Black girl with No black girl curves >:(

Black girl with No black girl curves >:(

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“A diamond in the rough...”

Since: Dec 08

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#1 Jan 2, 2009
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Keith Ham Voice Of Great

United States

#2 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
yeah my girlfriend trust me that's all she ever talks about.about how her she aint got no ass and other stuff.but i think all women look good no matter how skinny they are.its not all about the booty.its about the sexiest women u feel me.Voice of GREATNESS LKH.U are sexy.Stay SEXY.

Since: Aug 08

Weston, CT

#3 Jan 2, 2009
Theres no issue...
that what God made u...

and no matter what body type u are..
U are beautiful...

It not what on the outside but what's on the inside..

:-)
From me to you

United States

#4 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Sorry, "Lil." Cant help ya on this one.

Just try to focus on the attritubes you have that you do like.

But i can say this, having the "ideal black girl body" is a blessing and a curse.

I know this from personal experience, even to this day.

“BLACK PERSPECTIVE”

Since: Nov 08

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Jan 2, 2009
Hang out with me for about a month and i guarantee results. I'm jus feekkin witcha! lol! My sister had that problem. She took that protein drink called metrix and worked out. Yup, she was showeing curves. But guess what? Now she's big and it does'nt look right.Have you ever seen those chichewawas mexican dogs when they get old? They look like stuffed franks. I like petite Black girls. Accept yourself and you'll be much happier. With a butt or nice shape, you may get a man but will you be happy? If you just want the appearearance of happiness, suit yourself. You can say "look, this guy choose me or have your ego stroked everyday by passing guys". If going home saying to yourself "ooooooo so many guys were trying to talk to me" oooooo the life" . If that makes you sleep good at night, good luck. Unfortunately too many Black woman with curves have a sense of entitlement. Most of the time they think bringing a butt with zero personality is enough.

“Billionaire Boys Club”

Since: Dec 08

Stay In Your Own Lane

#6 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
The NOASATALL genes skip a generation or two sometimes, even though it's a dominant trait. I've dated a couple of runway models that were gorgeous but lanky as hell. They were still turning every head on the street though. Having a bigger butt will attract more men, just as a bigger rack, but you have to work with what God gave you. You sound like you can be classified as a "small frame" woman. It is true that excercise won't help you at all, and neither will [email protected] Just wear the clothes that accentuate your body and the curves that you were blessed. I'm thinking you prolly kill them with a BeBe skirt or Dereon outfit. But stay away from the Apple Bottoms, J Lo, and Baby Phat if you ain't working with a Butterscotch or Chocolate Jello Azz!!

Since: Mar 08

Goose Creek, SC

#7 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Don't worry, the way I see it is that you have to show off those other assets that you love instead of concentrating so much on you butt area. When you stop focusing so much on that and just learn how to accept yourself for who you are. And you never know you might look in the mirror one day and start to see more curves. As a woman your body is forever changing. I know we as black women are known for our boobs and booty but its more to you than just those things. Allow your other qualities to shine because when you feel beautiful, people will start to see your beauty shine too.:)

“A diamond in the rough...”

Since: Dec 08

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#9 Jan 2, 2009
HIPHOUSEONE wrote:
Hang out with me for about a month and i guarantee results. I'm jus feekkin witcha! lol! My sister had that problem. She took that protein drink called metrix and worked out. Yup, she was showeing curves. But guess what? Now she's big and it does'nt look right.Have you ever seen those chichewawas mexican dogs when they get old? They look like stuffed franks. I like petite Black girls. Accept yourself and you'll be much happier. With a butt or nice shape, you may get a man but will you be happy? If you just want the appearearance of happiness, suit yourself. You can say "look, this guy choose me or have your ego stroked everyday by passing guys". If going home saying to yourself "ooooooo so many guys were trying to talk to me" oooooo the life" . If that makes you sleep good at night, good luck. Unfortunately too many Black woman with curves have a sense of entitlement. Most of the time they think bringing a butt with zero personality is enough.
LOL...I thought gaining weight would somehow get fat to go to my ass. It did, but it went everywhere else too! I don't want a booty just to attract guys, but because I know it will give me a good womanly shape and I will feel better about working out. I have a small waist, I love my small breasts, and I have pretty long legs. All I need is a booty. I love to wear tight jeans and esp. the tight dresses with heels when I go out, but a flat ass just messes it all up!!!

“A diamond in the rough...”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#10 Jan 2, 2009
Philly Ambassador wrote:
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The NOASATALL genes skip a generation or two sometimes, even though it's a dominant trait. I've dated a couple of runway models that were gorgeous but lanky as hell. They were still turning every head on the street though. Having a bigger butt will attract more men, just as a bigger rack, but you have to work with what God gave you. You sound like you can be classified as a "small frame" woman. It is true that excercise won't help you at all, and neither will [email protected] Just wear the clothes that accentuate your body and the curves that you were blessed. I'm thinking you prolly kill them with a BeBe skirt or Dereon outfit. But stay away from the Apple Bottoms, J Lo, and Baby Phat if you ain't working with a Butterscotch or Chocolate Jello Azz!!
Lol...Yeah the Applebottom jeans look like loose grandma jeans on me. For some reason The J Lo jeans look good on me after I wash them a couple of times.

“ILUVU BUT I DNT GIV A DAM!”

Since: Dec 08

STLMO

#11 Jan 2, 2009

Level 1

Since: Dec 08

Redmond, WA

#12 Jan 2, 2009
Do you have a small butt or a flat butt, because I know some skinny black girls who had a small butt, but compared to other black girls, it seemed flat.(they had a curve and it had a shape to it? It was ussually skinny, not wide, and they had muscle just less than the other black girls in the school.)
To fix this problem they just wored tighter things, and jeans with narrow hips and BAM they had a little bootie.

I've never rrly seen a black girl with a flat butt with my own 2 eyes.
Tell me if your butt is small or flat, and shapless.

If your butt is small then I can help u, but if your butt is actually flat like the chinese and paris hilton then girl YOU ARE TROUBLE!!!

“Das raht!”

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Since: Dec 06

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#13 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Some people like slim girls.

“Light it, Smoke it”

Since: Nov 08

Bronx. NY

#14 Jan 2, 2009
LOL

“Ecko Lucifer”

Level 1

Since: Apr 08

Aurora, CO

#15 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Maybe you have a more Athletic-ish build? Thinner, but not like a stick? If it makes you feel better, alot of dudes like that kind of body type.(i am one of them)

“Play at your own risk !!!!”

Level 3

Since: Oct 08

Cleveland, Ohio

#16 Jan 2, 2009
LilBlackGirl wrote:
Ok...I'm fit and healthy and I love to workout, run, and yoga. My weight has fluctuated in the last 5 years. About 150 at my biggest and 125 at my lowest. However, it's getting soooo annoying because no matter how much I workout or eat healthy...I cannot get the body type I want!! The black woman curvaceous body ( nice hips, nice booty, etc.). When I was a teen, my mom would say "you're still growing." Well I'm grown and still have no booty!! I'm about 135 now with no ass-at-all and I'm tired or squatting.
Anybody else with this issue or know someone?
Don't worry about it baby. Work what u got !!!!!!!!

“Play at your own risk !!!!”

Level 3

Since: Oct 08

Cleveland, Ohio

#17 Jan 2, 2009
Azzez are overated anyway !!!!!

“Light it, Smoke it”

Since: Nov 08

Bronx. NY

#18 Jan 2, 2009
mindgames wrote:
Azzez are overated anyway !!!!!
wtf.. that aint true.. i love big booty bitches

“When in doubt, tell the truth.”

Since: Dec 08

Location hidden

#19 Jan 2, 2009
Having curves can get you a lot of negative attention, trust me.
However, most women "want" to have the coke bottle shape.
You stated that you exercise, and eat healthy but you still can't get the body type that you want. Well, that is because you are in the one that He intended for you to be in.
Try getting clothing that flatter your body type, and the assets you do have.

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#20 Jan 2, 2009
Im 120 pounds. I don't want real big thighs or a real big butt. I think my body shape is just perfect, not too big not too small but just right.

“Light it, Smoke it”

Since: Nov 08

Bronx. NY

#21 Jan 2, 2009
QueenofTheNile wrote:
Im 120 pounds. I don't want real big thighs or a real big butt. I think my body shape is just perfect, not too big not too small but just right.
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