Do you like shy and quiet people?

Do you like shy and quiet people?

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Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#1 Jun 11, 2008
hey guys ...I wanna know if you guys like shy people and if it is ok to be quiet?

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Since: May 08

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#2 Jun 11, 2008
AfriSN wrote:
hey guys ...I wanna know if you guys like shy people and if it is ok to be quiet?
I have nothing against the shy & quiet. I'm more likely to appraoch a reserved woman as opposed to one who is all over the place seeking attention.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fairfax, VA

#3 Jun 11, 2008
AfriSN wrote:
hey guys ...I wanna know if you guys like shy people and if it is ok to be quiet?
I sure do! I feel more comfortable approaching them than I do with a loud person. Besides shy people tend to be nice most of the time and that's why I have no problem nor fear of approaching them, unless they have mean looks on their face.:(

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Since: Jan 08

Arkansas City, KS

#4 Jun 11, 2008
I do I actually really get along with those kind of people and I kinda open them up even more.

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Since: Dec 07

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#5 Jun 11, 2008
No, I don't like shy ppl they're boring, its hard to conversating with a wall.

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fairfax, VA

#6 Jun 11, 2008
BrownSuga wrote:
No, I don't like shy ppl they're boring, its hard to conversating with a wall.
How so? You don't know that for sure. Who knows, maybe he/she may have an interesting personality once you get to know them some more or did you consider the possibility that shy people are the way they are around people they don't know but aren't once they are around their friends like I am?

Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#7 Jun 11, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
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How so? You don't know that for sure. Who knows, maybe he/she may have an interesting personality once you get to know them some more or did you consider the possibility that shy people are the way they are around people they don't know but aren't once they are around their friends like I am?
thanks mack the great.....it is true shy people do tend to show an interesting personality once people get to know them.I'm just like you once i'm around my friends......they get so shocked when they see my crazy side but I never yell or talk loud though in fact they say i'm speak softly. Is this a good thing? I'm shy epecially around guys, I can't even talk to them or look at them most of the time otehrwise I will just say the stupidest things :( lolz

Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#8 Jun 11, 2008
^^ correction*I speak softly
*otherwise

Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#9 Jun 11, 2008
jmill82 wrote:
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I have nothing against the shy & quiet. I'm more likely to appraoch a reserved woman as opposed to one who is all over the place seeking attention.
same with a guy if he shows off all the time then he is not my type. I love shy guys :)

Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#10 Jun 11, 2008
CANDAYMAMA wrote:
I do I actually really get along with those kind of people and I kinda open them up even more.
so true I have a veryy loud friend and she kinda opens me up but then i'm still shy lol. I don't know why.....I guess it is just my personality.

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Since: Sep 07

kENYAN.BORN.TEXAS.MADE

#11 Jun 11, 2008
Most shy people open up and reveal their

actual personalities once comfortable

..so i don't mind them

but I dont associate with the super quiet

and awkward people who just don't talk period

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#12 Jun 11, 2008
Mack the Great wrote:
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How so? You don't know that for sure. Who knows, maybe he/she may have an interesting personality once you get to know them some more or did you consider the possibility that shy people are the way they are around people they don't know but aren't once they are around their friends like I am?
I got introduced to somebody that was shy.'til this day, everytime I see her, it seems like we're strangers. Even when we go out anywhere...there nothing there!! she sooooo shy and its boring.

Im shy then give me a cuple of min. then you'll have to shut me up :/

Since: May 08

Auckland, New Zealand

#13 Jun 11, 2008
BrownSuga wrote:
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I got introduced to somebody that was shy.'til this day, everytime I see her, it seems like we're strangers. Even when we go out anywhere...there nothing there!! she sooooo shy and its boring.
Im shy then give me a cuple of min. then you'll have to shut me up :/
Really, how long have you guys known each other?

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Since: Dec 07

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#14 Jun 11, 2008
BrownSuga wrote:
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I got introduced to somebody that was shy.'til this day, everytime I see her, it seems like we're strangers. Even when we go out anywhere...there nothing there!! she sooooo shy and its boring.
Im shy then give me a cuple of min. then you'll have to shut me up :/
you can say that again..cause we all know you can go on and on, and oooooooon
zzzz....zzzzz.zzzz oh brown where you sayn something.

oh I forgot to speak
Hey BROwn
Brenda

West Covina, CA

#16 Jun 11, 2008
Shy people don't bother me. It is the ones that goes on and on and on about themselves, and you can't get a word in edge wise. Geez.

My dad is like that. He's 1000 years old, and all he talks about is HIM and his accomplishments - which really are that many. However, he stretches the truth. How do you tell your dad to "STFU"?

Conversations and friendships should be 50/50. Let everyone bring something to the table.
Brenda

West Covina, CA

#17 Jun 11, 2008
^^^s/b "are not that many"

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Since: Dec 07

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#18 Jun 11, 2008
Brenda wrote:
Shy people don't bother me. It is the ones that goes on and on and on about themselves, and you can't get a word in edge wise. Geez.
My dad is like that. He's 1000 years old, and all he talks about is HIM and his accomplishments - which really are that many. However, he stretches the truth. How do you tell your dad to "STFU"?
Conversations and friendships should be 50/50. Let everyone bring something to the table.
\

Hey Brenda how you been..well Im a lil shy until the shoes come off. Than I tend to open up really fast

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fairfax, VA

#19 Jun 11, 2008
AfriSN wrote:
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thanks mack the great.....it is true shy people do tend to show an interesting personality once people get to know them.I'm just like you once i'm around my friends......they get so shocked when they see my crazy side but I never yell or talk loud though in fact they say i'm speak softly. Is this a good thing? I'm shy epecially around guys, I can't even talk to them or look at them most of the time otehrwise I will just say the stupidest things :( lolz
You're welcome AfrSn.;0:)Theres nothing wrong wih speaking softly as long as they can hear you as I had a former coworker of mine that was into anime like me and spoke in a low tone of voice I couldn't understand at times. There's nothing wrong with being shy around guys especially when you find one you have a crush on. I guess your shyness around them stems from the fact that you don't know what to talk about around them hence you being a female and all. No offense!LOL!;):)

Mack the Great

Since: May 07

Fairfax, VA

#20 Jun 11, 2008
BrownSuga wrote:
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I got introduced to somebody that was shy.'til this day, everytime I see her, it seems like we're strangers. Even when we go out anywhere...there nothing there!! she sooooo shy and its boring.
Im shy then give me a cuple of min. then you'll have to shut me up :/
Damn, she must have lived a sheltered and secluded life from others to be that shy!LOL! You seem interesting enough to talk to for a shy girl, and you'll make like the Energizer bunny that keeps going and going when you talk after I've got the chance to get to know you better!LOL!:)

“You're gonna say it anyway....”

Since: Jan 08

I'm over it!

#21 Jun 11, 2008
My son in law is painfully shy. Lucjy for him, he has a crazy mother in law and wife!

He is coming out of his shell! FAST...

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