Man charged with wifes murder appears in court

it's sad when someone is dead and they can't rest in peace, because of people like you, still talking junk about them!!!!

why would you all get on here and talk this crap? Let the lady RIP...
I don't care what or who she did, she is gone...let it be...

god you all must be sick to talk about this lady and i did say lady / she has family have some feelings i bet youre not pefect . just because people sleep around dont make them nasty like you all say pray fpr her little boy and family and yourself god knows all things dont trhw rocks at glass houses

Holycrap wrote:

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What the HeLL, people, Why cant you people READ. NO one is saying he was right for killing HER? No one is saying she was Right for haveing sex with any man, learn to read between the line before you get on here ranting like a mad woman! Roger was justified in nothing nor was Vadie. The stuped part here is the jumping to whatever your brain damage mind may think is being said. The fact is, if we would bother to check out people more less marrages would take place. Some people just do not need to be together. case in point, if vadie felt a need to contune to see recco, than why marry and pretend to love someone? all the while see this other man on the side? Get pissed if you feel the need, sometims the truth hurts. She should have had a background check done on HER.

First of all not ranting like a mad woman,Second it was you who started out giving the man excuses as to why he killed her.You're right some people don't need to be together,but still doesn't give anyone the right to take a life for someone else sleeping around.Its called walking away and being a man about it,not killing her and dumping her body.I'm not pissed off,so don't think that at all,I was just stating my opinion like everyone else on here.

wondering wrote:

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First of all not ranting like a mad woman,Second it was you who started out giving the man excuses as to why he killed her.You're right some people don't need to be together,but still doesn't give anyone the right to take a life for someone else sleeping around.Its called walking away and being a man about it,not killing her and dumping her body.I'm not pissed off,so don't think that at all,I was just stating my opinion like everyone else on here.

That is not what I was meaning to say, I in no way wanted to inply this man had a reason to kill her. There is never any reason someone takes another life. I was just stating, some people do not need to be together. It always seems to me when this happens, people woner why, will that is because some people are toxic to each other. As I said, the grave yard is full of this kind of mess. Its just sad, she and he could not sit and talk this out before it came to this. Both famileys are in a great deal of pain. Both had little children and the kids will have to pay the price for people acting like they are ten years old insted of the adults they are.

Holycrap wrote:

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That is not what I was meaning to say, I in no way wanted to inply this man had a reason to kill her. There is never any reason someone takes another life. I was just stating, some people do not need to be together. It always seems to me when this happens, people woner why, will that is because some people are toxic to each other. As I said, the grave yard is full of this kind of mess. Its just sad, she and he could not sit and talk this out before it came to this. Both famileys are in a great deal of pain. Both had little children and the kids will have to pay the price for people acting like they are ten years old insted of the adults they are.

I agree with you on this.Why didn't you put it like this to begin with?Its a sad world that we live in,nobody stops to think of the outcome anymore,look how many lives this affected.I wonder if he could take it back if he would?How mad does a person become to resort to this action?Its just sad all around.

wondering wrote:

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I agree with you on this.Why didn't you put it like this to begin with?Its a sad world that we live in,nobody stops to think of the outcome anymore,look how many lives this affected.I wonder if he could take it back if he would?How mad does a person become to resort to this action?Its just sad all around.

I have to believe if he could he would undo this, but once this was done, the lives of so many people was affected. Sometimes we want to say something and it comes out wrong. Never would I want anyone to think it is ok to take a life of another person. I just wish the actions that day could have been stoped. To resort to killing someone, I cant even go there in my mind. I have been mad and said things but never acted upon the anger. My Sister said something today that made me stop and think, she said, people are so angery today, they lash out and never stop to think of the actons and how it will affect others lifes, I think she is on to something.

Holycrap wrote:

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I have to believe if he could he would undo this, but once this was done, the lives of so many people was affected. Sometimes we want to say something and it comes out wrong. Never would I want anyone to think it is ok to take a life of another person. I just wish the actions that day could have been stoped. To resort to killing someone, I cant even go there in my mind. I have been mad and said things but never acted upon the anger. My Sister said something today that made me stop and think, she said, people are so angery today, they lash out and never stop to think of the actons and how it will affect others lifes, I think she is on to something.

So true.The world today is getting out of hand.Too many people taking lives over stuff they should have just walked away from.I don't understand the amount of anger a person has to feel to act upon those actions or the amount of remorse,if any, that is felt afterwards.Just wished people would stop and think before doing something like that,think about what happens next,about the kids and families.I can understand the act of protecting yourself and your kids,coming to that point you would do what has to be done,but to do that just for being mad about a divorce or cheating has never made sense to me.Too many senseless acts take place everyday and for what?

wondering wrote:

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So true.The world today is getting out of hand.Too many people taking lives over stuff they should have just walked away from.I don't understand the amount of anger a person has to feel to act upon those actions or the amount of remorse,if any, that is felt afterwards.Just wished people would stop and think before doing something like that,think about what happens next,about the kids and families.I can understand the act of protecting yourself and your kids,coming to that point you would do what has to be done,but to do that just for being mad about a divorce or cheating has never made sense to me.Too many senseless acts take place everyday and for what?

So So true. I have grandbabys that will some day grow up in this would and I will have to see young men come calling for her. I will spend my life teaching her not only to respect herself but others also. I cant even let my mind go to a place where someone could hurt her in anyway. I can't understand why some man and woman just cant go there own ways and let it be. What happend to getting a divorce and just going you own way. I no this man must look into his children's eyes and feel remorse. He has to think of the child that has been left without a mother, I just dont understand why can't these people think about this and what happens before they act. I just want all woman to be safe, no matter they choose to do in there life. To many woman are dieing and for what? The abuse has to stop somewhere somehow.

okk wrote:

Jason Baker was the one from pikeville that she went to the BEACH with right??

Who is this guy? when did she meet him? I was wondering why she would go the the beach alone and I did not think she would pay for that trip,how could she? unless she used Roger, Brad or Recco's money. Damn I know she did not go alone like she said. Maybe this is why Roger finley went off the deep end?

trish wrote:

god you all must be sick to talk about this lady and i did say lady / she has family have some feelings i bet youre not pefect . just because people sleep around dont make them nasty like you all say pray fpr her little boy and family and yourself god knows all things dont trhw rocks at glass houses

You must think anyone is a LADY, A lady bug, a little lady, Vadie was not a lady unless ladys fuc* every man that will pull her undies off? Hell I think hookers have less six with there johns. way, there may be something to this, she was a hooker and the men paid her way to the beach or clothing for her and her son? So how did you guys PAY? Who paid the rent and who paid for her trips? Come out come out whereever you are, her daddy amd mum must be soooo proud of there little ludy. SMACK

Smack you are a stupid ass..to talk of the died this way...wat about him he is the dirty bag that took a mother away from her child

dead sorry

I fill so sorry for this man. His wife done him wrong. He should have never killer her though. Now his life is probly over to. He must have been so in love with this women that he went crazy when she cheated.

ttt wrote:

I fill so sorry for this man. His wife done him wrong. He should have never killer her though. Now his life is probly over to. He must have been so in love with this women that he went crazy when she cheated.

Thats the way I feel. However you will get blasted for even saying this? They only want to hear she was a wonderful person and never did anything wrong. You cant tell me, she wasn't cheating n the marrage? She was seeing this RECCO dude in may and june, this riccos wife even pulled a gun on her, trying to get her to stop seeing her husband. This guy BRAD and RECCO got into a fight over her a week before she died. She was married at this time, but you will only hear she was a good loving mother. She went to the beach with this guy Jason before the divorce, she was a mess and no wonder, all these people upheld her and her wrongness. Maybe if just one of them cared enough to tell her to stop playing games she would have not been shot. These people must live there lives playing games because they take up for all she did, they cant see, thats why she is in her grave. She has been married like 4 times. this one only for less than a year, can we say player. OUCH

Men toy with womens emotionals more so than any woman would ever. I've yet to hear any man talk about how many games "MEN" play.. Also, men sleep with far more women than women do men.. And now you want to down a woman because she was shot and killed a wrongful death, because she no longer wanted her husband and he couldn't accept the fact. Get real people. I live my life as I DAMN well please and I don't give a frig what anyone thinks.. No, I don't go sleeping around but if I did, whos business is it. I don't agree with seeing a married man, but it happened and they BOTH were in the wrong!!!!!! So stop pointing fingers in one direction and take a step back and look at your own life.. We are not made perfect, we haven't lived a perfect life, and we WILL NEVER BE PERFECT! And we ALL will answer for what we do.. As far as Michelle, her name has been through enough and so did she... I pray for her forgivness everyday the same as I do when I read these comments you all post... Maybe you should consider doing the same!!

And yes we will say Michelle is a wonderful person, but we never said she was perfect!!!

Suggestions wrote:

Men toy with womens emotionals more so than any woman would ever. I've yet to hear any man talk about how many games "MEN" play.. Also, men sleep with far more women than women do men.. And now you want to down a woman because she was shot and killed a wrongful death, because she no longer wanted her husband and he couldn't accept the fact. Get real people. I live my life as I DAMN well please and I don't give a frig what anyone thinks.. No, I don't go sleeping around but if I did, whos business is it. I don't agree with seeing a married man, but it happened and they BOTH were in the wrong!!!!!! So stop pointing fingers in one direction and take a step back and look at your own life.. We are not made perfect, we haven't lived a perfect life, and we WILL NEVER BE PERFECT! And we ALL will answer for what we do.. As far as Michelle, her name has been through enough and so did she... I pray for her forgivness everyday the same as I do when I read these comments you all post... Maybe you should consider doing the same!!

Were not talking about all men or all woman? There is one person that we all no was playing, true or not. We can go on and on, but thats beside the point. I dont care what all men or all woman do. This happend in our town and everyone liveing here new if word got out there would be trouble.why are you asking her for your forgiveness? was you also with her or one of the husbands wifes? How sad that is all she left behind is a bed full of lovers and a familey trying to defend a woman with no morals. I dont need to ask for any forgiveness form her or anyone else. I'm not the one banging her or the one defending her. wake up?

http://www.youtube.com/watch...

Maybe this will help you make up your minds.

Damn, this was just, I dont even know what to say. Snap, you are wicked. A good wicked