Irbw and Black functions
Carol

Orem, UT

#142 Jan 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>the website says tehy care about black girls...not black boys... if they gonna abuse black boys, then they shouldn't have custody of them. give up custody of black boys to fathers who want them. bw have failed as mothers. bm will make better parents...
You worthless criminal, blk children aren't your business...

You dogs (toms); have been abusing blk girls (and boys) for 30 years.

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#143 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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Quite frankly, You don't know how to read statistics. So based off your own perceptions, you've concluded a crop of male cattle excrement.
See what I just did there? That's you all day long on Topix, when your status on FB never reflects this character you're portraying. You're trying so hard to sound intelligent, it's kinda funny :D
About that link, it never mentioned the perpetrators, but sexual assault is very real. It's disrespectful for you to minimize such a horrendous crime.
Merely touching someone is not sexual abuse, it's harassment. Sexual harassment is a mild form of sexual abuse, and is handled somewhat differently than the actual thing.
Some of yall really need to school yourselves before becoming involved in certain discussions. You can start here because they have stats, and make sure to check up the references if you wish.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_abuse
lol@ i'm trying so hard to sound intelligent...you have NO idea. the truth is, i try real hard to dumb it down for y'all on topix. and as far as my FB status, if you're talking about facebook, i don't get that deep with this lil online fantasy world.

but either you're blind or stupid, because i was the one who pointed out to sexyblkwoman that sexual abuse means nothing and that their is continuum of sexual assault the begins with unwanted touching on one end of the spectrum and rape on the other end.

tell you what...since you have all these skills at reading stats, why don't you break it down for me.... are bw the most raped or not?

“Shine Bright Like...”

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#144 Jan 20, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Go spit on your husbands grave and call me in the morning!
That was an extremely low blow, and extremely ghetto.

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#145 Jan 20, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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you get my pm, bruh?
that's a real sick mind right there. the sickest of the sick for sure. they even got porn where they have bw getting face fkc'd by a bunch of dudes who suppose to be white supremacist or the klan, where the bw are talk'n shit bout bm the entire time.

LMFAO!

I gotta watch Monster's Ball.

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#146 Jan 20, 2013
lol...i guess a person can try and hide their native intelligence all they like, but people just can't help but pick up on it.

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#147 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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That was an extremely low blow, and extremely ghetto.
how's that ghetto?...carol has spit on her own husband's grave many times right here on topix?

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#148 Jan 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>lol@ i'm trying so hard to sound intelligent...you have NO idea. the truth is, i try real hard to dumb it down for y'all on topix. and as far as my FB status, if you're talking about facebook, i don't get that deep with this lil online fantasy world.
but either you're blind or stupid, because i was the one who pointed out to sexyblkwoman that sexual abuse means nothing and that their is continuum of sexual assault the begins with unwanted touching on one end of the spectrum and rape on the other end.
tell you what...since you have all these skills at reading stats, why don't you break it down for me.... are bw the most raped or not?
SBW already broke it down, but you being the dogmatic person you are, refused to listen.

There are no common variables, so when analyzing statistics you have to put in a little bit more work. You just looked at a few numbers and ran with it.

To determine per capita occurrences, you will have to look at the bigger picture. It indicates a percentage of THAT PARTICULAR POPULATION, so in addition the what was given, you have to determine how many PEOPLE make up that particular population.

Hypothetically speaking, do you think 79% of 100 bigger than 79% of 1000??

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#149 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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You're trying so hard to sound intelligent, it's kinda funny :D
so lemme ask you this, just outta curiosity... is it because i'm a bm? i mean if i was white would you assume i was trying to sound smart or just that i'm smart? don't you consider that to be real disrespectful of brothers and one of the reasons a lotta brothers don't wanna even see a bw anymore? i'm just sayin, is it that you think bm are SO ignorant and that you have such low expectations that even when i try and dumb it down for y'all it still appears so much smarter than your estimation of what a bm is supposed to be? take my advice. stick to wm... you can't handle bm. we're not for you.

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#150 Jan 20, 2013
Carol wrote:
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This is probably a WW.
No Carol, it's a BM.

I knew who it was from the first post.
Tom Foolery

Glasgow, UK

#151 Jan 20, 2013
IRBW will take their white partners to family functions, but they usually hang out with other IRBW/WM couples.

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#152 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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SBW already broke it down, but you being the dogmatic person you are, refused to listen.
There are no common variables, so when analyzing statistics you have to put in a little bit more work. You just looked at a few numbers and ran with it.
To determine per capita occurrences, you will have to look at the bigger picture. It indicates a percentage of THAT PARTICULAR POPULATION, so in addition the what was given, you have to determine how many PEOPLE make up that particular population.
Hypothetically speaking, do you think 79% of 100 bigger than 79% of 1000??
don't be stupid... of course the stats show that wm committed 117K rapes and bm committed 46K rapes. SO WHITES COMMIT 2 AND A HALF TIMES AS MANY RAPES AS BLACKS. you're saying that because there are 10 times as many whites as blacks the number for blacks should be 11.7K if we are to be all even and therefore it proves that bm commit 4 times as many rapes as wm. this is why i explained that the data is based on fewer than 10 cases as it says on the report itself. secondly, bw are THIRD on the list of rape victims...behind native americans and mixed race people which proves that bm are not the biggest rapists out there.

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#153 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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SBW already broke it down, but you being the dogmatic person you are, refused to listen.
No, i broke it down and explained that you can't use a blanket term like sexual abuse when it covers such a wide spectrum of activity. she lumped them altogether and ran with that term saying i was trying to hide all the sh8t bm was doing, lol. just because she's a bw and you a bw doesn't mean you have to cosign ever stupid thing she says...use your own friggin brain and don't let your misplaced loyalty to sisterhood do your thinking for you. then you might be able to get a man.

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#154 Jan 20, 2013
Tonto wrote:
Its just that most irbw hate black men and black people. So why hang out at black functions.
Come on now, really? Most don't....just the crazy ones on Topix and other Internet cesspools. They have a right to go to a black or any other function just like you do. They are not somehow less black because their partner happens not to be. This kind of thought process needs to stop.

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#155 Jan 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> so lemme ask you this, just outta curiosity... is it because i'm a bm? i mean if i was white would you assume i was trying to sound smart or just that i'm smart? don't you consider that to be real disrespectful of brothers and one of the reasons a lotta brothers don't wanna even see a bw anymore? i'm just sayin, is it that you think bm are SO ignorant and that you have such low expectations that even when i try and dumb it down for y'all it still appears so much smarter than your estimation of what a bm is supposed to be? take my advice. stick to wm... you can't handle bm. we're not for you.
You need to simmer down with all of that, because it's not going to work.

If I didn't like Black people, I wouldn't try to help. Whether I'm listening or coaching, I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. That's one of the issues in the Black community now.

Single mothers tend to raise their daughters differently than their sons. The girls are taught to be productive and "independent", while the sons are often spoiled and is less structured than the girls.

They try to overcompensate for the father not being around, when they're only crippling them by letting stuff "slide", and then trying to protect them from everything.

They never get a chance to learn an important life lesson, that poor choices have consequences.

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#156 Jan 20, 2013
DerekJ wrote:
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Come on now, really? Most don't....just the crazy ones on Topix and other Internet cesspools. They have a right to go to a black or any other function just like you do. They are not somehow less black because their partner happens not to be. This kind of thought process needs to stop.
C/S Exactly

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#157 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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You need to simmer down with all of that, because it's not going to work.
If I didn't like Black people, I wouldn't try to help. Whether I'm listening or coaching, I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. That's one of the issues in the Black community now.
Single mothers tend to raise their daughters differently than their sons. The girls are taught to be productive and "independent", while the sons are often spoiled and is less structured than the girls.
They try to overcompensate for the father not being around, when they're only crippling them by letting stuff "slide", and then trying to protect them from everything.
They never get a chance to learn an important life lesson, that poor choices have consequences.
now i don't know what you're talking about... bw not being around,? bw and their daughters? bm may not be married to all their baby mamas but they are usually present in their kids lives. if you ask me, bw in general are failures as mothers. your girl posted a link showing that bw want to focus on their daughters. I think that's wonderful. I hope bw really start to give their daughters the kind of guidance they need. but i gotta tell you, i'm worried about bw and their sons. Bw really shouldn't be raising boys. their mentality is not right for raising men. they're gonna screw these boys up, abuse them, take out their frustrations on them, just do a terrible job like they've always done. but now, since they think they have some solidarity, they gonna do it with a vengeance. There should be a pact between bm and bw that bw give up their sons in a divorce or custody case. let the bw raise her daughter and let the bm raise his son... us bm can be great fathers and we'll do a much better job than bw. i would hate to be with a bw and have her raise my son. i just know she's not up to the job.

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#158 Jan 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> No, i broke it down and explained that you can't use a blanket term like sexual abuse when it covers such a wide spectrum of activity. she lumped them altogether and ran with that term saying i was trying to hide all the sh8t bm was doing, lol. just because she's a bw and you a bw doesn't mean you have to cosign ever stupid thing she says...use your own friggin brain and don't let your misplaced loyalty to sisterhood do your thinking for you. then you might be able to get a man.
Child please!! A man, especially a BM, is the last thing on my mind..

This isn't about that, so stop bringing it up because it's irrelevant to my situation. Also, don't call me any other names or this will no longer be a civilized conversation.

It has nothing to do with any type of sisterhood, but Black women are finally paying attention to US and our daughters. As a whole, we've NEVER been as valued as we should be. Whatever's on the television and reflected in the stats, that's a true reflection of us. Yall gave the message, and we heard it loud and clear.

I'm not against IR-relationships, I encourage people to do what makes them happy.

All we want is respect, and for the supposed leaders to take some action. If not, we're highly capable of providing for ourselves if we need to.

We don't know how else to tell yall, but it's an inscrutable feeling that NO race of women should feel as a whole.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, so by now Black women are body builders.

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#159 Jan 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>now i don't know what you're talking about... bw not being around,? bw and their daughters? bm may not be married to all their baby mamas but they are usually present in their kids lives. if you ask me, bw in general are failures as mothers. your girl posted a link showing that bw want to focus on their daughters. I think that's wonderful. I hope bw really start to give their daughters the kind of guidance they need. but i gotta tell you, i'm worried about bw and their sons. Bw really shouldn't be raising boys. their mentality is not right for raising men. they're gonna screw these boys up, abuse them, take out their frustrations on them, just do a terrible job like they've always done. but now, since they think they have some solidarity, they gonna do it with a vengeance. There should be a pact between bm and bw that bw give up their sons in a divorce or custody case. let the bw raise her daughter and let the bm raise his son... us bm can be great fathers and we'll do a much better job than bw. i would hate to be with a bw and have her raise my son. i just know she's not up to the job.
I actually agree with you but, Black women are incompetent only when it comes to raising boys into MEN.

The girls are not faring much better because they are raised to be strong rather than feminine. But at least they navigate thru life better because of the strict structure.

Quote:
"Academically, professionally, economically—black women continue to outpace black men. And, I can’t help but wonder if much of that could be attributed to how some single black mothers raise their daughters in comparison to their sons."

Quote:
"In recent years the percentage of black children born into single parent households, an overwhelming majority of which headed by women, has skyrocketed. Nearly three-fourths of black boys and girls are being raised in broken homes—brokenness stemming from the fact that fatherlessness often creates imbalance."

So I'm glad BW are focusing on their daughters too, because it's high time somebody showed love other than objectifying her. It's hard out here for BM, but yall don't seem to understand that it's hard on us too.

We messed up once pitted against each other. We stopped being a team and became opponents.

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#160 Jan 20, 2013
Blaq American Princess wrote:
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I actually agree with you but, Black women are incompetent only when it comes to raising boys into MEN.
The girls are not faring much better because they are raised to be strong rather than feminine. But at least they navigate thru life better because of the strict structure.
Quote:
"Academically, professionally, economically—black women continue to outpace black men. And, I can’t help but wonder if much of that could be attributed to how some single black mothers raise their daughters in comparison to their sons."
Quote:
"In recent years the percentage of black children born into single parent households, an overwhelming majority of which headed by women, has skyrocketed. Nearly three-fourths of black boys and girls are being raised in broken homes—brokenness stemming from the fact that fatherlessness often creates imbalance."
So I'm glad BW are focusing on their daughters too, because it's high time somebody showed love other than objectifying her. It's hard out here for BM, but yall don't seem to understand that it's hard on us too.
We messed up once pitted against each other. We stopped being a team and became opponents.
women of all races out perform men of all races acadmeically. so i don't see that as an indication of bm's underperformance. secondly, bm have been under the radar for many, many years...they weren't persecuted and targeted like bm. they had a golden opportunity to uplift the black race, because nobody was really paying attention to them. they could have imbued the kids with pride, self-respect, love for the black race etc...instead we have bw like you talkin about you have not problem with IR. so now, bm are going IR at a rate of 24%...but it didn't have to be that way. and as a far as the 70% of oow, everybody knows that bm may not be getting MARRIED to bw at high numbers, but bm are usually involved in a relationship with their baby mamas or they're shackin up or they at least spend time with their kids and contribute,however little, to the household. but bw need to take some responsibility too.... stop fkin every thug they meet or at use somem birth control. There's ALL KINDS of birth control available to women plus the male and female condom...there is absolutely no reason for bm to get the blame for all the oww pregnancies we see among bw.

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#161 Jan 20, 2013
** bw have been under the radar.

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