leave the black girl attitude at home...

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#183 Jun 23, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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Don't understand the feminine part but that's a joke my mom used to tell us when we were growing up. She said when we were moody we were constipated and she'd come after us with a bottle of Milk of Magnesia and a spoon followed with a possible B12 shot. She was a RN.
I guess you really do need to relax.
leilajoy pathetically tries to control what strangers post on a forum, maybe you and her are the ones taking thins too seriously here.
Scroll past my comments if you don't like reading them. Control YOU, not me.
Black Patriot

UK

#184 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You're viewed as a sex object, in the same way dumb blonde women with big breasts are viewed as sex objects, or pole dancers are viewed as sex objects.
Why do you think you are the only MEN of any race universally objectified sexually, when it is not acceptable to sexually objectify even tall dark handsome Arabian and Italian men in the same way?
This is a ridiculous comment and we take no offence when it comes to be objectified as sex objects.

Men and women will always be sex objects to one another, this is what ultimately attract one to the other. An example, when a woman sees a man that she finds to be worthy of sleeping with him, has she not sexually objectified him?

Now even if you want to make it seem as a "put down" to us being sexually objectified, one would say how you wish to be part of this rare group, because after-all, whilst you are watching a white male running through an aaw in the TV show "Scandal" and seeing how you glorify it and went as far to make the top of any show says alot about how deep down your jealousy of us black men cuts.
Black Patriot

UK

#185 Jun 23, 2013
And why do black women want to compete with us black men?
You don't see any race of women do this other than black women.
CyberNomad

New York, NY

#186 Jun 23, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
<quoted text> Asian women dont stop being asian to be with wm, and they dont bash am, bw on the other hand do a complete change, forget who they are, they become complete oreos, they try to talk with a w/girl voice, wht mannerisms, to fit this eurocentric standard, yet you want to remain hood when youre with bm.
No such thing as a "white" voice or mannerisms you dumb low IQ Jim Crow brainwashed plantation c00n.

Oh and btw, im a black man and have no prob with normal black women who date IR. Yeah, there are those determined to have pale babies with curly hair. To them I say stay away, because they will only abuse any dark baby should they have one.
But many are just normal people who meet someone and connect, and dont let race prevent pursuit of relationship

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#187 Jun 23, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>unlike you, there are some blacks who actually give a fk about the black community as a whole.
Oh who cares! We have bigger problems to worry about; like black on black crime and our youth not taking education seriously and turning to a life of crime...

“Get use to the cold!”

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#188 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Do you think the average dark skinned black girl thinks she's as sexaully attractive to the opposite sex as her brother is? I don't think they do.I think many dark skinned Black females envy their biological brothers and wish they had been born male in the dating game.
No I don't think sane people think like that.

“Get use to the cold!”

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#189 Jun 23, 2013
Big knob wrote:
@ leilajoy that was a nice bate and switch move from what I said. These women are the only type of women a lot of bm are use to, so bm are use to hardcore unfeminine thick women, so I find it funny when bw accuse bm of big women, cause thats all, thats in the blk community. This has lowerd some of the bms standards in women, and it began on the blk community.
In these shows the bm is with a slim bw with curves who looks nice, in noway fat and they cheat of her with a really fat woman. It's always the same. When bm date out they date out with fat ww. Bw are not going to change for bm who are abusive verbally and mentally, the ones who are big will change for themselves. Bm like a bigger woman not obese but a little bit bigger than stick thin. I see a lot of slim bw so I don't know why all these bm are crying because their game is dead.

“Get use to the cold!”

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#190 Jun 23, 2013
Big knob wrote:
<quoted text> according to an essense magazine poll 40% of bw admitted to cheating, the point ms joy is this bw cheat as well, but we only focus on bm, a man cant cheat buy himself, I know bw who date married men and their not ghetto.
What I said had nothing to do with cheating, if you wasn't so defensive you would be able to see that, it was about bm who had a perfect shaped bw, going after big obese bw, when they are complaining they don't like fat women, well match you actions to your words.

Since: Jun 08

Tulsa OK. & Lugano Switzerland

#191 Jun 23, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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leilajoy pathetically tries to control what strangers post on a forum, maybe you and her are the ones taking thins too seriously here.
Scroll past my comments if you don't like reading them. Control YOU, not me.
LOL!
I have no idea what you're talking about.
Ok I had to go back to see who you were talking about. I didn't know I was even responding to that person. I just read the post responded with my post. I didn't look at who posted it. I don't know what you are talking about controlling someone. Not into the soap opera here.
Just posted a little comic relief and you took it too serious. No big deal.
I just read here and there. Post here and there.
I'm on a flight to São Paulo. Wifi on this 12 hours flight. I will surf and do some things on my iPad until diviner is served. Then take a nap.
Post all you want.
Don't worry be happy.
Max

United States

#192 Jun 23, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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LOL!
I have no idea what you're talking about.
Ok I had to go back to see who you were talking about. I didn't know I was even responding to that person. I just read the post responded with my post. I didn't look at who posted it. I don't know what you are talking about controlling someone. Not into the soap opera here.
Just posted a little comic relief and you took it too serious. No big deal.
I just read here and there. Post here and there.
I'm on a flight to São Paulo. Wifi on this 12 hours flight. I will surf and do some things on my iPad until diviner is served. Then take a nap.
Post all you want.
Don't worry be happy.
You getting some of that black girl attitude.

“Helping you ”

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#193 Jun 23, 2013
What is the "black girl" attitude anyway?

“ News”

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#195 Jun 23, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
<quoted text>In these shows the bm is with a slim bw with curves who looks nice, in noway fat and they cheat of her with a really fat woman. It's always the same. When bm date out they date out with fat ww. Bw are not going to change for bm who are abusive verbally and mentally, the ones who are big will change for themselves. Bm like a bigger woman not obese but a little bit bigger than stick thin. I see a lot of slim bw so I don't know why all these bm are crying because their game is dead.
I have to disagree. I think most brothers like slim curvy women, and I don't mean skinny. The reason you probably see so many with bigger thick black women is probably because that's how most black women are these days.

The slim ones with a shape tend to be to choicey, which s probably why it's so hard for them to keep one man. I've always noticed that most married black men are usually living with a slightly obese wife.

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#196 Jun 23, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
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I have to disagree. I think most brothers like slim curvy women, and I don't mean skinny. The reason you probably see so many with bigger thick black women is probably because that's how most black women are these days.
The slim ones with a shape tend to be to choicey, which s probably why it's so hard for them to keep one man. I've always noticed that most married black men are usually living with a slightly obese wife.
Then exercise with those women or don't choose them, I am not fat, there are plenty bw who are slender. More bw need to get in shape but some are not going to be motivated by abuse. How come bw back in the days wanted to be slim how come they could care less now, I think bm don't motivate bw to get slim so they keep eating or maybe fat bw just find bm who attracted to their size, so you should do the same and look for only slim bw.

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#197 Jun 23, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
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I have to disagree. I think most brothers like slim curvy women, and I don't mean skinny. The reason you probably see so many with bigger thick black women is probably because that's how most black women are these days.
The slim ones with a shape tend to be to choicey, which s probably why it's so hard for them to keep one man. I've always noticed that most married black men are usually living with a slightly obese wife.
Agreed. I personally have no issue with dating bigger girls but obesity in the black community as a whole in rampant.

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#198 Jun 23, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
<quoted text>Then exercise with those women or don't choose them, I am not fat, there are plenty bw who are slender. More bw need to get in shape but some are not going to be motivated by abuse. How come bw back in the days wanted to be slim how come they could care less now, I think bm don't motivate bw to get slim so they keep eating or maybe fat bw just find bm who attracted to their size, so you should do the same and look for only slim bw.
This wasn't about me or about you. I was simply giving my opinion, so I didn't really need the advice on what to go for. I know what most brothers like.

I think bw, like any women are responsible for their own bodies, especially if they want to live a long life. The truth is, many refuse to change their diet, which takes away from most of the benefits from exercise.

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#199 Jun 23, 2013
Black Patriot wrote:
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This is a ridiculous comment and we take no offence when it comes to be objectified as sex objects.
Men and women will always be sex objects to one another, this is what ultimately attract one to the other. An example, when a woman sees a man that she finds to be worthy of sleeping with him, has she not sexually objectified him?
Now even if you want to make it seem as a "put down" to us being sexually objectified, one would say how you wish to be part of this rare group, because after-all, whilst you are watching a white male running through an aaw in the TV show "Scandal" and seeing how you glorify it and went as far to make the top of any show says alot about how deep down your jealousy of us black men cuts.
It shows you are not taken seriously by other people in the world. It's sad that you don't realize what it means.

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#201 Jun 23, 2013
Black girl wrote:
<quoted text>you won't convince him that we're not competing against them,he simply refuses to see it. Black men are envied by every other race of ppl though. When they see a black man's sexiness/masculinity, they know they can't compete. Truth.
You're mentally ill.
Why would men who have enslaved you, raped YOU and your women and children, bought and sold you like cattle for 100s of years, think that they can't compete with you?
Name 3 successful safe countries ruled and controlled by black men on this Earth.
Grow the fck up and stop talking like a fool.
BigKnob

United States

#202 Jun 23, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
<quoted text>What I said had nothing to do with cheating, if you wasn't so defensive you would be able to see that, it was about bm who had a perfect shaped bw, going after big obese bw, when they are complaining they don't like fat women, well match you actions to your words.
My point was most bw are thick, so bm are use to big women, they had no choice, so when bw say bm like plump non bw, that puts a smile on my face, cause who taught him bw, thats who.
BigKnob

United States

#203 Jun 23, 2013
CyberNomad wrote:
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No such thing as a "white" voice or mannerisms you dumb low IQ Jim Crow brainwashed plantation c00n.
Oh and btw, im a black man and have no prob with normal black women who date IR. Yeah, there are those determined to have pale babies with curly hair. To them I say stay away, because they will only abuse any dark baby should they have one.
But many are just normal people who meet someone and connect, and dont let race prevent pursuit of relationship
can you tell the difference between stevie wonder & barry manilows style of sing? Thats what im saying scholar.
BigKnob

United States

#204 Jun 23, 2013
leilajoy wrote:
<quoted text>In these mlshows the bm is with a slim bw with curves who looks nice, in noway fat and they cheat of her with a really fat woman. It's always the same. When bm date out they date out with fat ww. Bw are not going to change for bm who are abusive verbally and mentally, the ones who are big will change for themselves. Bm like a bigger woman not obese but a little bit bigger than stick thin. I see a lot of slim bw so I don't know why all these bm are crying because their game is dead.
Bm are use to dating big women cause thats all you see in the blk community, you caused him to think that way bw, also show me a thin womain the hood, and ill put her in a museum, see this was all the bm has seen in bw which is thick, so the bm got dating thick women from bw, funny how you say bm date big ww, but he dates big bw you say nothing, the standards of these simps were created by bw, long before these simps started to date out. If a women is a abused she'll begin to think thats normal for men to act this way, and she'll keep seeking abusive men., The bm is use to dating thick women because most bw are thick, so these bm ( some of them ) date non blk thick women as well, thats all im saying, the bms desire of thick women came from bw. Bw wont change huh for bm, my dear; you catch bees with honey, not vinegar.

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