I don't want to marry a BLACK MAN

I don't want to marry a BLACK MAN

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Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#1 Aug 2, 2014
This is a serious thread.
I need advice(so no trolls)

So I know Not every black man fits this stereotype but this is my experience with them..

Ok so I'm young (under 25) and most of the black men I've met are in my age group and they all either
1 had a baby mama or multiple baby mamas
2 lacked motivation to get a job
3 didn't have an education
4 obsessed with the fact that I was "light skin"
5 on the dl
6 cheaters
7immature don't wanna grow up
8 hoes
Etc..
I live in an upperclass neighborhood and I still meet men like this !!

Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to SOME black men but the bad outweighs the good.
My sister is married to a handsome Puerto Rican man and she's is happy.he is a hardworker, he is really sweet to her and a great father to my nephew.

My mom is creole (mixed black) and she wants me to keep my options open to black men too.i try to explain to her that times changed and black men like my dad don't really exist. I told her I didn't want to marry a black man and I'd rather date a Hispanic or white guy .

I've been recently talking to a guy who is mexican/white and he is tall,gorgeous,smart,(he is in college to become an engineer)and funny. I told my mom about him and she just kind of shuts me out.

But there's this black guy that is lazy and cocky who has been trying to get with me for 4 years and my mom likes him.she always mentions him and goes out of her way to convince me to be with him and the only thing he has going for himself is a decent car,good looks and he is tall.
Finding a decent black man is like 1/1,000,000.

Should I just ignore her and date who I want ???

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Soul Hunter

Los Angeles, CA

#2 Aug 2, 2014
You should go with non-bm and not look back!

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Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#3 Aug 2, 2014
Soul Hunter wrote:
You should go with non-bm and not look back!
Thank you. I feel the same way
Ugh

Pasadena, TX

#4 Aug 2, 2014
You come to a Black forum where you know there are Black Men, and no Men of your specifics are on this forum. To be brutally honest with you, Ash, Black American Men simply got bigger fish to fry than worry about the defective sisters wanting to date out.

I think you should go to the Latino or Anglo forum and copy/paste this thread on there and you'd probably find what you're looking for. Black Men on here are not the typical setting you see in your neighborhood of thirwt, hungry Black men salivating for some average Black American Women.

If you not about bringing knowledge to this forum, and only want to talking your personal issues and Black Women dating preference, I suggest you join another website, BBW (Beyond Black and White).

There, they fit your needs and views as all those Black Women talking about non-alcoholic Men and you get to hate Black Men on that site and with full, uninterrupted free speech as volatile and defective as you want to be. So, go there.

Otherwise, most of the intelligence brothers here aren't even cutting for the sisters just thinking about herself and sealing and thinking they are so desired by BM from this forum. Truth is, most have either a Latina Woman or a White Woman. Thus why you don't hear us bringing up our dating preference.

We stick to more educated subject matters like Antiquity History, Hebrewism, Politic, White Man Racism and Hate Crime by Whites. So, if you aren't packing an intelligence-edge to engage topics like that, you're on the wrong forum. Maybe try a porn site to get quicker date opportunities for your specifics.

Just trying to help, eh.:-)

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#5 Aug 2, 2014
As a young Black man who is doing pretty well for himself (no kids, never served time, doctor profession), I recommend that you stay away from Black men. If I had been with a Black woman like you when I was younger, I wouldn't have made it to the level of success I'm at. Fortunately, my black girlfriend provided me with the utmost support. Black women like you, who elevate other races of men, have nothing good to offer black men because you have it ingrained in you that black is inferior.

That said, you should definitely date out of your race as you might be of use to those men.

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Big Knob

United States

#6 Aug 2, 2014
Well then Ashleigh go marry singer John Mayer, you and him have something in common........he hates you and you hate yourself, .....meanwhile the bm still dont seem to care............... ..
Ugh

Pasadena, TX

#7 Aug 2, 2014
Correction*

Non-black Men.(Not, non-alcoholic)

Sexuality (Not, sealing)
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#8 Aug 2, 2014
Ugh wrote:
You come to a Black forum where you know there are Black Men, and no Men of your specifics are on this forum. To be brutally honest with you, Ash, Black American Men simply got bigger fish to fry than worry about the defective sisters wanting to date out.
I think you should go to the Latino or Anglo forum and copy/paste this thread on there and you'd probably find what you're looking for. Black Men on here are not the typical setting you see in your neighborhood of thirwt, hungry Black men salivating for some average Black American Women.
If you not about bringing knowledge to this forum, and only want to talking your personal issues and Black Women dating preference, I suggest you join another website, BBW (Beyond Black and White).
There, they fit your needs and views as all those Black Women talking about non-alcoholic Men and you get to hate Black Men on that site and with full, uninterrupted free speech as volatile and defective as you want to be. So, go there.
Otherwise, most of the intelligence brothers here aren't even cutting for the sisters just thinking about herself and sealing and thinking they are so desired by BM from this forum. Truth is, most have either a Latina Woman or a White Woman. Thus why you don't hear us bringing up our dating preference.
We stick to more educated subject matters like Antiquity History, Hebrewism, Politic, White Man Racism and Hate Crime by Whites. So, if you aren't packing an intelligence-edge to engage topics like that, you're on the wrong forum. Maybe try a porn site to get quicker date opportunities for your specifics.
Just trying to help, eh.:-)
Thanks,but I really want black women to comment..
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#9 Aug 2, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
Well then Ashleigh go marry singer John Mayer, you and him have something in common........he hates you and you hate yourself,.....meanwhile the bm still dont seem to care..........
Not trying to be offensive but I'm just being honest about my experience with black men personally.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#10 Aug 2, 2014
Half-Diminished wrote:
As a young Black man who is doing pretty well for himself (no kids, never served time, doctor profession), I recommend that you stay away from Black men. If I had been with a Black woman like you when I was younger, I wouldn't have made it to the level of success I'm at. Fortunately, my black girlfriend provided me with the utmost support. Black women like you, who elevate other races of men, have nothing good to offer black men because you have it ingrained in you that black is inferior.
That said, you should definitely date out of your race as you might be of use to those men.
Well that's good for you. I'm pretty sure your gf is happy she found a good man,she is lucky
Ugh

Pasadena, TX

#11 Aug 2, 2014
Ashleigh is doing threads like this to get a reaction from Black Men. Not too long ago, she had me convinced to stop attacking Black American Men and for a couple hours, I did. Then I look around and see other Black Women still attacking Black Men that I had to go back on the offense.

What I didn't expect to see, is someone like Ashliegh who had the better head to try to stop the gender wars on here but this latest thread of hers just shows, Black American women are all that stable, either.

One day they calling for Peace and when there is Peace, they go on the attack against Black Man's character. This isn't so different how they act in a real relationship, too. Like I always say, they are: defective, damage beyond repair and has a demonic spirit towards the Men of their Race.

They just make Latina Women and White Women the obvious choice, man. And Black Women, a distance third choice. Sad.
Ugh

Pasadena, TX

#12 Aug 2, 2014
Correction*

She had me convinced to stop attacking Black Women and Men.
Jax

Whitestone, NY

#13 Aug 2, 2014
No need to worry, black men are marrying white women, not black wowan like yourself.
Justanotherguy

Atlanta, GA

#14 Aug 2, 2014
First, you need to stop looking for excuses to date outside your race. If your friends and family don't like interracial dating and makes you feel funnyor weird about the subject have a serious talk.
Putting down an entire race or gender because of th few you came across is just dum. You stated not all are like that. Second, you need to check yourself because it is something about youself that attracts these type of guys. Don't look outward look inward.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#15 Aug 2, 2014
Jax wrote:
No need to worry, black men are marrying white women, not black wowan like yourself.
yeah but
I have plenty of black men pursue me.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#17 Aug 2, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Ashleigh is doing threads like this to get a reaction from Black Men. Not too long ago, she had me convinced to stop attacking Black American Men and for a couple hours, I did. Then I look around and see other Black Women still attacking Black Men that I had to go back on the offense.
What I didn't expect to see, is someone like Ashliegh who had the better head to try to stop the gender wars on here but this latest thread of hers just shows, Black American women are all that stable, either.
One day they calling for Peace and when there is Peace, they go on the attack against Black Man's character. This isn't so different how they act in a real relationship, too. Like I always say, they are: defective, damage beyond repair and has a demonic spirit towards the Men of their Race.
They just make Latina Women and White Women the obvious choice, man. And Black Women, a distance third choice. Sad.
Yeah and you still talk crap about black women
. Well that's good for black men, maybe they find a lot of non black women better choices. You think a lot of black american women suck and I feel that way about a lot of black men,so what's the difference!? This is really a thread for black women to give me advice, but ofcourse black men jumped on it. No offense to y'all, maybe your different but I' attract a lot of men and I've observed that a lot of black men are how I described.
Ashleigh

San Antonio, TX

#18 Aug 2, 2014
Justanotherguy wrote:
First, you need to stop looking for excuses to date outside your race. If your friends and family don't like interracial dating and makes you feel funnyor weird about the subject have a serious talk.
Putting down an entire race or gender because of th few you came across is just dum. You stated not all are like that. Second, you need to check yourself because it is something about youself that attracts these type of guys. Don't look outward look inward.
That's why I said not all black men are like this,
I'm almost done with college, I work, when I go out I dress modestly. I'm attractive and I take care of myself and when I'm out I never throw myself at men. So you would think I would attract a good black man...but no.Some of my friends date black guys and they have the same issues !!:0
Big Knob

United States

#19 Aug 2, 2014
Ashleigh wrote:
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Not trying to be offensive but I'm just being honest about my experience with black men personally.
Everybody's had experiences, some good some bad, me personally, i judge people as the individual they are, and how they conduct themselves, for example are all bw ike krystal gail magnum, no neither are all bm the same, the vast majority of bp seem to know this how come you dont, ashleigh, like i told you before that everything you post is bm negative, and clearly a real bw knows how to weed out negative bm, just like bm know how to weed out negative bw.........but with this fourm everything is suspect, why because its not well rounded in blk culture to be a so called blk fourm, so ir is an easy subject, and man bashing as well. and.........blackface routines as well...... Huh!
Ugh

United States

#20 Aug 2, 2014
Ashleigh, why are you being phony? What happened to that "stop attacking Black Women and Black Men" you was telling me a week back?? And now, you make this thread to rile up Black Men

Why???

Most sisters don't even comment on this thread unless it's Capree or SBT ------- is that who you was expecting to comment on your thread?

Oh well, I thought you was cool and sincere. You probably know who Jubilant Sleep and Phoenix Ascended is, right? Both date/married to White men and yet, don't even make threads like this. In fact, if they got nothing nice to say about Black Men, they usually don't say anything at all. But if injustice is done to Black Men or Black Women, they come out in support of Black People.

You, on the other hand.......

You got issues, Ash. Work on them and stop selling out your Race. Many brothers and sisters date interracially from this site and still defend their Black Race; Men and Women, both.

Just saying......
Big Knob

United States

#21 Aug 2, 2014
Michele wrote:
<quoted text> you should date a pink demon just like yourself and stop chasing after our black men, you pink slut.
you have a convincing statement..........you can tell theyre not black just like you can tell the difference between a stevie wonder composition, vs an elton john composition, because this all they know to talk about..........

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