Nice Girls Finish Last
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iknow

Kyle, TX

#1 Feb 5, 2008
everyone says the nice guy finishes last but the truth is the nice girl finishes DEAD last. no guys want a girl who isn't showing off all her stuff or giving it up within a few months or weeks or even days in some cases nowadays. and often times the nice guys who might be willing to wait it out are too busy chasing the bad girl and getting mad complaining about how he finishes last to even notice the nice girl right in front of him.

a nice guy at least has the advantage of being able to be aggressive and approach the woman of his choice in his search for a relationship without it being weird. a nice girl just pretty much has to sit around and wait in hopes that a nice guy will take interest, which most times they don't until they are old and bitter and used up.

and of course a nice girl could just result to doing the approaching herself but its pretty much looked at as weird for a woman to do so so shes stuck
Franko

Coquitlam, Canada

#2 Feb 5, 2008
iknow wrote:
everyone says the nice guy finishes last but the truth is the nice girl finishes DEAD last. no guys want a girl who isn't showing off all her stuff or giving it up within a few months or weeks or even days in some cases nowadays. and often times the nice guys who might be willing to wait it out are too busy chasing the bad girl and getting mad complaining about how he finishes last to even notice the nice girl right in front of him.
a nice guy at least has the advantage of being able to be aggressive and approach the woman of his choice in his search for a relationship without it being weird. a nice girl just pretty much has to sit around and wait in hopes that a nice guy will take interest, which most times they don't until they are old and bitter and used up.
and of course a nice girl could just result to doing the approaching herself but its pretty much looked at as weird for a woman to do so so shes stuck
You make some interesting and valid points.

HOwever, the modern world is changing .. it is beoming more and more acceptable for a woman to make the first move just like it is epxected of the men.

And even a nice girl can drop hints wihtout being openly aggresive.

What still seems to be he case is that more often than not it is sitll the woman who decides if anything will happen and how far the couple will go in terms of sexuality. SO, the nice girl can get the guy interested and starts dating, and ultimatly it will beshe who then decides if they have any pre-marital sex or not.

It is still a fact that a woman who is a "5" in attractiveness can go into a bar, act like a slut, and get laid that nite if she wants. A man who is a "5" is mre likely to be turned down for weeks on end beofre he "gets lucky", unless he is very wealthy, or super-personable.
iknow

Kyle, TX

#3 Feb 5, 2008
Franko wrote:
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You make some interesting and valid points.
HOwever, the modern world is changing .. it is beoming more and more acceptable for a woman to make the first move just like it is epxected of the men.
And even a nice girl can drop hints wihtout being openly aggresive.
What still seems to be he case is that more often than not it is sitll the woman who decides if anything will happen and how far the couple will go in terms of sexuality. SO, the nice girl can get the guy interested and starts dating, and ultimatly it will beshe who then decides if they have any pre-marital sex or not.
It is still a fact that a woman who is a "5" in attractiveness can go into a bar, act like a slut, and get laid that nite if she wants. A man who is a "5" is mre likely to be turned down for weeks on end beofre he "gets lucky", unless he is very wealthy, or super-personable.
i'm not really talking about getting laid, everyone knows girls can get laid easier, but in terms of a relationship nice girls just can't win nowadays. she can act like a bad girl and have guys finally noticing her but it'll just be for sex most likely and nothing else. meanwhile bad girls have to beat guys off with a stick haha

i have a girlfriend who i would consider a bad girl and she never has a problem getting guys wanting to woo and her and be in a relationship with her no matter how bad she treats them. its just weird to me, guys say the want a good girl but they either go for a "hoe" for easy sex or they go for a bad girl who won't even treat them well
cubano

Sulphur, LA

#4 Mar 26, 2008
what???????? man I love nice girls, I would like to marry an Amish girl. hell yeah no joke

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

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#5 Mar 26, 2008
Oh no buddy, I see everyday they do not. Nice guys, they DO finish last as proven by several studies...

“Je ne sais quoi. ”

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#6 Mar 26, 2008
iknow wrote:
everyone says the nice guy finishes last but the truth is the nice girl finishes DEAD last. no guys want a girl who isn't showing off all her stuff or giving it up within a few months or weeks or even days in some cases nowadays. and often times the nice guys who might be willing to wait it out are too busy chasing the bad girl and getting mad complaining about how he finishes last to even notice the nice girl right in front of him.
a nice guy at least has the advantage of being able to be aggressive and approach the woman of his choice in his search for a relationship without it being weird. a nice girl just pretty much has to sit around and wait in hopes that a nice guy will take interest, which most times they don't until they are old and bitter and used up.
and of course a nice girl could just result to doing the approaching herself but its pretty much looked at as weird for a woman to do so so shes stuck
Wow, I understand were you are coming from. I had a guy offer to have him and his friends "turn me out" because I'm a virgin. He acted as if being a virgin was a bad thing...People call me square because I don't drink or smoke, and I prefer hanging with a small group of friends to clubbing. Boys don't want the girl who is not giving it up at a drop of a dime...I should know...

“Well”

Since: Feb 08

Whittier, CA

#7 Mar 27, 2008
LMAO!! oh boy..... nice girls usually dont stay nice for long.lol

Since: Nov 07

Urban Decay

#8 Mar 27, 2008
iknow wrote:
everyone says the nice guy finishes last but the truth is the nice girl finishes DEAD last. no guys want a girl who isn't showing off all her stuff or giving it up within a few months or weeks or even days in some cases nowadays. and often times the nice guys who might be willing to wait it out are too busy chasing the bad girl and getting mad complaining about how he finishes last to even notice the nice girl right in front of him.
a nice guy at least has the advantage of being able to be aggressive and approach the woman of his choice in his search for a relationship without it being weird. a nice girl just pretty much has to sit around and wait in hopes that a nice guy will take interest, which most times they don't until they are old and bitter and used up.
and of course a nice girl could just result to doing the approaching herself but its pretty much looked at as weird for a woman to do so so shes stuck
Mmmh! I hear that!
cubano

Sulphur, LA

#9 Mar 27, 2008
C-Bisquit wrote:
LMAO!! oh boy..... nice girls usually dont stay nice for long.lol
ha ha ha amen to you brother. all the nice church girls all they think about is a Brad Pit looking dude with tattoos and a motocycle, yep brutha that's life he he.
someone

United States

#10 Mar 27, 2008
Where are these nice girls?

I've BEEN looking for them.

I know where they aren't, but I don't know where they are.
someone

United States

#11 Mar 27, 2008
Where are these nice girls you speak of?

I've been looking for them.

I know where they're not, I just don't know where they are.
someone

United States

#12 Mar 27, 2008
This CPU's so damned ratchet. Sorry about the double post.

spikewebbe

Since: Oct 07

Boston, MA

#13 Mar 27, 2008
cubano wrote:
what???????? man I love nice girls, I would like to marry an Amish girl. hell yeah no joke
Amish girls are the nicest girls in the country. Some are still virgins AFTER they're married.

ECR

Since: Jan 07

Arlington, VA

#14 Mar 27, 2008
fair_guy wrote:
Oh no buddy, I see everyday they do not. Nice guys, they DO finish last as proven by several studies...
Trust me, SOME nice girls do finish last just like SOME nice guys finish last. IMO, they are finishing last because they are wasting their time trying to "fix" an a-hole instead of finding another "nice" person like themselves.

Since: Jan 08

Norwich, UK

#15 Mar 27, 2008
spikewebbe wrote:
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Amish girls are the nicest girls in the country. Some are still virgins AFTER they're married.
? why would they do that? do they not belive in sex after marraige? or are they celibate or asexual?

Since: Nov 07

Urban Decay

#16 Mar 27, 2008
someone wrote:
This CPU's so damned ratchet. Sorry about the double post.
LOL! You sound like your pulling out your hair, Ha ha!
cubano

Sulphur, LA

#17 Mar 27, 2008
spikewebbe wrote:
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Amish girls are the nicest girls in the country. Some are still virgins AFTER they're married.
hell yeah lol!!!!
flashinglights

Kyle, TX

#18 Mar 27, 2008
nice people in general do finish last but it is so true that nice girls finish last of all! there is so much truth to this thread thank you

ECR

Since: Jan 07

Arlington, VA

#19 Mar 27, 2008
iknow wrote:
everyone says the nice guy finishes last but the truth is the nice girl finishes DEAD last. no guys want a girl who isn't showing off all her stuff or giving it up within a few months or weeks or even days in some cases nowadays. and often times the nice guys who might be willing to wait it out are too busy chasing the bad girl and getting mad complaining about how he finishes last to even notice the nice girl right in front of him.
There's 'right' and then there's 'damn right'; your post is the latter.

I'm not saying that nice guys are living on easy street, but speaking from experience, many would rather spend their time complaining about how some (attractive) b!tch is taking advantage of them than ditch her and go after a nice girl (who may or may not be as attractive).

Of course, once he’s gotten tired of being taken advantage of, he takes his frustrations out on the nice girl (because the b!tch is long gone and no one can turn back the hands of time). Granted, this doesn't happen with every “nice guy”, but they aren’t always the helpless victims they’d have you believe they are and it happens a WHOLE lot more than men care to admit.

Since: Mar 08

Chester-le-street, UK

#20 Mar 27, 2008
Nice girls have it every bit as hard as a nice guy does. Many men want to sew their wild oats and corrupt a nice girl for his own carnal pleasures and then talk about her like she is trash....but when he is ready to settle down he will try to find someone "pure" though he is far from it himself.....I think that women should not look at being chosen....they should change their attitudes and KNOW that they also have the option to choose....Many women are doing this already...when you choose you can CHOOSE a nice guy but you must KNOW that this option is open to you....men that WANT a woman that will be and do everything that he wants uummm...LET him have her because he just isn't worth it....leave his worthless behind alone and do not bemoan him.....for every man 100 men that seek only sexual gratification there is 1 that wants a serious relationship.....now those guys will come your way but trust me they just want to MAKE you their sex toy....if they succeed in that they tend to move on to a willing object or someone that they can deceive into being their next object...It is harsh but women...experienced grown up women know the score..

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