PierreI feel like the self hating black woman puts up a front. She wants to look down on black men, like white men do, and she wants to be independent, and by putting down black men, she thinks that other men will find her more desirable, but its not working, and its backfiring on the ignorant ones faces, because they are getting with the women, the ones some of you feel like you have to compete with now and days. You wanted your soul independence, but it backfired. Your doing the job that they wanted you to do, and its leaving you alone, so your not getting nothing out of hating black men, yourself, or other black women. Im not talking all black women.
The "Facts are in the Stats"! I don't hate Black men but I refuse to date them based on the "Collective behaviors". Those stats are pretty horrific; I'm not about to overlook them. That would be foolish of me especially when I know most Black women are effected by them as well as Black men do so little.
Its a little hard for some Black men to take even the ones the ones who constantly boast. I've sworn off Black males to date/marry. I don't treat anybody bad; but I have some Black men where I work who have made "vulgar remarks" and said some pretty nasty monikers but that's on them. The only ones that I don't speak to or "Ignore" are those who start calling me "bitch, whore or slut" just for my decision. If I'm not speaking to a Black man its because they went way pass the disrespectful remarks! So of someone is really "Nasty or vulgar"; I'm not very forgiving Becuase you can get your point across with out the Nasty verbiage!
Isn't if funny how you give a Pass for Black men to date/say/act as they please and when Black women do the samething your "eyes bulge out and yoru head spins"!
No race of women turns against a "collective" Group of Black men for no reasons; theirs plenty of good reasons. Like your not doing your jobs and the children are suffering which is pathetic!
Why why why does every celebrity, rapper, Pastor, Educator, have to tell Black men to "Take care of your kids" and stop acting like whores?
Damn Even President Obama said the samething to Black males during his first elections and Black men were angry! His second term the Republicians said "Black have No Fathers" they don't want their women or children.
I had someone mention today how her BF ripped her off of about 555k to 60k starting a resturant to the point where her son pull a gun on the man and asked for the money back.
I don't think that Black women are eager to say negative things about Black men they finally had to face the truth about what many of you do!