Did you bring your white husband or ex husband to black events? Did you marry your husband to hurt BM? The reason I asked that is because you making sweeping generalization about IRBW and their motives. I find it ironic that a black woman like yourself who was once married to a white guy can completely devalue the relationships of women who followed the same path that you took. What was your reasons for marrying a white guy? You have no credibility when it comes to topics like this because you were married to a white man. That would be like me coming on here saying that black men who date white women only do so because they couldn't handle a strong black woman.To show off their "trophies". More than that,they do it as a way to kick the black man down so to speak. These women have generally been hurt by BM so they do it to even the score. Thing is,in their attempt to try to hurt BM they are only showing how much their hurting. Hurt people hurt people.
As far as concern IR couples have every right to go anywhere they want without people questioning their motives. IRBW have every right to take their non black boyfriend/husbands to black parties, black weddings, concerts, etc. They don't have to explain themselves to anyone. For those who have a problem with it need to get the fuck over it. It's 2013 and interracial dating is here to stay.
I want to make something very clear. I don't give a shit about black women. In fact I find black women repulsive in general. I don't shit about whites, Asians, Latinos, Indians, or Native Americans in general. In general all of these groups are my enemy. I only care about myself and those who I share a common interest with (African American men). It's all about me and my agenda. Outside of that I care about tolerance. As individuals we don't have to like something to accept it. For example; I hate faggots. At the same time I think that if a faggot want to get married to another dick sucker they should be allowed to do so. Everyone should be allowed to live the life they want to live without restriction.
For the black men out there who have a problem with black women bring their non black companions to black functions. There is one thing you can do and there is another thing you should do. First thing you can do is ask the IRBW why she brought a white boy to black function. What you need to do is tell all the black men who bring non black women to black functions not to bring their girlfriends/wives to black functions. You see you have clean up your own house before you start trying dictate what other people do in their house. But I warn never to approach me and my girl at anything unless you want to get fucked up. We date outside our race at a higher rate than any group of men. That other option is live your individual life the way you want to live and let others do the same.