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#47 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~Side note* I've always admired your wide ranged vocabulary use.
And you have always been one of my favorites! I just hope that you don't allow the toxicity of this place to seep into your psyche.

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#48 Dec 12, 2013
How many people on this thread are African American?
Black is First

Cincinnati, OH

#49 Dec 12, 2013
BriPowWowAnna wrote:
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Yeah your right and the good part is every year that number dwindle.
To the OP, forget about them. I am working with my homegirl Bunnywen to get all Black Men to date White Women. We are making it our life long goal to reach that 100% Dating Rate for Black Men and White Women. If you every get a chance check out some of Bunnywen threads, she is a down White Girl that doing good things.
Dude you are bunnywen. These self hating Black men who come on here to attempt to make Black women feel bad is ridiculous, Black women do not care.
So ,you can take the Blonde wig off your head and get of the computer in your mother's basement and get a job.

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#50 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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But you are not making any sense and you are going in circles.
Your contention: All black men are desirous of and are with non black women - not remotely true and can be proven, so it's can only be your subjective beliefs.
My contention: The majority of black men are with black women even though many of us have options - can be quantified with a head count of black men that are in relationships.
you keep talking about your accepting reality, yet, you continue to ignore what can be quantifiably proven, proving you do not in fact, accept reality.
~Okay. However, I don't see how I'm going in circles. I said black guys typically date out, but I didn't mean all of them are, but the vast majority are. Where I live (besides me and my sisters and my parents) I rarely see a black man with a black woman. Both in media and reality. I hear my black friends (women) say they prefer to date their own, but the black guys I talk to say they are willing or prefer to date out. And when they try to ask me out (but tell them I have a boyfriend) they say "I usually don't talk to black girls", like they are doing me a favor. Maybe my perception is "subjective" but it comes from reality, which is why I say I accept reality.

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#51 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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And you have always been one of my favorites! I just hope that you don't allow the toxicity of this place to seep into your psyche.
~Thank you, but It's not topix that drawn this conclusion for me, It's many other references that are a lot more accurate.

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#52 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~Okay. However, I don't see how I'm going in circles. I said black guys typically date out, but I didn't mean all of them are, but the vast majority are. Where I live (besides me and my sisters and my parents) I rarely see a black man with a black woman. Both in media and reality. I hear my black friends (women) say they prefer to date their own, but the black guys I talk to say they are willing or prefer to date out. And when they try to ask me out (but tell them I have a boyfriend) they say "I usually don't talk to black girls", like they are doing me a favor. Maybe my perception is "subjective" but it comes from reality, which is why I say I accept reality.
Sweetheart, our personal observations and experiences in a microcosm are not reflective of what takes place in a macrocosm. Most black men do not date or marry out, only a finite percentage do and just because you hear women give testimony to what they prefer does not translate into their not being receptive to something else.

I once knew a sister who wore the kinte cloth and was very passionate pro black in everything that she did. She married this brother and encourage him to get a vasectomy because of her views of the direction the world was going. She never had a kind word to say about whites, but meet a reformed neo nazi skin head while married to the brother, left the brother married and had the white boy's baby; divorced him and married another white boy. I have seen many allegedly pro black women make confessions of loyalty to bm, only to see them later, renounce them.

So I respect the fact that your views are born of your empirical circle and experiences, but unless you actually know the dating habits of 22 million black men in America, you can not make definitive statements to the contrary of what is statistically proven.

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#53 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~Thank you, but It's not topix that drawn this conclusion for me, It's many other references that are a lot more accurate.
Will little one, I will not try and dispossess you of your beliefs, but I personally make my deductions about people from a much wider breadth beyond my empirical and personal experiences. Because logic dictates to me that one may be so in the state of Iowa may not be true here in California, so it would be illogical of me to paint the world monolithically with my California brush.

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#54 Dec 12, 2013
*Well little one*

*What may be so in the state of Iowa*
Old Friend of the Family

Ridgewood, NJ

#55 Dec 12, 2013
BlkRose wrote:
When are Black Women going to realize that we are not wanted by Black Men. It's time to give up and move on. Black Men spit in our faces then tell us it's rain and Black Women believe them.
We need to find our own happiness and it's not with Black Men.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/11/andr...
That guy's not gay?

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#56 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Sweetheart, our personal observations and experiences in a microcosm are not reflective of what takes place in a macrocosm. Most black men do not date or marry out, only a finite percentage do and just because you hear women give testimony to what they prefer does not translate into their not being receptive to something else.
I once knew a sister who wore the kinte cloth and was very passionate pro black in everything that she did. She married this brother and encourage him to get a vasectomy because of her views of the direction the world was going. She never had a kind word to say about whites, but meet a reformed neo nazi skin head while married to the brother, left the brother married and had the white boy's baby; divorced him and married another white boy. I have seen many allegedly pro black women make confessions of loyalty to bm, only to see them later, renounce them.
So I respect the fact that your views are born of your empirical circle and experiences, but unless you actually know the dating habits of 22 million black men in America, you can not make definitive statements to the contrary of what is statistically proven.
~Well, said.

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#57 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Will little one, I will not try and dispossess you of your beliefs, but I personally make my deductions about people from a much wider breadth beyond my empirical and personal experiences. Because logic dictates to me that one may be so in the state of Iowa may not be true here in California, so it would be illogical of me to paint the world monolithically with my California brush.
~So. If I'm wrong, how do you know black men's dating habits if you don't know them all, like me?

~I mean, we both made statements on black men's dating habits. What makes you more accurate than me? Just asking.
The Enemy Within

Vienna, VA

#58 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~So. If I'm wrong, how do you know black men's dating habits if you don't know them all, like me?
~I mean, we both made statements on black men's dating habits. What makes you more accurate than me? Just asking.
He's not looking into the BM psyche because he is a BM. You are because you are on the outside...

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#59 Dec 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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He's not looking into the BM psyche because he is a BM. You are because you are on the outside...
~Umm, yea. I'm asking him, not you.

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#60 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~So. If I'm wrong, how do you know black men's dating habits if you don't know them all, like me?
~I mean, we both made statements on black men's dating habits. What makes you more accurate than me? Just asking.
Now you are just being difficult for the sake of being difficult! First of all, I can go to the census bureau to see the marriage statistic, which have been, once again, quantified. And is it not a reasonable extrapolation to make if 87% of men are married to black women that that sub group are dating black women habitually before marrying them?

Secondly, I was and am a member of a very large fraternity......ex professional athletes, and can tell you from empirically confirming with my eyes that the preponderance of these black men (football and basketball) with resources are married or with black women to the tune of about 85%

Thirdly, Do a quantifiable head count on every television, movie personality and that their marriage percentage to black women reflects the 87% marriage percentage. This percentage is also verifiable from empirical observation at social events and from empirical observation when out and about. When the body of evidence weighs so preponderantly in direction, it becomes an easy and reasonable extrapolation to make.

All of the above, exist in a consistent pattern, so I'm comfortable with my conclusion above you simply throwing your beliefs out there.

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#61 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~Umm, yea. I'm asking him, not you.
That brother is correct. Being one (black man), I am qualified to give certain testimony. Being a black men grants me security clearance into the inner sanctum of the collective black male masses where we telepathically send mental newsletter to each other in order to update each other on our dating patterns. And I can confirm that our template of beauty is still a black female by a landslide.

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#62 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Now you are just being difficult for the sake of being difficult! First of all, I can go to the census bureau to see the marriage statistic, which have been, once again, quantified. And is it not a reasonable extrapolation to make if 87% of men are married to black women that that sub group are dating black women habitually before marrying them?
Secondly, I was and am a member of a very large fraternity......ex professional athletes, and can tell you from empirically confirming with my eyes that the preponderance of these black men (football and basketball) with resources are married or with black women to the tune of about 85%
Thirdly, Do a quantifiable head count on every television, movie personality and that their marriage percentage to black women reflects the 87% marriage percentage. This percentage is also verifiable from empirical observation at social events and from empirical observation when out and about. When the body of evidence weighs so preponderantly in direction, it becomes an easy and reasonable extrapolation to make.
All of the above, exist in a consistent pattern, so I'm comfortable with my conclusion above you simply throwing your beliefs out there.
~Wow, I'm asking a question out of curiosity. I'm not trying to be difficult, calm down. I simply asked why your sentiments are more valid than mine seeing as how we both made claims about black men and their dating habits.

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#63 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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That brother is correct. Being one (black man), I am qualified to give certain testimony. Being a black men grants me security clearance into the inner sanctum of the collective black male masses where we telepathically send mental newsletter to each other in order to update each other on our dating patterns. And I can confirm that our template of beauty is still a black female by a landslide.
~ I honestly don't care what he says because he's disrespectful and maligns black women routinely.

~And, what? So you know what all black men are thinking because you all dispatch messages to each other. You all are human, not cell phones.

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#64 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~Wow, I'm asking a question out of curiosity. I'm not trying to be difficult, calm down. I simply asked why your sentiments are more valid than mine seeing as how we both made claims about black men and their dating habits.
Don't you sass me young lady...I'm old enough to be........well never mind, I'm old of enough! lol
Intent is often lost in the written form, it was not meant that the way.

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#65 Dec 12, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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~ I honestly don't care what he says because he's disrespectful and maligns black women routinely.
~And, what? So you know what all black men are thinking because you all dispatch messages to each other. You all are human, not cell phones.
Okaaay! I see that its time to let this go! It was clearly sarcasm, but never mind!

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#66 Dec 12, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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Don't you sass me young lady...I'm old enough to be........well never mind, I'm old of enough! lol
Intent is often lost in the written form, it was not meant that the way.
~ Okay, I ask a question and you belittle me because of my age.

~What wasn't meant that way?

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