Poll said BM least desired by BW less...
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#23 Feb 27, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I feel like the self hating black woman puts up a front. She wants to look down on black men, like white men do, and she wants to be independent, and by putting down black men, she thinks that other men will find her more desirable, but its not working, and its backfiring on the ignorant ones faces, because they are getting with the women, the ones some of you feel like you have to compete with now and days. You wanted your soul independence, but it backfired. Your doing the job that they wanted you to do, and its leaving you alone, so your not getting nothing out of hating black men, yourself, or other black women. Im not talking all black women.
Pierre

The "Facts are in the Stats"! I don't hate Black men but I refuse to date them based on the "Collective behaviors". Those stats are pretty horrific; I'm not about to overlook them. That would be foolish of me especially when I know most Black women are effected by them as well as Black men do so little.

Its a little hard for some Black men to take even the ones the ones who constantly boast. I've sworn off Black males to date/marry. I don't treat anybody bad; but I have some Black men where I work who have made "vulgar remarks" and said some pretty nasty monikers but that's on them. The only ones that I don't speak to or "Ignore" are those who start calling me "bitch, whore or slut" just for my decision. If I'm not speaking to a Black man its because they went way pass the disrespectful remarks! So of someone is really "Nasty or vulgar"; I'm not very forgiving Becuase you can get your point across with out the Nasty verbiage!

Isn't if funny how you give a Pass for Black men to date/say/act as they please and when Black women do the samething your "eyes bulge out and yoru head spins"!

No race of women turns against a "collective" Group of Black men for no reasons; theirs plenty of good reasons. Like your not doing your jobs and the children are suffering which is pathetic!

Why why why does every celebrity, rapper, Pastor, Educator, have to tell Black men to "Take care of your kids" and stop acting like whores?

Damn Even President Obama said the samething to Black males during his first elections and Black men were angry! His second term the Republicians said "Black have No Fathers" they don't want their women or children.

I had someone mention today how her BF ripped her off of about 555k to 60k starting a resturant to the point where her son pull a gun on the man and asked for the money back.

I don't think that Black women are eager to say negative things about Black men they finally had to face the truth about what many of you do!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#24 Feb 27, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I feel like the self hating black woman puts up a front. She wants to look down on black men, like white men do, and she wants to be independent, and by putting down black men, she thinks that other men will find her more desirable, but its not working, and its backfiring on the ignorant ones faces, because they are getting with the women, the ones some of you feel like you have to compete with now and days. You wanted your soul independence, but it backfired. Your doing the job that they wanted you to do, and its leaving you alone, so your not getting nothing out of hating black men, yourself, or other black women. Im not talking all black women.
Pierre

You decided to live marginal like many Black males. You wanted it now you pay for it, it goes both ways!

Now you have to complete with some White males for some Black women where that wasn't happening prior. It appears that some Black women get the message and have started moving on from you!

Like I said it goes both ways!

Even Black males say its really bad and if they were an attractive Black women they would date/marry a White man! LMAO

Now that's funny!

I heard that a couple of times; even they said you'll get treated better!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#25 Feb 27, 2013
Yahoo Questions

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Why do black men live off of their women?

most women dating black men work and support them while they stand on the corner all day yelling at people or cheating all the time. Why can't they work like normal people.
2 years ago

According to statistics black men are the least likely to get jobs and attend college.

Black women are the most likely to attend college and have a job simply because they are female. If they are attractive it would help them even more.

Now yes that is sexist but its true their is an advantage of being a female because most of us are taught to have an education and not rely on a man.

Now im white and ive seen some black guys who work very hard but i definitly say its pretty rare.. most work technical jobs and low paying jobs while black women work higher paing jobs.

I work in a hospital and i see alot of black women working their as nurses but i have not seen a black man as a doctor, nurse or any field that requires you to use your brain

Im not sure why black men live off their women but i think its stupid for black women to let them live off of them or any women for that matter

Why not date someone more on your level? like a white guy which could be the bettter catch.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#26 Feb 27, 2013
Justice_Watch wrote:
<quoted text>
This thread is repulsive. Even if the poll you cite is accurate, why do you take such joy in it? If you don't want to be with black men, don't be with BM. It does you no good to be a cheerleader for us to date out. Why on earth would you try to _convince_ black women of something they either already do or do not feel? How does it serve you?
MACEO

Judge Tells Black Man to Stop Having Kids

After two kids in three years, he’s adamant that his days of procreation are O-V-E-R. But a judge in Wisconsin just took the mandate to stop having kids to a whole new level last week, when he told a dead-beat father of nine to wrap it up — literally.

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44-year-old Corey Curtis had already fathered nine children with six different women — owing them a combined $90,000 in overdue child support ($50,000 is actual payments, and the remaining $40,000 in interest charges)— when he faced Judge Tim Boyle December 3 in a Racine, Wisconsin, courtroom. Judge Boyle sentenced Curtis to three years probation with an unusual stipulation; Curtis was prohibited from fathering any more children until he proved he was capable of supporting the kids he already has.
Think this penalty goes too far? If precedent is any indication, it may not have gone far enough.
In 2008, a Texas judge ordered a young mother convicted of failing to protect her toddler from child abuse incurred by its father not to get pregnant during her 10-year probation period. And just a few months ago, a Kentucky judge went even further, telling a man he’d just sentenced to up to five years on probation not to have sex at all until his term was up.

With so many methods of birth control available to Curtis and any potential partners he may have — whether it be hormonal birth control on the part of his sexual partners or his own decision to take advantage of male contraceptives like condoms or a voluntary vasectomy — the 44-year-old father of nine shouldn’t have to avoid intercourse completely for the next three years, like the man in Kentucky’s court-ordered punishment.

As for Judge Boyle, his only lament? That the law didn’t allow him to push the issue beyond telling Curtis to stop having kids. Boyle told a Wisconsin newspaper he wished the court had the power to force Curtis — and others like him — into mandatory sterilization
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#27 Feb 28, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#28 Feb 28, 2013
Pierre

The "Facts are in the Stats"! I don't hate Black men but I refuse to date them based on the "Collective behaviors". Those stats are pretty horrific; I'm not about to overlook them. That would be foolish of me especially when I know most Black women are effected by them as well as Black men do so little.

Its a little hard for some Black men to take even the ones the ones who constantly boast. I've sworn off Black males to date/marry. I don't treat anybody bad; but I have some Black men where I work who have made "vulgar remarks" and said some pretty nasty monikers but that's on them. The only ones that I don't speak to or "Ignore" are those who start calling me "bitch, whore or slut" just for my decision. If I'm not speaking to a Black man its because they went way pass the disrespectful remarks! So of someone is really "Nasty or vulgar"; I'm not very forgiving Becuase you can get your point across with out the Nasty verbiage!

Isn't if funny how you give a Pass for Black men to date/say/act as they please and when Black women do the samething your "eyes bulge out and yoru head spins"!

No race of women turns against a "collective" Group of Black men for no reasons; theirs plenty of good reasons. Like your not doing your jobs and the children are suffering which is pathetic!

Why why why does every celebrity, rapper, Pastor, Educator, have to tell Black men to "Take care of your kids" and stop acting like whores?

Damn Even President Obama said the samething to Black males during his first elections and Black men were angry! His second term the Republicians said "Black have No Fathers" they don't want their women or children.

I had someone mention today how her BF ripped her off of about 555k to 60k starting a resturant to the point where her son pull a gun on the man and asked for the money back.

I don't think that Black women are eager to say negative things about Black men they finally had to face the truth about what many of you do!
MaceoTheDon

Watford, UK

#29 Feb 28, 2013
Let freedom ring with a buckshot, but not just yet
First we need to truly understand the nature of the threat
And a pale man walks in the threshold of darkness
Roughly 20,000 years ago the first humans evolved
With the phenotypical trait, genetic recessive
Blue eyes, blonde hair and white skin
Albinism apparently was a sin to the original man, africans
So the mutants traveled north of the equator
Called europeans later, the first race haters
So heres the devils alpha to the beta
Cause historys best qualified to teach one
Quoting german philosopher schopenhauer
Every white man is a faded or a bleached one
Migration created further mutation
Genetic drifts, evolution through recombination
Adaptation to the climate
As the caucus mountain man reverted to that of a primate
Savage neanderthals, until the late paleolithic age
Thats when the black grimaldi man came
With the symbol of the dragon, fire and art
Check cave paintings in france and spain to the venus of willendorf
Around 2000 b.c. southern russians migrate in small units
Those who travel west populated europe
Those who went east settled in iran, known as aryans
1500 b.c. some crossed the khyber pass into india and
Created hinduism, the first caste system, the origins of racism
A white dot on the forehead meant elite
The black dot - defeat; untrustable, untouchablesThey wrote the holy vedas in sanskrit
Thats the language that created greek, german, latin and english
Now the minoans around 2000 b.c.
Starts on the island of crete, in the agean sea
The greek culture begins western civilization
But western civilization means white domination
Myceneans learned from kemet, called egypt in greek
It existed since at least 3000 b.c.
MaceoTheDon

Watford, UK

#31 Feb 28, 2013
Now around this time, whites started callings us negroes
Thats spanish for black object meaning were not really people
But profit, and the triangle trade begins - they seize us
Queen elizabeth sends the first slaves on a ship named jesus
Stealin land from the indigenous natives
Gave them alcohol to keep the red man intoxicated
Whites claim they had to civilize these pagan animals
But up until 1848 theres documented cases
Of whites bein the savage cannibals, eatin indians
In 1992, its jeffery dahmer
They slaughtered a whole race with guns
Drugs, priests and nuns
1763, the first demonic tactic of biological warfare
As tokens of peace, sir jeffery amherst
Passed out clothin and blankets to the indian community
Infested with small pox, knowin they had no immunity
Today its aids, you best believe its man made
Cause aint a damn thing changed.. let me explain
Now since people of color are genetically dominant
And caucasoids are genetically recessive
And whites expect to be predominant, meaning survive as a race then
They simply must, take precautions
Thats why theyre worried about their future now
Cuz by 2050, almost all the earths population
Will be brown, then black, so understandin that, whites counterreact
(Im sayin.. man.. them fools
Aint nothin but a teaspoon of milk in the world color majority)
So they created a system
To force blacks into an unnatural position
That re-enforces the position of natural inferiority
In addition, created guns and developed the ethnocentric view
That God justifies everything they do
Condition people to perceive whites culture as civilized
And every other culture considered primitive - not true!Racism is the system of racial subjugation against nonwhites
In every areas of human relation
Entertainment, education, labor, politics
Law, religion, sex, war and economics
See blacks were 3/5ths of a man with tax purposes intended
You think youre afro-american?
Youre a 14th amendment and a good brother
Jews dont salute the swastika
But brothers pledge allegiance to the flag that accosted ya
They never teach about the break of islands like jamaica
But before slaves came here whites would take a
Pregnant women, hang her from a tree by her toes
Slice her stomach with a knife
And let the unborn baby fall to the flo
And stop an unborn child in front of all the slaves
To inbreed fear, so theyd be scared and behave
And not rebel more
Understand all whites must be perceived as potential predators
I paraphrase historian ishakamusa barashango
Understand that regardless of the lofty ideas ingraved on paper
In such documents as the constitution or declaration
The basic nature.. of the european american white man
Remains virtually unchanged.. so check
This is the nature of the threat
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#32 Feb 28, 2013
MaceoTheSOFFER AND FOOL wrote:
Let freedom ring with a buckshot, but not just yet
F
Pierre

I will admit that I'm very defensive. On a weekly basis, I'm attacked by Black males and its mostly with "insulting or inappropriate remarks they feel entitled to say.

Its as if when it comes to black women especially if she is "Attractive" they want to insult her to take a woman down. Its so tiresome!

If I'm not interested in dating you, don't' want to give you any attention; Why do black males have to create "Drama"? I had a couple of Black men on my job after I refuse to date them try to attack me; run after Non Black GF, keep asking me why.....in harassing remarks!

This is "immature" ! If im not interested in you to date why can you accept it and just remain friends? Why do I have to be Bytch becuase I'm not atttacted to you, don't feel we can make it or for what reason I decide.

Why do does it have to be "Insults or nasty vile remarks exchanged"? Don't let me say I date White men many Black men go bullistic and its maining the ones with unattracive/average white women that they claim are so much better!

To be honest; I dont have time for it! AS soon as I see a little of those behaviors I stay from those men! Ive had Black men on my job get on forum board call me a bytch, hoe, sheboon and get angry at me because they really bitter that I woudln't consider dating them nor will they get a chance!

Who wants to deal with these type of men? You ask why Black women are defensive..........I DON'T WANT NOR WILL I DATE ANY BLACK MEN EVER!

i can't even go to bar and laugh and talk to others. If I even talk to a White man these Black men get so upset. bring out their Iphones and Androids and tell me they don't date black women and show me pictures of IR babies and say Black women are unattractive!

I don't even know them! LMAO you have to make your way over to me to do this? This happen to me 4 times while I was out socializing at a Happy hour! After the 3rd time, I told the man, I don't want to see your pictures, I get Black men doing this to me all the time I talk to White males!

These Black men don't even know me! Tell me why black men act so rude, lewd, childish and immature! No Black man has any right to act this way its a sign of insecurity and immaturity!

My other Attractive GF tell me they have similar encounters by Black males in different variations! They had them off if they talk to White males as if they have to have all Black women's attention while they can talk to other races!

STOP THE HATE!

You asked and I'm telling you how some/many Black men act! Mind you these men I don't know any of these men! According to many websites; Black women get insults from Black males all he time!

I DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH IT OR YOU!

Its so damn tiresome! Why do I as a Black woman have to constantly defend myself and stay away from Black males?

This happens more than 1/2 the time when I go to Happy Hour or when I go Salsa or Swing Dancing its the same thing!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#33 Mar 1, 2013
YourGodIsAPimp wrote:
Sadbuttrue is obviously a fu**ing, cracker-troll so I don't get why people don't ignore him/her/It.
What happens to things that you ignore? They eventually see that what they're doing is ineffective and they go away! I'm only here to tell you people that! The more you pay sadbuttrue attention, the more motivation It is given to spew Its rubbish. Peace!!
MACEO A FOOL AND SCOFFER

1. TO ASSOCIATE WITH FOOLS IS BOTH UNWISE AND UNPLEASANT. To some degree folly is contagious, and association with a fool tends to diminish our ability to discern truth from error and wisdom from folly.

Leave the presence of a fool, Or you will not discern words of knowledge (14:7).

A fool is bound for his own destruction, and he will inevitably destroy everything in his path. Those who get in the way of the fool will get hurt.

Let a man meet a bear robbed of her cubs, Rather than a fool in his folly (17:12).

The scoffer, the worst form of fool,25 is not only to be avoided, but is to be driven away.

Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out, Even strife and dishonor will cease (22:10).

If anyone needs to be able to recognize a fool it is the young man or woman who is seeking a life’s mate. There is nothing more miserable than to be married to a fool. While Proverbs takes the positive approach here, exalting the godly wife (e.g. 31:10-31), the fool should be avoided as a partner in marriage. Abigail was married to a fool (I Sam. 25), but God was gracious enough to deliver her by his death; but this is not the norm. She may not have had much to say about her marriage to Nabal, but you do, and will have to live with your mistake in a marriage partner.

2. TO EMPLOY A FOOL IS A TRAGIC MISTAKE. Those who are responsible for hiring employees will want to take special note of the warnings of Proverbs to those who would hire a fool.

He cuts off his own feet, and drinks violence Who sends a message by the hand of a fool (26:6).

Like an archer who wounds everyone, So is he who hires a fool or who hires those who pass by (26:10).

3. FOOLISHNESS IS INHERENT IN CHILDREN AND THEREFORE PARENTS MUST KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH FOLLY WHEN IT OCCURS.

Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him (22:15).

Proverbs offers hope to parents that foolishness can be cured if detected early and disciplined diligently.

4. FOOLS MUST BE DEALT WITH DIFFERENTLY THAN THOSE WHO ARE WISE. We cannot deal with all men in the same way. Our response to people must be based on the kind of character they have demonstrated.

He who corrects a scoffer gets dishonor for himself, And he who reproves a wicked man gets insults for himself. Do not reprove a scoffer, lest he hate you, Reprove a wise man, and he will love you (9:7-8).

Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him. Answer a fool as his folly deserves, Lest he be wise in his own eyes (26:4-5).

These considerations necessitate discerning the character of others and, in particular, that of a fool. Not only will we be able to see foolishness in others as a result of our study in Proverbs, we will also see a greater measure of it in ourselves. May God enable us to be honest with ourselves, to confess our foolishness, 2 and to forsake it as sinful and destructive, both to ourselves and to others.
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#34 Mar 5, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I feel like the self hating black woman puts up a front. She wants to look down on black men, like white men do, and she wants to be independent, and by putting down black men, she thinks that other men will find her more desirable, but its not working, and its backfiring on the ignorant ones faces, because they are getting with the women, the ones some of you feel like you have to compete with now and days. You wanted your soul independence, but it backfired. Your doing the job that they wanted you to do, and its leaving you alone, so your not getting nothing out of hating black men, yourself, or other black women. Im not talking all black women.
Pierre

I think that all women should be treated like Queen until shown otherwise!

I don't think too many black women are willing to overlook black men's behaviors these days! I simply "Don't deal with them on a romantic level; Black men are not an option for me based on the "Collective Actions" of how much Black men treat Black women.

I'm not saying all Black men are bad; most don't have the basics! They also don't know how to treat women or hold a basic conversation!

I find Black males throw "Insults, negative or lewd remarks" when you first meet them even when your nice. This has been "Normalized" and many think its funny but its not! They won't ask you for a date; they come in a "Round about way" not like other races of men ask for dates!

They throw out insults in hopes that that you go for it so they can continue using the same "Abusive methods'

Almost 85% of the Black men I met even when I don't know them approach me with a "Negative remarks" first! Or they don't like Black women or other races are better when they don't even know me!

Then they get angry and say Black women have attitudes but fail to look at their Poor approaches.

Some even get angry when you back away and will harass you; Ive had that happen at least 6 times on my job. If I say I don't date married men or people at work; why do you have to get angry at me, hold a grudge, make nasty remarks when you see me?

That's what black males do then you wonder why Black women don't and won't deal with you! Then I have to look at the other "Basic Factors' that many Black men are missing which are basics to other races of men.

I don't understand why Black men feel being "Nasty, rude, arrogant, making inappropriate remarks" acceptable?

Other races of men give compliments, ask me for dinner, movie etc.

I don't understand some of the methods and some harbor a grudge on and off on some emotional roller coaster; but I've never dated any of them! Actually when I see behaviors in males like this; I stay clear away !

Grow up and stop harassing Black women for dating/marrying out! You apparenntly have Double standards and say "Nothing" to Black males!

If you say you don't know any Black males around you that don't act this way: Ill you a Damn liar!

GROW UP!

“Proceed with caution”

Level 1

Since: Oct 11

Richmond TX

#35 Mar 5, 2013
These identity thieves will stop at nothing.......don't drop the soap in prison in the very near future.
Sadbuttrue

United States

#36 Mar 5, 2013
Oops MACEO

I was high on Meth when I created this thread maceo..

Notice I never posted a poll to back up my claims.

I'm glad my smart black friends are using white boy's for that money now maceo. It's about time us sistaz getz in on the dibz.

Dey gotz the moneyz maceo, all ubz Da white onez got z it..lol

Yous a fool Maceon.

Level 6

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#37 Mar 5, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>Pierre
I will admit that I'm very defensive. On a weekly basis, I'm attacked by Black males and its mostly with "insulting or inappropriate remarks they feel entitled to say.
Its as if when it comes to black women especially if she is "Attractive" they want to insult her to take a woman down. Its so tiresome!
If I'm not interested in dating you, don't' want to give you any attention; Why do black males have to create "Drama"? I had a couple of Black men on my job after I refuse to date them try to attack me; run after Non Black GF, keep asking me why.....in harassing remarks!
This is "immature" ! If im not interested in you to date why can you accept it and just remain friends? Why do I have to be Bytch becuase I'm not atttacted to you, don't feel we can make it or for what reason I decide.
Why do does it have to be "Insults or nasty vile remarks exchanged"? Don't let me say I date White men many Black men go bullistic and its maining the ones with unattracive/average white women that they claim are so much better!
To be honest; I dont have time for it! AS soon as I see a little of those behaviors I stay from those men! Ive had Black men on my job get on forum board call me a bytch, hoe, sheboon and get angry at me because they really bitter that I woudln't consider dating them nor will they get a chance!
Who wants to deal with these type of men? You ask why Black women are defensive..........I DON'T WANT NOR WILL I DATE ANY BLACK MEN EVER!
i can't even go to bar and laugh and talk to others. If I even talk to a White man these Black men get so upset. bring out their Iphones and Androids and tell me they don't date black women and show me pictures of IR babies and say Black women are unattractive!
I don't even know them! LMAO you have to make your way over to me to do this? This happen to me 4 times while I was out socializing at a Happy hour! After the 3rd time, I told the man, I don't want to see your pictures, I get Black men doing this to me all the time I talk to White males!
These Black men don't even know me! Tell me why black men act so rude, lewd, childish and immature! No Black man has any right to act this way its a sign of insecurity and immaturity!
My other Attractive GF tell me they have similar encounters by Black males in different variations! They had them off if they talk to White males as if they have to have all Black women's attention while they can talk to other races!
STOP THE HATE!
You asked and I'm telling you how some/many Black men act! Mind you these men I don't know any of these men! According to many websites; Black women get insults from Black males all he time!
I DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH IT OR YOU!
Its so damn tiresome! Why do I as a Black woman have to constantly defend myself and stay away from Black males?
This happens more than 1/2 the time when I go to Happy Hour or when I go Salsa or Swing Dancing its the same thing!
Why is any body even responding to this nut!!!!!!!!!!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#38 Mar 5, 2013
MaceoTheDon wrote:
Let freedom ring with a buckshot, but not just yet
Fir
MACEO

Damn, "you look bad; you aged Poorly! LMAO

YOur really UGLY no wonder why your bitter! LMAO
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#39 Mar 5, 2013
Proud african american wrote:
<quoted text>
Why is any body even responding to this nut!!!!!!!!!!
MACEO

Damn, "you look bad; you aged Poorly! LMAO

YOur really UGLY no wonder why your bitter! LMAO
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#40 Mar 5, 2013
Proud african american wrote:
<quoted text>
Why is any body even responding to this nut!!!!!!!!!!
MACEO

Becuase you know I'm telling the truth gorilla!

Your UGLY! Your really ugly; no wonder why your bitter! LMAO
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#41 Mar 5, 2013
CyberSoulSista wrote:
These identity thieves will stop at nothing.......don't drop the soap in prison in the very near future.
MACEO

STFU Aging Gorilla; your UGlY! LMAO

ASHY GRAY GORILLA
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#42 Mar 6, 2013
YourGodIsAPimp wrote:
Sadbuttrue is obviously a fu**ing, cracker-troll so I don't get why people don't ignore him/her/It.
What happens to things that you ignore? They eventually see that what they're doing is ineffective and they go away! I'm only here to tell you people that! The more you pay sadbuttrue attention, the more motivation It is given to spew Its rubbish. Peace!!
MACEO

Shut up; your life is OVER! LMAo

Common Sense BW focus on Date/Marry outside the Race!

WARNING to BW with working brains. BW need to concentrate on marrying OUT of the growing dysfunctional "black community".

"It takes a village…" The village has obviously burned down when you have {generations of ] fatherless families totally dependent on the government for survival and Black men won't do a damn thing!

WARN every young Black women that you meet to date/marry outside the race. Black men are content with the status quo and will continue to let the generational dysfuctions to keep going.

WARN ALL YOUNG BLACK GIRLS EARLY

BLACK MEN DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU!
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#43 Mar 6, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I feel like the self hating black woman puts up a front. She wants to look down on black men, like white men do, and she wants to be independent, and by putting down black men, she thinks that other men will find her more desirable, but its not working, and its backfiring on the ignorant ones faces, because they are getting with the women, the ones some of you feel like you have to compete with now and days. You wanted your soul independence, but it backfired. Your doing the job that they wanted you to do, and its leaving you alone, so your not getting nothing out of hating black men, yourself, or other black women. Im not talking all black women.
Pierre

Jamie Foxx On Keeping Baby Mamas Secret; Why He Won’t Marry
December 17, 2012 by EURpublisher02

*Jamie Foxx refuses to name the mothers of his two daughters because it keeps his personal life out of the tabloids.

The Oscar winning star of “Django Unchained” has two children, Corinne, 18, and Annalise, four, but the identity of their mothers have remained a secret since birth. Foxx insists he has a confidentiality agreement to keep the women from coming forward. They can't be seen in public with him nor can they attend events.

“It’s just so cool and calm and that’s all you need…(I) need somebody… who’s not thirsty for what I do,” he told Oprah Winfrey in Sunday’s “Oprah Next Chapter.”

Foxx admits he has a similar approach to dating, insisting he won’t date anyone who has a problem keeping their relationship quiet and on the down low. He'a famous actor and doesn't want anybody woman having a claim on him.

Jamie Corrine & Oprah

Foxx lives by the motto,“Whoever you date, don’t let anybody know” this way you can date others he explains,“I was dating a girl one time and I’m sick and there was a premiere and she got her dress and she was like,‘Well, the premiere’s tonight… what are we doing? Because I got this dress.’ And I said,‘Ok, well you go ahead and go to the premiere and don’t come back,’ because it ain’t about that; you can't been seen with me. To me, in order to make it in this business, it has to be someone who is willing to sacrifice a little bit more than what they would sacrifice in a normal relationship for a top scale black man”

But Foxx isn’t looking to walk down the aisle he only believes in service women in secret. Why? Because most of his married friends are miserable:“I always wanted to be married, 2.5 kids, wood paneling on the side of the station wagon, but… you get your heart broken one good time, especially for a man, it’s catastrophic.”

And Foxx is convinced most unions are doomed because of the added pressure placed on couples once they become husband and wife.
He says,“I always felt for my friends that got married. I would see them married for five years and then see them start to (crumble), and all of the sudden they’re not married and they’re enemies. Like they hate each other. And then I’m stuck in the middle as their friend and there’s kids involved and it wrecks everything.

“I just don’t want that, I rather see my women in secret which is why I made them sign a contact. I know one couple that is married and they’re happy, but everybody else, they are gnawing their arms off.”

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