I don't want to marry a BLACK MAN
Just me

Lawrenceville, GA

#2609 Aug 23, 2014
lootapalooza wrote:
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This is a lot of ... stuff ... you said there. My response is quite simple and to the point:
It takes two to tango.
Blaming black women ALONE for the state of parenting/youth in the black community is defensive and misses the larger picture. It's also a rather transparent attempt to divert responsibility for the short-comings of black men.
Clearly, your comprehension skills are limited, i will excuse you from this conversation in advance.
Just me

Lawrenceville, GA

#2610 Aug 23, 2014
Ugh wrote:
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lootpolooza thinks you agree with his points, entirely. I read your post here, and it's a fair and balanced look at the situation between BM and BW. And this the kind of mature-minds we need debating a complicated and sensitive issues such as that with BM and BW.
Lootpolooza makes the mistake of condemning BM only. He ends it by favoring the Woman side over the Man and thinks his criticism is balanced in looking at the situation. Delusional.
In your post here, you was able to article the flaws of the BW, too. And BM. And I agree. Women have her faults equally with BM. And Both genders need to look at themselves and recognize their flaws in fairness to the other.
Lootpolooza going around calling BM "emotional 12 year old" and think he's getting some where here. He then turn around and created a thread trying to mock me and ends up looking even stupider in light of chiding BM for acting like 12 year old. Smh.
Anyway, good post.:-)
Thank you for understanding the complexities of the black American community.

“Repent and worship God”

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#2611 Aug 23, 2014
Just me wrote:
<quoted text>Let's be honest, your argument has relevance but
not when black women willingly engage in sexual
activities with the black men who have no
substance. I blame poor judgment by the black
women who clubs by night and collects food
stamps by day. They don't stop after one failed
experience, they just continue to have kids. They
judge and descriminate against black men who
seek to better themselves to become an honorable
member of society and flock to the drug dealing,
crazed man that will most certainly impregnate
them and leave to duplicate the practice with
another unfortunate women. So yes women do
make the choice and i believe they are responsible
for the set backs of all black Americans. Also,
these black women put a price on their bodies, not
allowing for a true connection. This makes their
counterparts feel the need to do all they can to
afford a womens time. This degrades the value of
black women while altering the path of a potential
Father or husband. Black women aren't loyal to the
black man, they are loyal to the dollar and the race
they believe controls it.
Immoral men are with immoral women.

“Repent and worship God”

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#2612 Aug 23, 2014
Just me wrote:
<quoted text>Black women suffer from their acute loss of identity, forgetting that they are responsible for the upbringing of the black man. Like all women, these individuals justify their agendas while ridiculing an identical trait that serves them no purpose.
Can you cite biblical passage ( book, chapter, and verse) that states that black women are responsible for the upbringing of black men considering men are not children?

I thank you in advance.

“Repent and worship God”

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#2613 Aug 23, 2014
The Sarge wrote:
This can easily be switched around 180 degrees. Black men can say with accuracy on how Black Women are the the worst. Reasons?
1, BW are loud and uncouth.
2, BW always try to take charge of everything. Can't tell them to do anything at all.
3, BW cheat.
4, BW are way too focused on themselves and their friends.
5, BW are mindlessly violent.
6, BW are unattractive.
7, BW are just welfare-mommies trying to get money out of men through "friends of the court."
8, BW are high maintenance.

In all my experiences, Black women gave me more flak than all other women combined. Yet, this has never discouraged me from loving my sistas. I see it as running into the bad ones. I've met plenty of good black women out there (most were married anyway).

You are just venting and using what few bad experiences in your young age to generalize. I've seen this way too often in my years (turning 42 soon) and seen it in way too many angles from way too many groups. I recently graduated from college with my second degree and can attest to the negative vibes women of ALL ethnic groups have on black men due to the media, negative words from other ethicis, the outward ghetto appearance and so on. Zero fun. But no matter what, the good black men are quite often overlooked in favor of the negative vibes and the bigotry.

Sure, we men have much to improve on. In contrast, so do women. Postings like yours is not helping at all.
Good men are with good women while immoral men are with immoral women.

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#2614 Aug 23, 2014
Ashleigh wrote:
<quoted text>Thanks,but I really want black women to comment..
Love who you want to love regardless of his race but be a virtuous woman.

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#2615 Aug 23, 2014
Ephesians 6:1-4

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.

"Honor your father and mother”(this is the first commandment with a promise),“that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Ugh

Houston, TX

#2616 Aug 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Can you cite biblical passage ( book, chapter, and verse) that states that black women are responsible for the upbringing of black men considering men are not children?
I thank you in advance.
He meant "uplifting" BM. And raising children but that falls on both parents.

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#2617 Aug 23, 2014
For I have chosen him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.”

Genesis 18:19

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#2618 Aug 23, 2014
The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice; he who fathers a wise son will be glad in him.

Proverbs 23:24
Ugh

Houston, TX

#2619 Aug 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
Ephesians 6:1-4
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
"Honor your father and mother”(this is the first commandment with a promise),“that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Did you honor your Mother by seeing that she conceived you with the Black Man seed, Mrs. Phoenix Ascended???

Hahaha.......I couldn't resist!

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#2620 Aug 23, 2014
The righteous who walks in his integrity– blessed are his children after him!

Proverbs 20:7

“Hunde kala e saa'i mun”

Since: Mar 14

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#2621 Aug 23, 2014
Diva wrote:
There's a lot of good black men out there. My last boyfriend was a doctor and treated me like royalty - vacations, shopping, romance, attention, good loving, always see the positive side of things and loved me with natural hair and no makeup. We didn't work put because he wasn't the one woman type and I don't like sharing but I can say we had some good times together. I'm waiting for Mr. Right who will be all that plus faithful. All black men are not bad. The media just gives the hoodlums way too much attention.
Finally someone who gets it
Kop

London, UK

#2622 Aug 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Can you cite biblical passage ( book, chapter, and verse) that states that black women are responsible for the upbringing of black men considering men are not children?
I thank you in advance.
whats this got to do with the bible or any religious book
Kop

London, UK

#2623 Aug 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
For I have chosen him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.”
Genesis 18:19
you are a slave to your book if you go to the book every single time for right and wrong

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#2625 Aug 23, 2014
So that you and your son and your grandson might fear the LORD your God, to keep all His statutes and His commandments, which I command you, all the days of your life, and that your days may be prolonged.

Deuteronomy 6:2

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#2626 Aug 23, 2014
And you shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.

Deuteronomy 6:7
Just me

Lawrenceville, GA

#2627 Aug 23, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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Can you cite biblical passage ( book, chapter, and verse) that states that black women are responsible for the upbringing of black men considering men are not children?
I thank you in advance.
A baby becomes a child and a child becomes a man. The work of the mother is vital here, how is that not redundant in the great book? I don't just hold women to be responsible...I'm aware of the no gooders...how can u comment on something you haven't thoroughly read?

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#2628 Aug 23, 2014
Kop wrote:
<quoted text>you are a slave to your book if you go to the book every single time for right and wrong
God's Word is forever. It is just and holy.

“Hunde kala e saa'i mun”

Since: Mar 14

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#2629 Aug 23, 2014
Kop wrote:
<quoted text>you are a slave to your book if you go to the book every single time for right and wrong
Whilst I agree with you in regards to that when are you going to stop pretending to be white?

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