Hate term "DOORMAT"
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Level 7

Since: May 11

Alexandria, LA

#1 Jul 24, 2011
A door mat is a shame tactic that interracial black women use to attack black women who love and date black men exclusively. This is the problem with interracial black women, attempting to hurt other black women because they don't share your bitterness. Every race will always have women that are loyal to it, but for some strange reason this is the only race that has come up with a term used to mock those black women. Even dumb azz interracial black men don't use shaming tactics like this. Of course you all say a door mat is a black woman that allows a black man to walk all over her, but in reality, any black woman that professes loyalty to black men are instantly labeled as a door mat whether is being walked over or not. I guess the more black women that date out will somehow make the transition for you bitter women that much easier. Well you were born into this world alone, so make decisions for yourself by yourself without attempting to recruit others to share your views.
THE RELIC

United States

#2 Jul 24, 2011
What's wrong wit you girl? Why are you running up to the buffet table fixing that man a plate? Are you a doormat or what?

What's wrong with you girl? Why are you washing his clothes, cooking his meals and scrubbing his back? Are you a doormat or what?

What's wrong with you girl? Why are you calling him to let him know where you are and where you're going? Are you a doormat or what?

What's wrong with you ...aw shut up! I love the man and the man loves me. What I do for him is why I got him and you don't have anyone so, shut ya pie hole!

Hope that helps to understand why people use the term doormat?

Level 7

Since: May 11

Alexandria, LA

#6 Jul 24, 2011
Exactly, these bitter irbw are beyond belief. Constantly trying to shame other black women who love their men away from us. Pitiful.
im well loved

San Diego, CA

#7 Jul 24, 2011
Oh shut the heck up Moses those women dont be happy that's why the divorce rate is so high...

If I cook clean wash clothes it d8mn sure better be some reciprocity.
im well loved

San Diego, CA

#8 Jul 24, 2011
Doormat is a good word..
Carol

Detroit, MI

#9 Jul 24, 2011
THE RELIC wrote:
What's wrong wit you girl? Why are you running up to the buffet table fixing that man a plate? Are you a doormat or what?
What's wrong with you girl? Why are you washing his clothes, cooking his meals and scrubbing his back? Are you a doormat or what?
What's wrong with you girl? Why are you calling him to let him know where you are and where you're going? Are you a doormat or what?
What's wrong with you ...aw shut up! I love the man and the man loves me. What I do for him is why I got him and you don't have anyone so, shut ya pie hole!
Hope that helps to understand why people use the term doormat?
One problem BM don't date or marry doormats.....

they only use them to feel connected to the blk community while they date non blk women...
THE RELIC

United States

#10 Jul 24, 2011
Yep. They be hating with that doormat junk..

Level 7

Since: May 11

Alexandria, LA

#12 Jul 24, 2011
im well loved wrote:
Oh shut the heck up Moses those women dont be happy that's why the divorce rate is so high...
If I cook clean wash clothes it d8mn sure better be some reciprocity.
I'm not this damn Moses you think I am. The black women that love black men should be left alone to do so without irbw trying to shame them for it. Leave em alone.
Freeman

Atlanta, GA

#13 Jul 24, 2011
95% of BW are still slaves. They can't help but pit bm against bm, bw against bm, wm against bm and ww against wm. They serve the white man in every facet of their lives. To free your woman you must free her mind. Impossible to do when you are a slave yourself. Her role is to emasculate you at every chance even from childhood to get to to obey her master so she can recv whatever he has to offer her. They are not capable of any higher thinking unless it is do work for or do his wishes. To free your woman you must free her mind. Impossible to do when you are a slave yourself. Understand what chains have been placed on you. Then you will be able to free her. Until you do, things will only get worse. There are not enough free men.
THE RELIC

United States

#14 Jul 24, 2011
im well loved wrote:
Oh shut the heck up Moses those women dont be happy that's why the divorce rate is so high...
If I cook clean wash clothes it d8mn sure better be some reciprocity.
If you cook, clean and wash clothes, I'll give you more than some reciprocity.

I'll turn your glow into glory, your family and friends will ask what come over you. Just the thought will cause you to holler, "I found glory and his name is MOSES"!

Come here woman and bring me a biscuit so I can sop you up like you're my gravy!
im well loved

San Diego, CA

#16 Jul 24, 2011
LouisianaEmperor7 wrote:
<quoted text> I'm not this damn Moses you think I am. The black women that love black men should be left alone to do so without irbw trying to shame them for it. Leave em alone.
Lol not you poo poo head relic he is Moses, and I don't care what other blk women do just as long as they don't be acting like a doormat.
THE RELIC

United States

#17 Jul 24, 2011
Carol wrote:
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One problem BM don't date or marry doormats.....
they only use them to feel connected to the blk community while they date non blk women...
Hush up and stop swearing at me like that! If I fine me a sho nuff honey, I'll become a honey bee and stick my stinger in that honey and take root.

She'll holler glory every time I see the that sun rise. Sun rise at midnight and she'll holler glory.
im well loved

San Diego, CA

#18 Jul 24, 2011
THE RELIC wrote:
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If you cook, clean and wash clothes, I'll give you more than some reciprocity.
I'll turn your glow into glory, your family and friends will ask what come over you. Just the thought will cause you to holler, "I found glory and his name is MOSES"!
Come here woman and bring me a biscuit so I can sop you up like you're my gravy!
Oh hush you silly old man.
THE RELIC

United States

#19 Jul 24, 2011
Freeman wrote:
. There are not enough free men.
Get real!

I've counseled thousands of couples and some individually. I could fill this entire forum up with cases to refute your crap about not enough free men or let me put it more clearly "QUALIFIED MEN".

One case a bm met a bbw that was about 6'2". She wore sneakers or work boots all the time. In a crowd she's all humped over like she's trying to fit in with shorter people and ashamed for being taller.

The brother gave her some pride to stand up, he refused to be seen in public until she put on a dress and heels. He turned her around and freed her mind like no other man had ever done.

Here come her girl friends. Aw girl, stop being a door mat for that man, he's not the only man out here.

There she goes, "you ain't the only man in the world"! The brother got game and said alright, all the previous men didn't do nothing but give ya wet sheets, you're on ya own and good bye!

Two years later she calls him up wanting to reconcile, she never met a man of that caliber. Too late, only a dog return to his vomit.

That crap about not enough free men or "QUALIFIED MEN" is just that some crap.

Sampson was a free man and nobody could confine his mind or his body. He ran into a femme fatale like so many men today and she ruined Sampson by playing with his EGO. So, you can take that free men stuff back to the shop and re-work it.

Level 7

Since: May 11

Alexandria, LA

#20 Jul 24, 2011
Carol wrote:
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One problem BM don't date or marry doormats.....
they only use them to feel connected to the blk community while they date non blk women...
And this is coming from a black woman who supposedly was married to a great black man and have a family full of great black men. Yea sure. Nobody exudes such distaste for a group of men when she has had so many good ones in her life.
THE RELIC

United States

#21 Jul 25, 2011
im well loved wrote:
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Oh hush you silly old man.
Hehehehe,

Young man hit it for a little while
Old man takes his time for a while
Make it last for a long while

Ya know the old man loves his sisters like a brother.
THE RELIC

United States

#22 Jul 25, 2011
LouisianaEmperor7 wrote:
<quoted text> And this is coming from a black woman who supposedly was married to a great black man and have a family full of great black men. Yea sure. Nobody exudes such distaste for a group of men when she has had so many good ones in her life.
Hahahaha, you got that right on time. She's been "married to a great bm .....l

She'll be alright when she comprehends "let the dead bury the dead"

A bw on a dating site, "a dating site" looking for romance. Of all the pictures she could post and what did she post?

Here she is out in the middle of a grave yard, standing next to her husbands grave. Oh lord, that's a "dead" give away.

Any man hitting that is competing with a dead corpse.
Freeman

Atlanta, GA

#23 Jul 25, 2011
THE RELIC wrote:
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Get real!
I've counseled thousands of couples and some individually. I could fill this entire forum up with cases to refute your crap about not enough free men or let me put it more clearly "QUALIFIED MEN".
One case a bm met a bbw that was about 6'2". She wore sneakers or work boots all the time. In a crowd she's all humped over like she's trying to fit in with shorter people and ashamed for being taller.
The brother gave her some pride to stand up, he refused to be seen in public until she put on a dress and heels. He turned her around and freed her mind like no other man had ever done.
Here come her girl friends. Aw girl, stop being a door mat for that man, he's not the only man out here.
There she goes, "you ain't the only man in the world"! The brother got game and said alright, all the previous men didn't do nothing but give ya wet sheets, you're on ya own and good bye!
Two years later she calls him up wanting to reconcile, she never met a man of that caliber. Too late, only a dog return to his vomit.
That crap about not enough free men or "QUALIFIED MEN" is just that some crap.
Sampson was a free man and nobody could confine his mind or his body. He ran into a femme fatale like so many men today and she ruined Sampson by playing with his EGO. So, you can take that free men stuff back to the shop and re-work it.
If that was the case we would not have the situation we are in today. Denial is your addiction. A free man does not live in denial. I do not know Sampson or what his situation was. A person gives you a story biased for you to form your own conclusion, the one they are pushing you towards. He may have always wanted to cut his hair, just needed someone to help him decide. Who knows. Again reciting stories from your masters volumes is programmed into you. It is your right and wrong. He is your teacher. You are not free brother. Denial is your addiction. Arrogance is a form of lower level thinking.
Freeman

Atlanta, GA

#24 Jul 25, 2011
Carol wrote:
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One problem BM don't date or marry doormats.....
they only use them to feel connected to the blk community while they date non blk women...
Thats true. We should always put our people in check and remove the ignorant thinking of who are we to judge. We do not use that terminology down at he court house when they are locking a BM or BW up for stealing something from Walmart.

Level 5

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#25 Jul 25, 2011
IRBW are so ridiculous, these women feel the need to insult other non-IR dating BW because they constantly live in fear of having their black women lovin white man taken from them.
I see these bytches all the time.
WM get the impression that I dig them all the time and I'm far from polluting my soul with their evil.
But what I love about it is when I run into a BW/WM couple and the white dude gets extra nice, extra friendly, talkie talkie with me and the BW gets an attitude, OMG it's too funny.
IRBW feel threatened immediately and it's written all over their face that this WM can be taken from her, so what do they do, turn ghetto than MF!
Of course I play right into the role, flirty just to taunght their visible anger towards me and let them ho'z know I could have him if I wanted him.
I love when the IRBW snatch their half breed baby out of the strollers just to show that they have his baby. I almost got into an altercation with an IRBW when she did that one time. She snatched the baby up and tried too hard to make people passing by look at her and I made the comment you got the baby but wears your ring, this bytch got so mad, she started cussing me out and the white dude just came out of no where and apologized for her, got his baby and went into another dept. store.

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