Why Black women lose their men to wom...

Why Black women lose their men to women of other races.

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Since: Sep 09

AOL

#1 Sep 8, 2009
Black women lose Black men to women of other races for the following reasons.
1. They have bad attitudes
2. They’re sexually uptight
3. They’re miserable and make their men miserable in the process
4. They’re manipulative
5. They don’t exercise
6. They will never admit their faults
Black women are reactionary, that is, many times they are not interested in a man until they see him with someone from another race. That’s when they start asking questions, and discover in the process that he has something going for himself. They then use the tired old line of:“You see, every time a Black man makes it, he leaves!”
I’m down here in the Ft. Lauderdale/Miami, Florida area and I see Black women with White men all the time, but they’re old, which tells me you all can’t get young White men! Oh, yes, you can get one to f**k you (Some of you), but you can’t get one to marry you.
Change your attitudes, quit going after men for the wrong reasons and get on the treadmill and you might have some luck! Otherwise you will perish.
Lah

United States

#2 Sep 8, 2009
"lose" their man? i doubt it.. most divorces are caused by infidelity point blank. who cares what race the other woman is.. cheating is cheating! take race out of your life.. might work for you.

-lah
phins1989

Lake Worth, FL

#3 Sep 8, 2009
Dont even entertain this clown, I live in Miami and IR dating is very rare, especially with the Large Caribbean Community. Almost everyone tend to marry within their Culture or skin color.

Anyways how many whites are still left in Miami?, there is barely any, they make up 11% of the population, go to any mall, you see white with white, mestizo with mestizo, black with black etc.

The black women/men here aren't chasing any white women/men. If they do, its really rare.

Since: Nov 08

Philadelphia, PA

#4 Sep 8, 2009
It's interesting that you joined 10 hours ago, you have two posts and they both are negative towards BW.

You aren't going to be here long, my frend.

;o)

Since: Jun 09

Nairobi, Kenya

#5 Sep 8, 2009
Clown clown* Smh*
Queen

AOL

#6 Sep 8, 2009
Lah, you have a point about taken race out of it because a lot of people are crossing the color line. Many white men are with AW, yet we don't hear about white women losing their men and a long list of reasons why. There is billions of people in the world, you need only one!

Since: Sep 09

AOL

#7 Sep 8, 2009
Mikah wrote:
It's interesting that you joined 10 hours ago, you have two posts and they both are negative towards BW.
You aren't going to be here long, my frend.
;o)
Mikah:

You just can't deal with the truth. Swallow your pride and deal with the truth!

Since: Sep 09

AOL

#8 Sep 8, 2009
phins1989 wrote:
Dont even entertain this clown, I live in Miami and IR dating is very rare, especially with the Large Caribbean Community. Almost everyone tend to marry within their Culture or skin color.
Anyways how many whites are still left in Miami?, there is barely any, they make up 11% of the population, go to any mall, you see white with white, mestizo with mestizo, black with black etc.
The black women/men here aren't chasing any white women/men. If they do, its really rare.
Phins:

You are wrong, it is more common than you think. Where have you been hiding?

Not only is it common, but women from the Caribbean, specifically from Haiti are dating White men in abundance.

“Get over it!”

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Since: Mar 09

NEW YORK CITY

#9 Sep 8, 2009
Jetpimp wrote:
Black women lose Black men to women of other races for the following reasons.
1. They have bad attitudes
2. They’re sexually uptight
3. They’re miserable and make their men miserable in the process
4. They’re manipulative
5. They don’t exercise
6. They will never admit their faults
Black women are reactionary, that is, many times they are not interested in a man until they see him with someone from another race. That’s when they start asking questions, and discover in the process that he has something going for himself. They then use the tired old line of:“You see, every time a Black man makes it, he leaves!”
I’m down here in the Ft. Lauderdale/Miami, Florida area and I see Black women with White men all the time, but they’re old, which tells me you all can’t get young White men! Oh, yes, you can get one to f**k you (Some of you), but you can’t get one to marry you.
Change your attitudes, quit going after men for the wrong reasons and get on the treadmill and you might have some luck! Otherwise you will perish.
You people are still on this same ol' bullshit huh? BORING
Just being me

New Orleans, LA

#10 Sep 8, 2009
phins1989 wrote:
Dont even entertain this clown, I live in Miami and IR dating is very rare, especially with the Large Caribbean Community. Almost everyone tend to marry within their Culture or skin color.
Anyways how many whites are still left in Miami?, there is barely any, they make up 11% of the population, go to any mall, you see white with white, mestizo with mestizo, black with black etc.
The black women/men here aren't chasing any white women/men. If they do, its really rare.
Phins 1989,

What planet are you on. I live in Miami too. Interracial dating is all over the place down here. The main groups that are interracially dating are black men and black women. Haitian women are the black women who want to date white men the most. To be specific, they date Jewish white men. These Jewish men use them for their pu--y, then they discard them and marry a Jewish woman. HOW DO I KNOW THIS??? I had a Haitian girlfriend who told me about all of her friends. I remember her last words on the subject,“They never work”(referring to the relationships). That Haitian girl left me for an older white guy. He was around 20 years older than her. She dated him for six years before he dumped her.

If you think I am wrong, I will tell you exactly where to go to see how interracial dating has flourished in South Florida. In Miami, go to South Beach. There you will see plenty of black women with older white men. They are usually sitting at one of the outdoor cafes having lunch under the canopies with their older white benefactor. In Fort Lauderdale go to the beach. To be exact, go to the corner of Las Olas and A1A. After that, drive west on Las Olas to the expensive shops around Mango’s night club. You will see the same thing there.

To prove his point about black women not being able to get younger white guys, go to “The Blue Martini” at the Galleria Mall on Sunrise Blvd. This is also in Fort Lauderdale. You will see black women in there all alone. Nobody wants to have anything to do with them. They are all alone. If you don’t believe me, go see for yourself.

Even though I had my girl leave me for a white guy, I approve of interracial dating. I personally think it is the solution to most of our racial problems in this country. I have joined the interracial dating club myself.

Successful Educated Black Man
Lah

United States

#11 Sep 8, 2009
why does everything have to be about race??

-lah

“MochaMacossa.. it's my secret.”

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Since: Mar 08

Stankonia, PF...

#12 Sep 8, 2009
Majority of black women want NOTHING to do with white men.. young or old, rich or poor. We just don't want you. As for black men leaving black women for women of other races... you need to admit that, those black men are really only wanting sex. Very few of them actually stick around. Why should they? Easy sex is plentiful on "that side", and that's all they're there for, sorry. No matter how sweet & thin & agreeable & delicate you claim those women to be, they STILL are being left high and dry with children by black men. LOL.
minnie

Milwaukee, WI

#13 Sep 8, 2009
Jetpimp wrote:
<quoted text>
Phins:
You are wrong, it is more common than you think. Where have you been hiding?
Not only is it common, but women from the Caribbean, specifically from Haiti are dating White men in abundance.
that is the biggest crock of BS
HAITIAN MEN AND WOMEN 99.9999999% OF THE TIME DATE OTHER HAITIAN OR FOLKS OF AFRICAN DESCENT!!!
get out of here with all of the ir bs
you are a true foul

you sound like another bitter man or hell you might be istherehope/simple logic/tommmy/federal agent/ and the other bitter men on this website

you just need a friend :)
minnie

Milwaukee, WI

#14 Sep 8, 2009
anywho
in the midwest, ir dating is very low
so if you want to say were "losing" our men to other women, then have fun
i have no problem getting black men and keeping them as well as the other black women i know
but then again, youre just probably just a random white lady/man/non black folk who justs wants to cause drama
good day!
JJJ

Saint Paul, MN

#15 Sep 8, 2009
Lah wrote:
why does everything have to be about race??
-lah
Nothing is about race. But if you refer to white people in posts, the blacks here get angry and yell they don't care what whites do and tell you to get off their forum.

Then when you post about black only, you get blacks saying, well what about whites? They aren't perfect.

So you can't win here.
Lah

United States

#16 Sep 8, 2009
JJJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Nothing is about race. But if you refer to white people in posts, the blacks here get angry and yell they don't care what whites do and tell you to get off their forum.
Then when you post about black only, you get blacks saying, well what about whites? They aren't perfect.
So you can't win here.
and then you have non-blacks trolling and posting racist threads to get attention... i mean, racism should be obselete.. that's all im saying.. ITS POINTLESS!!.. i know my words will fall upon deaf ears, but its good to know that someone understands.

-lah
minnie

Milwaukee, WI

#17 Sep 8, 2009
JJJ wrote:
<quoted text>
Nothing is about race. But if you refer to white people in posts, the blacks here get angry and yell they don't care what whites do and tell you to get off their forum.
Then when you post about black only, you get blacks saying, well what about whites? They aren't perfect.
So you can't win here.
c/s
i see that all the time

“Engaged :)”

Since: Aug 07

Thames Ditton, UK

#18 Sep 8, 2009
You CLOWN! The woman's race has NOTHING to do with it. I could lose my man to ANY race of woman if a f**k up. If he chooses to date a white woman or whatever after me, it might have nothing to do with me being a black woman.

Black men and women who date outside of their race BECAUSE of black men/women are PATHETIC!

Since: Jan 08

Myrtle Beach, SC

#20 Sep 8, 2009
Lah wrote:
"lose" their man? i doubt it.. most divorces are caused by infidelity point blank. who cares what race the other woman is.. cheating is cheating! take race out of your life.. might work for you.
-lah
Most of my single girlfriends aren't with their old boyfriends because they got cheated on and refused to stay in those relationships.

I wonder if some men think that cheating should be an acceptable part of a relationship, because I don't care if I have to be by myself for the rest of my life. Cheating means I will not subject myself to being with you.

No skin off my back.

hawt

Since: Jan 08

Myrtle Beach, SC

#21 Sep 8, 2009
Jetpimp wrote:
Black women lose Black men to women of other races for the following reasons.
1. They have bad attitudes
2. They’re sexually uptight
3. They’re miserable and make their men miserable in the process
4. They’re manipulative
5. They don’t exercise
6. They will never admit their faults
Black women are reactionary, that is, many times they are not interested in a man until they see him with someone from another race. That’s when they start asking questions, and discover in the process that he has something going for himself. They then use the tired old line of:“You see, every time a Black man makes it, he leaves!”
I’m down here in the Ft. Lauderdale/Miami, Florida area and I see Black women with White men all the time, but they’re old, which tells me you all can’t get young White men! Oh, yes, you can get one to f**k you (Some of you), but you can’t get one to marry you.
Change your attitudes, quit going after men for the wrong reasons and get on the treadmill and you might have some luck! Otherwise you will perish.
Please stop the lies about black women wanting white men. Why do ya'll lie so damn much?! Black women have eyes. We know what the hell is going on.

http://tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/04/1...

"There’s also a clear gender divide, as the researchers note:“Women of all races exhibit strong same race preferences, while men of no raceexhibit a statistically significant same race preference."

"The researchers found that most women speed daters said yes (meaning they’d like to see a man again after the four-minute speed date) less often to men of another race than they did to men of their own race. Here’s how much less interested they were in the other races, as compared with their enthusiasm for men of their own race:

African-American women said yes about 30 percent less often to Hispanic men; about 45 percent less often to white men; about 65 percent less often to Asian men.

White women said yes about 30 percent less often to black or Hispanic men, and about 65 percent less often to Asian men.

Hispanic women said yes about 20 percent less often to black or white men, and 50 percent less often to Asian men.

Asian women didn’t discriminate much by race (except for showing a very slight preference for Asian men over black or Hispanic men)."

And once again we have another AOL user, obsessed with IR dating.

Gee! We haven't seen this before, eh?

hawt

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