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Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#1 Jul 8, 2013
Older Mature BM seen as "Pillars of Shame"

Sadly many younger Black women refuse to older Black men "Lazy, Womanizers, Living off women, Dumb, Scoffers, Sociopathic, harassers, make bad decisions, chasing white women and poor examples of Manhood for any young women to look up too to admire.

Its sad to see young 30 year old women r can't look to Black males as good Leaders, Fathers or Pillars of strength, men they want in their lives and admire. Lately I hear a lot of younger BW telling older Black men offf for their behaviors.laziness and poor choices they made in their lives.

YOUNG BLACK WOMEN LOOK AT OLDER BLACK MEN AS PILLARS OF SHAME!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#2 Jul 8, 2013
Older Mature BM seen as "Pillars of Shame"

Sadly many younger Black women refer to older Black men as"Lazy, Womanizers, Living off women, Dumb, Scoffers, Sociopathic, harassers, makes poor decisions, unfaithful husbands, Absentee Fathers all poor examples of Manhood for any young women to look up too to admire.

Its sad to see young 30 year old women who can't find Good Black men who are leaders to be admired by them. Good Fathers, Good husbands or Pillars of strength in their communities who they can admire.

Lately I hear a lot of younger BW telling older Black men off for their irresponsible behaviors.laziness and poor choices they made in their lives when these men try to offer advice.

Reasons why is so many people talk about Black men's foul behaviors that they are seen as as "Sources of Shame" and there are not many men to be admired.

YOUNG BLACK WOMEN LOOK AT OLDER BLACK MEN AS PILLARS OF SHAME!

Younger Black women are saying their don't want Black males or their behaviors or excuses for not measuring up. Many are making the decision to go for other races of men rather than the Shameful Black males who are poor examples!

Black women have always been forthright and strong. They decided education was the way to pull themselves up and now dating/marrying out is a way to live a better life since Black males refuse to do for their own race!

I truly admire Black women for their strength!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#4 Jul 8, 2013
jimmy__in__philly wrote:
<quoted text>
what's good maw nigguh !
you take yo' meds this morning ?
MACEO

I just described you! LMAO

You look like the biggest LOSER and a FOOL! lmao
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#5 Jul 8, 2013
Older Mature BM seen as "Pillars of Shame"

Sadly many younger Black women refer to older Black men as"Lazy, Womanizers, Living off women, Dumb, Scoffers, Sociopathic, harassers, makes poor decisions, unfaithful husbands, Absentee Fathers all poor examples of Manhood for any young women to look up too to admire.

Its sad to see young 30 year old women who can't find Good Black men who are leaders to be admired by them. Good Fathers, Good husbands or Pillars of strength in their communities who they can admire.

Lately I hear a lot of younger BW telling older Black men off for their irresponsible behaviors.laziness and poor choices they made in their lives when these men try to offer advice.

Reasons why is so many people talk about Black men's foul behaviors that they are seen as as "Sources of Shame" and there are not many men to be admired.

YOUNG BLACK WOMEN LOOK AT OLDER BLACK MEN AS PILLARS OF SHAME!

Younger Black women are saying their don't want Black males or their behaviors or excuses for not measuring up. Many are making the decision to go for other races of men rather than the Shameful Black males who are poor examples!

Black women have always been forthright and strong. They decided education was the way to pull themselves up and now dating/marrying out is a way to live a better life since Black males refuse to do for their own race!

I truly admire Black women for their strength!
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#6 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
Older Mature BM seen as "Pillars of Shame"
Sadly many younger Black women refuse to older Black men "Lazy, Womanizers, Living off women, Dumb, Scoffers, Sociopathic, harassers, make bad decisions, chasing white women and poor examples of Manhood for any young women to look up too to admire.
Its sad to see young 30 year old women r can't look to Black males as good Leaders, Fathers or Pillars of strength, men they want in their lives and admire. Lately I hear a lot of younger BW telling older Black men offf for their behaviors.laziness and poor choices they made in their lives.
YOUNG BLACK WOMEN LOOK AT OLDER BLACK MEN AS PILLARS OF SHAME!
They could also be looked at as Pillars of Poverty because of their low incomes, fixed incomes, or no income at all.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#7 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> They could also be looked at as Pillars of Poverty because of their low incomes, fixed incomes, or no income at all.
MACEO

You made that decision yourself!

MANY DON'T HAVE FIXED INCOMES because you don't work consistently enough!

black men are always living off White women!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#8 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> They could also be looked at as Pillars of Poverty because of their low incomes, fixed incomes, or no income at all.
MACEO

MACEO THIS IS YOU!

You don't have much time MACEO

Grow up and Man up!

Give back to your community! Surely if you can do for White folks for 35 years; you can give to Black folks 10 years by mentoring!

Its sad to see an almost 60 year old man WASTE YOUR LIFE AND HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT!

SHAKING MY HEAD!

Making your Mother Proud?

I doubt it!

People will point to you like they point to most "Sorry Black Men and say he didn't do anything but put Black women down and elevate only White women!

He's an Uncle Tom!

I'm not against IR relationship! I don't hate White women or any race, I just don't understand why you don't do for your own race MACEO!

Why do so much for White men and White women but not your own race? You Put down Black women every chance you get but Black women do more for the race than Black men like you do!

You haven't done a Damn thing for anybody! Your extremely Selfish and self centered which is why your ALONE!

YOU SHAMED YOUR MOTHER!
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#9 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
MACEO THIS IS YOU!
You don't have much time MACEO
Grow up and Man up!
Give back to your community! Surely if you can do for White folks for 35 years; you can give to Black folks 10 years by mentoring!
Its sad to see an almost 60 year old man WASTE YOUR LIFE AND HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT!
SHAKING MY HEAD!
Making your Mother Proud?
I doubt it!
People will point to you like they point to most "Sorry Black Men and say he didn't do anything but put Black women down and elevate only White women!
He's an Uncle Tom!
I'm not against IR relationship! I don't hate White women or any race, I just don't understand why you don't do for your own race MACEO!
Why do so much for White men and White women but not your own race? You Put down Black women every chance you get but Black women do more for the race than Black men like you do!
You haven't done a Damn thing for anybody! Your extremely Selfish and self centered which is why your ALONE!
YOU SHAMED YOUR MOTHER!
I'm not black so your entire demented diatribe of insanity is moot. Let's see you waste some more bandwidth before shift change, you epic, downtrodden, psychotic loser.
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#10 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
MACEO THIS IS YOU!
You don't have much time MACEO
Grow up and Man up!
Give back to your community! Surely if you can do for White folks for 35 years; you can give to Black folks 10 years by mentoring!
Its sad to see an almost 60 year old man WASTE YOUR LIFE AND HAVE NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT!
SHAKING MY HEAD!
Making your Mother Proud?
I doubt it!
People will point to you like they point to most "Sorry Black Men and say he didn't do anything but put Black women down and elevate only White women!
He's an Uncle Tom!
I'm not against IR relationship! I don't hate White women or any race, I just don't understand why you don't do for your own race MACEO!
Why do so much for White men and White women but not your own race? You Put down Black women every chance you get but Black women do more for the race than Black men like you do!
You haven't done a Damn thing for anybody! Your extremely Selfish and self centered which is why your ALONE!
YOU SHAMED YOUR MOTHER!
Are you still embarrassed because your mother got kicked out of white restrooms and was forbidden to use white water fountains? Yeah, that's what I thought, psycho.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#11 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> Are you still embarrassed because your mother got kicked out of white restrooms and was forbidden to use white water fountains? Yeah, that's what I thought, psycho.
MACEO

I didn't grow up in the South!

Sorry MACEO! Where I come from there not enough to put up signs No Blacks not allow!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#12 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> I'm not black so your entire demented diatribe of insanity is moot. Let's see you waste some more bandwidth before shift change, you epic, downtrodden, psychotic loser.
MACEO

SADLY THIS IS YOU!

Blog:

Bw, there are some "little-big lies" that float around you that many of you have internalized, to your supreme detriment. I call these lies this name because these little lies sneak in while your attention is misdirected, but they have a big effect. Some might call it the Trojan horse effect, while I file it in the okey-doke punch category.

I've mentioned a few times that as an AA woman I had never heard I was at the "bottom" of the so-called beauty and desirability totem pole of women and not marriage material until I came online 7 years ago. LOL!

Imagine that! I had lived in the United States mostly for well over 4 decades and had never heard, experienced, or imagined that. As an average looking woman (because most women are in the average range of looks) of obvious subSaharan African descent, men of various ethnicities had expressed interest in me countless times, and 3 accomplished men of different races and ethnicities had proposed marriage to me. I had married 2 of them and raised 2 sons and still had no idea that I was an undesirable, unmarriageable woman at the "bottom" of any totem pole. LOL!

But when I began to blog and read various sites, that's when I read where damaged beyond repair or DBR, BLACK MEN with with their diseased mentality (not surprisingly) seemingly felt it was their duty to inform Black women women DAILY who looked very much like me that we were not attractive and not fit for marriage. LOL! And they wanted us to know that even if they did pay us any attention at all, we were definitely not marriage material--not to them. That these Black women should be used, abused, left with babies and not taken care of because their of little value! LOL. They have educations, wealth, property, many elevate themselves while Black males do nothing! LOL

That part was okay with me because no woman in her right mind should be interested in mingling with any of them anyway.

But the question was: WHY were these women paying this type of male any attention, whatsoever?

Black men are telling most AA women a lie they are not attractive and unfit for marriage and some of them would even say it about themselves and repeat it to each others because these men like Maceo Patterson go around spreading vicious lies!

Let me just say that DBR people will say or do anything to prove a point! One thing that did get my attention as I read some of the comments and posts was that a whole lot of bw did not seem to realize that these males had a disease and even though some of the women would say they knew it, they still paid close attention to the poisonous verbal droppings of these damaged foolish Black males. There always trying to argue and reason with them to get these males to view them as attractive women of value. What Black women fail to realize is that these DBR Black males don't value themselves and see that these women have improved their lives and don't need them. So these Sick black males say their unattractive and unmarriageable.

Why else were they arguing with these mentally-diseased males? It's like a developmentally damaged child yelling out 2 + 2 = 37! Why would I, a person who is of normal intelligence, waste time debating, arguing with this child??? Wouldn't you consider me stupid?

But what really held my attention they said Black women ARE at the bottom of the beauty and desirability totem pole, we have to do this or that." when most Black males are the lowest on the food chain and haven't done much with their lives other than to get incarcerated and left their communities in chaos.

Black males are DBR telling poisonous lies! Your FOCUS should be identifying them, not supporting them and leave them for other races of men!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#13 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> Are you still embarrassed because your mother got kicked out of white restrooms and was forbidden to use white water fountains? Yeah, that's what I thought, psycho.
MACEO

Your an Embarrassment! LMAO

DUMB Old ARSE Black man!

What a waste!
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#15 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
I didn't grow up in the South!
Sorry MACEO! Where I come from there not enough to put up signs No Blacks not allow!
Maybe you didn't grow up in the South but your mother did and that was my point all along. PAY ATTENTION!!!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#16 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> Maybe you didn't grow up in the South but your mother did and that was my point all along. PAY ATTENTION!!!
Blog:

Bw, there are some "little-big lies" that float around you that many of you have internalized, to your supreme detriment. I call these lies this name because these little lies sneak in while your attention is misdirected, but they have a big effect. Some might call it the Trojan horse effect, while I file it in the okey-doke punch category.

I've mentioned a few times that as an AA woman I had never heard I was at the "bottom" of the so-called beauty and desirability totem pole of women and not marriage material until I came online 7 years ago. LOL!

Imagine that! I had lived in the United States mostly for well over 4 decades and had never heard, experienced, or imagined that. As an average looking woman (because most women are in the average range of looks) of obvious subSaharan African descent, men of various ethnicities had expressed interest in me countless times, and 3 accomplished men of different races and ethnicities had proposed marriage to me. I had married 2 of them and raised 2 sons and still had no idea that I was an undesirable, unmarriageable woman at the "bottom" of any totem pole. LOL!

But when I began to blog and read various sites, that's when I read where damaged beyond repair or DBR, BLACK MEN with with their diseased mentality (not surprisingly) seemingly felt it was their duty to inform Black women women DAILY who looked very much like me that we were not attractive and not fit for marriage. LOL! And they wanted us to know that even if they did pay us any attention at all, we were definitely not marriage material--not to them. That these Black women should be used, abused, left with babies and not taken care of because their of little value! LOL. They have educations, wealth, property, many elevate themselves while Black males do nothing! LOL

That part was okay with me because no woman in her right mind should be interested in mingling with any of them anyway.

But the question was: WHY were these women paying this type of male any attention, whatsoever?

Black men are telling most AA women a lie they are not attractive and unfit for marriage and some of them would even say it about themselves and repeat it to each others because these men like Maceo Patterson go around spreading vicious lies!

Let me just say that DBR people will say or do anything to prove a point! One thing that did get my attention as I read some of the comments and posts was that a whole lot of bw did not seem to realize that these males had a disease and even though some of the women would say they knew it, they still paid close attention to the poisonous verbal droppings of these damaged foolish Black males. There always trying to argue and reason with them to get these males to view them as attractive women of value. What Black women fail to realize is that these DBR Black males don't value themselves and see that these women have improved their lives and don't need them. So these Sick black males say their unattractive and unmarriageable.

Why else were they arguing with these mentally-diseased males? It's like a developmentally damaged child yelling out 2 + 2 = 37! Why would I, a person who is of normal intelligence, waste time debating, arguing with this child??? Wouldn't you consider me stupid?

But what really held my attention they said Black women ARE at the bottom of the beauty and desirability totem pole, we have to do this or that." when most Black males are the lowest on the food chain and haven't done much with their lives other than to get incarcerated and left their communities in chaos.

Black males are DBR telling poisonous lies! Your FOCUS should be identifying them, not supporting them and leave them for other races of men!
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#17 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> Maybe you didn't grow up in the South but your mother did and that was my point all along. PAY ATTENTION!!!
MACEO

Your MENTALITY UNSTABLE! LMAO

YOUR OBSESSED WITH SLAVERY SO BEGONE DUMMIE! You took care of White women for 40 years SO YOUR SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR OPPRESSOR!

I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR YOU FOOL!~
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#18 Jul 9, 2013
Blog:

Bw, there are some "little-big lies" that float around you that many of you have internalized, to your supreme detriment. I call these lies this name because these little lies sneak in while your attention is misdirected, but they have a big effect. Some might call it the Trojan horse effect, while I file it in the okey-doke punch category.

I've mentioned a few times that as an AA woman I had never heard I was at the "bottom" of the so-called beauty and desirability totem pole of women and not marriage material until I came online 7 years ago. LOL!

Imagine that! I had lived in the United States mostly for well over 4 decades and had never heard, experienced, or imagined that. As an average looking woman (because most women are in the average range of looks) of obvious subSaharan African descent, men of various ethnicities had expressed interest in me countless times, and 3 accomplished men of different races and ethnicities had proposed marriage to me. I had married 2 of them and raised 2 sons and still had no idea that I was an undesirable, unmarriageable woman at the "bottom" of any totem pole. LOL!

But when I began to blog and read various sites, that's when I read where damaged beyond repair or DBR, BLACK MEN with with their diseased mentality (not surprisingly) seemingly felt it was their duty to inform Black women women DAILY who looked very much like me that we were not attractive and not fit for marriage. LOL! And they wanted us to know that even if they did pay us any attention at all, we were definitely not marriage material--not to them. That these Black women should be used, abused, left with babies and not taken care of because their of little value! LOL. They have educations, wealth, property, many elevate themselves while Black males do nothing! LOL

That part was okay with me because no woman in her right mind should be interested in mingling with any of them anyway.

But the question was: WHY were these women paying this type of male any attention, whatsoever?

Black men are telling most AA women a lie they are not attractive and unfit for marriage and some of them would even say it about themselves and repeat it to each others because these men like Maceo Patterson go around spreading vicious lies!

Let me just say that DBR people will say or do anything to prove a point! One thing that did get my attention as I read some of the comments and posts was that a whole lot of bw did not seem to realize that these males had a disease and even though some of the women would say they knew it, they still paid close attention to the poisonous verbal droppings of these damaged foolish Black males. There always trying to argue and reason with them to get these males to view them as attractive women of value. What Black women fail to realize is that these DBR Black males don't value themselves and see that these women have improved their lives and don't need them. So these Sick black males say their unattractive and unmarriageable.

Why else were they arguing with these mentally-diseased males? It's like a developmentally damaged child yelling out 2 + 2 = 37! Why would I, a person who is of normal intelligence, waste time debating, arguing with this child??? Wouldn't you consider me stupid?

But what really held my attention they said Black women ARE at the bottom of the beauty and desirability totem pole, we have to do this or that." when most Black males are the lowest on the food chain and haven't done much with their lives other than to get incarcerated and left their communities in chaos.

Black males are DBR telling poisonous lies! Your FOCUS should be identifying them, not supporting them and leave them for other races of men!
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#19 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
SADLY THIS IS YOU!
Blog:
Bw, there are some "little-big lies" that float around you that many of you have internalized, to your supreme detriment. I call these lies this name because these little lies sneak in while your attention is misdirected, but they have a big effect. Some might call it the Trojan horse effect, while I file it in the okey-doke punch category.
I've mentioned a few times that as an AA woman I had never heard I was at the "bottom" of the so-called beauty and desirability totem pole of women and not marriage material until I came online 7 years ago. LOL!

You have always been quite accustomed to being on the bottom, especially when you are laying face-down drunk under a barstool in your ex-employer's booty shake club. The shame you brought to your family was immeasurable.
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#20 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Your MENTALITY UNSTABLE! LMAO
YOUR OBSESSED WITH SLAVERY SO BEGONE DUMMIE! You took care of White women for 40 years SO YOUR SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR OPPRESSOR!
I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR YOU FOOL!~
You're so stupid you can't find your whale azz with both hands. You calling someone mentally unstable is like a coyote calling someone ugly. Flaming hypocrite.
Darkness Falls

Houston, TX

#21 Jul 9, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Your MENTALITY UNSTABLE! LMAO
YOUR OBSESSED WITH SLAVERY SO BEGONE DUMMIE! You took care of White women for 40 years SO YOUR SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR OPPRESSOR!
I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR YOU FOOL!~
How could I take care of white women for 40 years when I only 27, you flaming dumbfk? Do the math, Professor Jiveass.
Sadbutrue

Chantilly, VA

#22 Jul 9, 2013
Darkness Falls wrote:
<quoted text> You're so stupid you can't find your whale azz with both hands. You calling someone mentally unstable is like a coyote calling someone ugly. Flaming hypocrite.
MACEO

You get so angry when I tell you the truth about how you support White women and white males for 40 years and didn't do for your own race and family!

Your a FOOL MACEO!

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