why do athletes and successful black men marry white women?

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fredon

Blue Springs, MO

#1 Dec 29, 2007
You know i live here in kansas city, and we got a new coach last year, herm edwards i noticed in a prss confrence that his wife was white, or predominately white with some laitn hertiage. Marcus Allen married a white women, brian waters married a whie women, Donnie Edwards- white women, Larry Johnson only dates white women, so does Tiki Barber,and there is a bunch more that i can say. I guess my point is why marry some woman who obviously wouldnt be interested in you if you were not a superstar millionare. These women would have nothing to do with the average black man, so who is the reall gold diggers here?
Hell most of the white men i have worked around have women who dont want to work, i think it is as much or more in the nature of a white women to look for a meal ticket than a black women.

“I'm dat nica they can't stand”

Since: Dec 07

Tru Orleans

#2 Dec 29, 2007
Same reason why Gauricelle Beuvis,Golden brooks,Diana Ross,Tina turner,Shar Jackson,Rhianna,Venus Williams,and many other singers,and actressess do it.
Lawrence

Sunnyside, NY

#4 Dec 29, 2007
tommy aka batman wrote:
Same reason why Gauricelle Beuvis,Golden brooks,Diana Ross,Tina turner,Shar Jackson,Rhianna,Venus Williams,and many other singers,and actressess do it.
Thank you. Such a good point.
King

Toronto, Canada

#5 Dec 29, 2007
that was a good comeback .
lol
tsalagi

Bryans Road, MD

#6 Dec 29, 2007
The majority of them don't. The powers that be just want you to think they do.

Since: Aug 07

Lyndhurst, NJ

#7 Dec 29, 2007
tsalagi wrote:
The majority of them don't. The powers that be just want you to think they do.
absolutely.This is only a stereotype created by paranoid racist black women.list of black men who dated/married black women AFTER they got rich:Evander hollyfield,judge gregg mathis,mike tyson(when he was rich)jay z,nas,sean combs,ll coolj,jayson williams,samuel l jackson,denzell washington,will smith,magic johnson,shaquille o'neill,michael jordan,usher.Obviously there are as many blacks that stay with black women as there are that don't.the question is why do black women perpetuate thisstereotype that most black men do it?because they can't live without complainig about something,that's why.

“mr snoop”

Since: Mar 07

"SOUTH LONDON BABY"

#8 Dec 29, 2007
tommy aka batman wrote:
Same reason why Gauricelle Beuvis,Golden brooks,Diana Ross,Tina turner,Shar Jackson,Rhianna,Venus Williams,and many other singers,and actressess do it.
i would marry you..and as far as i no your not a athlete or a millionaire,?

but if u are that would be a bonus,lol,

Level 1

Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#9 Dec 29, 2007
fredon wrote:
You know i live here in kansas city, and we got a new coach last year, herm edwards i noticed in a prss confrence that his wife was white, or predominately white with some laitn hertiage. Marcus Allen married a white women, brian waters married a whie women, Donnie Edwards- white women, Larry Johnson only dates white women, so does Tiki Barber,and there is a bunch more that i can say. I guess my point is why marry some woman who obviously wouldnt be interested in you if you were not a superstar millionare. These women would have nothing to do with the average black man, so who is the reall gold diggers here?
Hell most of the white men i have worked around have women who dont want to work, i think it is as much or more in the nature of a white women to look for a meal ticket than a black women.
cause they can!
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#10 Dec 29, 2007
I think there are a lot of black men who are not athletes who are married to white women. But i also, think that the majority of black men are married or date black women.

I don't see a lot of inter-racial relationships, here. It also, depends on the city you're from..........my friend who lives in San Diego, says it's black women with white men/ and white women with black men.

And again, it really does'nt married who a person chooses to date or marry. Just don't insult a group of people for doing so..........

Tiki Barber, wife is Asian.

Level 2

Since: Nov 07

Location hidden

#11 Dec 29, 2007
fredon wrote:
You know i live here in kansas city, and we got a new coach last year, herm edwards i noticed in a prss confrence that his wife was white, or predominately white with some laitn hertiage. Marcus Allen married a white women, brian waters married a whie women, Donnie Edwards- white women, Larry Johnson only dates white women, so does Tiki Barber,and there is a bunch more that i can say. I guess my point is why marry some woman who obviously wouldnt be interested in you if you were not a superstar millionare. These women would have nothing to do with the average black man, so who is the reall gold diggers here?
Hell most of the white men i have worked around have women who dont want to work, i think it is as much or more in the nature of a white women to look for a meal ticket than a black women.
So if these dudes were married to BW, are you saying that those BW WOULD have been with them if they werent rich?
Rucrazee

Secaucus, NJ

#13 Dec 29, 2007
fredon wrote:
You know i live here in kansas city, and we got a new coach last year, herm edwards i noticed in a prss confrence that his wife was white, or predominately white with some laitn hertiage. Marcus Allen married a white women, brian waters married a whie women, Donnie Edwards- white women, Larry Johnson only dates white women, so does Tiki Barber,and there is a bunch more that i can say. I guess my point is why marry some woman who obviously wouldnt be interested in you if you were not a superstar millionare. These women would have nothing to do with the average black man, so who is the reall gold diggers here?
Hell most of the white men i have worked around have women who dont want to work, i think it is as much or more in the nature of a white women to look for a meal ticket than a black women.
I have answered this question on Topix before and I will again. Bottom line white women have class and know how to act properly in the right arenas. Most not all black women have that ghetto mentality and can't shake it. Even if they come into money they only get as far as "GHETTO FABULOUS" and don't learn the class they need in the medias spot light.

A black man in the medias eye can't risk taking a ghetto acting black woman with him once he makes it. The media will/would eat their asses up. Even if a black man originally liked black woman they have to put that beside them and move on. Because the black woman for the most part won't move up and act properly.

“chick called life i pimped her”

Since: Oct 07

its in the boot

#14 Dec 29, 2007
iceman100 wrote:
<quoted text>absolutely.This is only a stereotype created by paranoid racist black women.list of black men who dated/married black women AFTER they got rich:Evander hollyfield,judge gregg mathis,mike tyson(when he was rich)jay z,nas,sean combs,ll coolj,jayson williams,samuel l jackson,denzell washington,will smith,magic johnson,shaquille o'neill,michael jordan,usher.Obviously there are as many blacks that stay with black women as there are that don't.the question is why do black women perpetuate thisstereotype that most black men do it?because they can't live without complainig about something,that's why.
Even though me and you disagree on a lot of things this whole post is the truth.

And lets not forget:
Ice cube
Rev run
Forest Whitaker
Omar Epps
Jerry Rice
Donivan Mcnabb
Dwayne Wade
Shaquille O'neal(might be getting a divorce though)
Spike Lee
Ja Rule
Jermaine Dupri
Eddie Murphy
etc,etc

“Engaged :)”

Since: Aug 07

UK

#15 Dec 29, 2007
What happened to my last comment?? who flagged it?? ;(

Since: Dec 07

Riverhead, NY

#16 Dec 29, 2007
its because a lot of white women are fine. and because if they arent in it for love they are probably insecure about their race and equate success with money and also with marrying white

theyll feel better about themselves if they marry white in retrospect.

“Concrete Rose”

Since: Dec 07

St Louis, MO

#17 Dec 29, 2007
Alot of black people in general who have reached a successfuly status, date out of their race, the women too. It is more about oppurtunity and who is in the new social circle that are you are in. Blacks only make up roughtly 14% of the US, think about it, there are lots and lots more non-black people on what they feel is their "social-level" and they have access to them because of the money. I personally wouldn't want anyone that wouldn't want me before I was paid, but that is just me.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#18 Dec 29, 2007
thelastshallbeFirst wrote:
<quoted text>black men who have money dont trust black women.since slavery,the black women was taught to use here coochie as power(whenever she would do as master pleaseses sexually,she would get extra portions of food or clothing)she lost respect for the blackman because she saw that he could not protect her from being raped.even till this day,most blackmen know that blackwomen can be bought.you see them walkin round the malls with there extra tight jeans on advertising ''whats for sale''.so when a blackman does get rich,he feels like she only wants him fot his money.
Spare me the Kunta Kinte, bullshchitt. For one we are living for today. We are not slaves today and have never been slaves. All women don't mind that a man has money. And all races of women can be golddiggers. You analogy, sucks ass. That's why women of different races can easy signal you out and take your money Because most of you guyz are stuck on stupid. And i don't use the N word. But i will say this..........i can't stand self hating negroes. I don't care what the color of a woman's skin is.......... A WOMAN IS A WOMAN!!!! There are a lot of athletes, who are now divorced who were sued for child support and support for there lifestyle they were use to living. God, you guyz are stupid. What's the football athlete name who wife is white..........Strahan or something like that..........wife got 15.3 million. And ask Lionel Richie how much his wife received. You guyz, hate yourselves so much you cross over to anybody. Damn you guyz are dumb!

Ask Kevin Costner, how much his wife received, And Steven Spielberg, Ivana Trump, etc.......they are are white and have sued or been sued. Jeez!!!!

Since: Aug 07

Lyndhurst, NJ

#20 Dec 29, 2007
birdmane87 wrote:
<quoted text>
Even though me and you disagree on a lot of things this whole post is the truth.
And lets not forget:
Ice cube
Rev run
Forest Whitaker
Omar Epps
Jerry Rice
Donivan Mcnabb
Dwayne Wade
Shaquille O'neal(might be getting a divorce though)
Spike Lee
Ja Rule
Jermaine Dupri
Eddie Murphy
etc,etc
Absolutely.you see .. more rich blacks on the list who stayed with black..and we must also keep in mind when these people get rich they will be around alot of white people.The ones that date/marry whites,doesn't necessarilly mean they see white women as a "trophy",or they hate themselves.It could just mean that's who God mean't them to be with.
michelle

United States

#21 Dec 29, 2007
thelastshallbeFirst wrote:
<quoted text>your a fool if you dont believe that the effects of slavery doesnt manifest in the way our people act.what? did it offend you when i said how the black women learned to use her body for financial gain.the blackman got his self esteem(since he lost his by watching the whiteman rape his wife in front of him)by being the best ''stud''(a slave used to emprenate or breed with other nslave females)till this day you see our young brothers holdin there d!ck standin on the corner tryin to be a mack or pimp.you better wake up,the sh
t is real.
no, that black man on the corner holding his d^ck is trying to compensate for something he doesnt have. self respect. i see plenty of white men doing it to. it isnt a race thing, its called being ghetto.. the more thug a man can be, the better he thinks himself. and women fall for it all the time. no matter what race they are.

“the king of his environment”

Level 3

Since: Oct 07

Washington, DC

#22 Dec 29, 2007
Rucrazee wrote:
<quoted text>
I have answered this question on Topix before and I will again. Bottom line white women have class and know how to act properly in the right arenas. Most not all black women have that ghetto mentality and can't shake it. Even if they come into money they only get as far as "GHETTO FABULOUS" and don't learn the class they need in the medias spot light.
A black man in the medias eye can't risk taking a ghetto acting black woman with him once he makes it. The media will/would eat their asses up. Even if a black man originally liked black woman they have to put that beside them and move on. Because the black woman for the most part won't move up and act properly.
Yeah, Britney, Paris and Lindsey have a lot of class. If that's what you consider class, you are not worthy of us anyway.
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#23 Dec 29, 2007
thelastshallbeFirst wrote:
<quoted text>your a fool if you dont believe that the effects of slavery doesnt manifest in the way our people act.what? did it offend you when i said how the black women learned to use her body for financial gain.the blackman got his self esteem(since he lost his by watching the whiteman rape his wife in front of him)by being the best ''stud''(a slave used to emprenate or breed with other nslave females)till this day you see our young brothers holdin there d!ck standin on the corner tryin to be a mack or pimp.you better wake up,the sh!t is real.
I'm far from a fool! I'm so sick of brothas, keep talking about white people. White men this and White women that..........my god get some business. Our race is lost and what is needed is some dignity, pride, and self respect, and respect for the black woman and the culture that many of you lack. Forget about the black men and women who choose to date white men or women. Focus on the women and men who chooses to date within there own.

I'm not offended, because you don't know me. I'm a black woman who loves being a black woman. The only praise and respect i'm going to give is to a black man. I'm not interested in nothing else. But i have respect for all races of people. But my love will be for my men. I can't change how fcked people minds are today because of the slave mentality. The only thing i can do is focus on myself and my quality of life.

I know what's real. Your lack of respect for your people in this forum. And the use of the N word. You better look in the mirror FIRST.......... before you start to judge the brothas on the corner. You've been talking like a pimp since you been in the AA forum.

If i came into a substantial amount of money. I'm going to share that wealth with a black man. I'm not going to run to a white man for his acceptance. Which will neeeever happen! When black men are just as beautiful. And that's "Real Talk".

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