Why do BW hate short men?

Why do BW hate short men?

Created by Rumple on Apr 12, 2009

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#1 Jan 2, 2010
First of all, what does BW refer to? Black Women or Big Women? I can say from personal experiences that more Black Women don't like short men or shorter men, practically because they are socialized to desire the tall men of the NBA which goes hand in hand with Rap and Hip Hop culture. Big Women on the other hand don't like short men because they are usually bigger than the man overall and weight is a huge issue when it comes to looking and feeeling feminine.

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#2 Jan 2, 2010
Come on buddy I know it's plenty of sisters who would get with short guys. And most short guys I see always have girlfriends.
Fxybrwn18

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#3 Jan 2, 2010
Listen no one hates short men maybe their attitudes. Remember, were in a society that men are suppose to be dominant with the strong builts and the height to women. Some females are more concerned about themselves rather the short men where they feel people will make fun of them for being taller or called amazon. I've heard women tell me they hated their height and wish they were small because they were attracted to shorter men and they would be harrassed for being a taller woman.

Also, again it's just not BLACK women with height it's all women were no different it's our society. I was watching Millionaire Matchmaker and it was a short man and a biracial/black man they asked a bunch of women would they date them. All the white/non black women prefferred a black man comared to a short white man and the black man sad that too. But, in the end the short guy found someone good for him while the talpblack guy didn't get a second date. Anything, is possible just go with a good attitude.

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#4 Jan 2, 2010
I hate to be mean but I think the OP probably just doesn't have the confidence to attract a woman. We don't hate short guys but we hate insecure guys.

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#5 Jan 2, 2010
It's not just black women, it's pretty much everyone.

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#6 Jan 2, 2010
Fxybrwn18 wrote:
Listen no one hates short men maybe their attitudes. Remember, were in a society that men are suppose to be dominant with the strong builts and the height to women. Some females are more concerned about themselves rather the short men where they feel people will make fun of them for being taller or called amazon. I've heard women tell me they hated their height and wish they were small because they were attracted to shorter men and they would be harrassed for being a taller woman.
Also, again it's just not BLACK women with height it's all women were no different it's our society. I was watching Millionaire Matchmaker and it was a short man and a biracial/black man they asked a bunch of women would they date them. All the white/non black women prefferred a black man comared to a short white man and the black man sad that too. But, in the end the short guy found someone good for him while the talpblack guy didn't get a second date. Anything, is possible just go with a good attitude.
Yeah most women prefer tall men, no matter what their race are, they just like guys that are their height or taller. Some will make exeption but its hard for short man to compete with tall men unless their famous.

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#7 Jan 2, 2010
I'm starting to think 5'9 is short
Fxybrwn18 wrote:
Listen no one hates short men maybe their attitudes. Remember, were in a society that men are suppose to be dominant with the strong builts and the height to women. Some females are more concerned about themselves rather the short men where they feel people will make fun of them for being taller or called amazon. I've heard women tell me they hated their height and wish they were small because they were attracted to shorter men and they would be harrassed for being a taller woman.
Also, again it's just not BLACK women with height it's all women were no different it's our society. I was watching Millionaire Matchmaker and it was a short man and a biracial/black man they asked a bunch of women would they date them. All the white/non black women prefferred a black man comared to a short white man and the black man sad that too. But, in the end the short guy found someone good for him while the talpblack guy didn't get a second date. Anything, is possible just go with a good attitude.

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#8 Jan 2, 2010
Maybe you should conider mexican women since they are used to dealing with short guys.

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#9 Jan 2, 2010
Naw...shorter men have it harder
sassyntrashy wrote:
I hate to be mean but I think the OP probably just doesn't have the confidence to attract a woman. We don't hate short guys but we hate insecure guys.
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#10 Jan 2, 2010
gbra probably started this to get at fairguy

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#11 Jan 2, 2010
Swade wrote:
Naw...shorter men have it harder<quoted text>
Not all short men have a hard time gettiing women because I know plenty of short guys who get plenty of women. In fact I had a crush on a few short guys myself.

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#12 Jan 2, 2010
Show me the photos of these women who like short bm. Are these cute bw or average bw?
sassyntrashy wrote:
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Not all short men have a hard time gettiing women because I know plenty of short guys who get plenty of women. In fact I had a crush on a few short guys myself.
Georgina

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#13 Jan 2, 2010
I LOVE SHORT MEN.

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#14 Jan 2, 2010
sassyntrashy wrote:
I hate to be mean but I think the OP probably just doesn't have the confidence to attract a woman. We don't hate short guys but we hate insecure guys.
You say you hate insecurity, but the confidence factor in this equation is the biggest load of BS with respect to height preference.

A short guy who has confidence usually gets labelled with SMS/Napolean(short man syndrome). A short guy with no confidence is the biggest wimp on the block or he's gay. A tall guy with confidence is normal, people in this world expect confidence from tall guys. A tall guy with no confidence, is more often considered cute, shy and more desirable by women as opposed to the shorter guy. I've heard and experienced it all.

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#15 Jan 2, 2010
Swade wrote:
Show me the photos of these women who like short bm. Are these cute bw or average bw? <quoted text>
Why would I go out and take photos of women with short guys? You don't have to believe it but it's true there are plenty of short guys who can get women from good looking or average.

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#16 Jan 2, 2010
jazz madness wrote:
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You say you hate insecurity, but the confidence factor in this equation is the biggest load of BS with respect to height preference.
A short guy who has confidence usually gets labelled with SMS/Napolean(short man syndrome). A short guy with no confidence is the biggest wimp on the block or he's gay. A tall guy with confidence is normal, people in this world expect confidence from tall guys. A tall guy with no confidence, is more often considered cute, shy and more desirable by women as opposed to the shorter guy. I've heard and experienced it all.
Well I feel bad for you if that is really the case and i wish women would stop being so close minded and give you a chance. But don't forget what you said in your first post which is women were socialize to prefer tall men. And they were trained by men not women to think this way. So your problem should be with the men who teach them to think like this.

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#17 Jan 2, 2010
I guess ill have to take your word
sassyntrashy wrote:
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Why would I go out and take photos of women with short guys? You don't have to believe it but it's true there are plenty of short guys who can get women from good looking or average.

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#18 Jan 2, 2010
Swade wrote:
I'm starting to think 5'9 is short<quoted text>
Lol that isn't short at all....My bf is about 5'9ish and i would consider that tall/average,

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#19 Jan 2, 2010
*sigh*

SHORT is not a reason to hate someone.

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#20 Jan 2, 2010
Because of all this talk about short men not being in relationships and sh*t, I've taken notice of every short guy I see when I'm out. Most of them were with their wife/girlfriend and kids. A few of them needed to pull their pants up. Others would look at me with this puppydog face like, "Aren't you going to talk to me?" And some are just guys.

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