Whats on your mind Thread.

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#19270 Dec 6, 2012
Soul_Electronica wrote:
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So is this what is provoking you to not be attracted to black men?
Alright, where did you get your statistics Shalimarr? The idiot box?
It could be 66.2444% I rounded it to a simpler figure.
I also included SEMI-absent fathers.
Fathers who show up sporadically are still leaving their children dependent on the mother.

Plus I know you are lying, you are not from a 2 parent home where your black mother bowed to your father in your presence.
You are a liar.

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#19271 Dec 6, 2012
Soul_Electronica wrote:
Waragi...the alcoholic drink in Uganda, its no joke!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =zL3UHF5SlEUXX
D@mn that, I'd rather drink a shot of "CLR".
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#19272 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
There are certain traits and behaviours that little boys pick up from their mothers, unless a father or uncle steps in to stop the process.
These are traits that no man willingly wants to see his son have... Vamp has these traits, so either his father wasn't there to curtail the mother's influence, or the father was submissive to the mother and did not challenge what she was teaching the son.
Ladies and Gentlemen, It is my priviledge and honor to introduce you to the esteemed, illustrious social scientist Dr. Shalimarr who's doctoral thesis set the standard for all to aspire. She is much in demand the world over for her cogent diagnosis of the maladies that afflicts society in these contemporary, often confusing times of gender roles. In addition, her infallible existence serves as an illustrative paradigm to emulate if one's end objective is live a life rich with emotional clarity and absent of the common afflictions that plagues mankind that robs us of our felicity. We owe her a debt that is beyond repayment.......and then somebody woke her azz! LOL!

Girl you so crazy! Bwahahahahaaaa!

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#19273 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Its just that things here have gotten so dysfunctional, it only appears "fun" when you're tearing someone's head off...but then when the fight is over, folk are just left to do something other than contend with oneanother. I think thats where some of the boredom comes in at.
It's boring because most of the characters are SOCKS.
There is not enough genuine people posting, with genuinely opposing views.
We just have a minimal amount of posters, with some having more than 10 socks pushing their agenda... so even though you may not recognize the socks, their speech pattern is subconsciously boring you and making this place boring.
It's very "samey".
You're just reading the same few people posting back and forth to themselves.

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#19274 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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It could be 66.2444% I rounded it to a simpler figure.
I also included SEMI-absent fathers.
Fathers who show up sporadically are still leaving their children dependent on the mother.
Plus I know you are lying, you are not from a 2 parent home where your black mother bowed to your father in your presence.
You are a liar.
Shalimarr, where you there with me growing up?

Last time I checked, I don't have family from the U.K., that I know of anyway.

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#19275 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
It's funny how all the AAs on Topix were miraculously raised in traditional homes with mum and dad... but out int eh real world, 70% of AA kids live with only their mother.
Were you raised in a 2 parent home...and if so, what the fcuk happened to you??????????

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#19276 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Its just that things here have gotten so dysfunctional, it only appears "fun" when you're tearing someone's head off...but then when the fight is over, folk are just left to do something other than contend with oneanother. I think thats where some of the boredom comes in at.
Exactly, just like what Shalimarr is attempting to do. When people debate with me, they should know not to use statistics. Smh, I'd teardataSSup...but I'll wait until tomorrow.

Have a wonderful night Vamp, MsNewNew and the other sane posters (you all know who you are).:)

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#19277 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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Ladies and Gentlemen, It is my priviledge and honor to introduce you to the esteemed, illustrious social scientist Dr. Shalimarr who's doctoral thesis set the standard for all to aspire. She is much in demand the world over for her cogent diagnosis of the maladies that afflicts society in these contemporary, often confusing times of gender roles. In addition, her infallible existence serves as an illustrative paradigm to emulate if one's end objective is live a life rich with emotional clarity and absent of the common afflictions that plagues mankind that robs us of our felicity. We owe her a debt that is beyond repayment.......and then somebody woke her azz! LOL!
Girl you so crazy! Bwahahahahaaaa!
You don't have to be a doctor or a scientist to recognize when a man has been allowed to develop female traits... you simply have to be a woman.
You simply have to be a member of a family... in families men do specific things to counteract the feminine influence of mothers on their sons... In the UK it's referred to as "cutting the apron strings".
Certain behaviours are encouraged in girl children, in the old days girls were encouraged to "sit and sew with mother" while boys were encouraged to "go hunting/fishing/drinking with father".
Men are very aware of how women can be and they are aware of a need to sometimes step between his son and the mother to stop certain behaviours developing.
this happens naturally in most 2 parent families, unless the man works 24 a day or is submissive, drug dependent or simply absent.

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#19278 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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It's boring because most of the characters are SOCKS.
There is not enough genuine people posting, with genuinely opposing views.
We just have a minimal amount of posters, with some having more than 10 socks pushing their agenda... so even though you may not recognize the socks, their speech pattern is subconsciously boring you and making this place boring.
It's very "samey".
You're just reading the same few people posting back and forth to themselves.
LOLOLOL!!!

Its hilarious that you would use such terms like, "genuine people" all while pointing out the loopholes of SLOPix by it being a place where "socks push their agendas".

I concur with Cogito, madamoiselle, you are tooooo funny.

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#19279 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Were you raised in a 2 parent home...and if so, what the fcuk happened to you??????????
My father is a 6ft tall, soft haired almond eyed Jamaican Blasian... he was a semi-absent dad... so much pussie to ride, so little time.

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#19280 Dec 6, 2012
Soul_Electronica wrote:
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Exactly, just like what Shalimarr is attempting to do. When people debate with me, they should know not to use statistics. Smh, I'd teardataSSup...but I'll wait until tomorrow.
Have a wonderful night Vamp, MsNewNew and the other sane posters (you all know who you are).:)
Oh, so, I pull up & you leave? What? Is my e-breath stinkin'?

Good night, So.-El.

:D
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#19281 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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You don't have to be a doctor or a scientist to recognize when a man has been allowed to develop female traits... you simply have to be a woman.
You simply have to be a member of a family... in families men do specific things to counteract the feminine influence of mothers on their sons... In the UK it's referred to as "cutting the apron strings".
Certain behaviours are encouraged in girl children, in the old days girls were encouraged to "sit and sew with mother" while boys were encouraged to "go hunting/fishing/drinking with father".
Men are very aware of how women can be and they are aware of a need to sometimes step between his son and the mother to stop certain behaviours developing.
this happens naturally in most 2 parent families, unless the man works 24 a day or is submissive, drug dependent or simply absent.
Then if turn about is fair play, one only has to be a man to determine when and if a woman is presuming to be intellectually authoratitive on matters of which she knows nothing about. One also understands that she in her need to impose her faux authority upon us will disguise her subject beliefs and opinions as facts in her attemtp to close the door to opinions and realities other than the one she imagines.

Never mind her meeting any scientific standard of proof with confirmed variables, which of course is the basis of all scientific standards, but instead, just fashion your emotional dislikes of someone into evidence and present your finding as factual. Human lives and how we evolve from childhood to adolescent to manhood is not an exact science, so while you are entitled to speculate, you must qualify your beliefs as just that....beliefs!

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#19282 Dec 6, 2012
I'm really feelin' this new Youtube format.

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#19283 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>LOLOLOL!!!
Its hilarious that you would use such terms like, "genuine people" all while pointing out the loopholes of SLOPix by it being a place where "socks push their agendas".
I concur with Cogito, madamoiselle, you are tooooo funny.
I am Shalimarr and StoneDlove.
You don't know you have feminine traits, if you knew, you would hide it.
Your mother has been allowed to have unfettered influence over you, without your father acting as any kind of buffer.
Often when boys are raised by the mother and the father is absent, an uncle or grandfather will play the role of "buffer" so that the mother does not femininze the boy.
In your case, that didn't happen... I also sense you were raised with more than one dominant female in your home.

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#19284 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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My father is a 6ft tall, soft haired almond eyed Jamaican Blasian... he was a semi-absent dad... so much pussie to ride, so little time.
Nuh-nuh...yuh cyant put all uh daat pon deh Yard mon China bwoy deh. Uh-uhn...!

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#19285 Dec 6, 2012
Soul_Electronica wrote:
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Shalimarr, where you there with me growing up?
Last time I checked, I don't have family from the U.K., that I know of anyway.
human beings are very basic and simple.... they are shaped by environment.
A black female raised in a stable 2 parent home, where the mother was submissive to the black male... would never send pics to Gray December.
Those girls are not IR... they will wait and sleep alone until their dying day for a black man to come along.
They are raised in awe of the black man.
You weren't.

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#19286 Dec 6, 2012
vampiYAH stabB wrote:
<quoted text>Nuh-nuh...yuh cyant put all uh daat pon deh Yard mon China bwoy deh. Uh-uhn...!
He's better than most, he only made children with his wife.... atleast that's his story and he's sticking to it!

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#19287 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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I am Shalimarr and StoneDlove.
You don't know you have feminine traits, if you knew, you would hide it.
Your mother has been allowed to have unfettered influence over you, without your father acting as any kind of buffer.
Often when boys are raised by the mother and the father is absent, an uncle or grandfather will play the role of "buffer" so that the mother does not femininze the boy.
In your case, that didn't happen... I also sense you were raised with more than one dominant female in your home.
What you may refer to as a "feminine" trait really is a touch of class that only a barbarian of a "woman" would squawk at. The bottom line is, Vamp is just a little too polished for you...seriously. I mean, I probably have guns that are shinier than you.

LOLOL!!!!

In fact, I would have NEVER thought that YOU were even from the UK. Most of the sistas I personally know from the kingdom are FAR MORE polished & refined than you are, SHALLOWmarr. Your TRAITS as an ignoramus precede you. It's getting to the point where folk here barely read ANYTHING you post and in the event we do read any of the bullsh!t, its strictly for comic relief.

With all of your logical fallacies, its a wonder that you've even graduated beyond a level of mastery that's beyond your daughter's..."REAL TALK".

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#19288 Dec 6, 2012
Cogito2 wrote:
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Then if turn about is fair play, one only has to be a man to determine when and if a woman is presuming to be intellectually authoratitive on matters of which she knows nothing about. One also understands that she in her need to impose her faux authority upon us will disguise her subject beliefs and opinions as facts in her attemtp to close the door to opinions and realities other than the one she imagines.
Never mind her meeting any scientific standard of proof with confirmed variables, which of course is the basis of all scientific standards, but instead, just fashion your emotional dislikes of someone into evidence and present your finding as factual. Human lives and how we evolve from childhood to adolescent to manhood is not an exact science, so while you are entitled to speculate, you must qualify your beliefs as just that....beliefs!
I didn't say I disliked feminine traits in men. I guess most women have no outward problem with it... their man can be their "girlfriend" and gossip with them in a way that most men just don't do. Also these men often have long hair or cornrows and their girlfriend/wife can play with their hair.
The downside is if women expect to have a man pay for her on dates or expect to be able to live off a man... these men believe in feminism, even though they may not realise it. They do not see women as weak and vulnerable in need of protection.
These men believe women can financially provide for themselves. These men may also think it's ok to uppercut a woman who slaps them... they don't view women as vulnerable.
Here's an example of the good side :)

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#19289 Dec 6, 2012
Shalimarr wrote:
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He's better than most, he only made children with his wife.... atleast that's his story and he's sticking to it!
Again, you can't displace the fact that you're currently a hair line away from being COMMITED from him being scarce. How long are you going to continue to blame that man for YOUR own "fcuKKKed upness"?

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