Are black women single because of white women?

[Curlylocks]

I'm single because I don't want the headache.

[Curlylocks]

Nah, that's not true.

I'm single because the men I like aren't ready.

[Katarzna_Domin86]

Mack the Great wrote:

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Where are you getting these stats from if I may ask?I really don't trust statistics especially considering the fact that they're usually gathered and then later biased fabricated by whites with an agenda to blow them out of proportion and incite division between us black men and black women. I wasn't implying that you didn't want to see black couples and sorry if you saw it that way, but there's nothing wrong with a sista wanting to expand her options after she's exhausted her other means of finding a good black man.

I don't believe in stats... PERIOD!

[Katarzna_Domin86]

Mack the Great wrote:

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That's right Domineace. I'm from DC and I see alot of black couples everyday and in PGC where I reside as well and very rarely do I see blacks with non-white partners so I don't know what the hell SBT is talking about.

LMAOx5, see, I've never been to Washinton D.C. before (only been to the East coast one time), so I don't know what's going out there, but your post seems logical! Hey, I'm about to post my lastest project on the thread I made for you... check it out (=D).

[Katarzna_Domin86]

Mack the Great wrote:

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LOL!Nothing much Domineace. Just got home from work and I'm about to chill out and listen to some music in a few. And you?:)

I'm just reclining right now... not doing too much! Check out my thread, I'm about to bump it up.

[Tableau]

Black women aren't single.

[FlashBack21]

Katarzna_Domin86 wrote:

<quoted text>Hummmm, DC must be something else, because out here... black couples are the norm (odd isn't it lol). Every once in a while, you might see blacks entwining themselves with non-blacks, other than that, it doesn’t occur frequently. On the internet, some black women are considering this issue to be dynamical, I just don’t see it I’m my reality and can not relate.“Washington DC to take care of their children (Million Man March),” I never heard of that, until now! That’s for another thread, but I will say something about Wesley Snipes. I read this article a while back where a reported interviewed him, discussing his activity in a interracial relationship. Who cares really, until he starts to bash black women in efforts of being allegorical, excluding those who absolutely HATE IR.H.? To be honest, most of the black women I know don’t see him as being desirable (compared to other black actors), so it’s not like he’s an asset on many different levels. They quoted him and it seem like Snipes was trying you beat around the bush by sugar coating his distaste for black women. YES, he’s ignorant... but if it's any "consolation," he is an individual, a physically and characteristically unattractive on at that!

You see mostly black couples in Chicago because it is one of the most segregated cities in the United States.

[Curlylocks]

Tableau wrote:

Black women aren't single.

No, not all of us.

[Tableau]

Curlylocks wrote:

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No, not all of us.

A small percentage. As a matter of fact, I am the only one, out of my friends who is not married,engaged or in a relationship.

I need to work on my intimacy issues.

[Katarzna_Domin86]

FlashBack21 wrote:

<quoted text>You see mostly black couples in Chicago because it is one of the most segregated cities in the United States.

Well, it depends one the area you're in... all of Chicago isn't segregated!

[Katarzna_Domin86]

*on*

[Katarzna_Domin86]

Curlylocks wrote:

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No, not all of us.

That's true!

[FlashBack21]

Katarzna_Domin86 wrote:

<quoted text>Well, it depends one the area you're in... all of Chicago isn't segregated!

In general though you got the whites on the north side and you got the blacks on the south side. I heard in places like LA that there is alot of race mixing going on.

[Katarzna_Domin86]

FlashBack21 wrote:

<quoted text>In general though you got the whites on the north side and you got the blacks on the south side. I heard in places like LA that there is alot of race mixing going on.

Do you realize that the EASTERN and WESTERN parts are not accounted for in you post? What about North East/West and South East/West... hello? Like I said before, it depends on where you travel to.

[FlashBack21]

Katarzna_Domin86 wrote:

<quoted text>Do you realize that the EASTERN and WESTERN parts are not accounted for in you post? What about North East/West and South East/West... hello? Like I said before, it depends on where you travel to.

I know what you're saying but all i'm saying is that Chicago has been named one of the most segrated cities in the united states. You can deny it if you want but i'm gonna agree with the experts on this one.

[FlashBack21]

Katarzna_Domin86 wrote:

<quoted text>Do you realize that the EASTERN and WESTERN parts are not accounted for in you post? What about North East/West and South East/West... hello? Like I said before, it depends on where you travel to.

I heard most black folks in chicago live in a housing project called carbrin greens and I heard most white people live in expensive condos by the lake. I'm just saying what I heard.

[Katarzna_Domin86]

FlashBack21 wrote:

<quoted text>I know what you're saying but all i'm saying is that Chicago has been named one of the most segrated cities in the united states. You can deny it if you want but i'm gonna agree with the experts on this one.

Whatever... I don't care who you go with!

[FlashBack21]

Katarzna_Domin86 wrote:

<quoted text>Whatever... I don't care who you go with!

Let me ask you this. How are black women gonna stop black men from dating outside their race? I hear some of you ladies say that the best solution is to date outside your race as well while I hear other black women say they are fin being single.

[Sadbuttrue]

Alpha,

Lets see, your life.

Senerio #1
You dated a black woman who was very attractive and successful and she found out that you were talking and dating White woman so she left you. She began dating White men in the company where you were employed...what a brillant move on her part. It appears that she beat you at your own "game".

Senerio #2
Your second woman who was Japanese you married and had a daughter resulting in a divorce and you dont see her. Your daughter is in another Country where she will be "Black balled" becausee she is Black/Asian. You left her mother moved out of the country!
Sounds like shucked your responsibilities like most Black men. You'll just going to allow your daughter to go through hell in Japan because she black father left her Japanese wife to raise the daughter alone.
Doesnt sound very good. You can't see your daughter to have an inpact on her life. I bet you provide little or no support and dole out an occasional "paycheck"LMAO

Senerio #3
Your dating a White woman who's carrying your 5 month old baby and your not married. Your not talking about how your so much in love, she is just pregnant.
Another situation thats messy. Why didnt you get married first if your such a good man, establish and a man of character, integrity and morals?

To be honest, all of these senerios on your life show your lack of commttment, personal irresponsible behaviors and poor choices.

I could care less how much education you have, your life is screwed up and messy. Your exactly what Im talkingn about in Black males. Most likely you'll leave the White woman you have pregant and say it didnt work and your only 30s, not married and already have 2 bastard children.

I rather be lone than allow someone like you to come into my life and "Mess it up" with your irresponsible behaviors due to lack of guidance from your MIA Father.
Im trying to tell you when I meet black men like yourself, I can spot the behaviors upfront. I trained myself to spot thhem so that I dont allow Black men like yourself to mess up my life like you messed up the Japanese woman and currently White woman that you have pregnant.

Didnt you read the article "Marriage is for White people". It told you that attractive, successful Black women dont want to take on men who have messy lives or bring too much baggage to the table similar to your own.

Yes, Im still with my white man that Im dating and I have been with him for 2 years.

You consider yourself a "Prime Catch"? You have two bastard children by two different Baby's Momma's! So fuk'n what? Since when are men with multiple babies, not married a "Prime catch"?

Your the loser! Actually, your just like your Sister that you talked so badly about......hypocriate!

Dontn make me laugh, I rather be alone and than take on someone like YOU!

[Sadbuttrue]

Octavian,

Destiny song "Can you pay my bills" was the complaints of brothers using sisters.

The Sisters were helping the men out and they didnt do anything for them. It was about brother leeching off Black women and leaving them with bills after they use their phones and lived in their homes without contributing.

I find this very true in alot of cases.

Octavian wrote:

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4. This will probably make some BW angry but the majority of BW that i have found similar to my background are just looking for a meal ticket it reminds me of that Destiny Child song keep paying my bills and then maybe we can chill someone should have shot those whores for making that song.