, 2014
cmd6241983 wrote:
I can understand that white men are more open to the type of women he date. The question is why do black women need to lower their standards & date just any ole man while a man can heighten his standards when it comes to meeting a beautiful woman with a perfect body, no kids, submissive etc. I'll never understand why black men want a top-of-the-line woman & then turn around & complain & whine about black women wanting to date a top-of-the-line man....
Top of the line? You are talking out of the bottom of your azz!

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