Love vs lust..
ThisGirl

Sharps, VA

#21 Apr 2, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>will happen.. Just keep asking our dad 4 advice.. Lol..
lol I will, I always heard there is someone for everyone :)
Dee Dee

United States

#22 Apr 2, 2013
I love Jesus and my baby also. But ser, the thing is, this forum isnt about religion. I actually thought the topic was about relationships, being that I dont see Jesus nowhere in this topic, neither do I see family. Yes im a very good reader

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#23 Apr 2, 2013
Bychance37 wrote:
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If you are talking about as in a relationship with God then you need to make that clear. That wasn't what I thought you were referring to and neither did anyone else from what I'm reading.
Lust is a wish, desire, obsession, passion, the thought of nothing else.
yeah.. Why lust is bad.. Who wants what they cant have..

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#24 Apr 2, 2013
ThisGirl wrote:
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lol I will, I always heard there is someone for everyone :)
yeah.. Stratos said.. Love is not so much of two people falling in love.. But two people both in love in a common goal.. Aka faith, country.. Music.. Etc

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#25 Apr 2, 2013
Dee Dee wrote:
I love Jesus and my baby also. But ser, the thing is, this forum isnt about religion. I actually thought the topic was about relationships, being that I dont see Jesus nowhere in this topic, neither do I see family. Yes im a very good reader
i did.. I said god is love.. U didnt read very well.. Lol

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#26 Apr 3, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>yeah.. Why lust is bad.. Who wants what they cant have..
You can lust and have it. I just think both and be beneficial in a relationship between a man and woman or husband and wife if you will. I always thought of lust as sexual desire, it isn't always a bad thing is it?

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#27 Apr 3, 2013
Bychance37 wrote:
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You can lust and have it. I just think both and be beneficial in a relationship between a man and woman or husband and wife if you will. I always thought of lust as sexual desire, it isn't always a bad thing is it?
well.. Sex seen by the catholic pov.. Is scared bond.. Male giving.. Woman recieving.. In a unity of wanting a third person.. Lust.. Is not like that.. In the book of tobias.. He prayed.. Asking god.. That he may love sarah.. And 4 god to bless this union so they may grow old together.. U see love is 4 ever.. And goes beyond a physical connection.. While lust.. Seeks the satisfation of 1 self.. Not the other..

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#28 Apr 3, 2013
Sorry.. 4 sounding like father barry.. Lol.. My iq is just expanding to extrumaural porportions that its hard to contain.. My intelligent thoughts..

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#29 Apr 3, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>well.. Sex seen by the catholic pov.. Is scared bond.. Male giving.. Woman recieving.. In a unity of wanting a third person.. Lust.. Is not like that.. In the book of tobias.. He prayed.. Asking god.. That he may love sarah.. And 4 god to bless this union so they may grow old together.. U see love is 4 ever.. And goes beyond a physical connection.. While lust.. Seeks the satisfation of 1 self.. Not the other..
See I understand now that you are speaking in the context of the Bible. I get that now. I am not talking about wickedness or sinful lust. I'm speaking about desire only. I understand that the Bible sees lust as sin, that's why I said you didn't make that clear in your question.

I think you can love someone but not be attracted to them and not desire them. I could never be with a man that I didn't love or desire, wanting (lust) is needed IMO otherwise what do you call it when you can't wait to get home to your wife after she's been on your mind all day? That is a combination of love and lust IMO.

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#30 Apr 3, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
Sorry.. 4 sounding like father barry.. Lol.. My iq is just expanding to extrumaural porportions that its hard to contain.. My intelligent thoughts..
No I don't mind you referencing the Bible or God, I am a believer. You know how in the Bible it speaks about when someone lusts in their heart for another it's like they committed the act in reality? That is becuse that is a very real emotion and most of the time it brings about a physical reaction even if you are the only one in REALITY involved, if you know what I mean.
lol

United States

#31 Apr 3, 2013
Dee Dee wrote:
I love Jesus and my baby also. But ser, the thing is, this forum isnt about religion. I actually thought the topic was about relationships, being that I dont see Jesus nowhere in this topic, neither do I see family. Yes im a very good reader
I wasn't trying to make it about religion.
lol

United States

#32 Apr 3, 2013
I'm happy you a good reader. ;)

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#33 Apr 3, 2013
Bychance37 wrote:
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See I understand now that you are speaking in the context of the Bible. I get that now. I am not talking about wickedness or sinful lust. I'm speaking about desire only. I understand that the Bible sees lust as sin, that's why I said you didn't make that clear in your question.
I think you can love someone but not be attracted to them and not desire them. I could never be with a man that I didn't love or desire, wanting (lust) is needed IMO otherwise what do you call it when you can't wait to get home to your wife after she's been on your mind all day? That is a combination of love and lust IMO.
thats not really lust.. But love.. If u love some1.. ur think of him or her 24 7.. U have to relaize.. Woman may not b up 4 sex all the time.. Like during there periods etc.. So a man.. Who doesnt lust his wife.. Wouldnt demand sexual pleasures all the time

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#34 Apr 3, 2013
Bychance37 wrote:
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No I don't mind you referencing the Bible or God, I am a believer. You know how in the Bible it speaks about when someone lusts in their heart for another it's like they committed the act in reality? That is becuse that is a very real emotion and most of the time it brings about a physical reaction even if you are the only one in REALITY involved, if you know what I mean.
lol.. Yeah.. I get what u mean.. This a man problem or woman suffer the same thing
lol

United States

#35 Apr 3, 2013
Bychance37 wrote:
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No I don't mind you referencing the Bible or God, I am a believer. You know how in the Bible it speaks about when someone lusts in their heart for another it's like they committed the act in reality? That is becuse that is a very real emotion and most of the time it brings about a physical reaction even if you are the only one in REALITY involved, if you know what I mean.
You ansered your own question a long time ago. Anyway you don't need lust to want/desire the person you LOVE. People in love want and desire each other in sexual ways. If you have love, lust it not needed.
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy

Castle Rock, CO

#36 Apr 3, 2013
I agree with what Bychance stated that both love and lust are important in a relationship. Desire in a relationship creates that flame that fire which keeps the relationship rolling. Know what I mean?

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#37 Apr 3, 2013
I never understand why The Bible say 'lust' is bad. I can understand it being bad when ur married because it could lead to adultery.

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#38 Apr 4, 2013
Redefined wrote:
I never understand why The Bible say 'lust' is bad. I can understand it being bad when ur married because it could lead to adultery.
lust is an unlawful act or desire.. Example rape.. Comes from a lustful desire

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

Orlando, FL

#39 Apr 4, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>lust is an unlawful act or desire.. Example rape.. Comes from a lustful desire
TRUE! Maybe I'm confusing lust with the feeling of motivation since both can cause one to peruse something.

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Apia, Samoa

#40 Apr 4, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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TRUE! Maybe I'm confusing lust with the feeling of motivation since both can cause one to peruse something.
lol.. Yeah.. American media do make good, bad.. Bad good.. Love and lust.. 1 and the same

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