Sep 19, 2009 | Posted by: roboblogger
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The car belonged to Matt not Chad even though Chad was driving. Rip Matthew Pouk... youll always be in our hearts
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our prayers are with matts parents today and in coming months for God to bless this family with peace that passes all understanding and comfort fot their brken hearts. for chad as well for mending his injuries and comfort at the loss of his friend. rip matt. you are in His arms now.
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I went to school with Matt, when he was at Community Christian in Port Charlotte. Even though I have not seen or talked to him in years. He was a great friend, and he will be missed by all who knew him.
You will be with us always Matt!!! |
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The saddest part of this is that no one is mentioning that Chad drove drunk and KILLED Matt. This wasn't just a terrible accident, this was one friend's stupidity killing the other. Is that going to stop anyone else from driving drunk? He was a best friend a boyfriend a son and a brother and now hes just another victim of drunk driving.
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How do you know he was drunk it does not say that in the report? |
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Because all of his friends (me included) were at the accident that night and they were all at the same place drinkign beer together. Just that nobody wants Chad to feel bad. Thats the truth. Matt was extremely drunk to drunk to drive his own truck and Chad killed him. The police report is published im sure so anyone can read that he is going to be blamed and hopefully arested.
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1 The death of another is always tragic. What is important is the lessons we learn from a tragic accident! I have lost many friends, some to drunk drivers, some to murder and some in combat. But, you have to move on and take from the accident what lessons can be learned... The lesson here is never drive drunk or more importantly, be a friend and never allow them to drive drunk. |
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1 no i got called AFTER the crash by two of my friends hysterical and went out there. Everyone that was hanging out together had been drinking. I am not over 21, am a christian and don't drink or break the law. And I was more Matts friend than Chads. as it was Said I hope everyone will wear their seat belts and something gets done about the people buying alcohol for teenagers. Just becsuse were in college doesn't make it okay to drink. Theres a reason theres a legal drinking ago, because kids are not responsible and this is a sad reminder. |
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TO ALL: INSTEAD OF PLACING BLAME WHY DON'T YOU ALL STOP THE UNDERAGE DRINKING AND IF YOU STILL CHOOSE TO DON'T LET ANY FRIEND DRIVE AND IF YOU NEED TO CALL A PARENT, AS A PARENT MY SON HAS CALLED WITH NO QUESTIONS ASKED TO BE PICKED UP. I WAS VERY FORTUNATE TO GET THAT CALL INSTEAD OF CHADS OR MATTS PARENTS. LETS HEAL THE WOUNDS INSTEAD OF CREATING DEEPER ONES. BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL YOU DO.
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WHY DIDN'T YOU STOP THEM FROM LEAVING OR GETTING A RESPONSIBLE NON DRINING PERSON TO DRIVE BOTH OF THEM. IF YOU WERE SUCH A FRIEND YOU COULD HAVE STOPPED IT. ALL THE KIDS,UNFORTUNATELY DON'T NEED SOMEONE 21 TO BUY THEM BEER AND WHY WERE YOU THERE. DON'T CRITICISE CHAD AND PUT ALL THE BLAME ON HIM ALL OF YOU WERE TO BLAME. |
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stover good job bo. i agree 100% and half these people dont even know the whole story. remember haters will always hate!!!
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2 More than Chad - where's the charges for the adults that served them? |
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Of course theres going to be the kids that dont learn a thing from this and that is pathetic. But alot of people in our little town have been hit hard by this. As for others i can answer for but as for me and my attitude its just fortified a very strong conviction against driving even if youve only had a "few". Like i said im closest friends with both Matt and Chad and i was not in town for the accident but i know the friends of ours that were will not let another friend drive off from a party intoxicated. The person who's house the party was at has turned himself into the police and were just waiting to hear about him. Matt always wore his seatbelt...the one time he didnt it cost him his life. I cant speak for anyone else but as for me and my habits...yea, there are quite a few changes being made.
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AS FOR THE HOME THE PARTY WAS HELD AND THE OWNER, I DON'T THINK THEY COULD HAVE PROVIDED EVERYONE WITH THE BEER, LIQUOR OR WHAT EVER. I'M SURE PEOPLE CAME TO THE PARTY WITH THEIR OWN SUPPLY SO WHY DOES EVERYONE ASUME THEY WERE THE PROVIDERS. EVERYONE NEEDS TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS AND I HAVE SEEN AND HEARD OF ALL THESE KIDS PURCHASING BEER ON THEIR OWN (UNFORTUNATELY) AND IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR US ALL TO GET MORE STORES TO CHECK DEEPER BEFORE SELLING THESE PRODUCTS AND IF YOU KNOW OF A STORE DOING THAT CALL THE PROPER AUTHORITIES TO REPORT THAT BUT ALOT OF THE KIDS WOULD NOT DUE THAT BECAUSE IT WOULD RUIN THEIR GOOD TIME (SO THEY THINK) BUT IT IS ONLY RUINING OUR YOUTH. I AS A PARENT HAVE SEEN THESE PURCHASES AND TOLD THE STORE MANAGER THAT THEY JUST SOLD TO A MINOR. I WAS LOOKED AT LIKE I WAS CRAZY AND WAS CAUSING A NON SALE. THEY ARE AFTER MONEY LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.
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And as a parent, as an *adult*, it is their responsibiliy to be sure no one that is underage is drinking at their residence. How the alcohol gets there doesn't really matter, does it? Isn't it the end result? I applaud you for turning in store clerks that are selling to underage. I wish more would do that same. I have been on underage alcohol stings and it goes on so often. But, so does underage house parties where the parents are very aware. As far as Chad, he drove drunk, he will be charged with DUI Manslaughter as he should be. Yes. It is a violent crime. Did Matt make a bad choice? Absolutely. But he didn't deserve to pay with his life and he didn't pull the trigger. Chad could have killed many more innocent people on the road that night but thankfully didn't. However, Matt's parents nightmare is just beginning. They have no clue how bad it is going to get. NO CLUE. What Chad is going to go through can't even begin to touch it. I know. My only child, my Matt, was killed by a drunk driver over Christmas of 2006. I still cry each and every day. It is NOT an accident...it is a crash. It is not a mistake..it is a choice. I ALWAYS told my Matt that. My worst fear became my reality. Now another family is living my reality. Today more families will join this nightmare. DUI - the most socially acceptable violent crime. |
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