I don't want to marry a BLACK MAN

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#605 Aug 6, 2014
Aussie Bob wrote:
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The Mexicans already are.
I blame the government for not securing the borders better.
Big Knob

United States

#606 Aug 6, 2014
While people are still bumping this thread, thats the time to drop some real knowledge, like the 1966 song by James Brown called, " Dont be a dropout" the hook goes " without an education, you might as well be dead" Nothings wrong with that is there?

Seek knowledge of self or suffer the consequences!.....

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#607 Aug 6, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
@ Capree the mexicans are here because the white bussiness community needed cheap labor that they used to get from blacks prior to the civil rights movement, bp use to do the work the mexicans are doing. Now that the mexicans have woke up and want full rights as citizens that has wp nervous, they cant take from blacks what blacks didnt have in the first place, they've always viewed the southwest as a part of nothern mexico right now california is a non white majority state, so it wont be long before the states politicians, will be spanish speaking. Instead of focusing on the jews, the mexicans, and others, BP need to become competitive and DO FOR SELF, or suffer the CONSEQUENCES!
All of these illegals would not be here if the U.S. government would have enforced border controls. True many Mexicans are in the same low status, low paying menial job that were held by most black people 50 years ago. Now Mexicans want to take over the better paying jobs that they see some black people in. They have already been killing black people and taking over black neighborhoods Califoria. For now Mexicans want to be second largest group of "citizens" in the U.S. next to whites but white people shouldn't relax thinking that they have control over them or that the Mexican people love whites any more than they do the black people. Because then white people will be next on the chopping block.

Since: Jun 14

Lynwood, CA

#608 Aug 6, 2014
Ashleigh wrote:
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Oh shut up, you know everyone has preferences and mine arent ridiculous lol
I have my crap together and many black men don't period. I work, I'm a young lady, ofcourse I live my parents..it's safer..but I still pay rent and help around the house. Yes I have my own care and it's paid for .
Your trying to find flaws but it's not working.
*sighs* your boring me now...
Let's compare your life to mine....

1) You live with your parents

Me: I have my own house

2) You work

Me: I have a career

3) You pay rent

Me: I'm almost done with my mortgage

4) You're educated

Me: I'm considering doctoral studies.

I'm not trying to put you on blast here but any 25 year old who lives with mommy and daddy because it's safer but is desiring to have a man who has his stuff together but the woman doesn't is a hypocrite. YOU don't have your stuff together if you're 25 years old and lives with mommy and daddy. Unless you are a victim of the economic times where you've been laid off you really have no excuse. As for me trying to find flaws, I didn't need to try, this whole thread is a flaw and your premise on how "worthless black men are" is a major flaw. I'm a considerably handsome man and that is not because I'm in conceit I let women of all ethnic groups tell me.

I'm merely trying to find out what do you bring to the table besides a mediocre job and a nice smile, and frankly judging by this post you bring absolutely nothing. You're 25 in college. I graduated undergrad when I was 22. Had my own place when I was 19 years old and yes it's scary but life is scary. You sound extremely immature and I don't buy your brand of nonsense. You chose to make an unfounded generalization based on some knuckleheads you live around. If you're a college student and if one of the academic requirements is to take a biology 101 course then you'd know that according to the scientific method, then you'd understand that in order to come to a valid claim one must have a hypothesis and one must test that hypothesis to see if the hypothesis is true.

Anecdotal claims are hypothetical yes but there is no substantiate claim through anecdotes. You've just shown that you want a man that brings MORE than you to the table when in fact marriages work when people have mutual compatibility. In these times you have to bring more than your looks to the tables especially in my house. It would be different if you had a career goal in mind but the whole time in this thread you've given not one shred of indication that you yourself have a goal in life. In my book you're just another young dumb girl who I'd use for a booty call because the way you present yourself here, you'd be a waste of time and gas money. You probably don't even have a car. The axiom of any person who has nothing to offer is one who begs for riches but is a pauper.

BURN!

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Since: Jan 11

Ardsley, NY

#609 Aug 6, 2014
Ashleigh wrote:
This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)

So I know Not every black man fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..

Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black men I've met are in my age group and they all either
1 had a baby mama or multiple baby mamas
2 lacked motivation to get a job
3 didn't have an education
4 obsessed with the fact that I was "light skin"
5 on the dl
6 cheaters
7immature don't wanna grow up
8 hoes
Etc..
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet men like this !!

Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black men but the bad outweighs the good.
My sister is married to a handsome Puerto Rican man and she's is happy.he is a hardworker, he is really sweet to her and a great father to my nephew.

My mom is creole (mixed black) and she wants me to keep my options open to black men too.i try to explain to her that times changed and black men like my dad don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black man and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white guy .

I've been recently talking to a guy who is mexican/white and he is tall,gorgeous,smart,(he is in college to become an engineer)and funny. I told my mom about him and she just kind of shuts me out.

But there's this black guy that is lazy and cocky who has been trying to get with me for 4 years and my mom likes him.she always mentions him and goes out of her way to convince me to be with him and the only thing he has going for himself is a decent car,good looks and he is tall.
Finding a decent black man is like 1/1,000,000.

Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???
Good. Go find someone from another race. Don't torture some unsuspecting innocent black man with all of your emotional baggage.

Since: Jun 14

Lynwood, CA

#610 Aug 6, 2014
Jubilant Sleep wrote:
591 comments...let that sink in.
What is wrong with you people?
You're right I'm done actually. I was just entertaining myself with this nonsense. I'm about to close down and leave my office. At the end of the day I've pretty much pimp slap all the bitter black women in this thread.

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Since: Jan 10

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#611 Aug 6, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
BP need to become competitive and DO FOR SELF, or suffer the CONSEQUENCES!
I agree everyone had better worry about themselves. We think now that blacks gets mistreated by the legal system and society, harassed by cops and don't have any opportunities, just wait until we have a Mexican government and legal system.
Big Knob

United States

#612 Aug 6, 2014
Capree wrote:
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I agree everyone had better worry about themselves. We think now that blacks gets mistreated by the legal system and society, harassed by cops and don't have any opportunities, just wait until we have a Mexican government and legal system.
We blacks?, i dont have that victim analysis and it was the white business community that needed cheap labor that blacks used to do, then they set up poor blacks with welfare colonialism, now its gotten out of hand wp are scared to death, why, because obama won the election with a 70% non white vote, so wp are looking this and the browning of america. Now mexico refused to allow slavery in its territory and set the slaves free which angerd whites, and thats one of the reasons for the mexican ,, american war. Can you show me any history where a mexican raped, enslaved, and robbed bp of their names, their god, their knowledge of self, and jim crowed you,? Did a mexican kill Martin Luther King,......show me.
Big Knob

United States

#613 Aug 6, 2014
Capree wrote:
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All of these illegals would not be here if the U.S. government would have enforced border controls. True many Mexicans are in the same low status, low paying menial job that were held by most black people 50 years ago. Now Mexicans want to take over the better paying jobs that they see some black people in. They have already been killing black people and taking over black neighborhoods Califoria. For now Mexicans want to be second largest group of "citizens" in the U.S. next to whites but white people shouldn't relax thinking that they have control over them or that the Mexican people love whites any more than they do the black people. Because then white people will be next on the chopping block.
Youre wrong, by 1975 to 1980 a shift in the economy from manufacturing to hi-tech, caused blk communities to suffer economic loss in terms of jobs & many communities that were majority black, the bp who inherited those homes from grand parents or parents sold those homes to the mexicans while value was still in those property , they didnt take anything from nobody, and you have had drugs shootouts between blacks & mexicans, but alot of it centers around bw on drugs, who hang with mexicans for drugs, voluntarily, then when they get used up, dogged out they go to bm and say, look are you gonna let them treat your blk sister like that, and thats what start these conflicts wether in compton, or the oakwood area, trust me on this one, these brothers out here are riders, and are not bowing down to anybody,.........you'd have to live here to know here and dont rely on the white media.
Silhouette

Indianapolis, IN

#614 Aug 6, 2014
Ugh wrote:
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Nice site. Which forum is the main forum to talk in genenral?
The Lounge is for general discussion.:)

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#615 Aug 6, 2014
This thread is still going? I figured she got the information she needed

“Sleep is My Sanctuary”

Since: Mar 14

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#616 Aug 6, 2014
melissa__ wrote:
This thread is still going? I figured she got the information she needed
I know, right?

Now they've just fallen into black on black gender bashing...it's like it's the only thing they know how to do.

“The Beating Heart Of Africa”

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Since: Mar 10

Washington, DC

#617 Aug 6, 2014
If you don't want to marry a Black man, then don't. Live your life and stop worrying about Black men.

These threads just lead to the usual gender wars that have been going on topix for years.

Since: Jul 14

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#618 Aug 6, 2014
A woman isnt a gold-digger if she likes men who can take care of themselves...

In the modern day it means that they are financially secure.

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#619 Aug 6, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> We blacks?, i dont have that victim analysis and it was the white business community that needed cheap labor that blacks used to do, then they set up poor blacks with welfare colonialism, now its gotten out of hand wp are scared to death, why, because obama won the election with a 70% non white vote, so wp are looking this and the browning of america. Now mexico refused to allow slavery in its territory and set the slaves free which angerd whites, and thats one of the reasons for the mexican ,, american war. Can you show me any history where a mexican raped, enslaved, and robbed bp of their names, their god, their knowledge of self, and jim crowed you,? Did a mexican kill Martin Luther King,......show me.
Of course we blacks, we whites, we Asians and we NAs and we everybodies, yes all of Americans will suffer under a Mexican government. They will be even more corrupt than the white government and far more salvage. Mexicans can even run their own country and is running here to live where it's better for them so what makes you think they run this one? What 70% of non-white voters? Black voters gave their all in voting for Obama, also got a large portion of the Hispanic voters (Asians at only 2% of the U.S. pop, don't matter that much) but it was the large white democratic vote that put Obama into the white house.

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#620 Aug 6, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> Youre wrong, by 1975 to 1980 a shift in the economy from manufacturing to hi-tech, caused blk communities to suffer economic loss in terms of jobs & many communities that were majority black, the bp who inherited those homes from grand parents or parents sold those homes to the mexicans while value was still in those property , they didnt take anything from nobody, and you have had drugs shootouts between blacks & mexicans, but alot of it centers around bw on drugs, who hang with mexicans for drugs, voluntarily, then when they get used up, dogged out they go to bm and say, look are you gonna let them treat your blk sister like that, and thats what start these conflicts wether in compton, or the oakwood area, trust me on this one, these brothers out here are riders, and are not bowing down to anybody,.........you'd have to live here to know here and dont rely on the white media.
I am sorry but your post sounds like a complete alternative universe and probably make a good movie. LMAO!
Big Knob

United States

#621 Aug 6, 2014
Capree wrote:
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Of course we blacks, we whites, we Asians and we NAs and we everybodies, yes all of Americans will suffer under a Mexican government. They will be even more corrupt than the white government and far more salvage. Mexicans can even run their own country and is running here to live where it's better for them so what makes you think they run this one? What 70% of non-white voters? Black voters gave their all in voting for Obama, also got a large portion of the Hispanic voters (Asians at only 2% of the U.S. pop, don't matter that much) but it was the large white democratic vote that put Obama into the
whitemm house.
He won with only 30% of the white vote didnt he? Look my focus is black people, being competitive, and family values, owning more bussinesses, and exercising their rights to bare arms.........Remember what James Brown said in the song dont be a dropout, without an education, you might as well be dead! Now you worry about others who're not worrying about you, and ill keep focusing on & helping my team to win..........

Since: Jul 14

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#622 Aug 6, 2014
Jubilant Sleep wrote:
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I know, right?
Now they've just fallen into black on black gender bashing...it's like it's the only thing they know how to do.
Yea it's stupid, and I'm still confused how Mexicans got brought up
Big Knob

United States

#623 Aug 6, 2014
@ Capree google Amos n Andy, the blackface radio show, of the 1930s, see how your mentors charles correll & freeman gosden, two wm created this blackface routine, complete with the chicken stealing, watermelon eatin, zip coon negro , strong bw, shiftless negro images today we have internet black-troll-face, that create these types of threads, and entertain themselves at the expense of your ignorancy..........this bm vs bw was done in the 1930s ....by amos n andy

Everybody google amos n andy, thats whats happening HERE!
Big Knob

United States

#624 Aug 6, 2014
Cont. Post.....Google BlackFace Routine, and you'll see whats happening on all of these topix blk-fourm threads............there is a history of this.

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