Are black women really dating white men?

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MoneyTalks

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The media keeps on saying that black women are dating white men. Are they making this up? How frequently do you see a black woman with a white man.

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MoneyTalks wrote:
The media keeps on saying that black women are dating white men. Are they making this up? How frequently do you see a black woman with a white man.
Real talk. I see it more on TV than I do on the street.

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MoneyTalks wrote:
The media keeps on saying that black women are dating white men. Are they making this up? How frequently do you see a black woman with a white man.
It's not made up. I see it everyday!!!
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Actually, theyve started "several groups" in DC area to date interracially.

One group got really big in a short period of time called "Something New" like the movie. In less than 3 weeks the membership grew to 570 members. The woman who started it needed help planning events.

Middle Eastern guys, Hispanics and even some Asians got mad and said that they site was being racist as the "Tag line" pertainsto Black women dating White men only. After emails were flying around and they had "voting" on how the membership would be handled, the group spiit into two seperate groups that support each other. One group is for White men only and the other group is for dating other men.

Who in 10 thousands years would even think this would happen? Many other men were interested in dating Black wome nand made the same remarks you stated.

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I am a white man in my 40s [44 to be exact] who found himself single at middle age when my first wife of 16 years left and divorced me.
I had always wanted to approach and date one of the beautiful and intelligent black women I was constantly meeting, but frankly, I was expecting it would be next to impossible to find one who would date me.
Boy was I wrong! When I went on-line to regular dating sites, I was AMAZED how many BW there were willing to chat with me. Apparently things were a LOT different than back in the 80s when I was single the first time. Their profiles would even say they preferred white men, and rather than being unattracive women-- as some posters here would have you believe-- they were actually some of the most articulate and intelligent females on those sites!
Now it may be more common to "date out" in my age bracket, since folks my age are liable to explore things more [all of the black women I have dated were divorce or widowed], but I can definitely tell you the trend mentioned here is a very real thing... and i LOVE it!:)
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I'm dating a White man and I live in DC. Almost 1/2 of my friends are with White guys.

I was married to a White man for almost 8 years and we divorced now, Im marrying another White man.

Sometimes you dont see them because they dont hang out where you hang out because your attending mostly 'Black events". Since I tend to be in more "racially mixed professional circles, I see them.

Stop hanging at all Black events or living in a Black neighborhood and you may see more of them.
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The media keeps on saying that black women are dating white men. Are they making this up? How frequently do you see a black woman with a white man.
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Sadbuttrue wrote:
I'm dating a White man and I live in DC. Almost 1/2 of my friends are with White guys.
I was married to a White man for almost 8 years and we divorced now, Im marrying another White man.
Sometimes you dont see them because they dont hang out where you hang out because your attending mostly 'Black events". Since I tend to be in more "racially mixed professional circles, I see them.
Stop hanging at all Black events or living in a Black neighborhood and you may see more of them.
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Thank you , it is exactly the truth , you will se it when you change you circles . It is the same with me , if I would hang out only with Germans , there would never be a chance to get in contact with other people than Germans. You are having a good point !
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MoneyTalks wrote:
The media keeps on saying that black women are dating white men. Are they making this up? How frequently do you see a black woman with a white man.
I see it pretty often. Bottom line is find somebody that does right by you, regardless of race.

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Real talk. I see it more on TV than I do on the street.
It's not going on as much as people would like to beleive it is.. We've been hearing this same old crap for years and still same old stuff. When white man is looking for a interracial wifey he's looking for an asian not a black woman.

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It's not going on as much as people would like to beleive it is.. We've been hearing this same old crap for years and still same old stuff. When white man is looking for a interracial wifey he's looking for an asian not a black woman.
Maybe for the majority of them, but I see bw/wm couples too. Last week I was getting my hair done and one lady there was married to a wm, one engaged to a wm, and one getting her hair fixed for her wedding she was marrying an Indian. Like that other post said It depends on what area you're in as well. I dont see a lot of bm/ww couples in some of the soca/reggae clubs I go to, but I see plenty in upscale clubs as well as black women with white men. I saw 4 wm/bw couples like that last night, and not one aw/wm couple so I guess it just depends on where you are.
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i can tell you with 100% positivity that black women are dating white men because im one of 'em.im actually married to a white man.didn't go lookin for him, god just destined us to find each other.for anyone to think that this isnt happening,it may be because of the area where you are from. but trust me,it's happening.

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I do think people should date who they like, but why do these bw still come on black sites like this when they are w/ wm? Your not a part of the blk community anymore...whats the point?
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essence magazine did a poll that showz HALF of ALL BLK WOMEN have dated outside their race.

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I don't see it half as much as I hear about it...

real talk here as well...

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Why do you keep making these threads? What is your purpose? What are you trying to prove? It is known that most black women aren't interested in white men and vice versa. This is like the 6th post you've made on this bullshit.

Anyways, Sadbuttrue is a bot.

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not sure, i think it depends on where you live too, some cities have higher frequencies of IR couples in nyc i dont see it very much h0nestly,
maybe i just dont see it where i am headed off to, i dont see lots of black people with white people period, i see alot of asian women with men of other races basically

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teacher wrote:
essence magazine did a poll that showz HALF of ALL BLK WOMEN have dated outside their race.
you mean half that they asked. Common sense is that they didn't go to the ghettos of america and ask.
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teacher wrote:
essence magazine did a poll that showz HALF of ALL BLK WOMEN have dated outside their race.
i once saw a poll bout a year and a half ago [can't remember the name of the source] which indicted about 55% of BW prefer WM. i think the number of women polled was approx. a 100. such a high number of preference doesn't seem to be reflected in actual sex/dating/relationships in the real world [at least not in America], but still i found that kinda surprising and eye-opening.

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that just mean they had sex not dated though. black womwn will screw anybody that ask
That's what you hope and pray is the case because then you'd have a chance. Sorry to tell you, a black woman would probably hump that dead cat on your plate before she even thought about considering you for just about anything other than one really lame joke.

Please take your obsession and fantasies about black women "mythically" all of a sudden wanting Asians elsewhere. I'm sure you can find some computer love with some bitter black chick crossing over to the East because no black dude wanted her, but her misguided Asian fetishism isn't really indicative of most black females, no matter how much you chant and pray to the contrary.

And is that an eggroll in your pants or are you just hella happy that somebody, ANYBODY decided to pay you some attention...?

Consider yourself WTFowned and vehemently ignored in the future.

Love ya. Smooches.

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Who' was looking? We worked together on a Project while he was handling merger, sparks flew and we've been together for 2 years getting married this Summer.

Just becasue you dont like Black women doesnt mean that you can think for every White man. Matter of fact, this will be my second marriage and both were White!

I dont understand why you would think that a White man thinks like you? Black men have the low of values and no home trainning in my cases.
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It's not going on as much as people would like to beleive it is.. We've been hearing this same old crap for years and still same old stuff. When white man is looking for a interracial wifey he's looking for an asian not a black woman.

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Sadbuttrue wrote:
Who' was looking? We worked together on a Project while he was handling merger, sparks flew and we've been together for 2 years getting married this Summer.
Just becasue you dont like Black women doesnt mean that you can think for every White man. Matter of fact, this will be my second marriage and both were White!
I dont understand why you would think that a White man thinks like you? Black men have the low of values and no home trainning in my cases.
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Baby when are you going to stop bullchttin with yourself. You know you want MMM!!! I bet your thighs sizzle when you read my post. I can bet be just as wet as a waterfall right now. Stop fighting it Sad but true. Lets put our difference to the side and let me give your body what its been asking for. Don't you remember when you told me you look like a latina? You know how much I like latinas.;)

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